₦airaland Forum

TonyeBarcanista:
Madam, I rather have my wife work (as long as it doesn't affect or threaten running of the family) or run a business that will be fetching her money to support the family.

It isn't her load to take charge of financing the family, it's my job as a Man and head of the house. Hers is to support by engaging in productive venture that wouldn't jeopardize or threaten the smooth running of the family.

You see, Miss Independent Nigeria doesn't fit into this narrative. To her, there is no leader or boss in the home (imagine threatening my office ), to her if I can't do this then I have no right to "control" her. Abeg make Miss Independent Nigeria carry dia load go biko....


Feminism as a concept is about allowing females enjoy same right as males. To me that has been achieved already but most Naija females misinterpret it as challenging the man in all things including in the home.

Abeg, I can't cope with Naija women that are leeches (I detest lazy girls), Miss Independent or Feminists. I can get semi dependent I think

I'm glad you agree that the average Nigerian women folk misinterpret the meaning of feminism.
There's nothing like semi-dependant, oga .



Sha remember this is 21st century .


Nice talking to you.

TonyeBarcanista:
The difference between miss independent and miss feminism is semantics especially in the Nigeria context.

I can date/marry Miss Independent non-Nigerian but virtually all Miss Independent Nigerians I've met are engrained with Naija version of feminism. I can't fit die quick biko

OK.

So you rather marry a woman who solely depends on you even for N500 Always pad .

See Ehn, the truth is that most Nigerian women do not understand the true meaning of Feminism, they're just brainwashed by TheChimamandaMovement. Trust me, there are independent women who aren't feminists. I can bank on that!

Gggg102:
people like you:

independent woman= too bossy and disrespectful. will grow old and never get married. will leave a sad and lonely life. fake feminist.

dependent woman= gold digger. nothing to offer except sex. olosho.


WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT

Exactly!!!

What do they really want?

TonyeBarcanista:
These are women that will be holding ground with someone. If you talk one them go talk 50 and them go de follow person drag authority for house if married to them.


They are "feminists" that aren't for me!

Oga Tonye, I least expected this comment from you. I used to hold you in high esteem but what you said up there isn't correct. There's difference between a feminist and an independent lady.

daveP:
actions like this would make the male folks to give their women more chances at leadership with full support. an action no "war" from the female counterparts can win.

Happy Sunday.



If it's a trad, flaunt it well as you dance in His presence o.

Yeah you're right absolutely! The moment women stop forcing "feminism "ideology on men, that's the day men would give them more chances at leadership with total support. This is what they fail to understand. I wish Margaret Thatcher was still alive to educate them .


Happy Sunday darling.

Yeah I flaunted well in church today .

Alex was in Benin two days ago. She sabi dance sha .

ChiefAzubuike1:
You are very shamless. 2.1 and you're here celebrating like you won a lottery. When I was your age I graduated with a first class. Simply by my hardwork and might and i did not jump.up and down shouting about. Just thank God for your fathers money if not....

So what has your First Class done for you now

I honestly like her spirit of sportsmanship.

Mirrors are MY best friend. Can't stay a day without it.

Looks inviting. Would cook this for my dad.

Beyond the lights. My favourite movie

MissRaine69:
That applies if you are basic ...

Yeah exactly my thoughts

CASTOSVILLA:
nonsense next!!!

No chills at all!

Lalas247:
Happy new month ... Sorry o mad busy ... wedding plans and all ... won’t be available

Awwwwnnnn. wish you the best sisi .

daveP:
not Tryna be asky, but have you considered the idea of adding a pic or two to your great diary entries?

OK what kinda pictures?

DavidLoves:
You welcome ma'am
"before you fall in love with her"... Why are you protecting her... Lols Yea, with your description, I think you look alike

Lol just said it, protecting her from wolves in sheep clothing .
Yup Yup we do.

daveP:
It looks like twas planned now. Adults do the twinning thingy we now. Haba. buy same jacket, shirt color, etc. your nose and forehead and elbow are the differences.

It wasn't planned, honestly.
A mere coincidence, I'd say.


I know sha.



Yeah those are quite some remarkable differences

daveP:
lol. I've even seen more differences now. But those shoes.... you planned that I guess. Well you can change it now.

Hehe so what are the differences?

Planned shoes ke? Are we kids!.

OK.

daveP:
Na your twin o. lol. make I no magana or else you go disown me too.

Hehe you no serious

daveP:
Answering your diary entry, yes but she's bigger. you're one do look alike. although I've not seen close enough, especially facially, except for your recent Explanations..... Yeah you do. Lol.

Lol yeah she's bigger by far.
Yup we look alike, check again, uploaded pics