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Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]I guess they are just following their natural instincts, trying to get back to their roots. After all, humans were created _naked and were moving about _naked until(you guessed right) a woman ate a fruit she wasn't supposed to eat. . .

I personally think the ladies of nowadays have realized this great folly of Eve, the first woman, and are desperately trying to enforce nudity like it was back then![/color]

God knows everything, right? And he created everything, made everyone's path for them.

So God knew Eve would eat that fruit. He made her path.

It wasn't Eve's fault. God made it that way.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Honestly answer: If the 3 ladies are drowning in a pool and you can only save one, which one of them will you save?

I believe you already know who you want.[/color]

He doesn't deserve any of them though. They also deserve someone better than he is at the moment.

Checked86:
you would need a calculator if we should convert the data that I burn on nairaland to money. Seriously?

Seriously. Don't like it then you are free to leave ir not click on those links.

No one is forcing you to be here.

dannybomb:
that does not justify them going around without cloth

Women don't need to justify themselves to you or anyone else.

You don't own them or the world.

If you don't like their clothes, then that's your problem not theirs.

Checked86:
I am a nairaland customer and I am justified to complain when I notice a foul in the product I am consuming, right?

No. You're not paying for this forum.

Maybe they are. It didn't used to be such an issue before women were seen as sexual objects rather than human beings.

Worry about your own body. Stop policing others.

Ifakiland:
been dating my gf now 3yrs+ but late last year we had a terrible fight, we almost broke up, we didn't talk for almost two weeks. during dat period, I got closer to a female friend, unknown to me dis my frnd fell in love with me, we kissed a few times. now my gf and I are back togeda, but ds female frnd is so in love, gives me gifts even my gf can't afford....then there's a 3rd gal who's kinda like an ex who's also on my throat dat she's been single for 3yrs now cos she can seem to fall in love with anoda guy cos her heart still with me. I love my gf to death....but dis two gals are so so difficult to let go. am going crazy....how do I handle dis??

The more I think about this, the more sick with anger I get. You don't seem like a good person at all.

If you loved any of these girls truly, you wouldn't do this to them.

And don't worry, once you come clean they won't want you anymore.

Awful, juvenile behaviour SOA.

The Face That Launched A Thiusand Ships - Marlowe

Ifakiland:
been dating my gf now 3yrs+ but late last year we had a terrible fight, we almost broke up, we didn't talk for almost two weeks. during dat period, I got closer to a female friend, unknown to me dis my frnd fell in love with me, we kissed a few times. now my gf and I are back togeda, but ds female frnd is so in love, gives me gifts even my gf can't afford....then there's a 3rd gal who's kinda like an ex who's also on my throat dat she's been single for 3yrs now cos she can seem to fall in love with anoda guy cos her heart still with me. I love my gf to death....but dis two gals are so so difficult to let go. am going crazy....how do I handle dis??

You handle it by telling the truth to all three women and letting them find someone who deserves them.

For you: be single for a long time, grow up and try to atone for your sins. You sound like a very selfish and immature person by your behaviour.

Barayeks:
Well, there are Feminists and there are feminists don't feign ignorance just to buttress your point.
aren't women treated like human beings ?

No. They're often treated like property, look at wedding dowry for example.

Daniel2289:
Op point of correction. Just becos one girl was hard to u doesn't mean all women are the same. Not all women are heartless, u just met the wrong one.

Not all women.

You look like Snoop Dogg

Well this is silly.

Being a feminist doesn't mean you don't ask for help with something you don't know how to do.

It means you seek to be treated fairly.

I know plenty of men who are feminists - because they're not afraid of women. They believe women are human beings.

I think a lot of people on this forum miss the point of feminism.

Feminists don't want women to be in charge of everything. They don't want women to take over the world.

Feminists want women to be treated as human beings.

WHY DO MEN EASILY LOVE AND EASILY HATE?

Both and all.

You can't attribute only one cause to prostitution.

Poverty is a big one - when you are unskilled and poor, sex is thw only commodity a woman has that she can sell.

Some women choose it. They enjoy sex and sexual encounters - they enjoy their job.

Whether people accept it or not, prostitution has a demand. People will pay for sex and to spend time with someone.

I have heard cases where disabled people seek sexual contact and no one is interested because they have a disability. They must pay for it. I have not heard of charitable women having sex with disabled men for free.

Let's face it: sexual health is important. Having sex is good for humans, for multiple reasons. We can choose how to care for our sexual health.

We go to the gym and doctor to look after our physical health. We care for our mental health by going to a counsellor. We can go to church or pray to look after our spiritual health.

So why not see olosho for sexual health when you have no other choice?

nairaman66:
So appalling women could general like this!! If you mean boys.., but real men can do all of that.. Unless your dad can't!

I was being sarcastic. Men and women are capable of most things. We need to stop saying "men are stupid" as an excuse for their bad behaviour.

If men can run the world then they are capable of washing clothes, that was my point.

WindUpMerchant:
Pornography is another huge factor that causes rape.

I'm on the fence about this one.

Pornography is often violent and demeans women. When consumed at a young age, males may get the idea that women "like it rough" and therefore don't stop sexual acts when the woman says no or asks please stop.

But as for a cause? I'm not sure. It can be a contributing factor in some cases, but not all rapists have viewed pornography. I'm sure rape occurred before pornography existed.

Bridgetania:
The truth is..anyone who actually justifies this barbaric act is a rapist himself!!..#aRapist has no excuse for his actions
#just like a Prostitute has no excuse for her acts too!

This thread is about rape. If you'd like me to open a thread about olosho, I will. But please keep the discussion here about the topic.

bitchcrafts:
'No one wants to be raped' is right, but 'no one invites rape' is like saying poop won't attract flies .

You seem to find the concept of consent very difficult to understand.

Let me illustrate:

Theft - taking property without permission.

Owning property does not invite theft. Invitation to take property removes the criminal act.

If I have money and someone takes it without my permission, then someone has stolen from me. However, if I invite someone to take my money, then it is no longer theft.

No one imvites someone to perpetrate a crime against them. The act of invitation removes the criminal element.

Sex with consent is sex. Sex without consent is rape.

If you were raped by a man, and he said you were asking for it - even though you were just going about your business - that doesn't mean you weren't raped. He could say your clothes provoked him, or that you were drunk or ANYTHING. It doesn't remove the criminal element because you did not want sex with him.

I am not saying you will or should be raped. I am asking you to step into the shoes of a rape victim and stop blaming people for crimes done against them.

You are basically saying that anyone who doesn't wear a fire proof suit is asking to be set on fire.

AsmauDanjuma:
Yeah, each cetacean has its own unique whistle that distinguishes it from others, hence their heightened sense of self-awareness. My point is not that they aren't highly intelligent, its that they're not more intelligent than us. They are typically large, and their organs are often proportional to their sizes, but a large brain doesn't make for a complex/advanced brain. The fact that certain parts of their brains are configured differently doesn't mean they're superior, it just means their brains function differently. Greed is actually an animalistic trait, as seen when food is scarce and some animals leave others to starve to death. Its an extremely selfish concept called survival of the fittest, and its the rule of the jungle

Those "unique whistles" are language. With words and patterns that can be easily recognised.

Correct, brain size does not indicate intelligence.

But the sizes of relative areas of the brain, such as those used for speech, emotion etc. are important.

If you think humans are the smartest animals on earth, then I will leave you to that opinion.

But I think it is a shame that your arrogant attitude about human intelligence can close your mind so firmly to the wonders of this earth, and the magnificence of the wonderful creatures we share the planet with.

We can learn a lot from other animals - particularly those which show such altruism and sympathy to other species like cetaceans do.

sorextee:
From my initial post, I attacked/advised both gender. U skipped the male part nd focused on the female.

Our opinions differ, when it comes to abortion. You stick to yours, I stick to mine.

Today is Sunday. I don't use foul words on Sundays. (which you used on me )

I remember you now. I didn't know it was you in the first place.
I know it's none of my business. But let go, all the hate you shoulder inside of you.

If it's none of your business then keep your thoughts to yourself.

Women who go through abortion have enough to deal with, without you shaming them. You are entitles to an opinion but you're nit entitled to be taken seriously on this issue.

I didn't use foul words against you.

I suggested you do something useful with your time, like keeping your ill-educated opinions to yourself and doing some charity work.

I'm not shouldering hate, I'm supporting women. You are the one spreading hatred by shaming women who choose abortion.

sorextee:
If women lives really matter, why would they engage in activities that would hurt them later?

Abortion means ending a life

The child doesn't have a choice..

If you didn't want a child in the beginning then you would have used protection. Nobody should be killed for no reason. Don't want a child, use protection! It's as simple as that.


Abortion should only be performed if it is for a serious reason, like a life or death situation, a rape from a stranger or family member, or for the baby's sake (you know it's going to die anyways) People should not get an abortion just because they don't want a baby..



Based on research, over 57 million unborn children have been killed, more than the entire population of Spain. That's 155 babies per hour. About 1 every 24 seconds.

By the time you finish reading this,4 or 5 more innocent lives will be lost. God’s plan for them will be ruined forever.

Can we remain indifferent to such immense human slaughter?

After una Don open leg, collect wetin una no go fit handle later, una go come here dey talk say woman lives matter.
Ps:
Im not mean towards girls.
I only condemn the act.
What message do u have to those who give birth and throw the baby in a canal or gutter?
Is that still part of woman lives matter?

You act as if women are to blame for pregnancy. That men are just innocent bystanders.

If abortion were more readily available then babies wouldn't be thrown in the gutter or canal. Research also shows that the majority of abortions are performed on women who already have children.

Every time you masturbate and spill seed you are killing potential life. So why don't you worry about yourself before worrying about someone else's body?

I happen to care about existing women's lives more than a potential life. That woman has a life already: school, career, several children already. An established life that could be ruined by forcing her to birth a child that she doesn't want.

And if the population of Spain were birthed every year - how do you propose the earth would sustain those lives? How do you propose the mother and child live - in poverty and misery?

Look at China, population control is already underway and has been for years. Abortions are forced on women who don't want an abortion. I condemn that removal of autonomy too. It is a woman's choice and no one else's. It's not yours, that's for sure.

Go and read a book. Educate yourself before spouting stupidity.

A woman has the right to choose her own destiny, without seeking your opinion if you are ok with that. Whether that involves abortion or not is none of your business. SO BUTT OUT. GET OVER YOURSELF. GO DO SOME CHARITY WORK.

ayotrey:
how would u define an intelligent man?

How would you define an intelligent woman?

Differently to the way others would. Maybe just accept that every person is different and your life will get easier. Stereotyping makes no one happy. Try to be a good nonjudgemental person and good things will flow your way.

AsmauDanjuma:
Cetaceans use clicks to sense their surroundings through echolocation and they use whistles to communicate with each other, so there's nothing advanced about their 'use of language' (its just different from ours) their brain development is not more advanced than ours and I don't know of any tools that sea creatures use. They are highly social (and have a degree of empathy), have a heightened sense of self-awareness, and can process complex stimuli (which is to say they have complex thoughts, or the animal version). The IQ test can be used to discover the level of awareness an animal has of its surroundings and the best way to exploit it. For instance, some boxes is placed some feet away from a bunch of bananas hanging a few feet out of a chimpanzee's reach. The amount of time it takes it to stack them up and climb them will determine his intelligence in this scenario. If homo-sapiens weren't the smartest creatures on earth, we'd be in big trouble, because we're one of the weakest/easiest to kill. We lost the need for brute strength, tough hides, razor-sharp canines etc because of our heightened intelligence.
We could live without harming the ecosystem, I'm sure you've heard of green energy. Its only our greed that dives us to use engines and machines that emit harmful gases. Without greed there'd be no conflict, without conflict we'd live in Utopia

Ceteceans use language, fact. Just because we don't understand it, doesn't mean it isn't language.

Many langauges have been identified in cetaceans, they even have different dialects between pods and species.

Some cetaceans can even alter the sound frequency at which they communicate dependent on the sounds around them (noise interference from sonar and ship motors).

Their brains have a larger area for langauge than humans and a larger area associated with emotional processing.

The IQ test is not a sufficient test to grade intelligence. If a human cannot read, they cannot do an IQ test - however this does not mean they are stupid. Intelligence also comes in many forms; mathematical, creative and so on.

The IQ test is still used, but it widely accepted to have serious limitations that hinder its ability to definitively judge intelligence.

We'll have to agree to disagree on human intelligence. Greed drives many humans, and I think greed is a sign of stupidity. Life would be simpler and happier if we lived like ancient tribes like the Australian Aboriginals with a healthy respect for the earth.

Certifiedbillio:
Mine would be foolinlove like
Cc foolinlove

Thank you! I am humbled

ayotrey:
aunty i have 6 sisters ok, used to have loads of female friends ok, but im a free spirited guy and i so much detest the biological nature of ladies. all the shallowness and pretence made me push yall away from me

Look to yourself before blaming others and making generalisations.

You generalise about women, but seem not to enjoy any generalisation made about men.

ayotrey:
i dont enjoy insulting yall , im no sadist all im saying is stop allowing fantasies of delusions control ur every decision, sometimes let logic guide u. i have seen a few intelligent girls ok, and i respect them alot. its just there is only like 1 smart girl in every 15 of them gathered together..and i pity them cuz yall ruining ur lives for temporal pleasures...

You can say the same for men. There is only one intelligent man per 15 men.

Marlvin:
I wasn't expecting you to acquiesce to that statement, nonetheless it is justifiable .

How?

ayotrey:
Lmao..when u have sexx with an olosho how is that rape?

You said you'd cum on that girls face and post it on the internet.

That is a rape threat.

ayotrey:
mmm..truth is i dont know if they will or wont i havent bothered to ask cuz i dont even respect yall donkeys enough to approach yall. maybe if i see one of ur creature with sense then i'd approach and give u feedback about her reaction ok? chao

How can you determine sense if you won't even have a conversation. Maybe you're unsuccessful because you're too judgemental.

jamalnation:
Yes please

Guy says he's nice: sends unsolicited pics of his d to women over internet.

Guy says he's nice: insults women who reject his sexual advances.

Guy says he's nice: demeans women who don't have the body shape he is personally sexually attracted to.

Guy says he's nice: insults women who disagree with his opinion.

Guy says he's nice: complains when he doesn't get sex after a date.

Guy says he's nice: gets angry women won't sleep with him even though he was so "nice" to them.

Guy says he's nice: makes fun of men for showing "feminine" traits like crying.

ayotrey:
all u girls na confirm oloshos o..some go dey form good girl for church wen una be real olosho!! no worry money dey come..i'll cum on all ur faces and post vids on youtube. whoress

Rape threats. Reported.