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waywardpikin:
I don't always agree with your burden of performance schtick same way I would never subscribe to being a male slut to successful women. I've got way too much pride for that. You would need to take a lot of shìt to be chowing said successful women's money and women being women will never give you anything substantial in strong "cash-out" terms unlike men. Only thing you would get would be crumbs from the high table. Las Las, you would need to ask yourself an honest question:

"How much is worth my pride and dignity as a man?"
To each their own though.

There are cultural differences to consider too. Behaviour of girls in Nigeria is different from another place like South Africa

RikudoSennin:
Hi guys, let me share a bit of what went down last weekend with you people. So my friends and I planned an all day BBQ last Saturday and with the champions league final also going down that day, we decided to make it an all nighter.

Booked the hotel because I am 45 minutes away from the venue and I knew I was gonna drink even though I have been shying away from alcohol due to work-outs. 10am on Saturday, all set and ready to go with my wife. Then, she comes over to me and hands over my ring. Now, my skin for some reason itches when I have jewelry on. I don't wear jewelry no matter how expensive it is. My watches are all leather.

So, she hands me the ring and says I "must" wear it and I haven't worn this ring in a year or so due to this itching and more over, I have a very visible tan on my fourth finger o. I told her I am not gonna wear it and I will like to be on my way.

She does the unthinkable, she starts throwing mugs and dishes and throwing tantrums, banged my carry on bag so hard it tore Told her I aint wearing any ring because she knows what happens when I do and why is she insisting today when I am about to go party with my friends?

Well, I had to jaale at home and went to go have fun with my pals, I got home next day and she apologized for her behavior . Told her, when next something like that happens, I am gonna book an airbnb and go to a far away state for 2 weeks.

Wives. LOL.

Some men will take the ring wear it and remove it later. That is a weak way. That way will give you momentary peace but not a lasting one.

Kaymicheal852:
The more I learn about Redpill the more I realize how despicable,guttless, cheap,weakling stupid I am back then,if I'm a woman also I won't want to be with me ,I realize that I'm just a sissy slowpoke giving up his hopes and dreams for a pussy ,the more money , attention and time I give to my ex ,the more she despise and resent me ,and it's not her fault,but she couldn't help it because that's her nature


I just wish I had been a man instead of just a fucking sissy controlled by his dicks back then


I know come to a conclusion that SIMPING IS A
FATAL MENTALL DISORDER

TRP IS GOLDEN

This post is so funny to me. I don laugh tire. You are not alone man.

But your case is not the worst if you are less than 40 years of age. You can correct some things. I know some old men, like 55 to 65 who are just learning some of these things. I have witnessed them cry because of their experience. Of all the old relatives I have, the only ones that seem to be a bit calmer or still enjoying their lives are the polygamous ones. This can not be a coincidence.

luminouz:
The same woman?

Damnnnnnnn.... This is fuqin weird. Imagine if na man dey do like her, na to dey call am stalker or whatever

This is just hustle to girls. An ex once told me she would settle down with any rich fellow even if he is one minute man. Her logic - it is easier to get a fucker than a rich guy. if she is not satisfied with sex in marriage, she can always get a good fuckboy. But it's more difficult to get a rich sugardaddy if she settles with a fuckboy.

Girls are the real redpillers.

MJBOLT:

we understand

Hustle is real.

https://naijaworld.online/p/q80PcyUgP8nAkyezC4ke

Martinez39s:
Okay. Let me go through it.

Not everyone is aware of BLOODYSPERM'S style. Besides "cc" doesn't mean acknowledgement of authorship; "cc" means you are directing the post you wrote to the person you mentioned. It's like writing a letter to someone. Even merely mentioning someone's name at the end of a write up doesn't mean acknowledgement; it usually means the attention of the person mentioned is needed. Do you now see why Ubunja saw BLOODYSPERM's post as a steal of his work and as a post that didn't PROPERLY acknowledge him as the author? In fact, there are two posts here that testified that they thought the post was BLOODYSPERM's idea directed to Ubunja.

Everyone, I included, understood where BLOODYSPERM was coming from and how he had no bad intentions, but for some reasons, despite my explanations, nobody wants to understand where Ubunja is coming from.

The post doesn't have to be special. Every writer has grounds to demand acknowledgement for their work; it's not pride and it's not a thirst for fame. Besides, Ubunja is not against sharing his work on this platform for free as long you acknowledge him; is that so much to ask?

Even if others allow others to copy and claim their work and are okay with it, it doesn't mean Ubunja must follow suit. Maybe it's because most of us are not writers, that's why we see something wrong in the way Ubunja reacted to a perceived plagiarism and a post that didn't properly acknowledge him as the author.

Don't compare Ubunja's understandable reaction to the emotional incontinence and simping of GLYCOLYSISS. GLYCOLYSISS allowed his feelings get the better of him and he fell for the victim card Chii59 was playing, despite knowing fully well that she has always had a sharp, foul, callous and rude tongue towards many and she is an egotistical and childish attention whòre, all because he had built a good rapport with Chii59 (who was showering him with attention on other thread) and he wanted to act like a good person. He lampooned, and labelled as bullies, the redpillers who were giving the troublesome she-gòat a taste of her toxic medicine; how can a redpiller fall this way, white knight and refuse to hold a female accountable?

How can you be logically seriously and compare this to Ubunja rightly seeking recognition for his work and his understandable reaction to a perceived plagiarism and improper acknowledgement of his authorship? SMH. Even I will not pardon Ubunja if he fumbles like this.

No one will attack. As I have said, both parties had no bad intentions; it was just a misunderstanding that could have been settled if we understood where both parties were coming from. Taking sides only needlessly escalated the issue.

It's only in this country that a writer seeking acknowledgement of the work is being sinful and egotistical. O ga o. Even caveadullam would have demanded acknowledgement if someone plagiarized his nuggets or didn't properly acknowledge him. Would you accuse caveadullam of being egotistical if that happens? Even Rollo Tomassi wouldn't take it lightly if someone did this with any chapter of his book.

... Morning.

Well, I can even tolerate bullshiiite from ubunja.

The way I treat people or see things. If somebody has been a useful fellow to my society or me personally, the person will have to really descend low before I complain or get offended. People should be a bit considerate. All the people that put so much time to put useful materials out deserve some pass in their low time. I know how difficult it is to sit down and write things because I am lazy at it. These are not guys that we even pay anything to gain from. We should appreciate life more than this. We should stop behaving like pampered children with sense of entitlement. We have to show understanding when our heros fall short of expectations. They are human beings like us.

BLOODYSPERM:
Many people are rich with ideas to post but they might not have the time or schedule for it, but some people are very interested in keeping the trend going and active and they can post their own content, copy from social media, or copy from other trends that are related to the discourse on these trend from Nairaland, I have copied so many contents from Nairaland but I always make sure I site it's owner by using "cc" referencing since I don't know how to copy and paste from other trend, Ubunja wants me to quote him not copy him which is the proper manner to do it, but since I don't know how to do that from another trend, I have to learn it , so as not to cause unnecessary conflict

Please guys let's forget about these and move on

Nice one.

DEMZEE:
Factss, religious leaders especially pastors are bluepilled.

Not sure they are blue-pilled though. We hear their non blue-pilled stories all the time. they may be deliberate to exploit the womenfolk, who are their major customers.

Jessepaid:
hehehe....


It's the suppression method bro...




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Don't tell me this is deliberate

Emotionss:
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I understand the point you're trying to make.

Nigeria is traditionally and culturally a Redpilled country but unfortunately some confused educated betas are trying extremely hard to change that.

Only those who grew up in the North will understand the point you're trying to make here. The north is more Redpill than the rest of Nigeria but unfortunately Religious fanaticism took that Redpill mentality to another level.

Down here in the south I think the igbos are culturally and traditionally more Redpill than a lot of people are giving them credit for. Yes their women are outspoken and somewhat wayward and yes they HAVE Educated and Uneducated betas/SIMP who are trying to stop some traditional restrictions on their women, but culturally and traditionally their women are powerless and second class citizens. Their women can't even inherite properties.

If you have lived in the south east you will understand my point. The weak link are those igbos living outside their region. But those living in the east ? Forget it they have their own unique local Redpillers.

The south west is 40% feminized than the rest of the south no thanks to Lagos State and their westernized citizens. more and more women are being empowered and encourage to explore their possibilities....... Culturally and traditionally they still have some Redpilled laws but it's not as it used to be.

The south south is a 70% Redpill region unfortunately the laziness and unproductive nature of their man will make it extremely difficult to maintain that position especially in this age and time...

My point ? We as a Nation are Traditionally and Culturally a Redpill Nation BUT we are gradually and painfully abandoning our Laws and lifestyle in favour of the westernized world.

Should be more than 40% imo and the pastors are the chief blue-pill teachers.

I always feel bad any time I remember how ignorant I have been all my life despite been a very brilliant chap.



Why do they teach you so many things in school but nothing about money and relationships?

FRANKOSKI:
DID SHE DEMAND MONEY FROM YOU ?
DID SHE MAKE THAT COMMENT AFTER RECEIVING MONEY FROM YOU ?

My bad, not a good story teller, should I have included what I thought happened.

I guess its about shit tests and unpredictability. She tried to dictate where to eat, I refused unlike me she used to know. She took it for granted that I will visit her hotel, I didn't. She called, I told her I was busy. When I eventually visited, I didn't rush to do anything. I brought in drinks and was just drinking not even showing any sign of interest in sex, at the same talking dirty. Before I could say jack, she was all over me like hyena trying to devour a lion.

Money was not involved except the one I spent on food the first day and on drinks the second, which is nothing to both of us anyways.

luminouz:
Lol...the second to last paragraph made me smile. With women, good genetics gets you laid as simple as ABC bro.

In my life, 80% of women I dated were those who saw me and liked my looks(I don't see myself as all these handsome boiz sha). Just 20% had me opening my mouth to convince them for their number or whatever.

But then, good looks won't last forever,so personality and good bank account would have your back when looks fail.

There is nothing sweet like a woman that salivates at your sight. I have experienced this. Nowadays I don't feel excited if I don't see the desire there. When the desire is there, a woman will swear not to talk to you again because you did something bad to her. But the moment she sees you, all her body will become weak kpata kpata. All her kpekus will be so watery without touch. A woman will even ejaculate less than 2 mins of sex if she already formed macho man of you in her brain.

It will become difficult for you to fuc-k ashawos

foreman:
LOL. I used to have a girlfriend long time ago, there is nothing I didn't do to get her laid but all failed. We even slept on the same bed on few occasions and did all the BS kissing, hugging, smooching etc but hell no, it didn't happen. Then some years back she called me she was coming to do something in the city I reside to buy some stuffs in her business line. This time around, we fked like tomorrow no go come. What happened was simple.

When we met, I offered to take her to a joint in town. She mentioned some high-brow areas, I just drove her to an amala joint. When she asked what happened I told her I was the one offering her food and will consider a bad visitor if she refused what I am giving. The first day I think she assumed I will come around her hotel but I didn't show up. When she asked why I didn't come to keep her company I told her I was busy. So when I entered her room the next day, it was like a fight.

She told me something afterwards that I will never forget. She told me all the time we were together she actually liked me but I didn't arouse the right feelings to break her defense mechanism. She told me I was boring and predictable.

The last time I tried to woo a lady at a place. I came and noticed how endowed she is. I started chatting her but I immediately noticed she was not interested (these things are easy to observe once you are aware). I asked for her number to just keep the discussion going at least we will be there together for a while. She started questioning why I needed her number, I pretended like it was nothing but changed topic to her car. She told me she does uber and that the car is not hers. I formed a story that I am interested in buying a car for uber but not sure I can get a reliable driver. come and see story about how good she is. I still pretended to have forgotten about the number. Long story short she reminded me about the number.

the most interesting part of my encounter is that a well built guy came around while we were doing our useless chatting and I could visibly see the way she was drooling over the guy.

I never call her till now

BLOODYSPERM:
Arousal is sexual
Attraction is Non-sexual

Please let's note the difference
A woman can be attracted to you and might not be aroused by you

LOL. I used to have a girlfriend long time ago, there is nothing I didn't do to get her laid but all failed. We even slept on the same bed on few occasions and did all the BS kissing, hugging, smooching etc but hell no, it didn't happen. Then some years back she called me she was coming to do something in the city I reside to buy some stuffs in her business line. This time around, we fked like tomorrow no go come. What happened was simple.

When we met, I offered to take her to a joint in town. She mentioned some high-brow areas, I just drove her to an amala joint. When she asked what happened I told her I was the one offering her food and will consider a bad visitor if she refused what I am giving. The first day I think she assumed I will come around her hotel but I didn't show up. When she asked why I didn't come to keep her company I told her I was busy. So when I entered her room the next day, it was like a fight.

She told me something afterwards that I will never forget. She told me all the time we were together she actually liked me but I didn't arouse the right feelings to break her defense mechanism. She told me I was boring and predictable.

TheUndercover:
Arnold Schwarzenegger's sons live separately. One was raised by Arnold and the other by his mother. Same genetics, different habits.

(Aaron Post)

Wow. Difference is clear.

E dey happen, especially if the guy enjoyed you wella during your relationship but he has to move on. Na your compensation for his over-enjoyment.

heartofcity12:
No joy from this gender at all. They don’t want your love, they’ve evolved. Hypergamy is cruel, wicked and selfish.

This one better nah.

Francis95:
Please I need your replies.
My main girlfriend managed to get my phone password while I was sleeping on Wednesday night. She couldn't open WhatsApp because of the fingerprint security, but managed to enter my Facebook. She read the chat I had with a side chick nd found out that I've been having sex with the girl.
The following morning she confronted me and I lied, I denied everything only for her to tell me she had access to my phone while I was asleep. I apologized to her countless times already.

She has been crying profusely since yesterday. Even as I'm typing now, she's lying beside me on the bed still crying. I'm thinking of sending her back to her hostel before she thinks of harming me and I dont want her to harm herself either.

Please I need yall advice now. If you are online

Dump her. That's the consequence of checking your phone.

temi1290:
I want to understand something, what will happen when a player like Ramos tries to make his usual career ending tackle he normally makes,will they ask him to it easy since she's a lady? Do they have strength to contest for duels with a male player? What if she scores a near free goal in the process of trying to take it lightly with her?

Well I want those teams to have a fixture against Chelsea next season,make Reece James or Rudiger comot their leg with sliding tackle,or that bastard Nyom in Getafe.

I bet they will water down many things to accommodate the girls once this scales through.

Martinez39s:
This is why I am always eager for Ubunja to post something here. There is always something new we can learn from him.

Yes. These are things we see around but we don't pay much attention. It's all coming together now.
There are some boys I know, not really at their level but I hang out amidst them because we grew up together. Very broke boys but guess what they always have abundance of pus-yies to f-ck. I mean Abundance. LOL. It's like a code, the girls come only to fu-k, nothing more.

My conclusion is that all our pursuits of riches, class and all that, we are still kind of animals that have to respond to basic instinct. I am now very certain that we are controlled by nature.

ubunja:
simply put, the world that you see - marriage, porn, strip clubs etc the sex that happens there is for MEN. The world we see all around us is shaped by male desire - what men want. Women dress, style themselves and walk around in ways to be appetizing to men. But there's another world just out of sight, behind the curtains, that is shaped by FEMALE desire. It is opposite what we see. Where men dress, style themselves and present themselves to be appetizing to WOMEN. it's a secret world. It's run by women. Women here choose which men they want to sleep with. What men want doesn't matter one iota here. You'll see glimpses of that world in Bachelorette parties, ladies nights at clubs, when women go on trips alone, etc. If men saw that world in action they'll be disgusted.

Always nice reading from you.

I experienced some semblance of this one day, not exactly but this makes it kind of revealing. There was a girl I used to fu-k and PAY once in a while. One day I f-cked her for so long but yet I couldn't cvm, may be because I have had multiple runs with different girls prior to that day. Then she got up and asked me to come back in an hour's time. I told her I didn't have anymore money for rematch. She told me not to worry. To my surprise, when I came back I met her with another lady, a more matured beautiful lady. What these people did to my body that day, I can't explain. When I was leaving, the other lady even gave me money. It was so unreal to me. I had mostly paid for sex before then. When I asked my regular customer that we arrange such again, she told me the lady was married to a big man and that was just one-off stuff. that it was too risky for her because the man monitors her.

With this your write-up now, Its kind of making a lot of sense. I am not a movie person but will try and see some of those movies.

RavagedHeart:
Try to shorten quotes. Just like I did up there. It allows for more content on a single page

Ok. Thanks.

ABANGWABOI:
If I see some dudes wey be so called celebrity for naija wey dey settle at their peak, I go just laugh, especially people like me that love spinning plates, they would settle down (marry) and start cheating on their wives which even brings more issues for them in the marriage and personal life..
It begs the question, how many female so called celebrities in Nigeria settle down at their peak ? Your guess is as good as mine, just a handful of them, check Tiwa Savage, Hemi Alade, Teni, Asisat Oshola, Toke Makinwa, Juliet Ibrahim, Niniola, Seyi Shay, Even the old Rita Dominic, Genevieve etc the list is endless..
The all know that with marriage comes enormous responsibility and sacrifices (ask emmaodet) and don't want to be bothered with such, the prefer to remain single at their peak and enjoy lives (Spinning plates.. Yes women does so too) A certain well to do young man but not a celebrity divorced his actress wife a few years ago and he said categorically that his wife would leave a 4 months or so old baby to go Clubbing, the story went viral then, the issue is, she was still relevant in the social circle and don't want marriage to tie her down and hey, she was the one that initiated the divorce..
Compare Davido and Wizkid recently, and you would found out that ones OBO is spotted with a new girl, people go into frenzy both male and female gender insulting him, reason is because he made chioma a permanent girlfriend and later upgraded her to fiancee, now check Starboy, no matter who, where and when he is seen with a woman, nobody raises eyebrows coz he is much single and in a non committed relationship..
I love OBO songs and stuff but I prefer Wizkid personality..
See as Starboy bash Linda ikeji that time, tell am say em punnani dey smell, say em manager Bleep am come dump am for hotel cos of odour, threaten to send his goons to beat her up, it was then CP Fatai Owoseni of I am not mistaken that called both of them to settle the rift, ever since then both Linda ikeji and other stupid Feminist / bitter women knew that Wizkid is not a kind of dude to mess sound with.. Zero chills like an Alpha Red piller, not taking shots at OBO cos personally I love his songs and a fan of his music, if na Davido he wouldn't have been brutal in his dealing with the situation, he for like form gentleman..so tey some stupid girls come dey accuse am of rape, until he discovered that it would tarnish his image before he reluctantly did the needful and then the girls apologised that they were chasing clout, naso my guy quick quick forgive them and released them from the police..
I remember when one of Wizkid baby mama, I think Bose Ogulu (not sure if na she) wanted to use their child to milk him of money upandan, for Dubai trips, shoppings etc, the news made FP on Nairaland here, despite him been rich he refused to part with his hard earned money for nonsense frivolities, he gave her a reasonable token and ignored her whatsapp messages and she now leaked the chat online still he didn't big, his family told the baby mama that if she can't take care of the baby that she should hand him over to them to raise, naso the matter die.. but if na OBO from my observation, em go sharp sharp pay every Nonsense bill for a baby mama to gallivant around the world, Emmanuel Adebayor did it for Dillish Mattews (former Big brother Africa Winner) and later regretted it and she called him a childish man on IG when Adebayor started moaning that despite his spendings she was not loyal..
The number Alphaness and Redpill is to be STINGY to any woman that is not your wife nor blood sister (helping someone out of philanthropic gesture is not included) if you don't practice this, you be learner..

Personally, I no be celebrity but I no gree make one woman tie me down e come be when I be celebrity, God forbid..
Just like a brother said here, Women wants to settle towards the end of their peak after enjoying life to the fullest (a recent case of Uche Ogbodo, she even bragged on dating Footballers, politicians, celebrities too but at 37 yrs now she wants to settle) while most men settle ones the become settled or strain fame and status, robbing them the chance to enjoy themselves and be left with and old worn-out tasteless woman and if he dares cheat, hell would let loose (a case study of Emeka Ike, you wonder how the heck a young cute man with fame settled with such a woman)
As for me, since I dey naija and e never gynocentric reach oyibo own..
I go Spin plates without commitments..
I just say make I Shalaye small oo..
God bless TRP..

Lucky dudes.

princewarri1985:
In a divorce settings, the only way we guys lose, is losing custody of the kids to your ex.......my 3 beautiful daughters are my world and i lost custody of them to my ex........if it was to be the other way round and i was granted custody of my daughters i would have been the happiest man on planet earth.....i will not remarry and i will take good care of them and give them the best education and i will just have some couple of girl friend, just live my life and enjoy my freedom. SO MY FRIEND GET A GOOD LAWYER AND FIGHT TOOTH AND NAIL SO THAT YOU CAN BE GRANTED FULL CUSTODY OF YOUR KIDS AND DONT EVER GO BACK TO YOUR VOLMIT

Thanks for this.

grandstar:
Do you know that 50% of all first American marriages end in divorce while for 2md marriages is 70% and for 3rd marriage, it is 80%.

Yorubas say the broom that swept the first wife away is waiting to send the new wife too.

Please deeply. It's your personal choice.

From my experience and some others I have seen, I don't think being married is for me sha.

Maski87:
It's the best life still banging my ex wife and my new wife

Damn. Eating your cake and having it.

stevonth:
My brother me too oooo! i really do not know what to do and how to get her back!! i even knelt down in front of her kinsmen to beg her to change her mind but she still said no. It broke my heart. and we have been blessed with two kids( a boy and a girl). I am not a product of a broken home and i dont want my kids to experience this broken home shit!!! But the matter is no longer upto me cos i really want us to work things out for the sake of our kids but she doesnt want to anymore! Hmmmm!!! i really tire i swear

Let me advice you in spite of myself. If a woman doesn't want anymore, just let her go.

ikevictor:
If children are involved, it’s not a good option especially if issues involved can be resolved in other ways.

But if there are no children, you can go ahead. But be sure of one thing. After the divorce you will move on to another woman eventually. Then you will realize that most women are same, you just have to learn them and theres a possibility the one you divorced will be better than the new one, just that you may not have applied the right solution.

And when you encounter issues with the second one, you can no longer complain else people will say that the problem is obvious you not the women. That’s when you’re forced to endure, then die silently.

So, separation is not always the end of a problem, sometimes it’s the beginning of an endless heartache.
I wish you well brother.

Thanks

Awoleesu:
Hmmm, now this is something!

Dear OP, if I get you right you want someone to share their divorce experience, how they managed the change in marital status and how they moved on right?

So, let me try...

First, you have to be double sure this is what you want. You must be able to assure yourself that you'll be fine without your partner, and that whatever becomes of him/her matters less to you - let that sink!

Then, you should brace up to adapting to new roles or learning new skills. For example, if you absolutely relied on her for doing the meals, keeping the house etc, that's about to change and you may have to carry these on yourself.

You also need to learn to work on your emotions. cos, trust me, post-divorcement brings a great deal of emotional upsets and imbalances. You must be ready to take jeers, insults and non verbal expressions that insinuate you're an outcast. You must watch it not to take it out on anyone (including yourself) and you must be prepared for the frustrations that come with loneliness (of course, except if you have a new partner in the wait...BTW, I hope this has nothing to do with that house girl you suckled back then )

Having said all these, a couple of advise is handy :

* Subscribe to one or more social groups of Divorcées (they abound online)

* Calm down and be deliberate and calculative about your next moves... you don't want a bad history repeated ain't?

* Watch your libido! it's the easiest temptation for formerly married persons. Widowhood or divorcement is no license to indiscriminate sexual activities! Save your time, money and soul!

* Be introspective! Now is the time to reflect on how you lived with your Ex. Time to right your own faults and grow beyond dwelling on the faults of the other party.

* Be kind, friendly (without being suggestive) to your Ex should your paths ever cross after the divorce - There's no point bearing grudges. After all we are often kind to strangers...

* If you have kids between you, do your best to remain an excellent Dad/Mom. Impart in them the need to be optimistic about marriage, not withstanding your own experience. Let them know that marital relationships do still thrive! They really don't need to tow your path.

Please note that parting with a loved one is as sore as being bereaved. If you must do this, then Man up!

All the best!

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nnamdiosu:
No stage is passed bro.
Even on final court prouncement, even after the pronouncrmrnt, things can be amended for better.

Nevertheless, it's not the end of the world.
If there are kids (underage): you guys have to work out custody sharing and expenses sharing. You have to let the kids know you all are still a family, just that some people will be leaving apart. That will help till they mature to understand and assimilate. (So it doesn't wreck them.emotionally)

If the kids aren't underage: better. You can move forward

If no kids: it's well.

All I can say is, follow God more these period.
It's gonna really hurt when you see happy couples or families for the first few months.
But time will heal, slowly.

Wish you the very best.
If you or her or both wanna talk, I'm here.

Thanks