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BLOODYSPERM:
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Hypergamy is a dualistic plural mating strategy of women that focuses on alpha fuvks(good genetics) and beta bucks(provisioning), you are focusing on only the dating upwards for resources and status aspect of Hypergamy,I'm not at all bothered with hypergamy because as I'm using my redpill awareness to develop alpha frame mindset, I'm also working with abundance mentality which has changed a monogamous Christian conservative like me to be open minded to polygamy using dread on any woman I enter long-term relationship with,women are innately Hypergamous I can't change that reality but i can make more pragmatic decisions to see more effective result with regards to my own Biological imperative which is to have an harem of beautiful young feminine fertile women since I'm now open to polygamy, to sustain my lifestyle and be better prepared for provisioning of my family, I'm working on my entrepreneurial skills to improve my financial status and social skills to improve my social status, I'm fully aware of and I accept to bear responsiblity and burden of performance when I want to settle down , right now I'm single and still gaming not setting down anytime soon

emmaodet:
Speak on brother, you are saying the bitter truth.
Poverty keeps a man optionless more reason i hate it with passion.
When i was struggling, i was always playing the loyal, humble faithful boyfriend/hubby but as things gets easier, more options opened and am really finding it hard to be faithful.
You just keep getting them with different options and factory fittings - All at your disposal
As a matter of fact, i met a NL lady that has been disturbing me for long to see early last month.
My brothers in the Lord and Redpill, it was a Royal Rumble match in the hotel room.
Let us bow our heads in prayer for a Butchered NL Ferminist

OmejeGuy:
[q1uote author=TheUndercover post=99913373]Given a choice between helping a man or a woman - always choose to help a man. You have better odds that he will reciprocate if you need his help. Women in general tend to be thankless creatures.

Trustworthy friends are rare. Women are common. Never prioritize a woman over a trustworthy friend. A trustworthy friend will be there to help you, should you become powerless.

If you become powerless, women will leave you to die.

If you lose a woman, you can find a new one. If you lose a trustworthy friend, you will never be able to replace them.

No lie here. I remember when the manual car i was driving then refused to enter gear in the middle of the road. The girl I carried at the back alighted immediately I match break after so much battling. No goodbye, nothing! Na her back i dey see, treking! Girl wey i know ooo

Funny creatures

TheUndercover:
Branch Swinging:

It is extremely rare that a woman will leave a man she is romantically involved with without first lining up a new man she can go to.

Women who will leave a man, to be single, are extremely rare.

TheUndercover:
If you are a loser and you are on track for this to continue in the future, you should be willing to take risks. You have nothing to lose in the sense that you have a life not worth living.

Continue to execute high risk high reward strategies until you either win, or die. Death is nothing, but to live and be a loser is to die every day.

FRANKOSKI:
THATS MY CURRENT STATUS WITH MY EX THAT I RECALLED。

luminouz:
Lol. You tried. What would have been better is if that chick never saw your pants again. Any girl who ghosts me for two months is gone. She is never coming back. It doesnt matter what her proposal is, she ain't coming back. You shouldn't be the one to be relegated, you should do the relegation.

You should have moved on from her. That's the true abundance mindset. Did I read that you give her Tfare Everytime? You dey try o.

foreman:
Shit testing is real.

My girlfriend and I had a disagreement, in anger she asked me never to call her again. I called her twice she didn't pick.

For about two months we didn't call each other. This is a girl that always told me she can't do without me, LOL. I couldn't believe she could go that long because of how clingy she was. It's just recently she started sending messages and erotic picture may be to remind me of what I am missing. I miss those things but I ain't failing this test.

What happens is that at any point they keep their options open, so if you have disagreement they most likely be able to go as long as possible since there are other guys on their list.

If she doesn't come back, leave her. You have lost that one. Move on.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] I wish I was 18 again...[/color]

Kabir5643:
Having read everything on this thread. I started to look at my mum closely, don't get me wrong,i love my mums.

I can truly see it,shes really manipulative. Also she never takes the blame even when she's clearly wrong.

Same thing with my elder sister

Damn!

Lordsagna:
Good evening everyone, I'm a silent follower of this thread.... I'm having problem with a lady and I need your candid advice...

She's an old classmate of mine back the in primary school, tho I had crush on her then....life goes on we left primary school I went to a government school she was in a private school, but i noticed every coaching lesson she'll come to my school I thought it was normal stuff until....until I gained admission to a federal university the first person I saw when we resumed was her but she didn't see me....my mind wasn't settled untill I met a friend that told me this so so so girl is also an akokites... In my mind, I was like why did she keep following everywhere?.... is this normal or just a coincidence?...has anyone here experience this?
I collected her contact from that told me she's in my school we converse well until last week when we argued about religion cos this girl Is damn religious.... she said she doesn't like the way I think I'm an atheist.... what caused the argument was because I said God doesn't care about our wellfare she said something before I said that na so she blocked me on WhatsApp, ignoring my text , calls...did I made a mistake by that statement?..do we have something in common?....am I a simp by contacting her every now and then?...am I stupid? cos this girl is driving me crazy.... should I stop contacting her even though she's ignoring my calls?

Pls advice me like your younger brother..

emmaodet:
Bro, it is mostly like that.
Men are financial slaves that are meant to work their asses off to float the family and if you don't or fail to, you would be insulted, rubbished, mocked, looked at like a failure that doesn't know is purpose in life, a waste of space etc.
My father in-law worked as a doctor in saudi arabia in is younger time but after some time, he stopped due to pressure from wife that he stays too long there, now he is a shadow of himself. He is exhausted, finished, over-used and over-run and just counting time to die while is wife is going from one daughter's house to the other enjoying. The man has been relegated to the background, he is done with.

Soulrebel2:
Guys eh...this babes aint loyal bro

there is this babe in my street, fine babe with good front and back..almost all the guys on our street like the girl, this guys have money but they're SIMPs...and I sure say she go dey collect their money..did I forget to tell you that she get boyfriend... But guess what, I just deflowered this girl like a couple of hours ago..

You can never catch me on the street talking to her or anything..people don't even know that we know each other..I use the redpill knowledge and i don smatch am oo..

She go still go back to her boyfriend dey collect the idiot money, we don schedule another day for banging ooo..

Fear woman!

emmaodet:
Bro, i copied this from that redpillers.com - A decent looking young man making $50,000 think it should be natural to be with a decent looking young or younger woman making about $50,000. No, that’s fantasy and blue pill mindset. Her hypergamy filter knows this is some type of cheating on her for someone to show up with same monetary value.

You know, i thought about this and i realised it is true.
I checked most of the guys working in my church and noticed 90% of our wives are either jobless or just unnecessarily busy and not productive/resourceful (sitting in a shop opened by their hubby but not making any reasonable profits).
And i thought, if we are to swap our jobs to our wives while we are either broke/poor/struggling or earning low income like 50k per month, NONE of these women/wives would have dated us not to talk of marrying us. We would have been invicible to them and these are women driving their hubby cars, living good life etc
I think life is unfair somehow.
I do notice most nurses don't like marrying fellow nurses rather will prefer to scale up and date a doctor. I hardly see a nurse-nurse marriage, it is mostly doctor(man)-nurse, doctor-teacher etc
There is no love from women tbh, relationship/marriage is strictly business.
I also noticed sometimes when i visit my in-laws and their girls/ladies are gisting about relationship, it is always about discussing how rich the guy is, the type of car he is using, the nature of his job - ohhh he is working with NNPC, CBN, Mobil, Chevron etc, he is staying in a duplex, he is this, he is that, none is talking about character, humbleness, religious etc
So a girl earning 150k/month will be looking down on a man earning the same 150k per month.... na wa oooo
I also do experience this a lot. I do meet ladies 2m/year which is an average of 180k per month with overbogus egos looking down on me when i even earn more than 4 times their salary a year but somehow, somewhere they believe they can't respect me or settle down with me or am not in their level. Why? because they are using more than 50% of their income to buy make-ups, clothes etc to look very hot so as to attract multi-millionaires or if possible a billionaire.It is a crazy world out there.
Then you start wondering how a lady earning 5m or 10m per year will look at me, like a plague or disease

DilatedPeoples:
I agree with all but the first point you raised. She's a very intelligent woman and she operated on a frequency above her age bracket. That was why we had an instant connection because we operated on a certain level. It wasn't even about the sex but it was bound to happen. I only opened the thread because I felt insulted she had to categorize what happened between us with whatever she must've done with her life afterwards. I'm not really sure the issue of whether she's smarter than me should come up here. We had a relationship that lasted one year plus and ended. The question of winner or loser shouldn't arise. It was mutual and I'm only trying to put the records straight. That's all

Bankalert:
Judge this case for me.

So my friend who has a girlfriend got this random girl's number and asked me to help him get a job for the girl. (obviously she is one of his side chicks or one of those he is trying to bang outside his girlfriend). He said the manager of where the girl is currently working is trying to have sex with her and she refused.

Now i sent the number to my girlfriend to help get something for her. Something came up but the girl wasnt picking up her call. My girlfriend told me to call to pick up or something. I called the girl and told her to pick up. Las las she say she cant do the one that came up.

Well, i saved her contact though and chatted a few times with her. Just normal chats to at least know who she is. Since i knew my friend was into her, i really had no interest in her. Also i came to find out she works where i had been to lunch. So i visited the place again to eat and also see this girl in person. She is from Kogi and from the onset, i really wanted to have nothing to do with any lady from there for personal reasons.

Today, my friend called me to tell me that the girl told him we have been chatting and that i also went to see her. He started telling me that why will i go and see her, said it was childish blah blah blah. He barely let me say anything. I just hung up on him. Started also saying someone else i know reported me to him sometime ago that i was trying to steal his girl. Lol. I dont do girl my friends have done for one.

Now, i never asked this girl out and had no intention to. This girl doesnt come close to my current girlfriend in all ramifications. Just a struggling girl trying to make a living for herself. If i want a girl, i get one for myself.

Now i am pissed off. I deleted the girl's number immediately. Someone called later with unknown number and said nothing, it must be her i think for reasons i dont know or care to know. Now can someone please tell me what i did wrong? Does this mean i am a threat to him? I sure say he never see this girl pant oooo... Because our friendship is already strained. I dont take this kind of nonsense from anyone.


He should have kept the number to himself and gotten her a job. So guys are just born simps in this life and nothing will change that.

ubunja:
This is the reason the RedPill is better learnt as a single guy. When your life is tied up with another as in marriage, and there's joint investments and children involved, a man can only change so much and in turn only influence his woman so much. Mostly a man is stuck at the position of simp for life. He may change and acquire some elements of Alpha but the woman's memory of him will always be stuck at Beta. Or maybe improve by the smallest of degrees. Some men simply divorce and start over with another woman. But that's too costly.

What married men can do is make peace with their predicament. They don't turn their wives on. But do these men themselves get what they married for? Do they feel their woman is upholding her end of the bargain? Is the sex and the respect still coming? Do they feel like they are getting their money's worth? If it's all yes, then they can continue in the relationship.

Still, there are redpill content makers who specialize in content for married men. Married men will benefit to some extent from this. But by and large its almost an impossible task changing a woman's perception of you.

pansophist:
If you want to become intellectually formidable, that your so called woke idiots will avoid you like plague, that nothing humans do will surprise or behaviourally strange to you, then you need to have an interest in philosophy. Personally, I do not read conventional books, I read philosophical books. Philosophy is the foundation from which every other book arose from. The bible is really philosophical if you understand it. I will recommend people like Frederick Nietzsche, just start with him. If you understood all his work, then everything other philosophers said will be like a photocopy.

If you read my post as far back as 2015, you will see clearly that I write and talked RP even before it goes mainstream on nairaland. Personally, I do not identify with tags, I am all for truth and to understand the hidden knowledge the world is bed rocked on, and trp is even an easier aspect of it. If you want to go mad and realize that you are utterly stupid, then start studying philosophy, then you will not even be surprised and understand why humans do the things they do, and why even your politician does not give a shit about Nigeria lol.

From modern writers such as Robert Groene, Jordan Peterson, and more, you will consider their work amateur as a refined version of philosophy, because really, philosophy does make a man goes mad, especially if you go really deep the rabbit hole. I wished there was a philosophical forum here on nairaland, I have a lot to say but oh well, I will stick here. I remember when I would argue with my postmodernist professors in uni then, they hated my guts but respects the fact that I challenged them on their beliefs, making them look like an amateur. And they dare not give me a lower mark, because I will call them out on it, and escalate shit if needed. Knowledge is power. With the help of philosophy, I could destroy all their arguments that were bed rocked on post modernist icons such as Michel Focault, Jean Baudrillard, and co. School these days is so far left, hence, the mayhem human face.

SO yes, study philosophy.

oyolohi:
I'm feeling high today so I decided to jump on my keyboard.

CaveAdullam:
Your low IQ your problem, and simply not my fault. If you are not conversant with nuances, do you have to blame me?

And by the way, I don't post for you specifically and also don't get any form of reward from you or any other. We're not designed to vibrate in same frequency, and simply can't agree 100% on all things. I post because I want to, and if it finds meaning with the right person so be it.

We can be civic in all our approaches, but if you decide to skew ad hominem, welcome on board because the attention you so desire will be granted unto you in abundance.

Now, f^ck off!

dajobi:
I'm burning.

I'm in pain.

The reality hit me hard the past few Weeks.

How do I heal from this?

No job any longer.
Broken to pieces by the same woman I've loved all my life. The same woman I dated for 4 years before we got married in 2018 just after my 30th birthday. Gave me a baby the same year we got married but need I say the baby and her were never mine? Got pregnant for the same ex she claimed was a deadbeat and good for nothing man ( too much stories here that I can not say here for some reason)

I've been deceived by everyone I've ever loved. I'm not worthy
Nobody can give me love

I've been somewhere reading all these things after a friend refer me here, the more I read, the more I hate myself and what I've believed of her that she can't do no harm.

I need directions. I'm so lost. How can I even come to terms with all the things I've read here?

In my Next life, I'm not getting married again. Marriage with her made me empty

Lost my family, friends and everything cuz of her

idongsky:
a romantic name ofcourse, bt when she get upset, she uses my name. i feel she doesnt respect me