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pansophist:
Pastor suleiman preaching the redpill.

I said it, all this men on top, especially pastors are super redpill. Listen to the video ajd confirm yourself.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDvi-vLGn8g

Real redpill. LOL.

IRIEBOY:
i tell you bro. to love and trust another girl now is very hard for me..

Your duty is not to love or trust them. It is their duty.

Klchnjoku:
One other thing I've realized about women is that..

Money can buy you a woman's body but money can't buy you her love and loyalty.

If you like spend on her from today till eternity, spending on her from now till eternity will not make her fall in love with you nor make her stay loyal and committed to you.

Funny enough she may be in love and loyal to a man who has less to offer her than you can or a man who spends little or nothing on her.

This are my personal experience though, yours may differ.

Wetin you go take the love do?

Vecto:
You are a real nigarrrrr.


If only most guys know?


If a girl wants you badly, trying to take her out for a date or trying to woo her with sweet talks only kills the vibes. It's a huge turn off to her already. What exactly are you doing it for? Impress? Lmaoo man she's already impressed already, that's why the green lights are visible. This is why nice guys will never get sex. A girl who lusts for you will never make you go through the stress of spending money on drinks or food just to get inside her veejay. It's a waste of time.


Kudos man.

The girl even got married around the time we were having nice time meaning she was keeping an husband material all along.

What I have seen about girls since then, I am not sure I would have been able to get married if I hadn't. I am thinking the ignorance is nature's way of perpetuating itself.

After following TRP for a while I decided to try the new method, like a researcher that I am anyways. This was some years back now.

There was this girl in my area I noticed she feels uncomfortable around me. I reasoned she must be that situation where they say you have been chosen. The first time I said how are you to her she was almost frozen. I gisted a little then asked for her number and told her I will call her for a hang out. She gave me after making some weak defense about not having time and all that. Like three days later I called her and just talked generally. Then a week later I called her and told her to come join me for a drink around afternoon. She came ooo, I ordered drinks. I was about ordering peppersoup when I observed she was not really concentrating or interested in those things. I sharperly asked whether she would love a more private place to which answer was surprisingly yes.

Na so we enter room f--uc-k, just like that. I couldn't believe it. Me, that is used to toasting, then arranging boring dates which are not interesting to me anyways except we are already in very good talking terms. Since then I have been wondering how ignorant I have been all my life in woman matter. This girl later, after some encounters, told she always wanted to Bleep me for a while just that I was blind. Now I no dey even bother about having GFs only fkbuddies. if I like you I keep you for a while as long as you look good enough to show boys and can chat well in the midst of friends. Even at that if attachment is setting in I discharge, I no wan wahala.

It isn't funny that we spend our entire life learning things that will make our life better in school but not learning about women. Women that we plan to stay with for the rest of our lives oooo.

The first time I came across Red Pill message, I was already married with a kid. Looking back now, I feel so much ashamed of myself. My simping no get part two.

dicksonohm:
₦10,500, Commissioner of oath's fee exclusive

At what point does commissioner of oath come in, before uplinking documents or when submitting the originals?

I have always wondered

I am muslim

I pray five times daily, even though I mostly merge Suhr and Asri, then Moghrib and Isha.

I generally stay away from forbidden things EXCEPT alcohol

What does this make me?

Non-muslim?
Hypocrite?
Bad muslim?
.
Please drop your message, religious reasons and not personal feelings please. Thanks

No game

As a guy who has been too much into books in the past (hope this is good enough excuse), I find it difficult to hold playful discussion with girls. Even though I got to appreciate handling girls is like playing a game, I couldn't bring myself to play. I am the straight to the point kind of person that can't handle the complexities of ladies. In my experience, straightforwardness doesn't work.

Low libido

I am not bad in bed, don't get me wrong. But I sure find it difficult to have sex if I have a problem I am trying to solve on my mind. To make matters worse my job is kind of challenging like that. I move from meetings to meetings and writing reports so much you would think I am top guy at work. sometimes I find it difficult to sleep because of work apprehensions.

No time

In my little experience with girls, different girls can cope with different mens' shortcomings but majority can't cope with a man who has no time. I swear I have no time. Since I grew up in poverty and really understand what it is to be poor, I work like my life depends on it - day night anywhere and everywhere. Even my wife can not change this.

Guys, if you are the type that has no time, grew up poor, low appetite and poor game, don't just bother to waste your hard-earned money on relationship. Part-time lovers (know what I mean?)with no strings attached will be just fine. It saves a lot of stress.

Grossintel

I am happy you finally did the right thing. I am sure you must have learnt one or two things from this episode. As you grow older you are going to realize that people are in much worse condition than you are and are doing much worse things than begging to get solution to their problem- with no progress.

The lesson you learnt here are the softer or subtle skills to living and not how good we look or how competent we are. I am telling you this because these are things I learnt when it was almost too late. You will find this useful even when you get married.


I believe your problem is manageable. Unbelievable number of men have been there before.

BiafranNigerian:
I will be here for another 30minutes to see if he will beg for the solution, if he doesnt, I will leave the thread and go to bed, and he will try many drugs and concoctions and the cycle will continue. What he could get from me is just available everywhere and funny thing is, it will solve 90% of general health issues aside his dysfunction. But, who cares if he commits suicide ? I dont, cos I wont miss him, he will always come back and learn lessons on humility. Who does he really think he is at that age ? At 25 I was a millionaire, and I built my first house at 25 years of age. What would he think I need in life that I havent got already. Money ? Absolute nonsense.
Going to bed jarey, seen too many shits in this life.

I suspected my begging wouldn't work even though I need the solution too. I was in his predicament at a time and my JT still misbehaves once in a while so I am still researching.

But seriously a young man of 24 is not expected to be that humble man.

Op sorry to ask, is your mum aware of this? If not try to tell her.

I used to be in similar situation. A girlfriend told me I can't have babies after several unsuccessful attempts. I have babies already now.

Mums can go unbelievable lengths to help in this kind of things. I assure you of that.

This is where I sit until BiafranNigerian gives the solution.

BiafranNigerian I am begging you on behalf of myself for this solution.

nairaland has changed my life in two MAJOR ways.

(1) When I was looking for job in 2006. I was so broke. My friends and I would go to a cybercafe with a friends laptop. We would open so many nairaland job pages within 30 mins that we normally buy. We would get home and start itemizing which to apply for. Nairaland saved us a lot of trouble/money in this way. To cut the long story short, I got my first post NYSC job through a job posting on Nairaland.

(2) I had very little experience with girls. As all my life, I spent reading books trying to make good grades. I was having serious difficulty handling ladies as a result. Then one day, a poster tai2 posted a material "how to maintain and control a woman". I can't describe how that material changed my love life. big ups to tai2 wherever he is right now.

I consider these two things major, at such nairaland is my number one website. I am addicted actually. Even if I don't post regularly due to my busy schedule, you can be sure I am somewhere in the background reading posts. My favorites are politics and romance.

lalaray:
I know wot is going on. I wrote my own piece here some months back. It's not about heaven bro. The truth is u can't leave even though u want u. I also lost everything, in fact I also lost my job in march. she is from d marine. Her plan is to kill u. She is on assignment. Stop eating her food n sleeping with her. It's not d solution but it's d first step. Contact me. Send me an email. I'm finally free. I've relocated

This got ROTFLMAO.

Dead men everywhere.

I am dead man, so I have seniors - deader than dead.

missyadorable:
Op,you don't need to think twice or feel guilty

All men sleep with house maid since the days of Abraham

You have good reasons to defend yourself,like most men do

Madam is lazy and brought a maid,she even travelled and
the maid serves your food.Its understood why u must
sleep with her...Everybody will blame Madam and the girl and exonerate you.

Madam will beat the girl,throw her out and fast n pray for you,cry and beg you.She will be advised to dress sexy n cook delicious meals for you and even apologise to you for having a maid

You are a man and its your world.Whats your problem?
Enjoy it!

This your advice, e get as e be ooo.

sisisioge:
Ohlordhavemercy! Abeg, tell madam u are no longer comfortable with the girl, if she raises dust don't say anything. The next time u and madam are together and the maid passes, stare lustfully at her and let madam catch you doing so. If she raises dust again, just tell her calmly that you are no longer comfortable with the maid. Gaskia The girl will most likely leave within 24hrs Downside is madam would start giving you some serious close markings...your trustworthy days will be over Whew! You guys are just terrible humans.

Thanks I have actually thought about this. But...LOL...the trust issue. Is there a chance at all that trust will not diminish?

Looks like I posted this in a wrong section. I should have posted this in the family section. Too many children here. Or may be hypocrites. If I wasn't a streetman, I would have thought everybody is a saint. LOL

Just a simple advice and many are on "holier than thou" longthing. SMH.

She came into our house at 14. She calls me daddy. Now almost eighteen.

Now shes grown those things, fresh, firm and well shaped. I keep telling myself shes a kid. But my mind will not leave that place.

Madam travelled recently. This "kid" keeps jiggling those succulent things, intentionally or otherwise, I cant tell. Then I couldnt hold myself, I grabbed her when she served my food. I held and suckled like my life depended on them. Funny thing she didn't resist. I managed to let go when my conscience wouldn't let me. I had to visit a brothel to calm nerves that evening. Still throughout the night, my mind couldn't get rid of the twins.

Now, the problem is how do send this girl out of our house without raising suspicion. I am sure if she stays around, what I am trying to avoid will eventually happen.

GEJ budgeted N50billion for Job creation in 2011. Does anybody know how this N50billion was spent and how jobs were created?

Not sure of NUC regulations yet but I wonder why muslim parents would even consider an anti-muslim institution. To even go to christian university in Europe or America is better.

Paying that big amount to a common[b] thief[/b] seems unwise to me.

Tinubu's name na sugar for these ants. see them plenty for here.

Fashola should not be carried away with his popularity, Buhari was more popular than him during the last elections. In fact Abiola was more popular than both of them. Tinubu is not a burden on him, he is infact his backbone. Nigerian politics is not for gentlemen, yet.

This is largely correct for Abuja;

martinosi:
HEY MODERATOR DONT BE PLAYING WITH MY BISHOP OYEDEPO PICTURES, !!!

YOU ALLOWED THE WITCH TO POST , SO ALLOW ME TO POST THE BISHOP THAT NIGERIAN WITCHES
DREAD, LET THE WITCH SEE THE BISHOP PICTURES,

OR IS THE WITCH AFRAID OF THE WITCH DESTROYER FROM OTA!!!!

THE GREAT WITCH DESTROYER FROM OTA, OGUN STATE!!!

https://amebonews.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/Bishop_David_Oyedepo_779973419.jpg

But this guy is a witch too na.

^^^

Cretin. How did Fashola come into this thread? A nation of so many cretins can only produce cretins as leaders.

Some of you people see Fashola even in your miserable dreams

sun_temi:
So that people can come to your door step and beg for a living? It is a crime to be poor now abi?

No boss. So that they can go back to their villages and find something better to do and somewhere better to live.

lagcity:
I can imagine how wonderful Lagos will be by 2015. but the problem is that as Lagos becomes increasingly marvelous, a lot of ppl from other states will flood to lagos and roam the streets homeless. The other governors are really dropping the ball and giving Gov. Fashola extra work to do .

That can be handled the way Elrufai did it in Abuja. Implement anti-masses policies so that only the well-to-do comes to Lagos. All those rag-tag houses in Alimosho and some parts of Agege, mushin and Ajegunle should be cleared.

Majority of southerners are tribalists.

Laughing hard at Beaf, he's been thoroughly exposed. He thinks ACN are slow like him. Does he even know what it takes to be an opposition party in Nigeria, against the highest congregation of Nigerian traitors. He should ask CPC or ANPP how it feels to be a standing opposition.

Ekun meran.

O boy! This rhino na bad boy see as he open beaf yansh every every to see. Wind don blow fowl yansh don open.

Hope say rhino get security oo. Those guys are killers ooo, for real.