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Before being born again, what we should be primarily concerned about is our spirits. If you work on your soul by renewing your mind from now to eternity, it will profit you nothing as you still have the dead spirit of Adam and most of the realities of the new birth don't even apply to you. After being born again and receiving a perfect spirit, then you can (actually must) begin to renew your mind and offering your body as a living sacrifice.

Hmmm new flesh

So what exactly do you need help with, OP? Tips on how to manipulate or force her to stay against her will? She wants to leave, make your peace with it and move on.

Trust me on this...if you feel you "need" a woman, then you aren't ready to marry her. You're ready for marriage when you don't need to.

Bros, do you know what marriage or even love means?

Na so. Smoke and mirrors...

efewizey:
You are pretty I must say

Oga face your work.

The two posters above me are correct. Also, if you prefer, you can say that we breathe air instead of oxygen.

OP how rich are you? Asking for a friend.

Ladylite:
Not exactly misleading. We have too many examples of those who married wrong. And since there are more breakups than marriages... They have more wisdom to share.

Marriage is overrated when you marry the wrong person and people no longer want to be told what to do anymore.... So everyone jumps in according to their own assumptions and so have a piece of advice to give others who are not married.

Married couples who discover their mistakes after 10year often warn their single siblings or friends who come online to share a nugget of wisdom to the rest of us.

Finally, until marriages are done by biblical standards marital relationships will only get worse.

This is just it!

Who/what defines what a crime is? Not too long ago, slavery was legal. In the future, having certain opinions will likely be illlegal. The criminal spectrum shifts all the time.

nlPoster:
From op on another thread:

humans are super fickle! Follow them at your peril.

Dangerous thinking. This is what leads to stuff like obsession. If your happiness is tied to something or someone, you are going to get into BIG trouble at some point.

Graxie:
Why will your wife slap you? Is she mad? Anyway, this is your version of the story, we are yet to get her own side. Nobody deserves abusive spouse, if she is so hot tempered, tell her to leave. Don't develop hbp because of untrained adult. Her foundation is faulty, I am sure you are trying not to be like the normal nairaland husband that would have given her several knocks on the head just to prove that they are men. You did well from your narrative, but you need a breathing space from that woman. I hate people who hardly forgive or abusive. Allow her to see that you are not her punching bag, be wise. For those claiming maybe he has cheated, and so? Is that a yardstick for slapping? If she cannot cope with a cheater let her leave.

Paradoxical.

TheSourcerer:
I think it's better they don't know this vile world ever existed , why bring them to a world of pain religion and wickedness.?

Hmmm you do have a point but I'm sure there's a better way. It's well sha.

Love is real.

TheSourcerer:
I'm never having children

Why?

Humans can be really foolish.

Lions on the prowl...

Riele:
Thegeneralqueen come and take this one , he has Ferrari .

That's a Ford Mustang GT

Lol skyscraper indeed

Humans are really trying their best to reduce marriage to a joke.

Very interesting...

omokoginimi:
This is why I do not play with water


RIP to them

Death is not part of life, it is the end of life

It's actually the beginning of eternity.

Age doesn't factor into admissions. However, it might be an issue when you're trying to get a visa.

czarina:
See the title sef!

Wife Needed!

Good luck though

You are seeking the wrong thing.

This is very disturbing.

Why do you want to worsen your already precarious situation?

Wash?

Love

bukatyne:
Weddings and marriages are a disadvantage to men?

Don't whine about it, just stay unmarried.

Because right now until you have an epiphany, you are very unmarriageable.

When the use of a thing is not know, abuse becomes inevitable.

Myles munroe right there. Preach!