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oyin44:
The ibos are the enemies of the nation and they know nothing about politics.Of course,they themselves regretted it.The materialistics,tribalistics,and jingoistics among the ibos, are the most useless people on Earth.these same people were the ones destroying the people of Eastern Nigeria.

U keep.on showing ur frustration. If Igbos say...let us be on our own and have our own territory, u will start crying like ur mother wants to leave u. Why do u want people u don't like? Is it not a sign of confusion?
The Igbos are bold enough to give a sitting president the middle finger, do u know why... We can always survive on our own...give us some credit and stop hating.

GeneralShepherd:
Isn't it funny that I am now a theist

Now that u have found God have u gotten the answers u desired as an atheist?

Have u communicated with God? Tell me about it

Evidenx:
PROPHET AMOS EVOMOBOR.
JESUS CHRIST TEMPLE MINISTRY,WARRI.

If u who believe this pastor is real can spill the trash u have been spilling on this thread, then I am afraid the pastor is as fake as those foams in ur head u call brain.

joshjc:
so this pastor is not fake, or reno

Wrong answer, try again. NAME ONE REAL PASTOR

Evidenx:
UYI LIKE YOUR NAME HONOUR OR RESPECT,YOU WILL NEVER SEE HONOUR AND RESPECT ALL THE DAYS OF YOUR LIFE,YOU AND UR GENERATION IS CURSED!!!
FOR THAT STUPID PICTURE U PUT UP TO MOCK CHRIST,MOCKERY AND SHAME WILL NEVER DEPART FROM YOU,UNTILL U FALL ON UR FEET AND ASK GOD FOR MERCY FOR THIS RUBBISH U JUST POSTED.
AFTER THIS ENCOUNTER U WILL NEVER IN YOUR LIFE SPEAK WITHOUT SENSE AGAIN.

I am sorry to say, but this is very foolish

joshjc:
hmm,all this fake pastors and dem mumu followers

Pls name one real pastor u know

johnydon22:
So an ideal world is a world where death doesn't exist. Ok.

This ideal world I talk about might or might not have death in it.

However if there is death it will not be an issue because u can start afresh from where u made the mistake that led to ur death. It will be all about being a better person with reward. And u could only lose reward or points if u die but could gain points or reward if u live for a longer time.
Dying and coming back makes u lose points.
Points here could be in form of riches or human gifts

gykes:
Just ignore him.. I wonder whats his problem with God smh

Smh... Its not about God bro... Its about thanking God when something bad happens to another person.

Headlesschicken:
A cheat x a cheat, doesn't matter d gender,n!gga stop talking sh!t,most ppl now cheat wivout reason cos it has just become a lifestyle... We r all human beings regardless of the gender..

what u are saying is completely different from what the op is saying. no body is arguing on what u are saying but please next time respond to the topic u are replying to.

Divoc:
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while many men do not have s**x with emotions, women can’t have s**x without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have s**x while women need a reason to have s**x.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don’t equate s**x with love. A man can have s**x with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fall in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, s**x and love are two different things. But for women, s**x and love are one and the same thing. For men, s**x comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before s**x (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having s**x with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you. But I can’t say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why it is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinary criminals or weapons.

There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can’t detect this as the same woman tend to mourn more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That’s why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can’t handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That’s the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect for their husbands and try to avoid s**x with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have s**x with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable s**x with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife’s behaviour with regard to s**x starts changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerates fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can’t cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That’s why you can’t always trust their judgement. When a joke is cracked, most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don’t like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won’t laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it’s because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited s**x freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can’t wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men can’t allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but would still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/11/cheating/

whoever wrote this must have known and listened to me somewhere... if not, how can u replay my thoughts so perfectly

Chimaokigwe:
Those things would happen to you and those of your household and we'll be here thanking God for it.

lol... you dont want these things to happen to you but u are readily eager to thank God when it happens to another...

see ur life

johnydon22:
What does it mean?

Because a world of infinite second chances sounds like a world with eternal life.

You can't get infinite second chances if you don't have infinite life

infinite life exactly... but with pain, regrets, accidents and learning. however there will always be second changes and and infinite advancement to better life.
like playing candy crush and gettin to higher and harder levels with each level getting more and more excited.

Chimaokigwe:
We thank God in everything.

OK... I will remember to thank God the day u lost a loved one or break ur spinal cord in an accident.

Just hala me to help u celebrate with God.

Saw this and remembered how the thread made my day that year... Even had a blast reading it all over again

estherwemio:
Bros you're loved. Thank God for survival

He is dead... Why are u thanking God for a dead Man's survival

Chimaokigwe:
Survived Plane crash only to die of heart attack when playing football.

God is wonderful

What's wonderful about God in this?

bluefilm:
Correct man.

Na only God go bless you.

Meanwhile...

Frank, I once came accross your novel Cyber Lover on okadabooks.

Such an interesting story.

But I lost my phone and I couldn't get to your book again.

Please can you give me the link to the book?

Thanks.

Hi, just download the okadabooks app on ur phone. My others stories are there. Thanks

A world infinite second chance...



Hmmmmm a new novel loading in my crazy mind.

[quote author= post=77004072]WOW!
This can only be God!
We thank God for your life and celebrate with you Mr Elechi.
ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE. [/quote]Do u realize the this post implies that God is either powerless to or the cause of thousand of accidents that takes life? E.g the fall is school building with kids in Lagos?

For better for worst is not curse this man should stop of all ready.

There is no relationship without it's ups and down, even his own.

Christians like living in this dream world that has never been realistic. If u like say the vow, if u like don't say the vow...ups and down must come and u must deal with them as couples who want to work out.

While we hope for the best we will go through tough times together... What's a curse in this statement? SMH.

dierich:
can u also see d reason u it looks like I'm over reacting or I'm not been friendly enough coz u thought I was reacting coz he's bringing in his gfs and also coz I av 3 rooms, should be able to release one to my best friend.
I knew u don't understand me earlier and I dont really know to explain myself

Ya sorry, I didn't get it clear... U sound like a nice guy. U need to be a bit firmer. Be a bit out going too.

I am more worried about ur health? Why did u call it sickness when after test, everything is normal Why do u still think u are sick?

dierich:
Wtfork, frank317

Let me also tell u something.
There was a time around January ending / early February. I was in a 3 days prayer concerning my health.. I know d kind of guy he is and I told him "bro, I'll be having 3 days prayer/ vigil concerning my health from Wednesday till Saturday.. Please, no gf tins for now. Allow make I finish prayer". He said no problem.
I went to vigil for those days mention. He stay at my place.. On Friday I went to vigil but forgot something so I went back to for it, to my surprise he already brought d lady in. I talk to him dat very moment that didn't I told u about d prayers I was having, he said he's sorry that he don't know d girl will be coming, I didn't mention a word, I went to church, as I came back, to my surprise again, he uses my room, pour his seed d bed sheet.. I was so annoyed that day

What are u doing with such a dude?

dierich:
Nø 2 may not make sense to u, but this is my place. he can't just bring someone in anyhow.

Thought u were beat friends... Well, from the way u sound I think u should let go of the friendship

dierich:
Nø 1, he always mess up d place.. check thru page one and see those pictures I uploaded.

Then he should forking tell him to stop messing up his place.

Nø 2, he won't even tell me 1 of is girls is coming. same tin last nite. we slept together and before midnight, he brought d girl in.

As a guy, I will tell u this excuse makes no sense. We were all bachelors once and I know how these thongs goes.

Nø 3, I'm not a happy man for now coz of my health, that's y I stop my girl from coming for now.

I am confused.

Wtfork:
Well. Different people with different personalities
I really don't have a problem accommodating a friend if I stay in a three bedroom flat and he happens to be a womaniser as long as he doesn't mess up the place and always tidy his space .

That was why I asked if there is a particular reason the act of his friend affects him !

My thinking exactly

PrimadonnaO:
And I thought girls were the sentimental ones. I've learnt early in life that you've got to define boundaries because most people are opportunists and selfish at it... they won't do right by you if you don't demand it.

I had a friend back then in school who'd come to my house to supposedly gist and she'd stay over... sometimes for days. She began to make a habit of expecting me to treat her like a guest all the time... cook what she wants, when she wants and all that. I had to sit her down and tell her without mincing words... "baby girl, I'm a student like you, too. You're no longer a guest in this house. When you come to the house, you eat whatever is available. Stop asking me to prepare this and that for you. You can't put me under pressure in my house."

She apologised...and tried to guilt-trip me by acting all formal with me whenever we met in class. Lol. But I refused to be guilt-tripped. I'd put my message across to her clearly. Some persons might be comfortable with behaviour like that... but not me, I couldn't suck it up.

Today, we're still very good friends... but she already knows the things I won't tolerate. That's how I live my life. If I'm not comfortable with a thing... I state it unapologetically!

Nice, at least u made it clear why u didn't like what she was doing, but he is yet to. Its really rear to see a young guy living along whose friends (not to talk of best friend) would bring his chick(s) to the house, especially if they think alike.
However the op seems to he confused between not wanting him to bring girls to the house and him messing up his house after fun.
If it's the later then he can man up (or woman up, if u prefer) like u and tell him he needs to stop messing up his home cause he is not he house boy.
But if its the former he will also have to tell him but that's gonna have more consequences especially if that's already the kind of buddies they are.

All this long writeup just to convince someone to pay u money. Well, try harder sha, mugu must fall.

No

dierich:
what do u think I can do bro. I'm tired of that. I just want it to stop. u may not understand y I wanna stop d act, but I wish u can understand

Yes, I definitely don't understand why u want him to stop.

But since u want him to stop so badly, then u can tell him straight up to stop.

However, the relationship will have comma, but u will definitely get ur wish.

dierich:
thanks.. I think you understand me more

Be careful when u listen to a woman's advise. They always never get along with each other.

dierich:
he just left with the lady. check thru d picture and see how messed up it looks. I've to wash the bed sheets and bed cover and kept it after he messed up everything.
just check the picture I just took 10mins ago after he left now. this is my T-shirt I've left on that room while. he uses to clean up d mess. did I tell him I'm not using d shirt anymore? I just don't want to av problem with anyone that's y I'm looking for a low-key way to tell him.
I've show it emotionally but he don't wanna listen. I've been ill over 3 months ago and he doesn't really care. he'll just tell me not to think of it that I'll be fine.. that's all he keep saying. I told him I'm Sunday that my girl want to visit me and I stopped her coz for now I'm not happy about my health and I wanna be alone and I wanna keep tins holy, and today after I slept around past 10, that's when he sneak d girl in.

Are u angry that he is messing up the house or are u angry he is brining in girls.

Guide ur heart.

Its easier to tell him to keep the house clean after the hooking up, than telling him something that might make him keep away.

He is ur friend... ACT LIKE A FRIEND AROUND HIM. Talk to him like a FRIEND and jokingly throw the T-shirt to his face insisting he must wash them.

PrimadonnaO:
He doesn't need to have an explanation extraordinaire for why he doesn't want to continue accommodating the act. Some people just refuse to be sensible.... give them a yard and they went a mile!

Guys who behave like that irritate me! He should go get his own place or keep his meetups with his girlfriends outside the house.

He needs to have a good explanation for the sake if tomorrow. That's his best friend we are talking about and I am sure there is a reason why the other guy feels comfortable bringing his chicks to the house.

This is a man's thing, he must act with his brain and not heart like most women do.

I remember years back when I was serving. This loving roommate of mine always brought his girl to the room (our beds are close). I liked my roommate but didn't like the fact he brought his girl in most night.

I reacted to this and this had an effect to our relationship. Looking back I wished I had just let things go because I really didn't have reason to be angry but for jealousy (which I even denied to myself)

The Op can't just say he does not like this guy bringing his girl for nothing. Perhaps he wish he was the one having the girls. Perhaps chicks do not fall for him (despite doing better than his friend) like his friend.

If it's washing stains, ask the guy to make effort to keep the bed neat. He is ur friend, don't let woman palavar spoil thinks.

And pls go out a little... U only live young once.