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Thank you very much for this write up

It's lenghty but worth reading

I appreciate the fact that you weren't attacking a particular gender

God has ordained man to be Head of the family

He knows why he gave the authority to men not women

But some women were favoured in one way or the other and they belongs to the women you talked about

Women are very complex by nature

To handle a woman is like you are given a raw egg, and asked you to place it on your head and go for a race with it

If the egg falls definitely it will break

But if you run with caution you might get there late but your egg won't fall and don't be suprise you might be the winner just because your egg didn't fall off your head

Some men have ego and pride, once they are rich it worsened their case and instead of them to tread with caution in their home, they will be maltreating their wives, behaving to her as if she is a lesser being, taking family decisions with out involving her and still expect her to play along

Women, are very stubborn by nature, wicked by nature, troublesome by nature.
But they will bring it out if you have ever treated them bad in any situation

Women can bear grudges from the day one of marriage and keep recording your faults till the day she will take her turn to deal with you

Women are domineering by nature, they can argue from January to December that's their nature
They like having their ways in the family. If your wife wants you to be happy, she will make that home happy for you and if she wants that house to be hot, she will put up the fire and its only the man that will be feeling the hotness of the fire

A woman who is more financially bouyant than her husband will do everything possible to cover her husband by taking full responsibilities of the family.
But bear in mind they are things that will make her act that way with respect. It comes with a price

Things like

As at the time the man was on the move, he must have treated her as a queen

He would have protected her before her husband family

He must have made his wife a priority before anything

He must have given her the freedom to run her hone without manipulation

She would have accepted that this man has really proved to me that he really loves me and am all he has on earth

Now tell me, a man that has displayed all this treatment to a woman and he suddenly becomes poor and the woman becomes rich, would she treat him bad.

Nooo, not at all.

Then the other way round if a man has been brutal and uncared to his wife and the table turns around

What do you expect the wife to do to him, when she becomes financially buoyant

She will take revenge and make sure you get double of what she got from him

Bottom line is appreciate a woman, love a woman and leave the rest for her

michaelandre:
how? imagine if u are the exact person going through everything he said he is going through if u won't be depressed at a point in ur life ?

From my understanding of his story

He wasn't coherent in his story

Besides he is still young so I don't know why he is acting funny

konkonbilo:
it's a pity you don't know Andy blaze...

I know Andy blaze, he is black and tall

He is a TV personality

So How is it related to Andy blaze

Is he the op

Serves him right

You are just giving depression,
an accommodation into your life

I don't know if it's a joke or not but your English is a turn off

She might be using Love Machine because she doesn't want to flirt

Better that way than being unfaithful

gypsey:
i am not surprised, Again you have resorted to insults and making derogatory remarks, it's clear that you have made no sense from the start and you have made no sense now, it's also obvious that you have nothing else reasonable to add apart from insults.

Remember, you were the one who quoted my initial comment to lecture me on hard work and how it supposedly pays. you could have just ignored my comments and moved on. if you thought i am a fool and saved yourself the embarrassment.

Just explain to me what kinda hard work you were talking about and stop been sentimental.

Lol

gypsey:
i am not surprised, it's obvious that you are not as intelligent as you would like to think.

Good luck.

If I start a debate with you, I will deflate you and your senseless points

I decided to end this discussion because your argument is totally baseless

When one argues with a fool, he drags you to be as foolish as he is

paix:
You're right because you're reasoning like a woman. No reasonable man will accept this. The guy will lose respect even among his male friends and colleagues.

That guy in question is ready to loose all form of respect from every angle

In as much as the life is leaving now is far more better than what he was leaving

A man who is cocky or has eggo won't settle for that

Only a humble man will accept such offer

gypsey:
So which hard work were you talking about then? the hard work that isn't hard? is there another definition of hard work? and which hard work isn't to care for families?

End of discussion

landmark86:
U make a point too, bro
Tnx

Am a sis

Thanks for the acknowledgement

This king just love sex no wander he married five wives

That's one of his hobbies

At that age he is not relenting

gypsey:
Really? hard work doesn't pay. trust me . if hard work pays why are all the okada riders and all the people digging toilets and gutters still working hard? when will their hard work pay?


some one Aquiring a nursing qualification is hard work?
try clearing other people's shiits, sweeping the streets, or unblocking peoples toilets. maybe you will realise what hard work means.

All those people you mentioned are working hard to feed their families

If they don't work hard they won't meet up

Okada man that took a bike on hire purchase is working hard to complete payment and take possession of the bike within a time frame

Icon79:
So are you implying that she wasn't working hard enough as a comedian then


O pari

Everything any one does for a living

You must put efforts, thats why I said hard work pays

To be committed in reading is more demanding than being a comedian

Comedy is a hubby you do with passion

While reading demands your total concentration if you must pass

Benyfil:
I took my time to read up all the comments.

Though I can't reply to every comment at this time cos I am at work. I can't thank you all enough for taking the time to give your thoughts and advice. These had made me to look at the entire situation from another angle I never thought of.

God Bless you all.

Thanks

Hard work pays

gypsey:
why do people feel the need to tell us about their hard work, poor families, how they starved to death and how they finally became successful on social media?.

If it shiits didn't happen to you, who da fuvk do you want it to happen to?

i ve been drinking monkey urine and eating donkey shits to survive in the last 100 years, did you hear me complain?.

Just to let you know that after every struggle comes success

Hard work pays

paix:
You're right because you're reasoning like a woman. No reasonable man will accept this. The guy will lose respect even among his male friends and colleagues.

Lol

obonujoker:
Why not get the house outside the family?? things like this doesn't always end well...

Where you see the money ?

If he can afford to pay for rent, he wouldn't settle for that

If he maintains humbleness to his wife family, he is the one to enjoy

That's what goes with marrying a rich man's daughter

You can't eat your cake and have it

They should just give her acid to drink

Tye her hands behind her back

Let her face the sun until her last breath

Whenever she is tasty, they should give her more acid to drink

Pls keep your job

It doesn't disturb you from your farming

Involve your wife if she is less busy

With time the proceed will determine if it worths your leaving your job or combining the two of them

Besides if you can handle both of them, then the farming will be plan "B" incase your job runs down

Confess to your wife, how her best friend seduced you to sex

By the time her friend starts blackmailing you

It's left for to defend you or not

But bear in mind, don't expect her to accept what you are going to tell her easily

She will be hurt by it

They are actually her kids

I think she started giving birth very early

Any body that took part in this wicked act of murdering this innocent child, either by words or actions

Will never hear the cry of a baby in his or her house

His spirit will continue to torment them until they join him

Rest with the lord

lenny12:
see Mumu Who Them Wan Share Am For?

They will share it to mumu like you

Idiot

Must you insult to make a comment

Premature like you, fool

That money budgeted for election should be shared

Let them continue Till
2023

Him done forget wetin him decide for Ambode's case

That's life, give and take

It could be their school wears on Fridays

In lagos most student wear Jean trousers and school polo

They might prefer going on traditional wears on Fridays

Fourwinds:
that girl is banging already

Of course

Oluromantic:
Would you approve same for your brother?

The familiarity will get so worse dat d wife will see nothing wrong with addressing him anyhow or deprive him of his due honor. And when he brings up a complain, he will firstly be seen as an ingrate who does not appreciate what was given him, then they'll support their daughter's terrible actions especially the mother and sisters-n-law bcus d men might understand except their minds have been poisoned by the women in d house. They will ridicule him to nothing especially with untamed mouth. Where he go hear him matter, him sef go shock.

And if he doesn't go home often, even you(op) and ur parents and other family members would not reckon with him again, because you'l all think its him and his wife alone that have been enjoying their money not knowing he's been suffering ridicule ..this one that you're sounding like a concerned brother now, that will not be d case later.

So if he's wise and doesn't want to lose on both sides, he shd stay in his house or better still, let d father-in-law buy them a duplex somewhere else or just settle him with money so he'll build his house. Its a wife that goes to husband's house not d other way round. For them to even ask u to come live in their compound and their house sef ..bro, they're already selling you off small small. Very soon you won't even be able to make a choice of food in dat house again.

You just predicted negatively

Read my post very well I was positive it will come out good

Even for a financial gift

I won't eat it.

Never

bongolistik:
wrong quote, it's the other way round

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