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Firstly, be calm and behave as if nothing happens

Plan on how to pack out of the house

Get an apartment and come when she is not around, pack the properties that you know very well that you bought with your money

Don't take the children from her she might develop mental issues

If you already have her account number send allowance to her 2 times a month

Whatever you think you can afford divide it into two and send it every two weeks

Call her parents and tell them what has been happening and the decision you took and your reason for packing out is for peace to rain

If they invite you for peace talk tell them you need enough time to get over what she did to you

Keep prosponing them until either you make up your mind to leave with her or you end the marriage

If her rent expies don't pay. Let her be the one to sort herself out and the way and manner she is going to do it, shouldn't be your concern

While all these are going on fix yourself and be happy

Life has no duplicate

What you are doing is called a nature call of duty, some people are blessed to do so by God

But you are expected to apply wisdom

As you help people, help yourself more

If you are not married, go and get married and establish a family and also invest into business incase of tomorrow

While you are doing for others you will also do for your family

If you forget to do your wife will remind you

God that gave you that gift expects you to use wisdom

If by tomorrow, it gets crashed those people won't come to your aid but the little you invested in your immediate family or business will be your pillar

Be wise use your opportunity wisely, it doesn't come easily

Transport it to Lagos and go back to your base with testimonies

CanadianNaija:
I guess it's only married women like you that know business abi?

Let them come and advice you.

Small minded Nigerian.

Nooo you got it wrong

There are some times when you will need an advice and a married woman giving you that advise will be based on her previous experience

Singles, can also advise her

But being a married woman, she needs something that will help her to support her home because she knows what she is passing through as a married woman

Once you find yourself in a marriage that is full of emotional and abusive words

Walk out of it

Marriage is not a do or die affairs and your life does not depend on it

Once you learn to walkout, you are the winner but if you stay and die you are the loser

At times people we trusted most are the ones disappointing us, but for your mum to be the one behaving like this is more painful

I will advice you forgive her, for she is your mother.

Don't talk about it again with her and still be the loving son that you are to her

She has taught you a lesson never to trust anyone in a bitter way

Don't ever raise that issue or discuss it with anyone even your siblings because of family politics

When next you safe plan it your self and execute it your self to avoid losing trust on people

"When you build in silent, your enemies will not know what to attack"

Why was she recommended to you

Does it mean that at 37yrs you are still a virgin or you can't find a wife among the ones you dated

At 20yrs and in year one, are you the one to train her in education, what makes you think that others won't snatch her from you before she graduates

Is it that you want a virgin as a wife and she is a virgin

Have you taught of how to nurture her to be a full woman

Will you be ready for the ups and downs of family storms that you guys will experience, including the harsh economy

Well people consider marrying people of that age group for reasons best known to them

You didn't give us your reasons.

Pipedreams:
Nice o. Who knows how many dicks she sucked to put this up. What am seeing her would cost above 50m and its in lekki

Thats why your low self esteem have been affecting you negatively

Uptil now you can't struggle talk more of matching your mates

Gold digger

forreelinc:
flat head tribe don dey teach edo people bad thing

EDO have been known for evil things even before flat heads start their own

Rest with the lord

How much is even the salary that one should be in a risky job like that

This small girl just died from the stupidity of both father and son

Rape is a serious offence and those involved should die as well

His time is up

He is fighting himself

He think its like before when he is using force and power to manipulate people

How much is the so called rent?

Those people their own no dey pass one room

But they will rather use the money do juju

Now he is going to loose the money paid for juju and bail money, which would have been useful to pay the rent

Money is good,

If not for money, royalty and class would she ever settle for a man like him ?

Then let's know your girlfriend or the woman in your life

Let them give him the corpse to cook and eat

Rest in peace.

Go and hunt your killers and make sure you take them along

But it's not by force, let the imolites decides

Its their choice to choose who govern them, not your choice

Wicked people with their wicked religion

That's nice, it's good you got back to us for the progress of your child

Now be ready to relocate all those risky items around the floor and table level

Safety should be your major concern as that child will be walking close to electric sockets and wires

Kitchen too is not left out oooh

This one no need rehabilitation

Let him go back to jail

If he finish serving his jail term, comes out and steal again, he will go back again

He has made up his mind to keep going in and out of prison

That's his choice of decision

CilicMarin:
It is even worse in Christianity...

Then do it right

It's better to walk out alive than dead

Dangote truck will steal spoil the roads

No need to help him out

Just light matches and his hand and body will obey and stop stealing

All these massive back side na load at old age

You need to see how they look like in their sixties

Why posting him to Abuja?

They would have posted him to Bornu state or are those posted there not having parents?

sanpipita:
Lol you feel he is doing it to attract women? what if he isn't into women.

Lol

The man is a nuisance

Real men don't act stupidly

quentin06:
must be a cop, no pun intended though.

Lol

Very sad news

quentin06:
guy looks like an idiot, who goes to police swimming pool, xcept he wants to drink all those washed off curses.

quentin06:
guy looks like an idiot, who goes to police swimming pool, xcept he wants to drink all those washed off curses.

Just look at your nasty comment

Very sad news