lexy2014:


What research did u do to have come to d conclusion that "80-90 percent of hospitals don't have mortuary"? What is d expertise needed to run a morgue?

That hospital shouldn't have anything less than 200beds conservatively speaking. A big hospital like that has d capacity to treat more patients based on it's size, both walk in patients or those on admission. In course doing this, it's going to record deaths especially for those on admission. Where will it keep d corpses? Even d military hospital in Benin which is much smaller, has a morgue. Y would this one with a bigger size not have a morgue?

There is a pathologist on that team, maybe he could be decieved but you can't. I guess you know better than him. He can't identify a moved morgue.

I'm guessing you know who a pathologist is.

lexy2014:


U didn't answer d question:

how can a hospital as big as d military hospital in ikoyi not have a mortuary?

By d way, a 5year old can't identify a morgue

80-90 per cent of the hospitals don't have mortuary. Having a morgue is not a criteria for establishing a hospital no matter the size.
If a hospitals expertise doesn't cover preservation of bodies then there is no need to have a morgue.

lexy2014:


I haven't insisted on anything. I asked a simple question.

how can a hospital as big as d military hospital in ikoyi not have a mortuary?

A mortuary is not so hard to locate in a hospital. Even a 5 year of can identify a mortuary because the strong chemicals used in preserving the bodies. The building is always away from others and is fitted with huge refrigerators.

Even if one evacuate bodies from the buidling, it will take days for the smell to leave the building.

It still baffles me that in this age and time, not a single person could capture the military on tape moving a dead body and the families of the deceased have all become so afraid to come forth.

Not everything is so complicated.

Racoon:
The sequence of events especially as regards the involvement of the army have affirmed that the army is not an agency with integrity.Imagine denying involvement in the #EndSARS Lekki shootings only to later made a volte face.

They initially denied the panel access to government property simply to allow them do a cover up.Now a whole MHL being renovated have no morgue? Haba! Even MH Ibadan that is smaller than that of Lagos have a morgue.
The army can only continue to deceive itself.

Not even one of the protesters out of thousands could video a single military man moving a body??
They families of the dead are so afraid to come forth?? No friends? No employers? No neighbours?
And no medium has been able to interview them while covering their faces?
A city of 21 million people not a single person could see or knows where they took the bodies??
Haba!



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I Told My Boss That I Have A Crush On Him – Did He Take Advantage Of Me?

I have always had the biggest crush on my boss. Since the first time I saw in at my job interview. He sat with the HR lady and some other man in the final stage of my interview. I began to stammer when he asked me a question cos I was stunned by how handsome he looked.

He noticed I was stuttering and he smiled and asked me to calm down. I got the job. I was so elated. I got work everyday in a very nice company. Everyone is cool here where I work. I discovered that the MD was a divorcee with two children who live abroad with their mother.

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Everyone gossiped about our charming MD,the most eligible bachelor in our company. Sometimes, I think some ladies flirt around him in the name of overdoing their jobs. But everyone spoke highly of him. He was the most professional person and he truly did not encourage mixing business with pleasure.

I have been working in this company for almost two years now and I can say that my MD inspires me, he is like a role model to all of us. He is a fair man and very smart too. Well, I still had my secret crush on him but I never did anything to show it.

Two months ago, his children came from the states to visit him and they followed him to the office. While showing the children around, the girl took a liking to me and sat on my desk for most of her time. Their dad was having a meeting, so he boy too hung around with me.

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My colleagues were surprised but I love kids and they love me too. The next day, my MD called me to his office to thank me for hanging out with the children. He said his little girl never stopped talking about me. He asked if I could take them to the cinema that Saturday cos he has a meeting…I agreed…

Saturday came…I arrived and took the children out. They had a great time too. Their father was very happy and gave me 20k. I refused and left. The kids were around for 2 weeks and they always wanted me around. Their father was truly surprised. He asked me to come around on the second weekend.

Spending time with them made me see how great a dad he was. My heart was melting. He caught me starring and I was uncomfortable. I tried to avoid him since then. I knew I would make a fool of myself. Like 2 weeks later, he called me to his office to check on me and find out how I was doing.



I told him good and he asked me why I was avoiding looking at him…I told him nothing. He apologized for making me uncomfortable and asked me to leave. I was embarrassed. I was behaving like a teenager. He must have noticed.

Two days later, one evening, I got an sms from him…he was like: would you like to have some drinks tonight? I couldn’t believe it. I was still staring at the text when he called…I picked the call with shaky voice and he was like trying to apologize for the text but I told yes…I would like to go out with him for drinks.

In 25mins,he picked me up. We went to a nice bar…had drinks and had a great time getting to know each other. It was the most fun night of my life. I told him I have always had a secret crush on me…He asked me to see him again and I said yes but you wont believe that night we both ended in a hotel room. He admitted he had strong feelings for me too.

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But strangely by the next day, he was apologizing and asking me to forget about what happened with us. I was like why…he said it was wrong of him to get involved with his employee. So, I told him I would resign…he said no. Since then, I have been a mess. Serious mess.

All I think about is my MD. I felt he and I had something but he does not want it …now I can’t work without loosing concentration. I can’t even tell anyone what happened because he begged me not to say anything. But I am dying inside me. I am thinking of resigning now but to get a job this time is hard…

What should I do? Do you think he just wanted to sleep with me for fun or he truly liked me? Why wont he want me after? Its been two weeks since that night. Sometimes I feel angry…like he took me for a one night stand ….sometimes I feel he truly is just scared of what the company might think if they found out about us.

I do not see him as a player but why would he flirt with me…sleep with me and then say its over…what did I do…did I just make a fool of myself? was any of this real for him or just fun? what happened…why…why…why…I am truly confused….

lindareep:
Nice one dear

BBNAIJA is never a waste, the notice is what matters.

How many people know Laycon before he entered BBNAIJA?

Meanwhile, I Will deliver men enlargement gel to your preferred address within Lagos (4K only)

Holla at me when you have the reduction gel

iamjavadem:
Hahahahahahahaha....this is so funny, i was expecting dj switch's name to be on the list but then i remembered she is not a celebrity.

Who even knows DJ switch preek

mariahAngel:
In Nigeria, speculation is better than silence!

"It's better to say too much than never to say what you need to say"

The speculations have led to people dying and thousands loosing their livelihoods. Speculators are worse than SARS

Man U will still loose this game. If you have tears, prepare to shed them

ezenwajosh:
the imbecilic one is you for asking me questions you quoted the answer....YOU THINK US, CHINA AND UK DON'T KNOW THE SPONSORS OF BOKOHARAM? HAVE THEY TOLD YOU....ITS IN THEIR INTEREST YOU REMAIN DUMB....RUSSIA HAVE A COMPANY IN NIGERIA RAKING IN MONEY FOR RUSSIAN GOVERNMENT.

CHINA HAS A COMPANY AND TRADE DEALS IN NIGERIA RAKING IN MONEY FOR THEM

UK IS THE OWNER OF NIGERIA THEY WON'T EVEN ALLOW YOU TO KNOW THEY ARE YOUR PROBLEM

GERMANY HAVE THIER OWN COMPANY IN NIGERIA RAKING IN MONEY FOR THEM


NAME ANY POWERFUL COUNTRY AND I WILL EVEN GIVE YOU TWO BIG COMPANY REPRESENTING THEM IN NIGERIA THAT HAS DEALS WORTH BILLIONS OF DOLLARS


ITS CALLED COMMON INTREST

THEY WON'T DO A THING UNTIL YOU THE PEOPLE REALISE IT YOURSELVES THEN THEY WILL COME OUT TO SAVE FACE

What are the names of these millions raking companies??

ezenwajosh:
Boy its called typo everybody makes the mistake you don't have to be a white man to be perfect.... Meanwhile forget about what he wrote so you didn't see buhari video clip played at UN by a Nigerian official they sent to the UNITED NATION ASSEMBLY MEETING?

Because of the Corona virus pandemic, the united nations assembly was done virtually. Every country send in a video. I watched that of South Sudan myself.

Buhari addressed our National Assembly in a live budget presentation. They all hailed and cheered him. So what are you talking about?

LostAddict11:


See them BMC zombies, they want to die. You have not started you wailing, NOI for the bag.

You are such a child. Buhari actually withdrew his earlier nomination, a northerner to replace with NOI.
Candidates don't via for these position as individuals, they have to be nominated by their countries of origin.

You guys still make noise that Buhari hates igbos

Fahdiga:
If Buhari is not dead let him come on live TV to address Nigerians

He addressed the national assembly in a live session during budget presentation with South east senators and house of rep member hailing and begging him for crumbles

IPOB people won't like this at all

A twitter user posted a tweet apparently trying to make mockery of the person of Mr. President using the Jubrin from Sudan issue. It can be seen that this did not sit well with Reno Omokri, as he ended up bashing her, IPOB and their leader Nnamdi Kanu for making up such a preposterous story in the first place.

A twitter user posted a tweet apparently trying to make mockery of the person of Mr. President using the Jubrin from Sudan issue. It can be seen that this did not sit well with Reno Omokri, as he ended up bashing her, IPOB and their leader Nnamdi KANU for making up such a preposterous story in the first place.

Kdon2:


Ofo! You lack sense... Governor sanwo olu confirmed two death from the shooting already in hisl broadcast. He even went to visit victims. Everyone can not be unfortunate like you!

DJ switch said 78 people were killed, do you know what this did to inflame the already tensed situation? People have lost their lives and livelihood due to her stupidity and search for cheap fame. You won't care about all of that because you're just a stupid dog eater Igbo boy

Omoslim26:


Pls can you explain wat you mean by they allow people from other states to fuel them
and don't do the tribal thing bcus i am anti tribalism i belief people choose to be and do wat dey want to and it's got nothing to do with tribe

pls i would like to learn how did lagosians allow people to fuel dem because i belief the destruction did not only happen in Lagos we know of Edo Owerri Enugu Rivers and some other places

Lol!!

1 prison break and only 1 police station was burnt in Edo where the violence start.
1 police station got burnt in Aba, 1 in Anambra. Enugu said no they didnt want violence. But can you quantify the quantum of destruction in Lagos?? A lot of jobs will be lost after all of these destruction.

I made a lot of enemies online when I told people to slow down and apply wisdom. Because I wonder how all these destruction affect the commander in chief who gave soldiers that order. Even if they burn they whole city, the dead won't come back to live.

People from their comfort zones in other states were fabricating lies with gory images to keep Lagosian angry and fuel the violence.

Even in anger, it is best to take a step backwards to analyse and strategise properly. Anger and violence helps no one.

Omoslim26:
very bad

This people doing this are not protesters but thugs the Lagos state government should clamp on them and proof that their solidarity still lies with the People

We won't watch and allow some useless people destroy wat we stand for Lagos will not be swayed into being a state of Anarchy

God no go shame us

#endpolicebrutality
#endterrorism
#restructurenow
#awakeosleepinggiant

In all of these its the Lagosians I pity and weep for. How senseless they are. They alone people from other states to fuel them into destroying and burning their city. Lagosian burning their Lagos to spite Abuja, this is so hilarious.

Common sense is not common.

Army carried out the atrocity
Are there no army formations in Lagos? Why didn't they burn even one?

seunmsg:
I thought Tinubu was sponsoring the protest before. At what point did PDP take over?

Nabena is an idiot. Tell the president to take charge of the situation and stop chasing shadows. Is this the time to look for who is sponsoring the protest or time to find a solution? The country is burning and the ruling party in only interested in looking for who to blame. Nonsense.

The Yoruba people are fools. They have allowed the Igbos and the bendelites fuel them to burn down their Lagos that they so much envy.

The army carried out the dastardly act, does nobody know where the army are? No one knows where a single military formation is in Lagos? Why have the not burn even one?

madridguy:
Well said Mr Yekini Nabena. Meanwhile, If you have names of people who died and their pictures, forward them and let see because

WHAT WE CAN COMFIRM

Steve ABBEY did not die. His picture was circulated yesterday on twitter. He debunked the story himself. He is fine.

Eniola Badmus was allegedly shot in the stomach yesterday. The news is untrue, Eniola was not shot and is very fine.

Onyiye Francis has made clarification on a post by Yemi Alade about a man carrying a dead lady wrapped in Nigerian flag. She said that it was a movie they acted themed, "Heal our land, OH LORD!

Iraoya Godwin said he didn't die and there was a mix-up

Comrade Anthony Okechukwu did not die at the protest ground. He was not shot by the soldiers. He died in a motorcycle accident.

What we can substantiate is a news report from Punch. Lagos State Government, Babajide Sanwo-Olu visited the victims who were injured. You can check here:

You can insult me till I expose fake news against you.



ALL THESE GONE IN LAGOS STATE.

1. Nigeria Port Authority Lagos - set ablaze
2. Orile Police Post, Lagos - set ablaze
3. Lekki Toll Gate, Lagos - totally destroyed
4. BRT Terminal, Oyingbo - New Buses set on fire
5. Television Continental, Ketu, Lagos - set ablaze
6. VIO, FRSC Office, Ojodu - FRSC branded cars, generators set ablaze.
7. BRT Terminal, Ojodu, Lagos - buses set ablaze.
8. BRT Bus at Berger - set ablaze
9. Lagos Television, Agidingbi, Ikeja - shut down
10. Recreational Center, Oregun, Lagos - set on fire.
11. Oba's Palace, Lagos - burnt to ashes. His scepter of authority seized.
12. Sanwo Olu Mother's House, Surulere, Lagos - set
ablaze
13 Kings college on fire
14. Many lives lost already to the protests all in Lagos and south west.
15. Oriental Hotel, Victoria Island Lagos burnt
16. GTBank Branches burnt down
17. AccessBank Branches burnt down
18. Channels Television shut down
19. Ajeromi Local Govt Secretariat
20. Lagos-Island Local Govt destroyed
21. Lagos-Island East LCDA Secretariat set on fire
22. Lagos Mainland Local Govt Secretariat Destroyed
23. Ibeju Lekki LCDA Secretariat destroyed
24. Sanwoolu's Uncle's house on Lagos Island

Still counting....

Several heritage buildings and private properties burnt down and you still believe this is about protest or fall out from Army's shooting... Someone or people somewhere have declared war on Lagos State and by extension on Nigeria.

The Yoruba people are fools. They have allowed the Igbos and the bendelites fuel them to burn down their Lagos that they so much envy.

The army carried out the dastardly act, does nobody know where the army are? No one knows where a single military formation is in Lagos? Why have they not burn even one?

virginprincess:
What is the need of this trash you wrote, when you have already said you prefer an ugly man with money to a handsome poor boy, does it make any sense to you?

You dey vex ooo.

StacyO:



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StacyO:

I heard all Alhaji's have money,how true is it?

How much wealth does a man need to have to be termed rich?

StacyO:
A fitted guy is okay for me. Might not be too tall or too short(average height).
Not necessarily muscular but, just be strong

I'm strong on bed. You want to try me??

Newcastle scores again

I foresee Arsenal winning this game by 3 goals to nil

Karlifate:
The rude awakening that caught these politicians unaware.
The protest has made them to tell the civil servants to resume back to work, it reminds them of their negotiation with ASUU, re-opening of NYSC camps by November 10.
I'm loving these times!

Is it the EndSARS that make secondary school and primary schools to resume too?? Things are done in phase by phase basis. Primary schools resumed then secondary schools then university and NYSC follows. EndSARS or not, this is the pattern.

The protester are just suffering the ordinary man on the street by blocking the roads that leads to their hustle. The govt will only feel the pinch when oil production and ports are shut down. The sponsors will soon get tired of feeding the jobless folks at protests.

Daddysidhan:
stupid talk the south can change it to restructuring protest

Are such a child. What brings stupid into this?? Its a civil conversation. Grow up and learn how to argue based on points

rotadeco27:

U may be right , but the protest can lead to break up . let's the region that is at peace with the evil government continue with their government!

The Igbo's have all kinds of dreams out of pure hate for this govt. Breaking up a country isn't a tea party. Ask the Catalonia, they have been on it for close to a 100 years, the southern Cameroonians have been on it for close to 50 years.

Nigeria is more beneficial to the world powers as one country rather than a divided country that will be difficult to manage. That's why the have never support any successionist agenda.

This protest will just cripple the southern economy for nothing. The govt isn't feeling any heat or pressure to make a mistake on human rights abuses. The ports working well and oil production is excellent.

Anyway I wish you guys all the best