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Take this with a pinch of salt...a man hardly ever accesses a woman's phone he's not romantically involved with.

To d extent of deleting contacts....hmmm

In Nigeria most families are pathetic and hateful so they think that's how everyone else is...
Some families are very lovely N loving biko
All in-laws are not enemies

The media war is a psychological war...its even more potent than weapons.

And if u think its only weapons that EU is supplying, u know nothing abt westerners. That US is not sending soldiers doesn't mean that private contractors and mercs won't be funded to defend Ukraine

U mean u drove that distance n still waited in car just for a woman and u still think u r better than the man she's sleeping with?

Guy u such a loser

CrownedPhoenix:
I used to love Putin. The strong no-nonsense untouchable badass ex-KGB agent, man made of steel. A balance to world power etc etc

I thought and believed Russia to be non-expantionist. Loved that country for their resolute willpower throughout history. From the fire of Moscow to Stalin's snipers in Stalingrad, I have loved this country of theirs.

But in this past few weeks I have made time for reflection on the man Putin.

The respectable demeanor and aura he carried has been reduced to dust, revealing another power hungry, devilish Hitler.

I am horribly disturbed by his flagrant disregard for rules of engagement. One a KGB agent should know better about.

Declare recognition for parts of a sovereign State. And then decree troops be deployed into a sovereign state?

This is unacceptable by any standard.

What a low-life cunning way to invade a sovereign State. Some hype it as a game of chess. I call it con.

Watching a man I so much revered talking nonsense history and making an utter fool of himself on TV. Couldn't believe it's same Vladimir Putin I could argue to the moon & back for.

Except China who's waiting to play same script on Taiwan, anybody supporting this insanity just because they hate America should have his/her head checked.

He is saying all the Anti-Putin activists can gather in one place, declare themselves a sovereign State and have other nations recognize them.

He referenced how a country can not pursue it's security to the detriment of another country, what exactly has he just done?

Well, by this provocative action of his, if Ukraine doesn't immediately formally apply to join NATO, then something is wrong.

The most sensible comment here by leaps...good to know someone is at least neutral in observation

Who else can't find what she's seeing in the picture?

At such age, a man should have figured out what really matters...sex...sex sex is for kids.
Now he craves stability on life and even if he wants to have sex its with a specific woman

Vyolet:
You forgive him easily and cover up his dirty acts all in the name of religion, reason he sees you as a walk over. He may be religious but he doesn’t have the fear of God, reason i don’t care about anyone claiming spiricoco, i only care about what your heart looks like.

Personally, i may never have sex with such person again as my health is more important to me, i will lock him out or move out for my own sanity, then i will file for divorce after i have gathered all evidence, it is better everyone part way.
If you are not financially independent, allow your people know back home, let them rally round and bring you home, everything will seem rough in the beginning but you will be fine in the end with your child.

Do not think you can change the man or his ways, until he gets into trouble, thats how he will continue living his own life.
Take responsibility for your own life.

Bring her home from Canada with her child?? To this naija like this?
God have mercy

FORWARDEVERLY:
Total bullcrap ..
Obasanjo's letters to president's after him is more interesting..

Pls allow your wife deny you sex till old age you hear.. you are a REAL Man.. infact, don't ask her for sex again.. just masturbate anything you want to have sex.. remember your wife's body is sacred and you don't deserve sex from her..

Romeo Romeo .. be a good boy and REAL Man you hear... E. W U.

Bia have some respect for ewu naa?
Ewu that mounts anything mountable?
Aturu sounds more like it

No woman can refuse good sex. It is that bad

She may hate u, hate herself, but if u press her buttons, na easy access

The worst set of men are those who really believe they should be listened to or have an opinion on all things

Because you are a dog or a carnal xtian doesn't mean all men are like u.
Deal with ur lust and leave men outta ur obvious perversion

Entprys:
He won't understand the quality he possess until he run into pastors who will dent and stain the golden gift in him

Nobody can stain nor dent him in anyway. His life trajectory will follow as that of all men - time and chances, choice and consequence.
All that happens is that he will receive promptings from the spirit dimension more often and if he will develop spiritually, he will choose wisely asthe spirit leads/guides.

It's because you are a spiritually awakened soul.
You re a deeply spiritual person, ur spiritual vibration is higher than most normal humans.
U will also notice that u are drawn and react against issues like injustice, dishonesty, and other vices.
You will also find that u have an insatiable appetite for knowledge and often worry abt things others won't even consider.
U are ur own best friend, u r most stimulated mentally. You hear behind the words and read behind letters, u can feel the mood in an environment especially negative energy.
U are seeker of light...a true disciple ad there are so many of your kind...highly sexual and very energetic, highly intelligent souls yet with a thick moral fibre.
It's not a vice...it's a great virtue...
It will take u very little stimulation to interact with the spirit realm.

Location?

I need it for ambulance

U see i will never take the moral high ground against any man, but u saying " the moral of ur story" is like justifying the means by the end - Everytime a fatal error.
Well what if ur wife went to her place as a pretext to sleep and cum together with her exes?
Or something tells u that sexually, u re the best thing since sliced bread?

To add to the lovely piece he wrote their, even coingecko after seeing new coins, u will still need to check the contract address on sites like token sniffer and the rest to help u eliminate the numerous scam tokens that emerge daily.
I really wonder why coinbase not working for naija now..it is the easiest site to use

socialmediaman:
Dailyparrot

You may call his sexual behavior “being possessed” from the religious point of view, but he could be hypersexual or has a rare condition called satyriasis. I pity his wife. She probably has low self esteem and not self sufficient so she puts up with his compulsive sex addiction.

Regarding his financial stinginess as you stated, I have no theories about that. Maybe he just doesn’t give money unless you work for it whether you’re related to him or not. Such people do same to their kids as well, it’s more common in developed countries than in our traditional African societies

Update: After more information from OP, I have a better picture. OP’s brother wants people (including family members) to pass through him and learn from his ways. That explains why he’s helping strangers. These strangers sing his praises and are willing to intern with him and learn from him, that’s where he sees his value and that’s why he’s willing to help them. By doing this, he sees himself as a kingmaker.

Often, these people are at odds with their family members because the family members expect them to help rather than expect them to pass through what they themselves passed through. When these people give you even 5k as a family member even inside this Buhari’s economy, they want you to sing their praises and highly appreciate the money because you didn’t work for it. These people are more attracted to poor people who really need help and are ready to work for it and contribute their quota, and will highly appreciate the help, and could possibly become future allies. They don’t like giving much to family members who are not doing apprenticeship through them

The reason you hardly notice these people in your family is because they’re not the oldest whom everyone else is looking up to for help. This is a personality type and there are people like that all over the world

From where u wrote update" u just described my eldest brother and his ganag of Yahoo thieves. It took me a while but I realized that he gets his kick and self worth from playing God to others and I daily remain grateful that i have another brother who is my best friend. Just dumped him in the bin with his so called money and family.
Nobody will play God to me.
Stupid low self esteem sickos

Raymondj0:
Currently staking the money on crypto... Cake in particular.. But dis is the recent down fall of crypto is really giving me a big concern on their pancakeswap website.. The recent crypto crash already dropped 3.5 million to 2.8... I don't want it to drop so bad... Reason why I'm here seeking for more ideas

Bro I'm seeing lots of his same mistake from most guys staking lots of cash onna few coins and hoping to cash out big and quick.
Y'all need to know that the crypto market is still evolving and there's so much you can benefit if u will spread your investments with just a little research.
Cake is good, but there are so many other good coins with great use cases that a portion of your stake say 250k will be a great investment in a few months

U forget Dominion city

RodgersAkpafu:
What I can see here is generational gap
Younger nigerians tend to be more assertive and big on their rights
The older ones are more like endure and manage whatever till you get up there

That's what I deduced from your post and the person you quoted

Do u ever wonder why younger ones are not making it to positions of leadership in politics or business?
They have no honour and for today's porridge will jeopardize relationships that could be strategic and beneficial in the future.
PS. I am 31

Brother this may seem odd but I will advise you to move on.
For young people out there listen...never get in a fight with anyone whose ever offered you a job!! It's not worth it.

@OP, when u get older, u will realise that the road to the top is littered with nonsense and only those who can stoop so low to take nonsense will last at the top.

385k will not make you a millionaire not a billionaire anytime soon and since ur current firm is remitting ur pension, I will advice you to take the positives if any from your experience and move on because you never get ahead looking back.
PS. I resigned in 2017 from a job, about 900k had not been remitted even till date to my RSA from that firm. But it's not stopped me from going on since then to become what I aspired.
I know how u feel... BUT learn the lesson and move on; that's what experiences are made for

I am a pastor I will always be a pastor.

I love people and I love the body of Christ more than denominations and I don't care what the world thinks of "pastors". I am blessed and empowered to be a blessing to the world and to receive a blessing from the world.

Since 2008 when I nearly drowned in a river in imo state where I went for IT, I haven't ever entered a water body again.
Me that my friends call fish na so I for drown for small river for one village.
I just dt respect myself till date even swimming pool I never enter reach now.

Make I kuku dey swim my wife and Lil angels GOD has blessed me with dey go.

Don't jump into every water cos u can swim.

Once my girls pass 15 years, I will take em to a motuary once every year to remind them that there is a lot more to life than ur bodies.

This generation makes me fear for my kids

3 billion dollars and I will kill the horror character in 3mins

Myexdisturbs:
You're a good analyst, it's easier to do a good road construction with a lesser cost in Ebonyi than in Abia,Even for pH here most of our granite supplies come from Ishiagu in Ebonyi State.

Even at that, is it not the same ebonyi that's Sam egwu and the other old man ruled at even better allocation?
Was it any harder then to build than now?
Umahi has a vision and a plan simple

Ceenachi:
I want to believe that should the Governor do to the commissioner what he is doing to the man by coming to visit the wife at odd hours and bedtime calls, he will also enjoy it, since he is now using the man's condition as an excuse to take over the wife.
For the man, my advice is that" the best punishment to give to a man who stills your wife, is to let her be with him," it doesn't take time for the truth to unvail, maybe he is counting on God to take him to house of reps, so as to have more fun with peoples wife as his church where he is a deacon preaches no sin, there was a time he also begged to eat, we know him, the people who helped him did not rent separate apartments for his wife.
If he is doing it let him continue, there are too many of the issues raised that he didn't clear.

My brother you said it all. Anyone withhalf a logical mind can see the so called commissioner is guilty.
All i have against the man is his weakness in going public with this...a cheating woman is shameless and feels no guilt just like a dead one.

This is one of reasons Muslims think xtians are all pretenders and infidels.

This is why unbelievers don't understand why we r screaming and jumping around then act worse than they do

Penguin2:
You see?

Obasanjo and those northern elites, being patriots, knew that Buhari would be a disaster for Nigeria and they’ve been proven right.

Only Tinubu, as led by his greed and inordinate ambition, insisted on foisting Buhari on Nigeria even though I’m sure that if we check inside his heart, we would find that he knows Buhari is a bigot, an illiterate and consequently incompetent.

But all that didn’t matter to Tinubu. All that mattered to him was his drive for power. Fvck patriotism.

Tinubu knew that GEJ’s second term would only amount to 12 years or more, before he can have a shot at the presidency. If for instance PDP continued in power, the trajectory would have been after GEJ finished in 2019, a northerner would take over till 2027 when PDP might have naturally zoned its ticket to Southeast who would stayed in power till 2035. And by 2035, power would have returned to the north till 2043. That’s 28 years of waiting and Tinubu knows that the luxury of Time was no longer on his side; so he struck.

The frog-eyed fool thought he would be VP to Buhari and naturally succeed him in power but that dream was trashed before his very eyes.

And so shall his recent quest for presidency be trashed before his very eyes.

Then he will finally go and die. I pray he doesn’t consume Rataki like the one before him.

Onye ala!

Hey...it's politics and his interests... Tinubu didn't stop anyone from promoting their interests and since when did patriotism become associated with Nigeria? For your own sake,
Try to be less emotional about these things