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Brodu0099:
Pathetic. Why won't you pack sand when you are not valuable. My least paid job was Engineer Trainee with NBC 2015 set.
When you know your worth, you dictate the tune

U are a lost cause...
My best friend was the best graduating student in engineering with a First Class in mechanical engineering. 9 years now since we left school, he hasn't had a single job opportunity.

Get off ur high horse... Ur salary is someone's tithe

CeterisXVII:
If you are a law officer, then your thinking is a disgrace to the uniform you are wearing.

I repeat: No matter what she said or did, he still has no right to beat her up. What if she died? I know a man who threw his wife down from the balcony of their flat, and she died. After he was arrested, his eyes cleared.

There is no marriage without issues, but any marriage that involves violence should be nullified. Life has NO duplicate. If that battered woman was your sister or daughter, would you still be supporting the lousy man who beat her to a pulp??

Don't worry, you can stay behind ur keypad and be the judge and jury until we meet in person.
People like u usually find out very late, that too much talk is even an offense in this country.

CeterisXVII:
No matter how toxic a person is, you have NO right to inflict violence on anybody. Any man that decides to use his fists to settle an argument is a maniac in disguise.

A man can always walk away from such a toxic person, or take a decision to send her out. If in the process of beating her, she ended up dead, will you be saying this same thing you just said??

Worst things than this has happened. Talk is cheap, talk is really cheap.
I speak as a law officer. Marital issues are best dealt with wisdom not emotions.
When u let ur emotions get ahead of ur senses in another man's family affairs, we will all ask u if ur own marriage is perfect?
Name any couple who don't have issues??
That's when u will know that marriage matter no be "let me rush in and be her superman"

CeterisXVII:
Any man that says such things should be jailed. What kind of irresponsible talk is that? Does that justify the kind of beating he gave her? Why not divorce her or send her packing? Why resort to violence?

U are only saying all this becos u may be privileged to not have had encounterd such a toxic person.. U will be wondering what's got over u in no time.

I don't know what kind of beating he gave her, but from what u quote, if she hits him first, then I don't wanna know. U can't expect every man to be full of self control and discipline. We ain't all gentlemen

I usually don't judge a story from one side.... I will love to hear what will make a man beat his wife repeatedly like this.
I will love to hear from him first, but the truth remains they ought not to continue living together.

For those that want tough love and those who wants to pay boys to beat the man, yall never see case. U better enjoy ur freedom while u still have it.

There's nothing that can be done until the lady approves and asks for help. There's something the knows, feels, did, or attempted that she'ld rather take the beating than expose to another person. (don't downplayed that) She is in a marriage, and in the eyes of the law, u are an intruder with any unauthorized intervention and that includes posting her pictures wherever.

Finally, there's a reason why d woman doesn't want to squeal or involve family.
In my life, I have learnt that couples only grapple at straws while fighting. They dare not mention the real cause of the fight to outsiders.

Proffdada:
I can see you're have the same negative IQ. Do you know that he tries to hide this by insults and blocks instead of addressing issues like a wise person? Blocking is the easy mode for a foolish coward

I don't see why a man at that age will want to be questioned by you or anyone else for that matter.
The Man is not responsible to u, at his age, there are a very few people, if at all, he should be answerable to.
U think his conscience and spirit aren't dealing with him enough? What u got to say to him anyway?
Teach him d Bible? Make him feel wrong? Advice him on how to man up?
Get a damn life dude.

Patrioticman007:
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The faith was laid on fake foundation, what do you expect ?. Since bros J, died for his sins. The man has committed no evil, let his females church members line up for free licky licky.

Why do u think its a fake faith he profess? Do u think that people don't really have d desire to please and serve God genuinely? He has a large follwership in his church and has been pastor for many years.. It takes faith to even go into ministry, talk more of staying in it for years.
The Man like many men of God and Xtians today actually fell for the devil's lie that "as long as u are "working" for God, well, God can lower his standards of holiness for u"
He probably left lust unchecked but that doesn't mean his faith in God is fake

The only thing I am thinking is the embarrassment to his family and extended family.. Not just his wife, his sons, his daughters, his in-laws....

Men, a man should learn self control while he is young.

Those who has their kernel cracked by a benevolent spirit, should not forget to be humble...



Yahaya Bello has never been a reader.

Achebe must have had him in mind.

Abeg make I go campaign Joor.


I can't wait for campaigns to finish make I remove the poster




HUNGER HAS BEEN WEAPONISED IN NIGERIA SINCE 2015

All former directors, board chairmen, mds, state and zonal accountant generals, are already fleeing Naija as this tweet breaks...
Anybody left behind will be in jail or with efcc before long.
None of them hands are clean... Esp the last MD. That contested for governorship in akwa ibom.

Fountainofyouth:
Evil

Evil has its own good times...
Imagine channelling all the energy and tension and pent up frustration into sex?
Especially if ur girl is like mine... I don't mind being evil.
Why waste such energy being angry?

DortmundGirl:
Sounds like a good way too

Believe me it's d best way.... It never fails. She won't even be getting mad at u again, she knows how it'll end

kogbe22:
I wonder who will be d judge, without sentiment

When 40m is involved, they can get a FIFA licensed refree for all I care...
Everybody knows vector has nothing on MI as long as rap is involved.

I prefer to shred her clothes while she's still angry and have her both mad and moaning.

Nothing beats it... Nothing left to settle after it

Oh.... Exactly what MI has been wanting....

RIP viper in advance.
I said in advance ooo. I no put any date before una begin call police for me.

jokinexcel:
In most cultures it’s widely believed that when someone drowned in a river he/she is “collected “ by the river goddess, so it’s now a property of the goddess, so if you want to take back the person’s corpse from her you have to appease her and seek her permission otherwise she will get angry and kill more members of that family holding her property until the corpse is exhumed and returned back to her. Be warned this is not my handwriting oooo, I was told by an elder, so don’t attack me. I don’t even believe in the existence of the so called goddess

Man u should believe in their existence.... The Marine kingdom is as real as the danfo u see in gidi.

Easybela:
I was one myself but hubby wasn't. The first girl he dated,it didn't work out between them. I happen to be the second woman he has touched. Unplanned situations can make you lose yours,some didn't just decide to lose theirs. Its no big deal anyways, whether virgin or not,character should be focused more on.

Women... U believe u r d second woman he has touched... It's easier to find virgin than a person who has had sex just once.
U go surprise

Op whoever told u that a single man demands a virgin must be high on some cheap weed.

Men as from 21 years old are infatuated by older and experienced women... They just wanna get experience and the more experience a potential partner, d better for them.

Men start thinking of virgins and tightness of the.. Emm. When they get older... As from 45. Except of course if they man has a smallie or is just insecure about competiting with other men

lilwetdick:
basically that is the vibe i am getting.

the right vibes she makes will attract all the money what do you mean by this

is that the woman is working while the man is an house husband?

U are not married, u have prolly not had a live-in girlfriend or lived with a woman (not ur family) for some time.
I am sure most people who have done that at some point in their life, can relate.
The op said he has a job, he's actually had a job since he left school.
I don't see where ur question is coming from.

lilwetdick:
so basically, you are saying money isnt important in marriage and that he should wait for the right woman who will feed him and take care of his needs just because he is a man.

Well if that's all u gleaned from my write-up, I can't help it.
I'm responsible for what I write, u are responsible for what u understand

Bros, marriage isn't a decision u let others make for u. The fact u are asking this question in d first place says u are not ready.

Being ready isn't exactly about money. Don't mind all the make money first advice u'ld get.

A successful marriage is more than money and that make money mentality is a closeted selfishness which is against everything marriage is about.
Granted makinga family needs money but believe me, marriage to the right woman will make u better in every way especially financially. She may not give u money physically, but a good woman will prime ur heart, plan and invest in you morally, spiritually and physically if she can.

The right vibes she creates will attract all the money
u need if u are smart enough to appreciate her and reciprocate it.
Pls think less of money when u think of marriage, if u have d right woman in ur life, all d wedding, feeding, cars etc u worry about, will cease to be a problem.

When u find d woman for u, money won't matter and that's when u are ready.. Bcoz u will know that if u miss this one, u may never get another like her.

This is one of their training schools for jihadist...

sapele914:
Rubbish Pius Odubu is the next Governor of Edo State, APC will win the election with financing from NDDC, Obaseki is toast bread, he dares not touch any money from The Edo State treasury to finance his re-election, he is been watched seriously both at State and Federal level.

Number 1 rule of The Mafia, never bite the head that feeds you.

U don't know the powers a governor has... He doesn't need to touch the money... His cos And SA on security need only create phantom insecurity, militant, cult wars... Anything for him to increase security vote.
The election is next year.. D man still has months to raise 10billion legally try security vote alone.
Talk more of bank loans and contract racketeering.
If na money matter, make everybody go rest

End of career... He will be 56 years by the time he returns...



Don't quote me oo
Ayam not feeling strong.

JimohMomoh:
False, that road won't last more than a year before it begins to fail. I have three reasons for saying so
1) There are no Expansion Joints
Any road or bridge made of concrete & steel need gaps b/w certain distance for example gaps every 100m. The gap is needed because concrete & steel expands in size during hot sunny day and contracts(reduce) in size during cold. Engineers add gaps so that the road doesnt buckle up and crack during hot and cold day. I guess you must have experience bumps or seen these gaps whenever you pass through a bridge.
2) There is No Surface Cover
Plain concrete road surface need Polishing or covering with coal tar or tarmac. This is because ordinary concrete surface wearout and produce tiny dust particles whenever tyres of vehicles pass through it. Exposed Cement surfaces easily reacts with acidic rain, garbages dumped on it, spills from Petroleum producs and fail.
3) Dangote Cement is not Manufactured Specifically for Road Construction.
There are special type of cement meant for road construction, just like white cement is used for tiles and marble works. Most of the concrete road done in Nigeria by Julius Berger, Dumez and MotherCat uses special type of treated cement that can withstand bending without breaking or cracking, these roads have over 50yrs lifespan and they are seen in some parts of Lagos, Warri, Benin and PH.

Apapa-Wharf road constructed by same Dangote with cement is aready having tiny cracks and have little wear & tear where heavy trucks are parked

Nice points... But on the third point, there's actually no special cement for road construction... What u talk about are addictive. The one u explain is a plasticider.
It makes the concrete mix become monotonous by giving it plastic qualities.
Others use fiber mesh in place of steel rods or any reinforcement. They all ensure durability of the concrete and good finishing.
U should know however, like in all good things, they have downsides,
An addictive improved concrete takes more time to cure and hence requires constant curing bcoz its mixed with little water and that's why it dries fast.
U will have to keep curing it over 2 weeks unlike a mix without addictives

ghettochild:
where is the space for drainage??

That is a federal highway... It's been reconstructed... Drainage on federal (major) roads are mainly designed to be underground drains.
Check.. The road is cambered to one side.