₦airaland Forum

You followed your pastor at the expense of following God. He that findeth a wife not he that the pastor says the should marry, and the bible says do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever and you yoked yourself with an IFA man. Your pastor is not number one authority in your life as a Christian God is your number one authority because you confessed him as your Lord, if you prioritize your life in this way God will help you get out of the mess you put yourself in.

The best I can tell about the card readers is that the PVC is slotted into the machine and ones fingerprint is used to authenticate that he/she is valid to vote and the cards belongs to the said voter. We can't expect the technology to be 100% effective as its a new technology and new people handling it, but I think we are on the right direction as if we use it now or in 4 years time we are still going to use it and there are still going to be flaws then and now. Its clear to us that some disgruntled elements have decided to truncate the electoral process by unlawfully buying PVC or employing other crude methods to rig the election and the pendulum is not swinging in their direction presently.

I would allow my pregnant wife do what ever she wants as far as its safe for her and the baby. Op's worry is as a result of Nigerian in activeness we seldom do sports or take risk.

Your options are 3 bro,
1). You both can believe God for a miracle, this is the easy option and it does work. My best friend was AS and he was worried about having to like someone of same genotype and not being able to marry the person, he believed God for a change and today he is AA.
2). When my late sister was sick and we were looking at pur options the doctor told us of a bone marrow transplants procedure. The SS patient gets an AA donor a close relative or anyone that match, the SS marrow is removed and replaced with part of the donors AA marrow and since the marrow produces the blood the SS patients starts producing AA blood. Do not take my sketchy explanation for it go do some research about d procedure.
3). I have a close relative who lost his dad to SS at a young age and a year before that he lost his mum and he had to take responsibility for his siblings those were tough years for him, now before he goes on a date with anyone his first question is what's your genotype. Crisis periods are really trying times that require sacrifice and devotion. If you are to up to the task of standing the heat don't go into the kitchen. Yes she might be a really good woman, but she is not the last good woman in the world. Count the cost of before building a marriage with this woman.

God is not a contract killer his angels are no assassin.

I've noticed something alarming about many Nigerians, they are more about short term gains than long term rewards. Its good that we have finally been able to build APC for our military but how sustainable is this process? And pls can we stop this nonsense of tagging politicians with good or bad projects what about our own benefit as citizens?

IVM run for your life, this thing has happened before to VW and Peugeot the day FG decides to pull the plug like they always do chances of recovery will be slim its better to build vehicles and sell to the masses. We need you to survive because u are our Nigeria success story.

This needs to stop, let's learn to tolerate ourselves irrespective of our views

I really hate to hear things like this, being a job seeker doesn't bankrupt you of common sense. A taskforce that is created with no backing from the law? It was only created in Lagos state? You have to make payments for to secure the job? The said organisation is at loggerheads with other government organisations? You have to sell your body to get the job? I now get why employers say that our graduates are unemployable they simply can't correlate information from past and present to make intelligent decisions. Social media is filled with the strategy of a job scams we know these scams but have failed to apply what we know in decision making, I mean what federal militia or monitoring unit is there that is created that is not backed by law. I sympathise with them but one really has to keep both eyes open in the times we are in.

I'm totally against physical and emotional abuse irrespective of what angle it comes from, but two wrongs don't make a right only mad people beat up their spouses.

Lets look at it from the other side of the coin, it will be an opportunity for our soldiers to be trained in antiterrorism. We might need to also be careful we don't lift the racist embargo that ISIS has for boko haram. We have to weight our options and make a decision.

Compromise is the word I am an introvert while my fiancée is an extrovert I do understand the need for her to go out as one of her characteristic trait, so at times I have to satisfy this need as I don't want to risk someone else fulfilling this need and she does same for me. If we are going to walk together we have to agree, we both have to make sacrifices most times that's what love does and there are times that I sense that an outing is real important to her I push myself to go with her and most time she thanks me afterwards as she sees it as a sacrifice on my path.

slap1:
Some people can still afford it. Don't forget the Almeria is said to follow. This is commendable, especially when you consider that Michelin and Peugeot left Nigeria during previous administrations.

My fear is that these vehicles will end up being bought by government as official fleets making the survival based on the government hence if government sneezes the company catches cold. Peugeot closed down was non patronage for its biggest customer the government what is the guarantee of sustainability of the likes of these vehicle producers as they are more or less repeating history as Peugeot did what guarantee do we have of their survival in. Say 20 years? I would have love to see vehicles in the range of 1-2million naira or possibly a motor payment plan at low interest, I would prefer a the vehicles to be low cost than mortgage plan as it will boost our export and truth be told if the average Nigerian can't afford it our neighbouring countries can't too. This is a legacy of GEJ I suggest that he articulates it well to make it a legend to posterity.

nice development but im wondering how many nigerians can afford to buy a Nissan Patrol as it costs nothing less than 10 million.

[quote author=yinkfad555 post=30687572][/quote]Just get it straight south south is not biafra your secession is OYO. Better get the economics of your survival right.

GreenWhiteGreen:
Why do Nigerians lie so much like this ? In your write up, you said your friend is VERY RELIGIOUS. So how can a religious person be sex starved ? Truth is you are too canal minded, not religious as you think you are. There are more things to derive joy from than sex.

Because you are spiritual doesn't mean you are always operating in the spirit 24/7 spiritual people need to have conversation, eat, sleep, sex, exercise etc these are all basic needs that the body derives joy in. If a carnal man can be hungry for food same goes for a spiritual man, this goes for all other basic physical needs.

I've said it times and again sex and affection go hand in hand shower your wife with affection sometimes and you get sex sometimes shower her with affection all the time and you get sex all the time. Do tell your friend that it is number one priority to fear God, but in dealing with fellow humans we need wisdom and much more understanding. He needs to get informed on how to love and care for a woman, he needs to know her love language and her most and least important needs. This is not to exonerate the wife ooo she ought not to stave him of sex cos its only a matter of time someone else will help her fulfill her responsibility and trust me wen she finds out it would hurt. The couple in question need to sit down togerther and draft out their needs and how they intend to fulfil them, marriage is not for babies or novices it for the mature who are ever willing to learn and grow.

when we nurture sacred cows this is the corresponding result, the south throw their threats, the north engage in violence, where is our laws? where is justice? why do we go back to long past vomit?

Smart guy he sued them to buy himself time and possibly kill the case. No other court will hear same case unless there is a conclusion of this 1.

GEJ better tread with caution he might just be digging a shallow grave. Jega couldn't get his act in 4 years how will mimiko get his in 28 days? We already have enough trouble already as a country, its best we stick to jega by the way it would be a stupid thing to change inec chairman that will be bad for our already dead international image considering the fact that the international community have been working with jega. Then isn't the inec chairman subject to approval by parliament?

I kind of wonder why white folks don't have spiritual husbands and so on? We need to separate tradition of idol worship and Christianity, first of all any pastor that gives you a message filled with fear is not preaching the gospel, there is nowhere Jesus or the apostles preached and the people became frightened in the bible, instead of telling about spiritual husband or wife why not tell of how we are the bride of Christ. If you are filled with the holy spirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues that means God dwells in your spirit and you can't serve God and be romancing with evil spirits together. Further more what you feed your mind on a full day most times determine what you dream about, if you feed yourself with sexually stuffs you are most likely to dream along dat line, tight clothing too can cause wet dreams.I advice you read more of biology on the issue

HTC one M8

Just maybe you are not showering her wit affection. Sex and affection go hand in hand, the men want sex the women affection, when you please your wife she will most likely return the favour, who knows she may merely be trying to get your attention. Just go and love your wife unconditionaly

if you do not have enough sense to know what you want in a woman then you are not ready for leadership in a home.

A debate is already too late 90% if not 95% of those who want to vote have already made up their mind, the essence of a debate is to espouse the undecided, why debate 10 days to election let me guess to embarrass one or both candidates? Let's face it both men are likely going to goof if they debate I believe GEJ will do worse because he doesn't choose his words wisely (any intelligent person will pick stones in his words, the campaigns and media chats responses are examples) and his team do not help him develop that weakness it gets worse the longer he has to speak. GBM hasn't spoken long enough for his weakness to be properly identified but I think from the 2011 debate I can say his strategy is say as little as possible to trash out the questions.

I was an undecided initially but thanks to the media I've made my choice same goes for most undecided electorates.

slikcipher:
Thses are some trains found in New York city ...... Ya'll should stop taking as if the US and other countries all use high speed trains throughout

When were these trains commissioned? In the 60’s probably if not earlier doing a full overhaul will be waste of resources so they just let them run. The GEJ trains are not bad I think opting for a more fanciful exterior will have done the trick though.

Strides or the money they will drop after the game?

All due respect to GMB but I think he is promising too much than our national purse can carry. From the latest Forbes statistics a coal fired power plant of 750mw running on an efficiency of 71% costs $2.5billion, an hydro electric power plant of 600mw costs $3billion, a nuclear power plant of 1000mw capacity with 91% efficiency costs $7billion. Our external reserve is merely $30billion. The question is how do we bank roll a 22000mw plant in 4 years with the forecast on oil prices? By borrowing or what? I appreciate their enthusiasm and zeal to solve the power problems but 5000mw a year is an Eldorado. This is one of the things prof soludo was trying to pass across to Nigerians in his letter on the state of the economy they can't promise us a journey to space with a lean purse

You just started getting to know who he really is.

History merely repeats itself until men learn from history and take adequate steps to change it.

We need to build a sustainable health insurance structure in this country, I mean if this man hadn't graced the screen of or TV would he be looked at a second time? Secondly is it that our actors live an unhealthy life style or what exactly is the correlations with them and organ failure? I think this should be one of their associations demand to who ever they support at both federal and state levels, not merely what individuals can get

Just the preparation of the hall I watched on the news. had the stench of FG written all over it. A repeat of the 2011 NTA debate will be highly unfortunate and with GMB exit from the debate we have got ourselves same 2011 debate. What we could have done different was a geopolitical zone debate as the campaign trains were in motion handled by the political science departments of universities like uniben Abu unilag unilorin unzik etc there are halls in the universities and sufficient professional to craft questions. The fact is a sitting president can't fail a debate organised by his associates as employees.