₦airaland Forum

Kalatium:
WHY do couples rush to get married based on their age, not based on the quality of their relationship?

You will see someone rushing to get married just because they are 30years old.

seunmsg:
In an unprecedented show of support and national acceptance, High Chief Government Ekpemopolo aka Tompolo today bought the front pages of two national newspapers to congratulate President-Elect, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu on the occasion of his inauguration as the president of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

This massive show of love and support from Niger Delta leaders like Tompolo, Asari Dokubo, Wike, Jonathan etc goes to show that the South South is fully in support of the Bola Ahmed Tinubu Administration. I’m glad the Senate president is going to the region.

Kudos to Tompolo and other Niger Delta leaders for putting the unity and progress of the country ahead of emotional, petty, bigoted and selfish ethno- religious considerations. Their show of southern support and solidarity will never be forgotten.

chisomkachy:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/05/19/court-reserves-ruling-in-atikus-motion-for-live-broadcast-of-proceedings/

promisedwealth:
Good morning Great people and wonderful family, please just like the saying a problem shared it's a problem half solved.

I have been married to my wife for over 6years now we have been through all together we have two kids 4 and a year old .

my business since late 2021 has been rough I lost some money trying out a different business I'm based in the eastern part of the country.

Early last year my mother in law told my wife to come stay with her in Lagos till I can find my self again, they left imo to Lagos on feb. 2022 I have been I contact with them ever since sending money across also it happen that my wife started bringing the idea of myself joining over there in Lagos ( my in law has a little school in Lagos that has been where my wife has been teaching since she left) .

Concerning the relocation I told her it's not easy as I have to look for money to get accommodation, shop to start a business also the money will be much which I can't afford for now during someday last year I told her to come back during one of our discussion she told me she it's not coming to east again I got angry.

I noticed the mother will never allow her leave her school so I kept mute about coming back since I was neither ready yet do we kept on going no issues.

Just this april she changed, hardly pick my call,stop calling me by the pet name she does.

I tried to find out what happened, she told me she wanted a break. I was confused I tried to guess why she came up with that. she needs to seek and know if it's the will of God for our union that's after two kids .

I was lost also I have tried to restore this woman sanity since then till now I have spoken to the mother she it's not saying anything than what ever she decides it's best for her the only once telling me not to worry at the brothers but I'm worried honestly .

I don't want my kids to grow in different homes.

I also tried to make her see this same reason she told me the kids will be fine she's not looking at anything making her decision please I need advise it's my wife under a spell or what.

I don't want to raise ny kids this way please advice please....

Omicronvaccine:
Actress Patience Ozokwor Receives New Appointment From Enugu Governor-Elect

Veteran Nollywood actress, Patience Ozokwor, popularly known as Mama G has been inaugurated in the Enugu State governor-elect, Peter Mbah’s transition committee, IGBERETV reports.

Patience Ozokwor and 63 others were inaugurated into the transition committee. The committee inaugurated on Thursday at the Old Government Lodge GRA, Enugu is expected to develop a policy and action plan for the incoming administration.

Sharing the inauguration photos in a post on her Instagram page, Patience Ozokwor wrote;



https://www.instagram.com/p/CrjKHM9sODr/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

https://igberetvnews.com/1443958/actress-patience-ozokwor-receives-new-appointment-enugu-governor-elect/

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

oxygeng:
the moment regional tantrums came on board.

oxygeng:
your sickly daddy was massively rejected across Nigeria through the ballots. But He stubbornly colluded with greedy yakubu and bought result. The only way you think He can be validated is by mentioning south east/Igbo.

pandoragirigory:
Old man with so much bitterness and indignation, so because Tinubu ignored him, he is running after him

Kwashiman:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/commanding-officer-soldier-15-others-killed-as-herders-storm-benue-lg-again/amp/

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0vkDViRy2x8UBDWVfQR7FF5EgZ5yAABGsFp5q6HCerUCPnMPvmzFEXXsXZ66bRodZl&id=100074492230696&mibextid=Nif5oz

Antimandatethie:
Vanguard

Sunnyshinylight:
Disregard Apapa’s Letter Seeking Withdrawal Of Obi’s Cases Against Tinubu, LP Tells Tribunal

The Labour Party urged the Tribunal to disregard the action by Lamidi Apapa, a suspended Deputy National Chairman of the party.



https://www.channelstv.com/2023/04/25/disregard-apapas-letter-seeking-withdrawal-of-obis-cases-against-tinubu-lp-tells-tribunal/

Yourprick:
https://twitter.com/JohnAshbourne/status/1649167079784734722?t=WFvNg3cmrFP2fHNeUpulUg&s=19

Saw these while scrolling through Twitter, why are they leaving empty?

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

Pussykills:
I have come to the conclusion that I'm addicted to prostitutes. It started in 2010 when I first slept with a hooker. Its 13yrs now and I still patronise prostitutes. I slept with 155 of them, 55 were without protection.

The problem right now is that I don't have that much feelings for the new girl I'm dating. Since she's been in my life I have been able to stop but I noticed my soul still longs to experience that feeling of getting high and banging a hoxx.

In fact, I'm thinking if ending this relationship should be my next line of action.

This is not the first time, my past relationships ended because the feelings weren't there.

What would you suggest? Does sleeping with many partners make one loose the feeling of love? I don't get it, I can't even love, it's not just there.

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/Return-home--for-census-IPOB-urges-Igbos

ganisucks:
https://twitter.com/realkenokonkwo/status/1640675993537921026

benjackugo:
Labour Party's presidential candidate, Peter Obi has explained that the Obidient movement is not about his tribe or religion, IGBERETV reports.

He wrote on his Twitter handle;



https://twitter.com/PeterObi/status/1640101085862850562?t=f1jbQHII4cI7ZrPcVBIu-g&s=19[/quote]Oga Peter is smarter than this naw! It's not rocket science to know that every movement has different followership. There true Obidents, who seek the true change in the country, there are Zombidents that are motivated by ethnic & religious sentiments, we also have Obi supporters who are clout chasers. Every political candidate has these 3 people in her fellowship. It's a little difficult to say for certain the percentage makeup in a followership.

Obi sweeping 90% of the southeastern votes is not merely because of his person, people voted along ethnic lines.

obembet:
Many women have become a single mother today due to mistakes they were force to make by Thier partner.

It's very easy for a man to move one and remarry whenever he desires while many single mothers out there looking for who they will spend the rest of Thier lives with.

So, Should a man be force to marry a lady he impregnated by mistake?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPlm_Yuau7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

NIGERIAJAGAJAGA:
Last last, everybody will be alright. Increasing the price is not my problem because I know some people with low IQ will come online and be shouting that developed countries buys fuel like 1k and blablabla. My issue is, what will be the benefits of the citizens, will salary, both private and government increase with like 200% to sustain families? What will be the advantage citizens will benefit from government? Won't they still embezzle the money and go free? Nigeria need a lot to answer. I dedicate this my FTC to all obidients, batfied and atikulate fans. One Nigeria. God bless us all. But I want to make one thing clear , each and everyone conscience will judge him/her. If truly u want better country for ur next generation, and not for selfish interest, ur conscience will judge u.

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria.

It happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.

I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.

But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

EBMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1441203/nigeria-democracy-agberocracy-apostle-suleman/

lightuplightup:
I was shocked, In my polling Unit at Woji Town Hall . OBio Akpor LGA , WARD 6 Unit 3. The turn out was Extremely low at about 9 am. At the same time on the 25th of February, Everywhere was blocked. It was Over Crowded. Turn out today is like 5% of February 25th .

I just voted , while going home , I observed it was same thing in d other polling Units in my Ward.

These are pictures from different polling units in my Ward

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

Islie:
https://leadership.ng/gbajabiamila-tops-list-of-contenders-for-tinubus-chief-of-staff/

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

OJEEMAH:
This is stale.

Without them, he won Olympics, Copa America and World Cup

Without them, he won the La liga and guided Barcelona to UCL semis.

Now tell us what Ronaldo achieved after he left Kroos, Modric, Benzema, Marcelo and Ramos?

Don’t forget Madrid win UCL without Ronaldo meanwhile Barcelona have not made it pass the group stages since Messi unexpected exit.

obembet:
Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-11839007/Lionel-Messi-accused-disappearing-big-games-PSG-legend-Champions-League-exit.html