₦airaland Forum

krib45:
For foreigners not citizens. $1=1050 naira why won't it be cheap. Minimum wage 30k. Can 30k take care of your feeding alone? Try and use your brain b4 dropping yeye statistics

Israel07:
You're clearly not intelligent, a sophisticated dumb ass. Did you even pass through primary school to be writing nonsense such as this? Damn! Agbadorians are a liability and a hinderance to the progress of this nation. I pity whoever deals in business of any kind with you.
How can he use whatever is obtained by Atiku in the next election if it's different from the initial one submitted under oath? What kind of humans are in this country ffs!

Toks2008:
No sir, he may most likely finish his present 4years cos the supreme court may not grant Atiku permission to add new evidence but will definitely stop him in 2027.

rinzaugustine:
nobody voted for him. If you do free and fair elections electronically like in western countries, out of fifty tinubu cannot win one or did you see any celebration anywhere when Mahmoud declared him abi na spirits vote for him?

Sharmeenator:
Nice input there. Sorry I have been meaning to ask o, the current workers at the refineries, what exactly are their duties? What are they being paid for?

HisSexcellency:
https://leadership.ng/why-nigerias-refineries-will-never-work-obasanjo/

ryloy:
You’re The Only African Leader Biden Has Requested To Meet, US Envoy Tells Tinubu


https://www.channelstv.com/2023/08/27/youre-the-only-african-leader-biden-has-requested-to-meet-us-envoy-tells-tinubu/

Newton2024:
No Allowances Paid For Eight Months; We Are Suffering – N-Power Beneficiaries Write President Tinubu
https://saharareporters.com/2023/08/26/no-allowances-paid-eight-months-we-are-suffering-n-power-beneficiaries-write-president?utm_source=operamini&utm_medium=feednews&utm_campaign=operamini_feednews

nlfpmod:
By Tinashe M Tmukogo:



https://twitter.com/tmukogo/status/1692191844262883719?s=20




https://techcabal.com/2023/08/16/jumia-shares-fall-on-q2-results/

TheSuperX:
Dude no young player will like to play in Saudi Arabia league, they will only go there when they are already in their 30's. do you expect someone like Mbappe or Haaland to move to Saudi? no way unless they are close to retirement.

mayor1814:
Money.

How many player younger than 27 do u see going there to play?

Young superstars like Bellingham, Saka, Musiala, Enzo etc will never go to such a league.

Ehinjuola:
My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they ask him for

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Kuginzi:
https://punchng.com/breaking-port-harcourt-refinery-to-commence-operations-december-tinubu/

DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.

My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.

Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.

Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.

How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that?

xammax:
Hi guys,

So I recently got a job in a big 4 firm. Apparently I’m in tax and I am absolutely not finding it enjoyable.

I’m sad about this because I want to do audit.

I’m only sticking it through, it appears I cannot move in my firm because I just joined and going to a year.

I do want to leave to another big 4 firm to audit as I don’t mind starting over but then I do not know the process of doing this to make this move.

How do I cope with something I absolutely do not find joy in.

Advise…..

Oyindamolah:
From DM

ibrutex:
To the married men and women in the house , let's give them some, not on papers experience which you will never be told before marriage...


Some of these I learnt through a friend....


A) If you (husband) have 5k and the woman has 3k , sum it together in marriage arithmetic , total cash available in that house is 5k, thanks.

B) As a man be prepared to enter kitchen, expecially those early morning cooking, or else be ready to visit mama put..

Keep it rolling......

FuglyGurl:
https://twitter.com/adeyanjudeji/status/1681294059732881409?t=SBxC41EPyc-eqbTkMYsOpw&s=19[/quote]We should sell junk and wait for the junk to miraculously start producing and then remove subsidy. It seems we don't fully understand our present situation, whoever buys our refineries will spend good money to revive what's left of it and sell finished product at profitable price. A sold refinery won't keep the price of fuel low, that's the lie they are selling. Nigeria is too poor a country to be subsiding energy cost, we should only subsidise what has a potential of paying back the subsidy in the long run.

I think the tinubu government should take 10% of its palliative budget and use it to help public transporters convert their cars to LPG, that can help carter for 200,000 public vehicles. LPG cost about 15k for 49 litres which will cover same distance as 40 litres of petrol which cost N22,720 (if one lives in Lagos).

Asquare84:
I doubt if the cousin are from idoma speaking part of benue, if they are idoma's alekwu (gods ) will strike them automatically, immediately they sleep with themsely.

dre11:
…Wants Employers of Labour Relax Age Requirement Pre-condition



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/senate-moves-to-scrap-age-limit-in-job-advertisements-in-nigeria/

dukechilezie:
I'm currently 35 years. I brought up this thread to seek your advice and opinions on the skills I can learn to enable me earn money.
I will really appreciate if the cost and duration it will take me to learn this skills.

nlfpmod:
https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1681333897865445376

Do you agree with Reno?

Englishisamust:
How can a single person manage a 150k salary job in lagos. Considering house rent and a lot of expenses that are high here in lagos??

I need your input guys!!!

Kalatium:
WHY do couples rush to get married based on their age, not based on the quality of their relationship?

You will see someone rushing to get married just because they are 30years old.

seunmsg:
In an unprecedented show of support and national acceptance, High Chief Government Ekpemopolo aka Tompolo today bought the front pages of two national newspapers to congratulate President-Elect, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu on the occasion of his inauguration as the president of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

This massive show of love and support from Niger Delta leaders like Tompolo, Asari Dokubo, Wike, Jonathan etc goes to show that the South South is fully in support of the Bola Ahmed Tinubu Administration. I’m glad the Senate president is going to the region.

Kudos to Tompolo and other Niger Delta leaders for putting the unity and progress of the country ahead of emotional, petty, bigoted and selfish ethno- religious considerations. Their show of southern support and solidarity will never be forgotten.

chisomkachy:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/05/19/court-reserves-ruling-in-atikus-motion-for-live-broadcast-of-proceedings/

promisedwealth:
Good morning Great people and wonderful family, please just like the saying a problem shared it's a problem half solved.

I have been married to my wife for over 6years now we have been through all together we have two kids 4 and a year old .

my business since late 2021 has been rough I lost some money trying out a different business I'm based in the eastern part of the country.

Early last year my mother in law told my wife to come stay with her in Lagos till I can find my self again, they left imo to Lagos on feb. 2022 I have been I contact with them ever since sending money across also it happen that my wife started bringing the idea of myself joining over there in Lagos ( my in law has a little school in Lagos that has been where my wife has been teaching since she left) .

Concerning the relocation I told her it's not easy as I have to look for money to get accommodation, shop to start a business also the money will be much which I can't afford for now during someday last year I told her to come back during one of our discussion she told me she it's not coming to east again I got angry.

I noticed the mother will never allow her leave her school so I kept mute about coming back since I was neither ready yet do we kept on going no issues.

Just this april she changed, hardly pick my call,stop calling me by the pet name she does.

I tried to find out what happened, she told me she wanted a break. I was confused I tried to guess why she came up with that. she needs to seek and know if it's the will of God for our union that's after two kids .

I was lost also I have tried to restore this woman sanity since then till now I have spoken to the mother she it's not saying anything than what ever she decides it's best for her the only once telling me not to worry at the brothers but I'm worried honestly .

I don't want my kids to grow in different homes.

I also tried to make her see this same reason she told me the kids will be fine she's not looking at anything making her decision please I need advise it's my wife under a spell or what.

I don't want to raise ny kids this way please advice please....

Omicronvaccine:
Actress Patience Ozokwor Receives New Appointment From Enugu Governor-Elect

Veteran Nollywood actress, Patience Ozokwor, popularly known as Mama G has been inaugurated in the Enugu State governor-elect, Peter Mbah’s transition committee, IGBERETV reports.

Patience Ozokwor and 63 others were inaugurated into the transition committee. The committee inaugurated on Thursday at the Old Government Lodge GRA, Enugu is expected to develop a policy and action plan for the incoming administration.

Sharing the inauguration photos in a post on her Instagram page, Patience Ozokwor wrote;



https://www.instagram.com/p/CrjKHM9sODr/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

https://igberetvnews.com/1443958/actress-patience-ozokwor-receives-new-appointment-enugu-governor-elect/

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?