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jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

The problem is that the two of you do stay way from sex for long, he doesn't have any problems at all, you as a guy have not had sex for a long time as three months, 30 sec is even too long to ejaculate, but when you do it very often then he would be able to last for a long time.

So I will advice you move in back to the room with him and let your baby stay in the other room , you can always check your baby from time to time.

But on the other hand if he is sleeping out and have this problems of quick ejaculations then he may have an infection that need to be treated, you may also check yourself.

[quote author=honourhim post=60645717]Your feelings about igbos doesn't matter. They dont come to your land for any other reason than to make money from opportunities which you that claim its your land cant see and are not making use of.

If you can't give them quit notice to leave your land that means you are not the owner of the land you claim to be yours.

Arewa boys tried it and when they saw that they lacked the powers to send Igbo away they changed. Today they are the ones begging igbos not to go. Igbo have the right to hold their Igbo day in Rivers state. Until the constitution is amended, nobody owns any land in Nigeria. [/quote

You don't seem to understand me, what is the reason for saying they should not host it in Rivers state, I don't care about your agitation or your business, those saying don't host here should have a reason for that, you don't tie everything to your agitation.

You guys are very selfish and self centered you think only about yourself and others don't matter, whenever somebody says something concerning the igbos then it has to do with Biafra, you don't ever want to look at the merits of the persons claim.

If you guys continue on this path it will lead to your distruction

honourhim:
The plan by Ohanaeze Ndigbo to hold the 2017 Igbo day celebration in ph has been kicked against by some indigenes of Rivers state who have some (useless) hatred on the igbos.
In a radio program held to senstize the masses on the upcoming event, Some callers of Rivers state origin, especially the Ikwerre people, kicked against it with hate speech while some others welcome it.

My question to those against the plan is this-

1. If you were governor Wike would you have cancelled the plan to host the event in ph knowing fully well that this people are your political ally who have given you political support in the past and present?

2. If you are an Igbo living in ph and Wike cancels the celebration would you still vote for him in 2019 and even beyond? The answer is NO.

If Wike does that it will be a fatal error on his political calculation knowing very well that Igbo population in Rivers state is quite huge.

3. Immediately he does that, the APC in Rivers state will cash in on that and bash him (Wike) in the media in order to win the sympathy of Igbo voters.

You people should always think before you talk in public. Wike is an Ikwerre man but cannot survive in politics with only Ikwerre people around him and i believe he understands the game.
I am not his fan though and i am not an APC too but i know that he has huge supporters among the Igbos in Rivers state. The boys in Ikoku does not waste time to support him when you argue Rivers politics with them. I tried it severally and they never wanted to hear that Wike is not doing well at all so i left them.
How will those guys feel if Wike reject the celebration in ph?

Left with me Ohanaeze should relocate the event to another place since the hosting is rotational. It was held in Asaba peacefuly but since this people are kicking, kindly relocate.

I believe the first question you should ask is why they don't want them to host it Port Harcourt before you start linking Wike and politics.

You should know that everyone is trying to stay far away from the igobs because of this Biafra agitation, I don't know but you ask or find out why.

beamtopola:
why is he not seated close to world leader, why is he sitting with black people.

You don't even know is how the sitting arrangement is out there, that is Nigeria delegation and they a!L sit together, if you look behind you will see Qatar name tag.

Balkan:
No single igbo man on his crew.
Na wahooo. Python dance against the Igbos is at all levels

Is Igbo the only tribe in Nigeria and must everything start and end with you guys, you are now beginning to sound like a broken record, the Support you agitation used has started to reduce because of careless statements from people like you, which you got from your leader

mckazzy:
Kindly help me schooled that imbecilic bigot.

Dont mind them, everything must be about the ibos now in this country

Balkan:
No single igbo man on his crew.
Na wahooo. Python dance against the Igbos is at all levels

The minister for Foreign affairs is from where? You're fighting for Biafra and you don't even know your ministers, I can see how educational informed you're. Your minister for Foreign affairs is Geoffrey Jideofor Kwusike Onyeama, he is a confirmed Igbo man from Enugu state

DrGoodman:
Another afonja writeup.

You guys will never learn, I believe your destination is the grave or potopoto, he has just told you how the whole issue is and you're still here saying afonja write up.

Even you so called Ojukwu ran away, so who is NK we don't know from anywhere, you guys should receive small sense.

You can see how is actions will cause a lot of Igbos discomfort for a long time, everywhere around the world. When we talk you rush to insult us, now no more flags or IPOB emblem, if not the money meant to work roads will be used to build prisons for you guys

freedomforall30:
I see 20 billion Niara lawsuit for property destruction coming. How can a government behave like a criminal? Haba, even if people who don't support IPOB will see this as barbaric.

Who told you that? Are you're trying to get more Support, it is better he runs away and lose little which he caused than for millions of igobs to loss their lives and businesses

Sempumping:
Mr Eazi's linkedln profile claims the music icon is only a big liar ... He was only an intern at the organisation and spent 6 months ..

If schlumberger pays 2million naira monthly for undergraduate intern ,I can imagine how much a manager would earn

Which one be intern ? Na Us we dey call am IT( Industrial attachment)

princessco:
Oby Ezekwesili, former minister of education, has warned President Muhammadu Buhari to avoid making the mistake of ostracising the entire Igbo ethnic group over the agitations of the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB).

Reacting to the military’s Operation Python Dance in the south-east region and the present state of unease in Abia, Ezekwesili said Buhari as a leader “must build a bond” with all his people.

She said all the people in the north can’t be categorised as Boko Haram insurgents, and as such, the people of the south-east do not deserve to be treated as “incendiary agitators”.

Ezekwesili, co-convener of the Bring Back Our Girls group, said it is unbecoming of a leader to “send signals” that he abhors a group of people under his leadership.

In a series of tweets directed at Buhari, she said: “Do not alienate the entire Igbo ethnic group cos of a few that govt can use appropriate mechanisms to respond to any misconduct.

“All people of north-east Nigeria are not equal to Boko Haram. All people of south-east Nigeria cannot be equal to incendiary agitators.

“The leader of a country cannot be friends only of those he/she likes. No. That is not leadership. The leader builds up groups. Not divide.

“You cannot lead only those that worship and swear by you. You are the leader. You must carry the burden even of those that detest you.

“It the lowliest form of churlishness that is unbecoming of a leader to send signals that you dislike anyone of the groups you lead.

“A real leader does not suffer from the destructive disease of ethnic prejudice. It endangers his/her people & real leaders cannot bear such.”


http://www.naijanewspapers.com.ng/2017/09/ezekwesili-warns-buhari-do-not-alienate.html

Now you're warning Buhari, but you supported him 2015, shame on you all, I am not for Biafra, put like you Oby are sellouts

stane007:
Nigeria singer, Mr Eazi in a recent interview has revealed he had to dump his job which paid him about six thousand dollars (About 2 Million Naira) per month in order to find fulfillment in music.

Most people didn’t believe he could leave such good job for music, so he has shared this throwback photo to prove he wasn’t lying.

http://www.lailasblog.com/mr-eazi-shares-throwback-picture-6000-per-month-job-dumped-music/


https://www.instagram.com/p/BZANcUfgDhx/?hl=en

Guy you be Technician awaiting confirmation, from you outfit it very obvious, it is international staff that can get close to that, not a local breed like you, show us your payslip, then we go believe you.

stane007:
Nigeria singer, Mr Eazi in a recent interview has revealed he had to dump his job which paid him about six thousand dollars (About 2 Million Naira) per month in order to find fulfillment in music.

Most people didn’t believe he could leave such good job for music, so he has shared this throwback photo to prove he wasn’t lying.

http://www.lailasblog.com/mr-eazi-shares-throwback-picture-6000-per-month-job-dumped-music/


https://www.instagram.com/p/BZANcUfgDhx/?hl=en

Show us your payslip then we would believe you were paid that amount, to the best of my knowledge if you're based in Port harcourt then you are a National staff and would not be paid in dollars but if you're an international staff which you have not told us then you would be paid in dollars.

But from what I see you are a local National staff, even on contract, and the pay for national staff is not up 1 million and if you're contract then it is far less.

I would only believe when you show us a copy of your payslip

Mrrationalshop1:
Source: http://RationalTV..in/2017/09/rationaltv-i-quit-my-2-million-naira.html

https://silverbirdtv.com/sites/default/files/field/image/MR-EAZI-2.jpg

Which company for Port Harcourt ?

lafflaff123:
Fake News everywhere.

Believe this story at your own peril. How can Abba Kyari become Vice President when we have the Senate President? and the Speaker of the House?Nigeria is still a Democracy in case the people spreading this fake News don't know.

It is not compulsory that they must be picked to be the Vice President, it all depends on the new President if he likes anyone of them he can asked them to join him but if not they remain where they're, you can even be picked to be the Vice, have you forgotten what happened during Jonathan's time when he went for sambo.

tensazangetsu20:
Read my comment again and digest it. The system of governance we practice in Nigeria is a unitary system the states are not autonomous. And besides is it the state that will open seaports and airports for them. India one of the most diversified countries in the world has 13 seaports spread across the coast and over 200 mainland ports. Why should Nigeria have one seaport?

I understand your comments well, but India you're using as a model didn't just build those see ports over night, despite the kind of system of governance, it still doesn't stop the various states I am not limiting this to the eastern Governors alone but all Governors to utilise the resources they have judiciously no matter how small it will go a long way in aliviating poverty. The system of government doesn't justify for corruption, we have seen communist and mornachy kind of government do well, whatever the kind of government as long as the leaders are sincere things will work out.

So in summary the our agitation should be centered towards good governance, fight against corruption, free and fair elections good health facilities upgrade in our educational facilities and a lot more, Biafra is not the answer and will never be, the mind set of Nigerians is still the same call it North, south, east, West, moving away will stop the rich from hijacking the system and continue the same way and they know it is the truth.

tensazangetsu20:
Nigeria doesn't operate a true fiscal federal system and that's why everyone calls the federal government.

It's is sickening, I don't understand why these guys in the east will not start by asking their various states Governors how they spend the monthly allocation, IGR and loans borrowed from banks, but just disturbing everyone say they want Biafra, when most of their is caused by they themselves.

I just wish they can receive sense and start holding their respective Governors accountable.

free2ryhme:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2017/09/12/ohanaeze-asks-fg-to-end-military-harassment-in-seast/

Call Nnamdi Kanu to order first.

divinehand2003:
What about the spiritual cleansing that the chief priest proposed to perform on her to prevent her male partners from dying?

Why are you asking? The Oni has said she's free you're talking about chief priest, all that must have been done, or you want to be invited for the cleansing ceremony? Or are you interested in her ?���

LIFEisSIMPLE:
Clashes everywhere. I repeat
An agitation is meant to be addressed, and the way the Nigerian Government is approaching this is wrong
kanu was not born when the biafran war started, but the seed of the struggle was planted in him as a youth.
The seed of the biafran struggle has been planted in the hearts of kids and teenagers in the east and the only way to stop the impending arrival of biafra is by addressing this agitation.
Else a 3yr old kid today will pick up the Barton and do greater than Kanu.
Address the Agitation, Address the Agitation
Ndigbo still cry of honest marginalization 50 years later.
Addressing this agitation is the only hope for stopping Biafra
Ndigbo are a peaceful people in all honesty

I really don't seem to understand what you guys want the Federal Govt to do for you guys in the east , why can't you guys hold your various Governors responsible for your problems, why must everyone one be crying federal government everytime, I believe if this energy they use in fighting the federal government is directed at the Governors, they the Governors will sit up.

It is not the Federal governments that have marginalised the igbos, but the igbos themselves, check how much each and every Governor from the east have collected since 1999 and the development what have they done, we should direct our fight to the right people which is the state government. All resources to develop the states have been given to them and they mismanage them, then we shout federal government, look at what Rochas is doing in Owerri, is Buhari or the north the ones that asked him to do that, I don't think so.

9japrof:
Hehehehe, all these nonsenses they do in weddings these days which no dey even guarantee that the marriages would last.

Nice one from the father in-law jaree, all these rubbishes are kinda awkward abeg

Thank you for your reasonable comment, is that the only thing we can copy from the whites, the father did very well, I don't support all this nonsense we do these days and say we are getting married, why would any right thinking person go underneath the wife in the presence of people to use his mouth to collect something from the wife's leg, that is rubbish we are Africans and our way of doing things is different.

Do you think the father of the girl will ever respect the son in law again after seeing that, we need to grow up and stop all this nonsense

gare:
The chairman of the Presidential Advisory Committee Against Corruption (PACAC), Professor Itse Sagay, says he will never speak about Nnamdi Kanu again - Sagay reveals he was threatened sometime ago when he spoke against the Biafran agitation - He adds that he had to engage the services of security agents The chairman of the Presidential Advisory Committee Against Corruption (PACAC), Professor Itse Sagay, has revealed how he had to engage the services of security agents for protection after he was threatened for speaking against Nnamdi Kanu, the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB). Read more: https://www.naij.com/1124513-how-unknown-persons-threatened-life-speaking-kanu-sagay.html?source=notification

But na who send you can't you just keep that your big mouth for one place, is that the mandate given to you, despite the fact that I don't like them (IPOB), I support them on this one, na corruption matter be this, just learn to respect yourself you must not talk on every issue, everywhere you want to put mouth, well I know blame you that you big lips need to talk from time to time make the lips no go enter recession

The chairman of the Presidential Advisory Committee Against Corruption (PACAC), Professor Itse Sagay, says he will never speak about Nnamdi Kanu again - Sagay reveals he was threatened sometime ago when he spoke against the Biafran agitation - He adds that he had to engage the services of security agents The chairman of the Presidential Advisory Committee Against Corruption (PACAC), Professor Itse Sagay, has revealed how he had to engage the services of security agents for protection after he was threatened for speaking against Nnamdi Kanu, the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB). Read more: https://www.naij.com/1124513-how-unknown-persons-threatened-life-speaking-kanu-sagay.html?source=notification

Bravo123:
https://www.google.com.ng/amp/punchng.com/cjn-okonjo-iweala-fayemi-fayose-others-under-probe-efcc/amp/

If this Govt want us to take the. Seriously then everybody that has a case to answer should be on that list whether APC or PDP, when. I say everybody I mean everybody no exclusion, if the EFCC is under staffed they can ask the FBI to help them out, because if they are really serious about fighting this corruption then our EFCC alone can't handle it.

IBpaul:
Breaking...
Ebonyi PDP youths in desperation to stop Apc from having a solidarity rally for Mr. President, went and Tip sand at the middle of road and also burning of tyres .
When donpedrokoncept and team arrived the scene, they saw APC youths shouting: Ebonyians are saying no to 150million naira loan.

http://donpedrokoncept..co.ke/2017/09/ebonyi-apc-youth-and-pdp-youth-clashes.html?m=1

Lalasticlala

Are these ones not for Biafra, because I can't see any Igbo man in APC for Biafra, make una dey mini unaselves.

EmeeNaka:
President Buhari's plan to suffocate the SE will fail.
when we were listing his nepotistic activities as a Head of state and PTF chairman, some APC zombies said we should be ignored but now, it's clear to everyone what and where Buhari stands for.
People should not be so much bothered, Buhari can only stay for 8years maximum and get out of Aso rock. Many of us will outlive him and his administration.

Stop making it a south east issues you guys are so selfish, there are other regions involved and you come here to say it's the south east only, that is why you guys can never achieve your Biafra dreams because of your selfish acts.

Instead putting heads together to see how this anormally can be corrected you want to make it a south east problem only, what about the south south, south west, middle belt.

lloydtruth:
Oh I see how you perfectly understand another man's course, I am jobless because my opinion differs from yours, according to you i'll be killed because I am fighting a course that does not concern you. I are the person without sense for following igbo topics around and wishing igbos to be killed. Referendum will come for biafra and you and your likes that have criticized the movement will shameful line up to also benefit from the referendum.

For your information I don't stand to benefit anything from your selfish agenda, stop having so much because you guys will be disappointed at the end,

gare:
He is not giving anybody nightmares so do not get your hopes so high nothing will happen my only concern is just the ignorant zombies dancing around with him that will be hurt or killed in the process.

You guys should receive a little sense and ask for your Biafra in a very civil way, if you bring force you will loose and regret ever starting it.

You guys are just jumping around shouting No elections in Anambra state, but don't understand that will be the beginning and the end of your struggles, if you guys go around harrassing voters not to vote or threaten them I pity you guys, with that the government will have every right to release it full arsenal on you guys then the rest will be history.

Mind you, your Leader and it zombies are not above the law it can catch up with you guys anytime, UN, ICC, USA or EU can't do anything.

I beg you guys to have a rethink and direct all your energy and time for us to correct the wrongs of this country and move ahead. I do have a story to tell of my experiences with the Ibo guys in the marketplace yesterday of this Biafra issue but I leave that for another day.

timsTNA:
A common criminal that is giving you and your zombie-in-arms nightmares

He is not giving anybody nightmares so do not get your hopes so high nothing will happen my only concern is just the ignorant zombies dancing around with him that will be hurt or killed in the process.

You guys should receive a little sense and ask for your Biafra in a very civil way, if you bring force you will loose and regret ever starting it.

RNGP:
BIAFRA: WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO NIGERIA IF I’M RE-ARRESTED, SAYS – NNAMDI KANU DARE BUHARI.

Leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, Mazi Nnamdi Kanu has vowed that Nigeria will burn if the Federal Government goes ahead to re-arrest him.

Kanu was reacting to the recent moves by the Nigerian government to arrest him for breaching his bail condition.

Speaking with Sun, the IPOB leader said he would resist every attempt to silence him, arguing that he has not committed any offence that could lead to his rearrest.

He said, “I don’t care! Quote me verbatim. If I’m re-arrested, this country will burn, I assure you. From where that oil money they depend on, they can no longer have access to it. I assure them that.

This is not empty threat. We’re IPOB, we don’t abandon our own.

“I will sacrifice anything, including my family to ensure that Biafra is restored. Any obstacle on my way will be obliterated. I’m not asking for Sokoto; I’m not asking for Kaduna, or Borno, I said this very land where my progenitors raised us; the land of our ancestors; of over 5, 000 years old, this land must be free, absolutely free, I assure you of that. The way we were before the whiteman came; had the white man not come, I would have no relationship with Sokoto, non whatsoever.

“The whiteman is not God, only God can create a nation, Lord Luguard is not God, only God can create a nation. I can tell you the day Nigeria was created even till the exact second and hour, but you can’t tell me when Biafra was created. It came as a result of organic interaction of cultures and value systems and traditions fussed into one to make Biafra a possibility, that is how nations emerge.

“By the collision of commonalities and value systems, not one idiot somewhere pontificating and dictating to us who should be in a country or not. Other African people can accept it, Nnamdi kanu cannot accept that.

“The whiteman is not God and cannot create a country for me. Have Nigerians sat round the table to say we have agreed that our name is Nigeria? We want to live together; perhaps, there will be a strong argument against what I’m proposing. Right now, what we are seeking to do is go back to where we were before 1914. From there, we can then begin to negotiate and discuss.”

NK please don't be give yourself too much hope if you're re arrested nothing will happen, let me tell you what you will lead some people to early grave some others will be arrested along with you, the whole south east will be declared as a state of emergency after which your people behind will sacrifice you for peace and normalcy to return back to the east, mark my words this thing go do you like dream try recieve small sense now

lloydtruth:
Every dick and Tom now mentions hate speech up and down, between those who divided the country by 97%/5% and those agitating for their freedom who is really is guilty of hate? Between those encourage the Nigerian forces to kill unarmed protesters and those who are protesting for the freedom who is guilty of hate? Between those in authority who have taken nepotism to unimaginable level and those speaking against marginalization who is guilty of hate? Between those who defends dreaded groups like boko haram, Fulani herdsmen, arewa youths and those those who are seeking to be free from these people who is really guilty of hate, between those who can never invest in other parts of the country except their region and those who have investments in every regions who is really guilty of hate? Between those who mischievously interpret call for referendum as call to war and those who genuinely seek referendum who is really guilty of hate. Tell me how the igbos are guilty of hate and I'll tell Yorubas, Hausas, and Fulanis are hate themselves. Waiting for you to tell me how we are guilty of hate, you peopl

e are also the ones to create threads up and down against igbos yet you talk about hate.

To you everybody is tom dick and Harry because you're fighting a useless course that you don't even understand, go and check history nothing will happen if he is arrested it just a few jobless guys like you that will be killed because you all lack sense