₦airaland Forum

Mine is deep ooo. Life has shown me that it's not of him that willeth or of him that runneth but of God that showeth mercy!

Upon all the things I did to girls, God still blessed me with a good woman in 2011. I will forever remain grateful to God!

Jokers everywhere!

Chai!

The question is, as an African American lady, if you eventually find that genuine African man who is ready to settle down with you and give your home peace of mind. Will you be submissive to him, will you be a true African woman, will you give him peace of mind, or will remember feminism, will you value marriage and what it stands for?

It's painful to see all these old fools strategizing here and there, just to seize power come 2023. But they can't use the same might to do something about the height of insecurity we're facing in the country.

The citizens they are planning to rule are being butchered everyday unabated. Is there any part of this country that is safe as of today?

Two military officers, a man and his fiancee where slaughtered like chicken in IMO State, they cut out their private parts like suya meat. And the government is keeping aloof, because it's not their family members.

This same military officers will be the one to guard them in seat of power.

How did we get here as a country? Who really bewitched us? The problem is that most of the youths are all over, singing the praises of these same fools playing draft with our lives. When are we supposed to wake from this sleep, please when?

Which kind wahala we con enter for Nigeria self!

This is Nigeria! We don't have time for dogon turenchi! Who do you expect to read all these your long write-up?

Imagine, tomorrow such persons will come to social media and be shouting that marriage is a scam. Not knowing he's the one scamming himself all around.

Nyascobar1414:
Marriage has lost its relevance in the west and its surely coming here.


Ask people staying in Europe and America how many men and women are single

You may know these celebrities in Europe;

Samuel L. Jackson and LaTanya Richardson (40 yrs) in marriage

Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson married in 1988 and are still together.

Ringo Starr and Barbara Bach married in 1981, about 40 yrs and still in marriage.

Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn married for over 37 yrs, still counting.

Brad Hall and Julia Louis-Dreyfus married in 1987, still together.

Steven Spielberg and Kate Capshaw (1991) till date

Sting and Trudie Styler (1992) and still together.

Obama's, TD Jakes etc......

In the midst of what you think is not working, there are thousands of examples of it working out there. The way you made your bed is the way you will lay on it.

Inukwa!

In this season of hardship, you're gathering and combining all these Fish, Meat, Kpomo and others in one pot of soup. Then why are you complaining? Abi you want those who don't have half of those ingredients in their meal to go and die?

Fear God oooo....

ExcelDBM:
Was it not the same Eve that contributed greatly to the fall of man? What are you saying oga?

Is it the same Eve that's contributing to the fall of men today? The people that are suffering in marriage today is it Eve that caused it, what about men and women enjoying marriage today who should we credit it to?

We are quick to always blame someone else for something that's not working right. God created and gave each of us will power, you choose what you want in life, but we forgot that there's always a repercussion for all of our choices.

Drella:
Things have changed now.
Is the way Eve acted towards Adam the same way women of nowadays are acting towards their husbands?

In those days,women were super submissive.But now,women are covert and overt feminists.
Adultery was punishable then,but now? It's a thing done in the open.
Back then,people were preserving their bodies and marrying as virgins but now?Even underage are having sex.

Marriage has lost it's relevance abeg!

As you made your bed so shall you lay upon it. Salt is sweet yet the seller never finished selling it at one seating in a market, And All that glitters is not Gold!

He who seeks a Godly woman/man to marry must first be Godly himself. Nothing has changed from the days of Adam, but unless God decides to show you mercy, everyone must reap what he/she sows.

Marriage has not and will NEVER lose its relevance.... Gold is never found easily, and it's never kept carelessly. It takes a lot of hard work to get pure Gold. Moreover, who can operate a sophisticated electronic successfully without the manufacturer manual? God's word is our manual, it tells us how to LOOK BEFORE WE LEAP!

For the fact that you listed all these points And you still think and talk about marriage, it then means you are seeking for who will advice you against the right thing to do.

Irrespective of wrong advices you will read from this Nairaland, be reminded that God your creator sees marriage as good. He said it's not good that a man should be alone. If God said singleness is not good, and he made it good by providing Eve to Adam as a wife. Are you the one that will now say marriage is not good?

If you find your real wife/husband all these complains you listed will disappear.

Finally!

That's why Nigeria won't move forward. They will keep on throwing Money away, and you will think they don't know what they are doing. Only to start recuperating their loses at any possible means as soon as new government is formed, all at the expense of suffering masses.

You won't know what you enjoy in having freedom until you're caught in one form of illegality or the other. Peace of mind is worth more than a house full of Gold but in turmoil.

The question is, can we learn from this guy's mistake? Try and hussle for something genuine and keep asking God to bless your endeavours. Crime will always return you back to level one.

Foolish man

A dying man's action! Even if he dies his children will definitely bear the brunt!

Imagine!

So that's enough reason to start crying foul play? Look for the book called 5 love language and read it. What you call love language may not be the same to your wife, so please stop freaking around.

Supposed your marriage is working and the only issue is that she never posted your pix on he DP, are you going to follow many wrong advises on this Nairaland to sow seeds that will gradually destroy your home? Be warned, it's not everything you seek advice from social media.

Hope she hard other things to offer than her sexy body? Sexy body go soon fade ooo!

On a thanksgiving party of her Aunt. I was hoping to catch her, chop and clean mouth as usual, then move on to the next person. But she proved a hard nut to crack. Gradually I began to develop genuine love for her. I finally proposed to her and she said yes after much shakara.

I actually married her a virgin. And, from the moment I met her, I lost interest in womanising. And since that 2011 till date, I only drink water from my cistern alone.

Your home is blest!

They suddenly become humble whenever election is by the corner. You can't give what you don't have, no matter how you try. They are not known to be humble men, talk more of when you give them power. Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts..........

My problem now is that we have refused to wise up, some people are still singing their praises, thinking it's all about tribe and language. Are we really bewitched?

May God help us to make the right decision this time around!

Really? Grasshopper is burning and it thinks its producing oil.

Many men are so rich that all they have is money. I pray they don't wake up one money and discover that all they gave up their minds to pursue in lifetime is something that would end its value with time(Money).

There's a day in every man's life that money will be useless, only your soul is then the only useful thing.

Pursue money but don't forget that day too.

Wealth gained hastily will dwindle, but whoever gathers little by little will increase it.( Prov 13:11)

Whoever is greedy for unjust gain troubles his own household, but he who hates bribes will live. (Prov 15:27)

Whoever works his land will have plenty of bread, but he who follows worthless pursuits will have plenty of poverty. (Prov 28:19)

He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity. (Eccl 5:10)

“Gambling is the child of avarice, the brother of iniquity, and the father of mischief.” – George Washington

Gambling is a sickness, a disease, an addiction, an insanity, and is always a loser in the long run.

When you have greed you will always lose more than you gain. Gambling is bad for your health and it violates many Scriptures as seen above. Seek hard work and trust in the Lord with your income and your home, and it shall be well with you.

He did both. In Math 26:24, it says "The Son of man goeth as it is written of him: but woe unto that man by whom the Son of man is betrayed! it had been good for that man if he had not been born".

Judas was unwittingly fulfilling a prophecy about how Jesus will die. Judas was just after the money, his mind was that Jesus would still do miracle afterwards and disappear from the Roman soldiers.

Judas later rejected the money, and killed himself, because what he expected was not what eventually happened to Jesus.

You have really captured your argument with the right scenarios, but you didn't put the position of God in all this. Man propose but God opposes.

Yar'Adua never knew he would would become President. Jonathan has no plan of being a Vice President but he ended up being President.

If it pleases God that both PYO and BAT will not be, no one will oppose it

When God turns the captivity of Zion we are like them that dreams.

No! A young President will hand over to Atiku on 2031

Aonkuuse:
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We will see how organised they are when they first deal with issues of insecurity in this country. Wether PDP or APC, they are all the same. Organised my foot!

KEEP QUIET! It will be better if all of you Retired Generals should keep quiet. Your grand master has spoken, and we are seeing him in action already.