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@Mozilla

You are a perfect liar! I just came across this whilst using the system. Guessed you forgot to log and figured out it was u my husband!

@Nlanders,

Theres absolutely no truth in what mozilla just said. Whilst we were courting i met his Elder Brother who finished univeristy in 2000 and has NEVER worked. I helped him secure his first job in life in 2006 which he is still doing to this very moment. The brother had been living with him all the while.

Whilst courting the Elder brother was always in our company when we go shopping even when we were going for MARRIAGE COUNSELLING!!!!!!! Hubby has other brothers but this Elder one is so attached to him and he doesnt have limit,

Anytime i pointed it out to my husband he says you hate him, you hate my family and i stop compalining and kept mute.


I was surprised that even after getting married the elder brother was still living in the house and there was no sign of making moves to leave the house and husband didnt bother as he cannot tell his brother the truth that it was wrong. Imagine a newly wedded, with the Husband's Elder brother in the house (ladies would underrstand better), not that he didnt have money he was working but he didnt feel any need as we got along until i couldnt tolerate it anylonger that was when he moved and i apologised the day he moved out if i have wronged him in any way,   

He moved closed to our house and always wanted a free lift to work,  i have never complained (because if i did hubby will say you hate my bro) -I guess he wont go to work since his brother isnt around now though hes got my hubbys's car to himself now

My husband started extra-marital affairs 4 months after marriage, i called the girl and told her to keep off if she knows what its good for her politely. The girl called me back apologising that shes sorry that My hubby never mentioned he was Married besides he never wore a ring whilst they had an affair!

MOZILLA FOR YOUR INFORMATION, I DONT HATE YOUR MOTHER AND ANY MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY,
There's a limit to everything!!!

We dont communicate as Couple should, I had a Baby here in the UK, I called his Mother and one of his brothers to tell them. His Elder Brother didnt call me up till this very moment to congratulate me and hubby didnt see anything wrong with it.

None of his family members has even picked up to call to say hi to me up to this very moment instead they keep flashing him and he calls back immediately they need money, mama is lonely, mama is sick, they want him to buy car (they will send the money which they havent sent oo), i want to receive some money in your details, whats your bank details etc.

Life in uk is very very easy you know. My family members keep calling me and my hubby to say hi and know how we are doing, 900 pounds was even sent to assist us till we settled and we returned it.

His Elder brother got married after we left and had a baby and told hubby. Hubby called him and his wife. I didnt not! The Brother goes around tell his mummy bad stories about me. shortly before i left nigeria my mother in law called me that my brother in law has been saying bad stories about me that she knows her son and they often dont get along that i should try to tolerate him. which i m doing,. I sincerely do not have anything against his elder brother afterall i called him few days ago when i told my mum the issue on ground and she counselled myself and hubby. i took up the phone and called his elder brother to say hi.

Brother in law complains about me to hubby referring to past happenings whilst he was staying with us, which i apolosed,  hubby sends an email telling him to ignore me and he insulted me too (imagine i thot marriage was about a man clinging to his wife) mine own clings to his brother believing everything he says.

Since the begining of our marriage it has always been about His Elder bro and for weeks he wouldnt talk to him, eat my food, he comes home late, i was pregnant he keeps sending text messages like i regret marrying u, u hate my family, my bro etc) I will just be home alone crying my eyes out. We dont communicate,


All his brothers are working, but everything concerning mama he does everything all alone. His brothers dont contribute a penny (as they all claim they dont have money) hubby isnt the first born ooo, even up to the bed we were sleeping on, mama said she needed a new bed, the elder bro calls to tell him (hubby didnt have money at that time i was heavily pregnant, do you know i gladly gave the bed out to mama and i was sleeping on the floor with pregnancy) if i hated his mum will i? What stops any of his brothers even hes elder one from doing the same.

We have no savings whatever. I am a mother myself and I dont hate his mum for whatever reasons. My point is If any issues arises regarding mumsie call your other brothers make them involved dont keeping doing everything all alone and let your elder brother know theres a limit to everything,


He sends money to his mummy without telling me what really got my annoyed was the fact that i begged him to send even 30 pounds to my folks (its not about the amount but the love behind it) he shouted saying he doesnt have money, remember i sent money to my mum in law before ooo, i got to know when i checked his account. He changed his pin and email password. If you have nothing to hide why did you change you password and pin?

He even went to the extent of installing a spyware software on the system to get my passwords, emails and chats, I discovered that and removed it and asked me why hes doing that?

I am not being bossy or a nagging wife but you have just made up your mind about me, and you are looking for a perfect wife.

It's a shame that you wrote this story on the internet. Every marriage has up and downs and If you want to run away from me and our son, its up to you.

I work so why did you say i dont and pls learn to speak the truth at all times, your story is filled with lots of lies!

Safe trip back home and all the best

Just remember I Love you and always do


@NL,

Please what wrong  have i done? Thanks

coldgate:
True. Not positive at all.I am now a stronger Christian but I must confess, I am too afraid to even contemplate such things now. God help me.

kastonkastrol:
the day adebayor called his mum a witch was the day I lost my respect for him. Nobody fights with his mother and ends up well. Adebayor you need to ask your mother to forgive you even if she was the one that did you wrong

onila:
thanks for yr concern, I appreciate

but yr acting like you have never learnt abt another religion

its a free world, I am old enough to know whats right or wrong

onila:
no difference btw JW and other churches

just more strict abt the new world
just like deeper life

they see no reason to celebrate festivals or events that were not practiced in the bible
like birthdays, valentine, christmas etc

unlike protestants, Catholics, Anglican etc
not everyone takes the holy communion during Easter
only the 110,000 leaders who are meant to represent the new paradise in heaven after the second coming of christ
I never understood that part of the bible until I went to their church

they have a more comfortable, nicer and realistic view of rapture
JW believe you wont go to hell, if yr a sinner when Jesus comes
u still have another chance, if you accept him as yr saviour

unlike protestants who say, if yr a sinner, you will just go to hell, Gbam
if u want to go to heaven, u have to go thru some torture if the heaven have to accept you again like other churches say

Hishuula:
first of all i dont know how to start....i swear to GOD who created me this is not a 419 line ...i was given admission at the polytechnic of ibadan to study accountancy last year and i ve been recieving lecture ever since then but i ve not pay my school fee now.a week before the election holiday i recieve a message from the school telling us (if not me alone) to pay that same week friday..then i was just sweating and had to stop what i'm doing for nothing like just stop and have a sit.so i was thinking of where i can get the money and i went to one politician in my area who is a pdp member.the man promised me after election but he stoped me as i was trying to tell him i need to pay that friday.he told me to go and borrow.he even told me to pray for teslim folarin of pdp.i left and he gave me #500 to take bike ,,,,i left and i went to mr tiamiyu (school bursery) and he told me school fee must be paid but he can only plead at a meeting on monday to extend school fee payments as the govt are yet to pay staff salary **then** (though i know the friday deadline is a lie as i can make the payment very early on monday) i was just looking like a slowpoke as my parents never work for the govt in thier life.i told him and he said he helped like 20 students and he think thats all he can do as im late.....i was feeling something inside me like badluck,,i left and it was monday already so i kept refreshing my account on the school website just to know exactly when my admissions will be forfeited..to my suprise my account ws still there till now ,election result was out and ajimobi was reelected i felt so sad about the promise mr taiwo(politician) made as i go to his house yesterday he told me i already know the result and he said he's sorry i cried as i left even though i'm so strong emotionally but i cnt help as i even want to stop but my body says no,,,i would deny myself crying like that even my friends will...there was a time we went to greet someone who lost his daughter and as we reach the place all my friends started crying and i feel so uncomfortable though i pity the man but that crying is never my thing and on going home i told them my mind that we didn't plan crying as they make me feel like i killed the girl nd they bursted into laughter,that show them who i am emotionally ..i'm not an orphan but i can tell you my dad is stingy and a very typical example of the word stingy.if i was told to describe him in one word i would only think of the word "stingy" but my mum is the only one who has been struggling on how my admission will not be forfeited ,,i can tell you my dad gave me #40 for food in the morning,afternoon is not up to #40 nd evening is #40 again if this is a lie my life should be useless nd i should die prematurely ,i cursed myself because this is very hard to believe ........even my mum collect #40 too ....so nairalanders i need your financial help concerning my admissions pls ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,school website is polyibadan.edu.ng but to log in nd chech my account portal.polyibadan.edu.ng and enter this my logins username = 47543964BC and password=47543964BC NOTE= THE "BC" SHOULD BE CAPITAL LETTERS AND CHOSE FIRST SEMESTER , AND TO CONFIRM I VE NOT PAY THE SCHOOL FEE CLICK HOSTEL FEE AND IT WILL TELL YOU I VE NOT PAY SCHOOL FEE .exam start on the 25 this month and we are to resume today 15/4/2015 ...for GOD'S SAKE help me...........my phone number is =08160763123 account name =OLANREWAJU HABEEB ISHOLA ..account number=0167856305 GTBANK,,,,

emmyskies:
Hello brother, you opened a thread about how GOD answers prayers right? Before nairaland was attacked

prissyluv:
I hardly remember dreams. But I think I had a dream yesterday that scares me.
Looks like in my recent dreams I have been seeing one particular church(dont know the name) that its frontage is now been used as a semi-shrine. It was in my yesternit dreams that I realise it was not once that I have seen that building/church/semi shrine before.

Then,this yesternit's dream happened that a gal(dont know her)asked me to accompany her to a place. On coming back towards a double lane road which we barely passed the church/semi shrine,she asked me do I know what happened to that church i.e why the frontage was turned into a semi-shrine. I cant remember my answer to her but we followed a different lane that will lead to the same part.
Then,after waiting for her to come up quickly,I now saw a liltle baby gal within the age of 2yrs instead of that gal. I was really confused but knew somehow it was her. One thing lead to the other,I started firing prayers to her but surprising she keeps fallen and getting up. It is unlike me in dreams cos I use to have victories in cases like this even when I am drifted from God. I woke up panting seriously when I realised that this gal dont want to die permanently and will overpower me soon.

Pls,I dont know if its malaria oooo but somehow I was really scared and sense it might be a message.
What might be the message if it's message?

SavedbyYaweh:
A flash of what i saw this morning made me come here to write this.
I usually follow this thread from time to time because i have had my own very tough spiritual challenges and God saw me through it all.
I won't forget to mention Bro. Gazillion whom was amongst those who helped me tru dat period.
Not more than five days ago, i wanted to study the word and after praying that God should lead me where to read and where i was led to was Mark 13 from vs 14-27. It was talking about the awful horror that would take place. Unlike me i said some prayer concerning that event.
Fast forward to this morning around some minutes to 8 in the morning, i was half awake half asleep and the flash came just like a dream i was hearing shouts as if it was from afar and then it was coming closer then i started seeing flying objects bigger than planes like all these flying objects that aliens use to fly to earth in all these movies flying all over, there where giant beings that where not human walking around, there was destruction everywhere, i panicked but then i remembered what i read from the Bible which was for everyone to remain where they were. I was sitting on a couch, i just held the person next to me and started singing praises and everything vanished.
All these took place in less than 3 minutes, i jumped up from my bed and had to look for a way to share.
I do not know when this will happen but i just want to use this medium to tell all those waiting on the Lord that are getting weary to stand firm because he is coming soon and for unbelievers to please repent and be prepared for the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ because he is coming soon.
Please if you can share with your family and friends. Thank you.

vindicated:
@gazillion,
You are right about repercussions when seers or spiritualist are visited. When I got pregnant for the first time, I was having horrible dreams that my mum took me to prophetess for prayers. I truly never liked it! But I had to because I was seeing death!

I was not happy in my marriage then because my husband was treating me shabbily. I wept several times and cried to God one midnight, standing naked. I then saw myself crying and complaining to elderly men with white beards, with , one of them was holding a staff, how my husband and in-law treat me. They nodded their heads and told me not to worry, they will look into it.

I got pregnant again, a man appeared to me in my dream, asked me to follow him to my bedroom, I saw my husband sitting, backing us, staring at our closed wardrobe. The tall man went behind his head and removed an object, then went under my matrimonial bed and removed a calabah pot. He then warned me never to visit any seers or spiritualist or prophetess again! If not, the demon attached to my husbands head will return back 10x worst! It was a relative of my husband who wants my husband to neglect me and face them only that did it to me! My husband changed for good and I never visited any seer again!

My cousin once asked his uncle who is a seer how he knows people problems and solution to give. He said, he speaks to the spirit of the individual who will tell him secrets and the solution. That as a person, he did not know anything about another individual. But it always comes at a price! Something must give! The devil never gives anything free!

Saraha1:
Hmmm. A lot have been said on this thread, let those that have hears hear what the children of God have said or will be saying.


In the past have visited places that I ought not to.Never knew I was adding more problem to my situation.

After I gave my life to christ and I started a welfare pryaer lot of things were reveal to me.
It was God grace that deliver me from bondage which I unknowing use my own hands to bring into my life.

I told someone recently if she knew the cause of all this place she is visiting? She said it because I can pray that why am saying all that. That do I think is easy to stay away from visiting those people she is visiting?

Instead of her getting solution reverse is the case and still yet she is not ready to let go of such demonic set of people.

emmasege:
In addition, Nigeria was a voice to reckon with in the international community. I was privileged to travel to some African countries (East & West Africa) during OBJ's time and was amazed that OBJ was greatly adored by fellow Africans. But for BH which makes Nigeria to make the news in the international community, I doubt if most Africans would have been able to name who our President is. OBJ has his many flaws oo, but abeg he's not in the same class as GEJ. E ma fi walahi we Olorun o.

Joel3:
. Its not all about PMs. First where are you currently. this things are about seriousness.

I am not a seer, but can take you to a seer. You want to check about somerhing right?

Joel3:
can someone interpret this dream. It has been giving me a hard time. I dreamt it 1st of january this year.

Bamboo stick.

I saw a bamboo stick that is already cut off for long and suppose to be dried. But start to green and fresh on all it edges. its start to produce new growth on all it body. Like numerous branches about to bring out from all over it. I was confuse while looking at it because bamboo doesn't germinate from it stem just like that.

I thought to my self to put it on soil so that it can germinate properly. I pick up the bamboo and hold it on my palm while looking at it cleanly and then I woke up.

Saraha1:
Have just learnt something new today.

For a long time now, I notice that once I tell people my next step of action, I will never be able to achieve it no matter how hard I tried.
Sometime I begin to even question God on why such incidence happen to me.
Now that I decide keep mute on my personal life to people, they start calling me all stuff of names. But who cares?

The worst part of it is that once you update something new on ur bb or whatapp, friends that does not even care of you exist will start asking unnecessary question. Such as what happening? How is life treating you? Where are you working now? Jesus!!!!!! Wetin?
Well, have decide to ignore any of such question.
Any fellow -fellow power! Oh God my father ! Scatter them by fire.



Lol.

Happy new month in advance.

Victorinox:
@ vindicated

Unfortunately, the background most of us come from mean that there are forces following us, determined not to see us succeed. Even if people become pastors, there may be a shrine in their village that is following them that eventually has to come and collect its dues.
So, the see of witchcraft may be planted, it will allow you to get into a position of responsibility before germinating, or there are those with clear eyes who know what they are involved in, but hold positions in the church.

It was all these things that made me get tired and for a long time I didn’t go to church. I wasn’t backslidden, I just had enough. As well as fighting the family battles, I didn’t want to go to churh to carry another battle. Even now, I avoid churches where there are Nigerians. I am not self-hating (afterall I am on Nairaland) but there are certain issues I don’t joke with.

Even before all this, I remember I one had a dream that the enemy really faced me and in the spirit, they sent a very stout, hefty army officer to come and face me. It is only years after that I realized that the person sent against me was one of my aunts, who my mother helped to come to the UK. There are many other things I could say.

Another time, I found a lady on facebook that I went to primary school with in Nigeria. In those days, we were attracted to each other but it was very innocent. Anyway, I started emailing her, within few weeks, I was seeing her in the dream organizing wedding with me, with some of my aunties who were into witchcraft. That is how I stopped all contact with her and prayed that the Lord destroy every marriage.

Even now with Europeans, I am starting to be careful what I say and to whom, because I notice that anytime I have something good developing and I tell a particular white person (who I thought was a friend) that thing would be aborted. If I go back and trace it, it is like this person only contacts me when something good is about to happen in my life.

There is so much I could say, but time and space would not permit. I just pray the Lord would restore what the enemy has stolen in Jesus' name.

Where did you do your deliverance?

thecommunist:
as an 11 year old boy, i didnt know the implications of that dream and my father did not tell me then neither,he only begged me not to follow my mom anywhere whenever i see her in my dreams. I was really mad at her for leaving me a second time...really sad and mad at her. But years later i knew the meaning of the dream and im thankful she didnt allow me follow her. Yes, i saw her severally in dreams but she kept her distance and won't communicate with me.

vindicated:
I want to use this meduim to advise people to be careful of friends. I know we have heard it several times, but it's never enough! Some friends are monitoring spirits! They will make your life miserable! DON'T eat together with friends! DON'T share things together. Because my next experience will tell you why.

I made a friend in my first year in university. We did everything together. One day I had a dream where a voice told me she was a witch. I ignored it initially, but later confronted her in my naviety. We quarreled and separated. After many years, I saw a vision of my death by car accident. The day it will happen. I went for intensive fasting and prayers, then her spirit spoke out through me! She Never left me all these years! She was a monitoring demon, waiting for the right moment to strike! What of the challenges I have to face? Nothing came easy for me! Whenever it got to my turn, it's another story entirely! After my Intensive deliverance, there were big changes in my life.

thecommunist:
I lost my mom when I was 11 years old, it was a very difficult time for my young mind at that time because of the trauma. One day we were told to buy some materials for project in school, I told my dad and he refused to buy it for me, I was really sad. When i went to bed that night, I saw my mom in my dream and I started asking her why she had to leave me, I was so happy to see her and I told her that dad refused to buy the project materials needed in school for me. She told me not to worry and she gave me everything that my dad refused to buy for me. After playing with me and petting me, she told me its time for her to leave ...and thats when the wahala started. I panicked and started to cry, begging her not to leave me again. She told me she has no choice and must leave immediately, that was when I held on to her and wouldn't let her go. By then she was in a hurry to leave, it was like she was late for something and really needed to go immediately. I wouldn't let her go ooo, I just held on to my mama, she pushed and pushed, she struggled to release herself from me all to no avail. When she saw that she couldn't rid herself of me she started going, and I was being dragged along with her. When we got to a fence, she managed to climb the fence with me still clinging on to her. She really did not want me to cross over to the other side of the fence with her, she desperately needed me to let go off her , but I wouldn't budge, so she took the scissors in my hand(the scissors was part of the project materials she gave me) and used it to bruise my hand, immediately, the pain made me loose my grip on her and she quickly used the opportunity to escape to the other side of the fence without me. I started crying, I pained me that she would leave me again...I woke up crying. Fortunately, I was sleeping in my dad's bed just beside him. He heard me crying in my sleep. He was deeply alarmed and he woke me up asking what the matter was. When I narrated the dream to him...o boy, he was really afraid and kept asking me if I am sure I did t cross the fence with her. I assured him that she didn't allow me to. That same day, my dad bought every I asked for...the project materials and many more thlngs. He told me that anything i need, he would buy it for me, that next time I see my mother in the dream, I should not follow her. Lol...I used the opportunity to exploit my dad for a while sha.

BoboYekini:
Ok. Condolences all around

vindicated:
Condolences? Do you know there is power in the tongue and spoken words? Well I REJECT it and pray that the same measure of words and thoughts you gave me, same shall be pressed down, shaken together, poured over you, that it shall permeate into your body like water, into your bones like oil, it will cover you like a garment and be around you like a belt in JESUS Name! Amen!

Let me advise you child what the book of proverb says: NEVER meddle into a matter that does not concern you. The things of the spiritual looks stupid to the physical eyes. Whatever you don't understand, simply LET IT BE!

This will be my last reply to you son.

oweniwe:
vindicated:


thanks ma.... I'll take my prayers more serious....

And will ask my dad more about my great grandpa....

Cheers

vindicated:
You are a case wahali! OK, lemme give you a little insight into my baxkground:
I grew up in a home that worshipped the water goddess. A shrine was dedicated to her . My mum did not follow their path, but the seed was already planted. So again boy, don't play word game with me, you got that?