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proxillin:
Feminists and neutrals have always been complaining about bias and prejudice towards successful women. They argue that successful women are not well respected as their male counterparts.

Women are not appreciated based on their achievements (Wealth, Career or academic wise). This assertion is not on a general scale. We still have some feared/respected/appreciated women out there.

Personally, when I see a young lady in mini-skirt, suits jacket, high-heels shoe riding an exotic car to her office, I hardly respect them. This mentality of how did she get it sets in. There is this mentality of she must have cut corners using her body. She must have slept with one baba alaye/oga boss in her office etc.
However on the contrary, ladies like that might have got what they have through genuine hustling and ladder-climbing. Is it my fault to think low of her? Not totally my fault.

Life Experience
1. You hardly see any female student who has not slept with a lecturer or school staff to get one favour or the other while in school. While their male counterparts are struggling and burning candles, they are having it easy.

2. These same girls above (1) graduated and get into offices. E.g. There are 2 married ladies in my office in race for promotion. One got promoted twice in the past 2 years. We later discovered she is dating the MD. Her friend/colleague has started dating ED Marketing. They keep patronizing various hotels in Victoria Island. It got to a point when the ED wife came to confront them and created a scene at our office. These ladies makes me fear marriage.

3. A lady was seeking for redeployment to another location. She needed my friend to recommend her (My friend is her boss). She told my friend to name his price. My friend just told her to come to a hotel. She did and they had sex. Viola!
These are some of the reasons why the society rate women based on family they race and not wealth achievement. To them, a woman can easily get rich so far she can open her leg to all. But raising lovely kids and beautiful family is the best achievement a woman can achieve.

Who is really at fault?

PaChukwudi44:
Personally I think we have enough private universities for now.Most o these new private universities are sub-standard

Skepticus:


I'm irreligious and don't give a heck about his rants on the pulpit every sunday but I'll admit that the guy does more social projects than the fools you nairalanders argue about in APC and PDP.

tabithababy:
she got a greatresearcher

A scam marriage

Shopping complex

Plenty money to club in lagos

midnighter:
Lol babe, no be from my mouth o

He married a lady from here but it's not confirmed who she is

GreatResearcher:
Is it not better to let her know what she's goin into? Am just trying to be honest. Don't u think not lettin her know my intention would bring a problem in future? Pls wat good way should I go about it?

I made this post on my fbk and a girl shown interest. We started chatting and exchanging contacts. She claimed she's an atheist. The day I called her and explained what d marriage entails, she shouted 'JESUS'. To me, that was a redflag. No atheist will call that name. And if I didn't let her know my motive problem would have occurred after wedding..

truthsayer009:
*Singing* I am on the Lord Side...

midnighter:
And you even signed another oath again...

Is this guy for real Please I am begging you, can you get a proper lawyer and stop signing what nobody can understand?!

You keep signing and signing, what exactly did the woman sign? What of her parents and elders, cant they sign something for once And dont tell us that you signed it without witnesses, again!

Please you have to understand how contracts work. What is the meaning of the word "public"? It can mean so many things. What happens if you violate the contract. What if that girl is finishing you and you dont talk because you dont want to break your so-called "oath"?

What is the meaning of "bring [your] marriage"? What if you come here and make a harmless statement and she uses it against you?

As in whats really this mans problem How can such a person exist in this world? Marrying to get inheritance and signing away the same inheritance to strangers. Cant you use part of that so-called inheritance to get yourself a legal team?

If everybody married like youre doing do you think any of us would exist right now??

AwkaetitiBabe:
But y kill her dreams? This Op should b in Canada now doing something good with her life but the evil man stopped her.

MrBrownJay1:
miss, you have to face reality, this man is "single" and have forgotten about you. it is so obvious that he doesnt see any future with you, and the divorce was just a piece of what he was thinking. he will only use you and use you until he has no need for you. you better face reality.

if he cant even be fully honest with you, how can you trust such man? consider yourself single and live your life because i am 100% sure that man is living in the UK as a single man, not caring one bit about you guys.

there comes a time when you have to stop trying to cross oceans for people who wouldnt even jump over gutter for you

thorpido:
Indeed your hubby is scamming you.He's into something he's not open about.I'll hate to think he has another woman.

What you can do now is get and improve your finances.Work on the fashion design job and also look out for a permanent job.

MuttleyLaff:
I would like to know how truth it is he allegedly was sacked for gross misconduct, cheating and stealing of funds donated by parishioners.

Thats the face of a broken, remorseful and now seen the light man

Is organised religion not one of the lucrative and most viable business in Africa ni?
Is it not emotional blackmail and being self-conceited to be fronting that you the religious leader is the highest giver in the assembly ni?

Sotland:
I didn't get your email.. Resend pls

Mynd44:
But imagine if Babcock came out with a press statement saying they will be taking court actions against people who leaked the video and support the lady in question to justice against those who are using it to shame the lady.

Imagine they say although they hold morals in high regard, they also understand that she did it on holidays and they will make sure they set an example of those who are hiding to cause trouble and shame the woman for something that is not a crime.

Not every time try to remove yourself; sometimes shake and break tables. Show support and strength and stand for justice.

Sometimes be remembered for staying on the side of justice instead of triggering your flight emotion

but if they don't, it is still okay. They have a right to protect their name, identity and brand

Sotland:
Quite a long time... Inbox me at your convenience

Brandstudio01:
I thought Bloggers said He is currently serving a jail term in Dubai. People need to start going to jail for character Assassination in this country. Success indeed is the ruin of envious souls

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GreatResearcher:
Let me cut it short.

This month I sent d guy notice dat I will no longer endure it, he should go look for apartment else where because to me, he is not a responsible person. No attempt to get a job yet sleeping with different women.

Just this evening an alert enters my phone. His gf paid the rent and according to my care-taker they both are staying together right now.

The girl left her house to come stay with him.

I am really shocked because considering what this girl has gone through in this guy's hand, no one would think the girl will date him again talk more of paying house rent for him.

Some women are golden.

bamidex28282:
How mush per unit?

ourkobo:
Can I be ur marketer??

electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated

roolnaado:
Generationz

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sadiqcholel:
Hi, happy weekend.
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TechCapon:
Seriously as Christians, we need to study our Bible and learn things for ourselves because there are so many things pastors will refuse to teach us in church and even if they do they won't elaborate on it.
I was reading my Bible this morning and came Matthew 26 when Jesus was in Bethany and a woman came and pour an expensive ointment on his head, the disciples Judas Iscariot complained that she was wasting the oil that it should be sold and the money given to the poor instead.

Mathew 26:9
This perfume could have been sold at a high price and the money given to the poor."

Jesus responded and said something very striking.
Mathew 26:9-11

“Why criticize this woman for doing such a good thing to me?You will always have the poor among you, but you will not always have me."

What did Jesus mean by that?

Did he mean that poverty is a phenomenon that will always be in the world forever?

If so, why are pastors always preaching prosperity? Why are they not telling their members the truth?

Bible experts please explain because pastors hardly preach about this particular scripture.