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Rip to all the people in advance who will sell their kidneys to get this.

Robisky001:
Lemme see if he will dress modestly and stick with one particular brand of dress like Zuckerberg did, then I will know that billionaires have one thing in common.

Tech billionaires. They are all nerds.

FrLukas:
Probably visiting our own World Heritage Site - The Cold Room Experience. First of it's kind.

I couldn't help but

amarachi06:
have been married for 6years without a child. it has been the worst time of My life to be married without a child. Anytime we argue, he will shout at me with scorn and hateful words but he can never speak to his family members that way.
lf l try to talk with him over some issues or advice which will benefit us, he will shot me down, only for us to suffer later.
l have tried to Know my wrong to him but he doesn't wanna tell me.
l am in deep pains cos he has told me "that anytime l want to leave, that am free to do so". On Monday, he came back around 12am, and l was worried till that time. He came back without explaination and l asked him, whether l am that invisible to him, and his reply was "if l am tired, that l should leave". l now replied, "if l have a child, will you send us out?" he didn't say anything but l know that his attitude is cos of that.
The day l had my Last miscarriage was in 2016, and the tears l had in My eyes was not about my baby but knowing that l will Not be loved again by my husband.
l am tired! l almost went Into depression, and suicide, cos of his attitude to me. l don't know how to handle him, cos my presence irritates him.
Please Sound advice.

If a man's love for you is tied to your childbearing capabilities then I wonder what the essence of marriage is.

What if you were the one telling him he is not a man because he can't provide?


Isn't marriage supposed to be first for companionship before kids. After all, kids will one day leave.

So, when the kids go he would revert back.

Are you sure he hasn't been shooting blanks?

You better learn to love yourself.

If you want to remain in the marriage avoid all kinds of confrontation.


In fact, reduce discussions to the barest minimum. Discuss only when it is necessary. Don't give advice.

Don't even think about kids now. Don't pray for kids now. You know why?

Because you would be wicked and callous to bring an innocent child into such a toxic environment.

Choose your happiness. If you see that you are putting in more into an investment than you are getting out its only a matter of time before the source of that investment dries up.

Stop letting someone else treat you like a doormat. You are another man's treasure.

Someone is praying right now to have a human being like you in their lives. You are special, treat yourself that way.

Ariza:
Avoid Arguments

Go for medical treatment

Love him Love yourself.

Love yourself more


Love God much more


Pray harder.

That's better.

Is it just I or she has been covering up more these past few months?

Even for Halloween.

Simpleete:
You are a man,you hit the nail at the head,three gboza for you.

I am a woman.

pappy2000:
What am I supposed to do brother, the reason why she said she left her ex was because that one na boxer, but I have for once hit her even when provoked,I think I made the mistake of my life , my thinking is to finish the wedding in November give her one month to displayher madness and then file a divorce early January, that lady used to be so loving that I didn't even pray about it,

Did you both agree orally that she will receive proceeds front the Uber business?

Was the 200k a loan or an investment on her part?

Or did she give you as a gift?

pappy2000:
I have already done court wedding with her and she kept complaining of things not done if i knew she is like this i will not marry her. I swear.

I thought you said she was supportive and gave you 200k for your business?

What changed?

Did you do something that made her not trust you anymore and made her become mean to you?


I think you both should just take time off and cool off from each other. Marriage isn't by force.

The wedding you are scared of cancelling some people die before it and it still gets cancelled. No one remembers all the rice and invitation when they are mourning.

Since you guys have done court wedding just relax. Let her have her baby. Isn't one of the aims of marriage to have kids.

Don't let anybody put pressure on you. Be in charge. You are the man. Think straight. Plan well. Plan how you'll get out of this mess. Wedding isn't compulsory.


If she thinks you are not man enough then it is time for you to take a break from her.

Only send her monthly upkeep for her and the baby.

Set a standard amount that even in the toughest times you will be able to afford.


Stay away from each other. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Too much familiarity breeds contempt.


Let her only see the proceeds of your hustle. Forget everything romance right now.

And if you did anything to offend her, ask for her forgiveness.

pocohantas:
No mind them, they think they have sense. The ladies are buying houses, cars, going on vacations at nice places- yet some deluded younglings think their decisions and insults on NL makes any difference. The main ancestors that drop good money don't have time to talk too much. They don't even have any time to judge you. They just wanna buy you over with money.

Shikena.

pocohantas:
I find it funny when guys insult ladies over things like this. The average lady is more emotionally mature than her male counterpart. Only the one wey never see life fit loose guard- so for a lady to offer you kpekus like this, she has weighed the opportunity cost and concluded she isn't losing. She is also far gone in the street.

Toto na natural resources, e no get meter. Nothing wey you fit knack wey e go commot. Neither will you take it home with you as memento. You will fck and leave. You will still pay UBER their commision. While she takes same toto to the one she "loves" at no cost, which of course is how it should be.

If I am a man and you try such with me, I will fling you out of my car. Toto is not a legal tender, but then- men will always be men.

Tbh, the way lots of Naija guys view sex is a plus to some ladies. Because the day they begin to view it differently, such ladies would lose their bargaining power.

That is why Nollywood actresses buy houses and their male counterparts can't pay medical bills.

These one's here will call those women all sorts of names only to become like those rich sugar daddies who stole their girlfriends with money because only a few men can separate their self-worth from the cash in their akkant.

rev2214:
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What's the price range?

zicoraads:
Cameras should not be in classrooms. It has so many disadvantages and affects learning negatively. World over, it has not been accepted yet.

But it can be in BBnaija house, yet they still knack.


With time those kids will forget they are being watched.


Na who wan fail go fail.

Mryacks:
Well said. I think you captured it better for the person who posted it. Me think that was the point she was trying to point, so instead of saying "bad" actor, she would have said "boring" maybe..

Lol.
Bloggers didn't help her ministry either . Most people only read the headlines and rant they can't consider someone elses opinions logically.

Cubaana chiefpriest really did this girl dirty.

Uchechi20:
I just created a new account for this post, please i need mature advice. My husband has been so broke for years now, he never ever gets money if we have any emergency for my kids sickness, school fees, etc. He likes hallucinating about how he will be rich by getting one juicy political appointment cause he is into politics. Sometimes he hustles to just get food and it ends there(this does not come often), no basic needs like school fees etc. Before you judge me as not being supportive, i am not employed at the moment but i struggle and hustle the little way i can to assist in the house upkeep. I paid school fees, i even gave him a large some to add to our ongoing project but the money unfortunately didn't complete it.

Now our room window net spoit and there is a big bush just around the window. He is not doing anything about fixing the window net as usual, i didn't nag him. I just closed the windows permanently, but i noticed this morning that he opened the windows through out last night, same as the night before. My two children sleep on the same bed. He had to put us at risk like that just for ventilation sake without considering what could creep into our room.

Please i need serious advice on how to handle this, he collected all my savings to add to the project.
NOTE: He leaves the house everyday to come back very late, cause he still serves this political big guys yet there is nothing to show for it.

You better be careful. He might end up getting his big contract and being supper rich but your story might be like that of the Taraji P. Henson in the movie, Acrimony.

Support your family but don't loose your youth and yourself in the process.

rev2214:
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Hi, how much are.the prices for you standing rechargeable fan?

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Another angle.

@ needmarriage

I thought your fellow guys here always say it is very easy for a man to get the woman of his dreams once he has money?


Aren't GOOD women supposed to fall at your feet when money dey (in timayas voice)

Warriss going on gangan

Is it that you don't have money or you are just I'm serious?


Why can't you pick from all the girls you've been sleeping with?

Oh, they are not good enough for you ba?

What is the guarantee that the next lady you meet wouldn't fall into that category of "unserious" since making up your mind is so difficult.

For every lady that wants to apply, just note that there is a huge Caveat on op's post. The op hasn't told us what the real problem is.

DexterousOne:
The person you quoted is right to a large extent.

I get you are trying to defend women and all

But we all know how you women do each other
I have seen this over and over and over again

All men are saints from heaven.

kunleweb:
My sister. You really have some unresolved issues with your sisters.

Imagine the explosive energy

She never mentioned how any woman hurt her.

She's only vomiting widely held opinion which she probably heard people say. Which isn't a fact as there are bad people among men and women.

We should be careful with the kind of information we digest.

Paroh:
And a fellow woman shared it. When people say women are their worst enemies we start to froth at the mouth. But what is the reality on ground?

Tiwa Savage came out to say her biggest detractors in the music industry are her fellow women, women basically asked her to recant and say it's men. You hate to see it.

I'm lucky to be surrounded by males friends who I'm 100% comfortable with and I thank God. We women really need a change in mindset. See how men encourage and push each other. A man would spend his last card to buy condom for his guy just so that his guy will get laid. Even when he's not benefiting in any way.

I'll advise any woman reading this to spend some time around guys and see how they treat each other, maybe you'll get a sense of what I'm saying. If you're scared of rape and molestation, try and make friends with gay dudes. Those ones are even the coolest.










Meanwhile I have these awesome Fleshlights for sale. Please patronize me so I can eat. See my signature. Thank you.

You are just doing the same thing you are condemning. Putting all women down for the acts of some bad eggs.

Don't come back surprised if you realize that some of those guys you call friends might just be bidding their time to fvck you.

You mention Tiwa?

Didn't Mi come out to call Vector a snake?

Are all the beefs in the rap industry among women?

I'm sure 50 cent was shot by a woman? Or Tupac?


There are bad people among all genders.

I'm a woman and have had female friends all my life and they are some of the best people in the world. The kind of friends that support you when you are down and don't abandon you when you are weak.

Stop the generalization against your own gender.

Mrquote:
Are you even putting it into consideration that Western movies and African movies are not in any way on this same level, so give credit to who it belong using that person context to judge him.

Reread my comment. I gave examples of African actors I LIKE.

handsomebanana:
Same can be said of Tom Cruise who is also typecast, but you won't see one mumu coming out to say he doesn't know how to act.

Naaa Tom cruise is different. Those roles are challenging.

Can you in your church mind compare a Mission impossible movie with all the daredevil stunts involved to a village movie where Pete Edochie sits half the time?


Every Mission impossible movie is better than the former. Trust me, this is coming from someone who's a big action movie critic and only watched all mission impossible movies this year.

I was stunned.

Besides that, Mission impossible is a movie franchise or series like John wick and James bond.

Certain elements must be present e.g The lead actor being an agent or a spy or something.

mctfopt:
I agree with you on Pete being typecast, and Leonardo being hard to figure. From lover boy in Titanic, to a con man in Catch Me If You Can, to a mercenary for hire in Blood Diamond to a crazy guy in Shutter Island. Dude is just a great actor not your typical typecasting usually done for Pete. In Pete's defence, his age leaves very little to type of roles he may get. He is the father figure and often chief or rich man. Lol.

True. His age and body build.

She's kinda right in a way.

Pete edochie is a stereotyped actor.

Once you see him you know what he's going to be doing.

Kinda makes a person too comfortable. Plus he knows that he will always get roles as the Grandaddy of Nollywood.

I dont have to mention how Joke silver and Olu Jacobs bore me with all the accents. *eyeroll*


If anything I'd choose Chiwetel Agu and Patience ozokwor, Even Onyeka Onwenu.


But that's just me.

My favourite actor Leonardo DiCaprio is one man that can never be put in a box. Never. You never know what to expect with his movies. That's why he has played so many biographies and brought famous books to life.

Does any one know how to identify on sight if a call is collection house or not?