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Politics / Re: Enugu Government House Christian Chapel: New Pictures Of Progress by Gentlec198(m): 11:23pm On Jun 21, 2020
We pray lord save us.
Crime / Re: Man Kills His Son And Daughter In Anambra While They Were Sleeping (Graphic) by Gentlec198(m): 9:11pm On Jun 21, 2020
The is so ridiculous and devilish act, is he high or posses by afternoon demon?
He needs to be spiritually,psychologically,physically,philosophically,physiologically,mentally,emotionally ,traditionally,checked and tested to ascertain the cause of his mischievous actions,for taking the life(s) of this own biological children.
Travel / Re: Udom Emmanuel Links Akwa Ibom With Abia Through Long Abandoned Road by Gentlec198(m): 8:39pm On Jun 21, 2020
He tried, to bring this development but he should have made it double lane,because the other side of the is not not looking good alongside the new constructed road, also there need for security with check points.
Politics / Re: Biafra: Asari Dokubo Blasts Nnamdi Kanu by Gentlec198(m): 10:37pm On Jun 19, 2020
One Nigeria, but we don't share common ideology always on tribal differences with hatred let the country divided so we can no where we belong and who is ruling., because we are been deceived in this nation answering one Nigeria, whereas we never loved each other
Religion / Re: I Have Made Up My Mind To Leave Religion, It's Not Worth It. by Gentlec198(m): 10:12pm On Jun 19, 2020
The best religion is the reconciliation and your relationship with God Almighty, hearing from God and believe in him,trust in him, worship and praise him alone.
Romance / Re: Cynthia Obieshi Who Died After Sex Buried In Imo by Gentlec198(m): 8:20pm On Jun 18, 2020
Is really sad news due, may their soul rest in peace, is only in this country that they quickly draw in conclusion without any scientific method of experimentation, theory, hypothesis, sampling etc ,now it has been tagged sex romp,without any test, have they did autopsy to check, to ascertain the death cause. if person cough, he/she has become a Victim of covid- 19 no more malaria. chai country our country
Phones / Re: Which Android Phone Can I Afford With 20,000? by Gentlec198(m): 7:47pm On Jun 14, 2020
Gpapa77:
You can't get good new one for that amount

you can get itel phones brand new and good ones with that range of amount
Career / Re: Should I Resign From This Job? Pls Help Me by Gentlec198(m): 7:41pm On Jun 14, 2020
Enskynelson:

Life is full of risks. Prepare and take the risks. If actually you have been surviving with 35K, 35k jobs are not so difficult to find. I advice you take the new job paying 150k. Spend only 50k if possible (since you have been surviving with 35k - 50k). Save up 80k every month. In a short while, you would have saved up money that can help u start some biz, buy a job or keep u till you finf another in the event of the company folding. Pray about it and commit it into God's hand as well. Life is full of risk and not taking risk is even another risk on its own.
So, bottomline, go for the new job, save from the first month and be prepared for any eventuality.




that's a good idea brother, everything in life is all about taking the bull by the horn,when the opportunity present itself, so make use of it now
Politics / Re: Buhari Approves ₦123 Bilion For Ibadan-Kano Rail by Gentlec198(m): 7:13am On Jun 13, 2020
[quote author=Balenciagaokey post=90609709] The Transportation Minister is busy approving contracts everywhere..
He should also remember his people( south south).
Because after politics/retirement, his new home will be Rivers state not Abuse or lagos
[/quot
That's true talk na,after sun comes rain
Politics / Re: Buhari Approves ₦123 Bilion For Ibadan-Kano Rail by Gentlec198(m): 7:11am On Jun 13, 2020
2023 manifesto strategies

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Politics / Re: Orji Uzor Kalu Out Of Kuje Prison (Photos) by Gentlec198(m): 7:28pm On Jun 03, 2020
what is the hope of the less privileged and poor masses. Only the rich are favoured
Nairaland / General / Re: Just One Month, She Said I Don’t Want To Date You Again, Because I Can’t Give Yo by Gentlec198(m): 3:09pm On May 30, 2020
Am really grateful for your advice, thanks a lot
Nairaland / General / Re: “I Can’t Leave My Man,let Him F**k Your P**sy,the Sweetest Wins” – Lady Says by Gentlec198(m): 3:07pm On May 30, 2020
Nothing them sabi,the way forward as e dey dis country like this no dey their mind, na so so pussy pussy, dicky dicky, chai e fuolem
Nairaland / General / Re: Just One Month, She Said I Don’t Want To Date You Again, Because I Can’t Give Yo by Gentlec198(m): 3:04pm On May 30, 2020
suzzyboss:
Guy if you carry woman put for head at this point of your life na heartbreak and heart attack you wan give your sef....
You better hustle and make money now......
Because man can't be heartbroken and be broke at the same time...
live her matter and hustle... Even with small change she'll come back...

Thanks for your advice.
Romance / Re: Am Loosing You, My Body Is For My Husband As She Breaks Up, Barely One Month by Gentlec198(m): 2:49pm On May 30, 2020
Thank you all, for your advice,i really appreciate this forum members,for taking time to read the post and give it a thought.
Romance / Re: Am Loosing You, My Body Is For My Husband As She Breaks Up, Barely One Month by Gentlec198(m): 2:45pm On May 30, 2020
dom80:
op, everyone above me has given you the right advise to move on and I will urge you to gladly forget about this confuse and manipulative girlfriend of yours and move on with your life without looking back.

the truth is. .. this girlfriend of yours never love you from the on set. everything she did was for you to think she loves you. if she loves you, there won't be change in her behavior but she never love you.

so, stop chasing the shadow so that you don't end up in tears. pick up your broken heart and move on.

you need to always remind yourself of this words that " before she came into your life, you were happy and that your happiness does not depend on her"

she has her life to live. she following her path that may lead her to destruction in the later future because she is a confuse girl who doesn't know what she wants. she claimed to be a virgin but she has random guys and she has friends (girls) that influence her. she is not a virgin.

so bro, move on and be happy with yourself. your main priority is to be successful and be rich. let that be your challenge and not this confuse girl of yours

Thanks a lot man,You just said it all, confusionist i encounter.
Romance / Re: Am Loosing You, My Body Is For My Husband As She Breaks Up, Barely One Month by Gentlec198(m): 1:42pm On May 30, 2020
cfree14:
Guy next time learn how to summarize. Other matters dey ground to settle
My dear, I just pour out my mind here, as e dey me ooo
Politics / Re: Senator Shehu Sani Summarises Buhari's 5 Years In Office With A Proverb by Gentlec198(m): 1:38pm On May 30, 2020
NekkyCee:
Enough of the complaints. What's the way forward?

If only we can stop recycling the old time leaders,as they are old,so is their brain derailing

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Education / Re: Drone Shots Of The University Of Ibadan (the First And Best) by Gentlec198(m): 9:52am On May 30, 2020
wow, that's a good structure
Romance / Re: Am Loosing You, My Body Is For My Husband As She Breaks Up, Barely One Month by Gentlec198(m): 9:26am On May 29, 2020
keezy125:
you such a dick!!... do you need a prophet to tell you she's never into you and trust me that girl was Nev a Virgin.

she's just a naive girl or probably a teenager that doesn't know what she wants, next time get Control of your emotions because you are a man and never you be all over a girl.

from the way you sound obviously you love her, so for now give her space and stop contacting her, she will come around. she's just been influenced by her friends.
thanks a o lot, you just said how i thought
Romance / Am Loosing You, My Body Is For My Husband As She Breaks Up, Barely One Month by Gentlec198(m): 7:52am On May 29, 2020
Am Loosing You, My Body Is For My Husband As She Breaks Up, Barely One Month

Good Morning All, My dear Nairalanders in the forum.
Hope you guys are staying safe.

Am writing this long heartbroken article, exactly the way it happens to seek for your advice and opinion.
Early last month April, 2020, I was in relationship with a girl, who used to my best friends junior sister. I sometimes met her in their house when I pay a visit to see her brother (best friend), then I had nothing like any emotional feelings for her, just exchange greetings and I will leave with my friend to my house.

Gradually I became interested and develop feelings for her, one day I had to summon courage and I called her to tell her how I feel, she too has already feeling the same and likes me too, but was worried because of her brother, which I later meet him as a best friend, with the help of his girlfriend and we talked to him, but then he was very angry.

On the 13th April, 2020, even before her brother agreed she came to my house for us to discuss, which she told me, she does not have anything to offer in the upcoming relationship (intimacy), reason been that according to her she is a virgin, and that is the reason why she break up, her last three dates, with the guys, as she caught one among them cheating and other ones she lost communication with them, but any other things she can contribute like advice, finance etc., and even asking what the future holds for us, why I liked her, my plans towards her.

She has good heart, kindhearted and respectful, I love this girl, cherish, care, and I promised not to hurt her, and I was serious to date her, respect her, help and never to cheat on her,
At the first week things went smooth and rosy, full of lovey lovey, she cooked and bring food for me, and even transferred 2k, to my cousin brother, who needed help, when I don’t have it at that point in time
I observed that she is kind of hiding her phone when chatting, even when her phone rings, I will ask her to pick, but she will ignore the call.
The second week, I bought her some body cares and give her money (2.5k) to make her hair.
I do send her text messages morning sometimes at night and call her every day to keep communication active.

The third week, if I call and text, she will not pick or even text back, she will only call when she feels and give excuse, like she is sleeping, when she is not, she started avoiding me, even when I came back from work, she will not feel like her guy is back, no form of romantic act, because I do check her in their street and when am going out to stay for few days, she will be telling me to stay long over there, without feeling she going to miss me, wishing if I had lived far from her, which could be fine for her.

One day I called she didn’t pick, i became worried and angry, I had go out to ask her brother’s girlfriend who called her and she came out, saying if It was me, she wouldn’t have come out, with a frowning face, I asked what is the matter, no response, we were there when, another guy called her and she took permission to see the guy twice, who was asking her, her number, in his friend favor in a car, and the brothers girlfriend told her it is a wrong act, for her to leave me her boyfriend as we are discussing to answer another guy.

Same day she asked me, if I will be angry, if another guy give her phone as a gift that the guy is her church member and he has a girlfriend, so they don’t have anything attached. I told her yes I will be angry and after some arguments and for peace to reign I asked to go ahead to do what she wants to do, since she insisted, even after telling her I will buy, she said she don’t want me to spend money, even the food I bought she refused eating as usual.

This a girl that will come visiting, after romance and being in the mood, she will decline, and said she is not ready, she is afraid and she has sworn according to her until she is married, even asked me to suck her kpetus, and get wet, but will not make out, and this has happened thrice, she will apologies that she can’t give her body, she is a VIRGIN, all the time we are together always virgin matter, but she will be angry and jealous if she sees me with another babe.
And I noticed she don’t open up, sometimes she will be hiding something’s and when I asked her, the only answer I get all the time is nothing, even when I called her to come, she will declined not coming, I will call and still text her, but will ignore and tell me she has no airtime, which I know she has, because I do send her card.

One Sunday afternoon she came with a threatening and frowning face to drop the bombshell, after forcing her to talk why her face is like that, she said WHAT IF I TELL YOU I DON’T WANT TO DATE YOU AGAIN, since she cannot give me her body, that we can be friends, I tried with my best friend girl to convinced her to see reasons with me since am not forcing her, she said she don’t know when she will be ready, and she advised we show move on with our lives separately, no hopes of when she will be ready either in a month or year. this make me shear tears, because i remembered something as she cried she is about losing me, while the other of her friend is crushing on me already she said.

I called and text her that I will wait, but she didn’t respond, next day she text back we should move on our lives, I called her for us to see and finalize it and sort things out, she rudely and angrily decline that she cannot come to anywhere or either to see me. I was very angry the way she responded and reacted on phone concerning the whole issues and I told her, she wasn’t any virgin and never loved me, just deceiving me, maybe her boyfriend is back and don’t want to open up, she replied that am the only guy she had and replayed that she is disappointing in me for saying such.
The next day my friend called her twice before she picked, and on the background he had a female voice asking her why is she till picking up the call and since then none of us has called each other again.

Please I need your opinion and advice, because she had made up her mind, after several pleading and advice.
I will upload some text message chatting we exchanged, when next I login, if it is necessary. Because it has a lot of facts.
Politics / Re: Buhari Loans: Nigeria Is Now On The Auction Market - PDP by Gentlec198(m): 7:49am On May 29, 2020
No head ways
Nairaland / General / Just One Month, She Said I Don’t Want To Date You Again, Because I Can’t Give Yo by Gentlec198(m): 7:26am On May 29, 2020
Just One Month, She Said I Don’t Want To Date You Again, Because I Can’t Give You My Body, Is For My Husband

Good Morning All, My dear Nairalanders in the forum.
Hope you guys are staying safe.

Am writing this long heartbroken article, exactly the way it happens to seek for your advice and opinion.
Early last month April, 2020, I was in relationship with a girl, who used to my best friends junior sister. I sometimes met her in their house when I pay a visit to see her brother (best friend), then I had nothing like any emotional feelings for her, just exchange greetings and I will leave with my friend to my house.
So not still one day, I was coming back from lectures, because I work and school, I met her in a saloon, where she work as an apprentice, we started chatting and asking after her brother, which I do, asked when we both passes along, and honestly the girl is beautiful, has a nice shape and intelligent. I collected her contact on the last day we met and we start calling ourselves, laughing and talking about life.

Gradually I became interested and develop feelings for her, one day I had to summon courage and I called her to tell her how I feel, she too has already feeling the same and likes me too, but was worried because of her brother, which I later meet him as a best friend, with the help of his girlfriend and we talked to him, but then he was very angry and was asking his sister, why should it be me, because of our long term friendship, that his sister could have to him early before she agreed with me, because he has noticed the kind of closeness the sister has been showcasing towards me and the days she will be asking him about me, and he finally accepted and agreed for me to date the sister. not that i am bad guy,because he knows me,but for that friendship sake,but if there is any other thing i don't know.

On the 13th April, 2020, even before her brother agreed she came to my house for us to discuss, which she told me, she does not have anything to offer in the upcoming relationship (intimacy), reason been that according to her she is a virgin, and that is the reason why she break up, her last three dates, with the guys, as she caught one among them cheating and other ones she lost communication with them, but any other things she can contribute like advice, finance etc., and even asking what the future holds for us, why I liked her, my plans towards her, I told her if it is the will of God for us to be together as one then so be it, and we here to start a new phrase of life, understand each other better, but let her be a good girlfriend and she agreed, nobody should hide anything from each other.

Because she has good heart, kindhearted and respectful, I love this girl, cherish, care, and I promised not to hurt her, and I was serious to date her, respect her, help and never to cheat on her, and I am a handsome, responsible guy, I am not that kind of guy that womanize or do all this numerous dating.
So I told her concerning the intimacy, I don’t have a problem, we are good to go, with the notion that at times goes on she will agree, and she was asking me not to leave her for another girl, that if I do, I will not have peace, but now she is the one leaving me

At the first week things went smooth and rosy, full of lovey lovey, she cooked and bring food for me, and even transferred 2k, to my cousin brother, who needed help, when I don’t have it at that point in time
And when she comes, she will not like to eat, and I observed that she is kind of hiding her phone when chatting, even when her phone rings, I will ask her to pick, but she will ignore the call.

The second week, I bought her some body cares and give her money (2.5k) to make her hair. Before then she called one afternoon crying that she lost her money, from her saving in the house with other relations, I consoled and give her words of advice, and send her airtime to make call, because I do send her text messages morning sometimes at night and call her every day to keep communication active.

The third week, if I call and text, she will not pick or even text back, she will only call when she feels and give excuse, like she is sleeping, when she is not, she started avoiding me, even when I came back from work, she will not feel like her guy is back,no form of romantic act, because I do check her in their street and when am going out to stay for few days, she will be telling me to stay long over there, without feeling she going to miss me, wishing if I had lived far from her,which could be fine for her.

One day I called she didn’t pick, i became worried and angry, I had go out to ask her brother’s girlfriend who called her and she came out, saying if It was me, she wouldn’t have come out, with a frowning face, I asked what is the matter, no response, we were there when, another guy called her and she took permission to see the guy twice, who was asking her, her number,in his friend favor in a car, and the brothers girlfriend told her it is a wrong act, for her to leave me her boyfriend as we are discussing to answer another guy.

Same day she asked me, if I will be angry, if another guy give her phone as a gift that the guy is her church member and he has a girlfriend, so they don’t have anything attached. I told her yes I will be angry and after some arguments and for peace to reign I asked to go ahead to do what she wants to do, since she insisted, even after telling her I will buy, she said she don’t want me to spend money, even the food I bought she refused eating as usual.

This a girl that will come visiting, after romance and being in the mood, she will decline, and said she is not ready, she is afraid and she has sworn according to her until she is married, even asked me to suck her kpetus, and get wet, but will not make out, and this has happened thrice, she will apologies that she can’t give her body, she is a VIRGIN, all the time we are together always virgin matter, but she will be angry and jealous if she sees me with another babe.and i haven't met her friends,she told me she will take me to see her,i have showed her to my sister and planning to see my friends with her.

And I noticed she don’t open up, sometimes she will be hiding something’s and when I asked her, the only answer I get all the time is nothing, even when I called her to come, she will declined not coming, I will call and still text her, but will ignore and tell me she has no airtime, which I know she has, because I do send her card.

One Sunday afternoon she came with a threatening and frowning face to drop the bombshell, after forcing her to talk why her face is like that, she said WHAT IF I TELL YOU I DON’T WANT TO DATE YOU AGAIN, since she cannot give me her body, that we can be friends, I tried with my best friend girl to convinced her to see reasons with me since am not forcing her, she said she don’t know when she will be ready, and she advised we show move on with our lives separately, no hopes of when she will be ready either in a month or year. this make me shear tears, because i remembered something as she cried she is about loosing me, while the other of her friend is crushing on me already she said.

I called and text her that I will wait, but she didn’t respond, next day she text back we should move on our lives, I called her for us to see and finalize it and sort things out, she rudely and angrily decline that she cannot come to anywhere or either to see me. I was very angry the way she responded and reacted on phone concerning the whole issues and I told her, she wasn’t any virgin and never loved me, just deceiving me, maybe her boyfriend is back and don’t want to open up, she replied that am the only guy she had and replayed that she is disappointing in me for saying such.
That she never plan this to happen, me too and only God knows She loved me ,and i love her too.

The next day my friend called her twice before she picked, and on the background he had a female voice asking her why is she till picking up the call and since then none of us has called each other again.

Pleas I need your opinion and advice, because she had made up her mind, after several pleading and advice. And am thinking maybe her girlfriend is the one deceiving her, to date another person, and I haven’t see her and one of my friend said he is suspecting her brother(best friend)to knows something about it, but him too,the brother, was surprised for her recent changes. I will upload some text message chatting we exchanged,when next i login,if it is necessary.

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Crime / Re: Man Charged To Court For Recording Bribery In Ogun (Video) by Gentlec198(m): 9:58pm On May 28, 2020
stevmatt15:
Nigeria is a country of MIND YOUR BUSINESS
And people are being treated like animals,with the high rate of untimely death.
Crime / Re: Man Charged To Court For Recording Bribery In Ogun (Video) by Gentlec198(m): 9:55pm On May 28, 2020
That's why good people don't last in this nation,Evil people everywhere
Nairaland / General / Rivers State News: Govnor Wike Cancel Lockdown For Port Harcourt And Obio-akpor by Gentlec198(m): 6:12pm On May 26, 2020
Rivers state Govnor Nyesom Wike don cancel di lockdown wey suppose start by 8pm on Tuesday 26 May, 2020 for Port Harcourt and Obio Akpor local goment areas for di state till further notice.
Di Governor tok dis one for State broadcast say all land, sea and air borders for di State still remain closed.
Rivers State get 121 confirmed cases of coronavirus, 32 pipo don recover from di disease and nine pipo don die.
See di new rules pipo must follow
• All land borders, including all exit and entry to Rivers State go remain closed to human and vehicular traffic, except those wey dey on essential services.
• All residents must wear face masks or cover for any public space, including our roads, banks, shopping malls, shops, hotels and in any lawful social gathering.
• Wike also direct di state task force and security agency to arrest and prosecute any pesin wey dem see for steets or any oda public place without wearing face masks.
• All banks, motor parks, hotels, restaurants, shops, business centres, shopping malls, and offices must maintain social distancing and enforce wearing of face masks for dia premises.
• Di state task force and security agency go seal up, prosecute and handover give di State any bank, shopping mall, restaurant, shop, business place or office wey fail to enforce social distancing and wearing of face masks for dia premises.
• Hotel owners no dey allowed to host large gatherings, including party and receptions. Any hotel wey break di law dem go seal am up and prosecute di owners. Dis one na im addition say dem must provide daily guest list to Police and Department of State Security.
• Oil mill market for Obio/Akpor Local Goment Area go remain closed until further notice
• Oginigba Slaughter market for Obio/Akpor Local Goment Area go remain closed until further notice.
• Mbiama market for Ahoada West Local Goment Area go also dey closed until further notice.
• All public weddings, burials and large social gathering still dey banned.
• Churches and oda religious gatherings go kontinu to comply wit di existing advise on social distancing, start temperature checks and make wearing of face masks compulsory during dia activities
• Dealers for Ikoku spare part market dey warned for di last time to stop to convert public roads to mechanic workshops or dem dey risk final closure.
Celebrities / Re: Cynthia Morgan Lied Against Her Record Label? (Contract) by Gentlec198(m): 4:58pm On May 26, 2020
I pray she will not have the same issues with Davido, If he finally sign and seal a deal with her. This time around she needs to be cool headed to learn from her mistakes, so he will be I AM TAKEN, again,and this time will come out with I AM NEW SIGN

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Education / Re: Please Help My English Is Very Bad by Gentlec198(m): 2:50pm On May 26, 2020
Just try to read good novels, newspapers,story books with simple English,have your dictionary close to you to check meanings and spelling of words.

watch good movies,you can start with African Magic as the local ones, and foreign movies.
Romance / Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Gentlec198(m): 12:37pm On May 26, 2020
You need to understand her,and ask her exactly what is her challenge,before you guys will end up in regrets after all this while,since the wedding is three weeks time,you need to figure and fix things and understand her mood of emotions.

secondly also check yourself very well,if you are not the cause of this whole problem,sleeping in the same bed,doing nothing haba
Romance / Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Gentlec198(m): 12:32pm On May 26, 2020
You need to understand her,and ask her exactly what is her challenge,before you guys will end up in regrets after all this while,since the wedding is three weeks time,you need to figure and fix things and understand her mood of emotions.
Music/Radio / Re: Why A Record Label Should Never Be Blamed For A Musician's Down Fall by Gentlec198(m): 12:06pm On May 26, 2020
I THINK THERE SHOULD BE A CLEAR,THOROUGH,SPECIFIC AND WELL DETAILED UNDERSTANDING ABOUT THE SHOW BUSINESS INDUSTRY,BETWEEN THE RECORD LABEL AND THE ARTISTE,SO THEY CAN BE ON THE SAME PAGE.BECAUSE MUSIC IS EXPENSIVE AND LUCRATIVE ONE TOO

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