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Finished cooking by 6pm served everyone by 7pm. Presently glued to the TV set. ''i've fought a good fight...i''m ready to watch If anybody calls my name by error or......ahswear! I will break ur head with bottle. #Team Germany# leggooooooo!! |
fijiano202: fried fish is better ,try Pomo(kanda) or crayfish lolLWKM! Ahswsear,no be lie. smartchoice: Gist us now...Tatafo. ![]() Evanscoth: [b][/b]And in a case where u have only male kids,are they gonna use fingers to destroy the anus? Or break the prick? |
Godmystrength:Looooool! She should endeavor to be clean and smell fresh when she gets home. ![]() |
fijiano202: not all is abt low self-esteem,u are right abt fear though..every housewife wanna look young so that her husband wont call her fat or ugly,i have a close aunt who once complain abt her husband lack of action in the Bedroom,that made her feel unwanted and ugly....As a lady am sure u understand that men are born with lust but we learn to control it but some cant....what i dont really understand abt we men are how we may be dating ladies like omotola and yvonne nelson but end up lusting after ladies like enjema Emperess i.e ugly ladies@ bolded,indeed baffling! But i do not judge such cases. Sometimes even the woman is to blame,other times both parties carry the blame. True talk. Most women aim to retain youthful appearance. It does not help matters that the man is not restrained by age,and most men undergo mid-life crises. Its a crazy world out there. But i do not advice women to let go of their appearance after child birth. Try your best to look good always,not smelling of fried fish when the man comes home. At least,u'll always know u did ur best if he decides to mess up. |
Tyche: @GentleMimi, don't you think that some men might have a phobia for male house help too? Cases abound of women who mess up with their house boy.I understand,and i'll respect his opinion. In that case,there will be NO househelp,male or female. Since we'll both be working,then he should be kind enough to help out. An agreement has to be made and sacrifices too. We all cannot be rigid in decision making. I will not marry a man whose love is not genuine,or selfish man in the first place. olubukato: GentleMimi... You are invited..Lol! |
olubukato: ![]() ![]() oskaaay: It is hard to trust especially when disappointed ones or couple of times......please take heart and believe that life goes on....it is well....Thanks,bro. Some of us come out of pain stonger and wiser. fijiano202: sorry though but now u are alot wiser..nobody can point a dog to u as lion..we mature with experience....funny thing is with all this BS happening, people still wonder why women/housewives do plastic surgerysThanks,bro. True talk. Lol@ plastic surgery. I consider it a situation of fear and low self-esteem. |
oskaaay: na wa life shaaaaaa------with different phase......Lol. No be small tin. fijiano202: i concord..Life is a lesson we live thru experience thoughBro,it hasn't been a very good experience ooo. That stuff affected me for yrs. Even now,i find it difficult to trust. As if e never do,the person i respected the most on this earth failed me too,on top the same matter. But the consolation be say good men are out there. I've met a few. dokson: The man can help out in domestic chores provided it is not a command or authoritatively frm d wife.True! Polite approach is the best. |
mascot87: What if ur husband says he does not want a male house help too,what do u doThen he should be ready to make his input. I'm not the type to talk too much or nag about home matters. I have a job and career. I believe in contributing towards family finances. If he thinks being a provider is an excuse to be lazy,then i'm allowed to be partially lazy. I'm not gonna ever ask my hubby to cook or scrub the toilet. Infact,i find it difficult to be impressed by another person's meals. All i'll ask for his help in some heavy duty back-breaking work. If possible,he can help wash some clothes in the washer and iron,weed,arrange the sitting room,garage,store,wash the cars....i can handle the kitchen,room,toilet and bath,cook,market stuff...blablabla. Just an example. Is it too much to ask? No reasonable and loving man will see his wife down on her knees,slaving away,and still sit his azz on the couch! |
fijiano202: whats wrong with female househelp if u marry a Godfearing man you have nothing to be scared off..thats why i usually tell my married friends to always package themselves always even at home especially when their husband is out home...all u have to do is to discover new things abt urself and always bring something new to ur relationshipFijiano my bros,prevention is better than cure. My bro,i've seen and heard. I've got married aunties,friends and family members. When it comes to men and libido,i cannot bet my life on it. E better make d man sef dey mess up outside,than get tempted with house help. I lived for a few yrs with a family that i love to pieces. I got close to the ''help''. This girl decided to leave one day,but refused to disclose reasons. I begged her to the point of tears cos i really liked her. When she disclosed her reasons,i felt weak! Oga has been up to no good. Even someone i trusted with my life disappointed me. Yet u want me to get female help? God forbid. I'd rather slave it through! |
smartchoice: Lailai na female house help oh!....about 19-24 years old.Back to sender! Loool. I did not grow up around a househelp. The stories i hear about them has sent shivers down my spine. My cousin's story is a reminder of what can happen to your home,despite ur good intentions. |
Right now,i do all house chores without help from anybody,and i'm working. I find it difficult to beg too. If i ask u nicely for something and u refuse.i might ask u a second time if i really love u. But there will never be a third time. I'll simply do the best i can to tidy up and do other chores. The one wey i no fit do,i leave am jejely. If it becomes too much for me to handle,i'll consider a male house help. Female help is out of bound in my home...lol! |
KelvinGraphics: King TOM, Ayiwago ara o... Biko inwere big chain eji ekedo ndi ara??LMAO! Mba ooo,biko. Mu an ndi ara enwero njiko. |
Lol! Lai Lienus Liede Mohammed. This guy is a clown! If the people of Ekiti were famished under the leadership of Fayemi,does it not mean the governor is to be held responsible for starving his people? They should be grateful for the bags of rice,expired or not. LMAO! Remove the log from your eyes,so u can have the ability to remove the lint in another man's eyes. APC should not build their manifesto from PDP,they only end up making the party more famous. They should concentrate on telling us what they have to offer,come 2015. All i hear is their tales of woes and PDP's imposition. For an opposition party,they have a lot of work to do. |
captcochrane: for all i care about, you're totally right jareLol. Really? Interesting. Dn't be too sure. *winks* Thanks,by the way. redcliff: Thats the problem with you nigerians. Always quick to lay blames on someone else...if you are supporting, support and stop calling other people who you dont know how they make their money or what they use it for..Seems u've got serious problems with ur comprehension skills. Who is calling out people? What u read in my post is simple ''reflective pose''. I even typed ''some of us'',myself inclusive. It is just a of reflection on what our priorities and priciples boil down to. When i spend money unnecessarily and read about people who need help,i carry out a ''personal check'' to know if i have in anyway been of help to people around me. The ''I'' mentality in Nigeria is our undoing. I might not know how politicians make their money,but i know that public funds and taxes of i and many other Nigerians are being squandered on daily basis. But i'm sure u do not see it as a big deal,right? It is not your money afterall. |
...indeed,there was a country. Is it rocket science that the money has been shared to keep some people silent and turn their eyes away from the matter? No. That money is too huge to ignore. If it was used for the purpose for which it was made available,many crimes in Nigeria would have been dealt with. Some people do not want to get caught on camera doing shady deals...they will make sure this probe does not see the light of the day. Na today? |
Well said! Thank you! On the thread abt the ban yesterday,i read so many silly comments from fellow Nigerians who do not know their left from their right. We think that being black makes our knowledge second class,while that of the whites are superior. Talk of inferiority complex. Many applauded the move by the FIFA body. I'm not too versatile in football news and affairs,but one thing i know is that once the Government of Nigeria decides to remove interest or attention from NFF,football in Naija is as good as dead. Was it not the same eagles who said they will boycott training if a certain ''fee'' was not paid? And money had to get sent to them ASAP? Where do they hope to get such funds from? The air? |
MrRenaissance: I attacked the messenger, which is you. We treat retàrds, with "whips" if advices can't work. I didn't attack the message cos it's baseless rants from the orfice of a nonsensical pseudo-intelligent wannabe!! Nigga, everything is not an avenue to spit your boring philosophical lame, migrane-inducing rants. We're talking of insurbordination of the highest order and you are mouthing off tripes you think everybody is interested to read.
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krall: its only you that know what your talking. I hope say u never wet urselfDripping wet...... Mumuloid. Tah! Your yeye dey smell. U sef dey believe? Okpekete. |
krall: am running away from trouble, you are dragging me back. I will remove my cloth an run.And i will watch your azz movement...also the movement of a particular organ. with camera on standby. |
krall: ok, bye. ![]() Mumu,come back here. Can i have some of that weed u smoked? |
publicenemy: So why are you accusing people of spending their money on girls instead of pleading for them to help..or you dont know that could turn people off...And you who thinks before he types,what benefit have u served to humanity? Must people always be pleaded to before they render help? Can't you make use of ur senses? Or have we all lost touch of compassion? I do not wait for pleas before i help. If i can afford,i give. Many out there can afford,but reluctanct to give unless they have something to recieve in return. These same politicians will give happily if there was camera and media coverage. Am i wrong? |
krall: somebody ban this bitter, cussing accusing lass!!You were never a mod. Wake up from you weed-induced coma. Idiota. |
publicenemy: ITs not by force...nobody stoped her father from making money enuff to fend for s family,people worked for ther money they will spend it as they deem it..if someone wants to help he/she will help,so stop typing such rubbish....lets pray her parents get the money.You are a slow niggur. Who says its by force? And who told you her father is to blame for not making up to N4million. How many parents can confidently cough out such amount without flinching? Must all hands be equal? Must everyone be rich? Do we all have equal opportunities or grace? I guess u're still being spoon-fed by your parents and u've got no idea what is means to struggle and hussle. Nonsense. |
......yet some of us spend twice that amount on accessories,shopping,cars..... On a good day,even a local government can foot the bill. Our politicians wld rather spend the money on silly girls,than give to a sick child. I pray the money gets available quickly and the operation successful. Jah bless! |
hansobuks: I was waiting for this balls lineMuhehehehe. Balls define a man. You break it,u've broken the man. ![]() softsparkyy: Huh how will you cut off his balls when he got no balls?Chisos! This babe ehn!!!
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manny4life: Exactly!Wait a freaking minute! They do not get paid? Yet they spend hours online? For what? Recognition,prestige? Online ''validation''? Wetin? Peeps get time,ahswear! Chillisauce: Make muki retire abeg, she too do. After she banned me for one yr trying to separate a fight.LMAO! One year ban? E be like say she dey enjoy the fight and u come carry your wahala enter.But trust me,she is far better than Mynd44. Sometimes i feel like pouring hot oil and acid combo on Mynd's head,then wrecking his bones...and finally cutting off his balls! . |
Chillisauce: My dear, e reach to ask. This hacker cause plenty things oh. We don't know who is mod again. Na wah. Troy Jay, you seem to know a lot. I think you are a mod here using another moniker .Right after the data loss ish,i had a discussion wif some NL friends. I asked if we still had mods on this forum. It was obvious some mods had stepped down. Certain threads allowed the free reign of callous comments which wld hv attracted a ban on a good day. Jaybee has been in ''ghost mode''. First time of seeing his moniker since the return. Myndd is silent. Now i heard Mukina had issues wif him. Mehn,story plenty fa! |
Carammel!!! Sweerie,where haff u bin? Na wa oo. I bin tink sey u don disappear alongside lost data? Mynd44 ust dey look from corner. Guy,u still be mod? Abi dem chase u too? |
hansobuks: look at you ![]() TroyJay1: treasure your sanity bikoMy friend,secure ya woman before giving me advice jare. Lukatew! I want Seun by all means. ![]() Lemme ooo! E remain small,she for don disappear under your very own watch! Chai! O gara la i mee go ''vooom'' na'anya. |
Chillisauce: Seun, bring back nkem, take Mimi. She is gentle and has bushy eyebrows. LMAO!Yes,but we must share the money from his NL business. I don't want ferrari,i don't want designer...but i want foreign currency. ![]() hansobuks: Eh? which mimi? gentlemimi?Ooooooo! Mtcheww! No dey put sandsand for my garri. I must get Seun by fire by force! #SeuntakeMimi-leaveogugua# |
Choi! See as una wan kee Matthew Briggs cos he spoke his mind? Chai! Nairalanders,when will u peepuu desist from ''crowd mentality?? Ahswear,if i post a comment to abuse Seun,i'll get many likes. If i say ''it is his business and site,feck off people'',i'll get some jungle justice. Who gives a feck?? I'm enjoying the entertainment. But it is refreshing to read a different comment sha. Kudos,Matthew. Seun,mbok talk naaaa! I have bushy eyebrows oooo. Lets talk business.... |
hansobuks: Anyi mere ya nnukwu ebere during the tsunami and the changing of username whatever.Lol! Iwe eweela nwanne m oooooo! Nwanne,biko iwe gi a dila oku. @ softsparkyy,i love u more than Seun loves Ogugua's eyebrows. Yes,babeeeeee! |

what if she sells fried fish?

with camera on standby.