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SportsRe: Germany Vs Argentina: World Cup Final (1 - 0) On 13th July 2014 by GentleMimi: 8:01pm On Jul 13, 2014
Finished cooking by 6pm
served everyone by 7pm.
Presently glued to the TV set. ''i've fought a good fight...i''m ready to watch
If anybody calls my name by error or......ahswear! I will break ur head with bottle.
#Team Germany# leggooooooo!!
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi: 12:17pm On Jul 11, 2014
fijiano202: fried fish is better ,try Pomo(kanda) or crayfish lol
LWKM! Ahswsear,no be lie.

smartchoice: Gist us now...
Tatafo. tongue

Evanscoth: [b][/b]
Female help is out of bound in my home...lol!
Hiannnnnnn........you ll consider a male house help.It seems u don't like ur female daugthers. My dear u can put a female house help on check or worst still u can't stop a promiscous husband no matter how hard u try. Pls I can't take d risk of some lunatics using finger to break my daugthers hymen.
And in a case where u have only male kids,are they gonna use fingers to destroy the anus? Or break the prick?
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi: 9:18am On Jul 11, 2014
Godmystrength: shocked shocked grin what if she sells fried fish?
Looooool! She should endeavor to be clean and smell fresh when she gets home. tongue
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi: 9:07am On Jul 11, 2014
fijiano202: not all is abt low self-esteem,u are right abt fear though..every housewife wanna look young so that her husband wont call her fat or ugly,i have a close aunt who once complain abt her husband lack of action in the Bedroom,that made her feel unwanted and ugly....As a lady am sure u understand that men are born with lust but we learn to control it but some cant....what i dont really understand abt we men are how we may be dating ladies like omotola and yvonne nelson but end up lusting after ladies like enjema Emperess i.e ugly ladies
@ bolded,indeed baffling! But i do not judge such cases. Sometimes even the woman is to blame,other times both parties carry the blame. True talk. Most women aim to retain youthful appearance. It does not help matters that the man is not restrained by age,and most men undergo mid-life crises.
Its a crazy world out there. But i do not advice women to let go of their appearance after child birth. Try your best to look good always,not smelling of fried fish when the man comes home. At least,u'll always know u did ur best if he decides to mess up.
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi: 7:45am On Jul 11, 2014
Tyche: @GentleMimi, don't you think that some men might have a phobia for male house help too? Cases abound of women who mess up with their house boy.

If my wife dont want a female house help, why should she want a male house help?
I understand,and i'll respect his opinion. In that case,there will be NO househelp,male or female. Since we'll both be working,then he should be kind enough to help out. An agreement has to be made and sacrifices too. We all cannot be rigid in decision making. I will not marry a man whose love is not genuine,or selfish man in the first place.
olubukato: GentleMimi... You are invited..
https://www.nairaland.com/1807882/seun-man/3
Lol!
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi:
olubukato: grin grin grin
angry
tongue

oskaaay: It is hard to trust especially when disappointed ones or couple of times......please take heart and believe that life goes on....it is well....
Thanks,bro. Some of us come out of pain stonger and wiser.

fijiano202: sorry though but now u are alot wiser..nobody can point a dog to u as lion..we mature with experience....funny thing is with all this BS happening, people still wonder why women/housewives do plastic surgerys
Thanks,bro. True talk. Lol@ plastic surgery. I consider it a situation of fear and low self-esteem.
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi: 7:26am On Jul 11, 2014
oskaaay: na wa life shaaaaaa------with different phase...... grin shocked grin
Lol. No be small tin.

fijiano202: i concord..Life is a lesson we live thru experience though
Bro,it hasn't been a very good experience ooo. That stuff affected me for yrs. Even now,i find it difficult to trust. As if e never do,the person i respected the most on this earth failed me too,on top the same matter. But the consolation be say good men are out there. I've met a few.

dokson: The man can help out in domestic chores provided it is not a command or authoritatively frm d wife.
True! Polite approach is the best.
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi: 7:16am On Jul 11, 2014
mascot87: What if ur husband says he does not want a male house help too,what do u do huh
Then he should be ready to make his input. I'm not the type to talk too much or nag about home matters. I have a job and career. I believe in contributing towards family finances. If he thinks being a provider is an excuse to be lazy,then i'm allowed to be partially lazy.
I'm not gonna ever ask my hubby to cook or scrub the toilet. Infact,i find it difficult to be impressed by another person's meals. All i'll ask for his help in some heavy duty back-breaking work. If possible,he can help wash some clothes in the washer and iron,weed,arrange the sitting room,garage,store,wash the cars....i can handle the kitchen,room,toilet and bath,cook,market stuff...blablabla. Just an example. Is it too much to ask?
No reasonable and loving man will see his wife down on her knees,slaving away,and still sit his azz on the couch!
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi: 7:04am On Jul 11, 2014
fijiano202: whats wrong with female househelp if u marry a Godfearing man you have nothing to be scared off..thats why i usually tell my married friends to always package themselves always even at home especially when their husband is out home...all u have to do is to discover new things abt urself and always bring something new to ur relationship
Fijiano my bros,prevention is better than cure. My bro,i've seen and heard. I've got married aunties,friends and family members. When it comes to men and libido,i cannot bet my life on it. E better make d man sef dey mess up outside,than get tempted with house help.
I lived for a few yrs with a family that i love to pieces. I got close to the ''help''. This girl decided to leave one day,but refused to disclose reasons. I begged her to the point of tears cos i really liked her. When she disclosed her reasons,i felt weak! Oga has been up to no good.
Even someone i trusted with my life disappointed me. Yet u want me to get female help? God forbid. I'd rather slave it through!
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi: 6:32am On Jul 11, 2014
smartchoice: Lailai na female house help oh!....about 19-24 years old.
Back to sender! Loool.
I did not grow up around a househelp. The stories i hear about them has sent shivers down my spine. My cousin's story is a reminder of what can happen to your home,despite ur good intentions.
FamilyRe: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by GentleMimi: 6:20am On Jul 11, 2014
Right now,i do all house chores without help from anybody,and i'm working. I find it difficult to beg too. If i ask u nicely for something and u refuse.i might ask u a second time if i really love u. But there will never be a third time.
I'll simply do the best i can to tidy up and do other chores. The one wey i no fit do,i leave am jejely. If it becomes too much for me to handle,i'll consider a male house help. Female help is out of bound in my home...lol!
RomanceRe: Nayah by GentleMimi: 6:14am On Jul 11, 2014
KelvinGraphics: King TOM, Ayiwago ara o... Biko inwere big chain eji ekedo ndi ara??
LMAO! Mba ooo,biko. Mu an ndi ara enwero njiko.
PoliticsRe: DETAILS: Why President Jonathan Remains Nigeria’s Number One Enemy – APC by GentleMimi: 9:25am On Jul 10, 2014
Lol! Lai Lienus Liede Mohammed. This guy is a clown!
If the people of Ekiti were famished under the leadership of Fayemi,does it not mean the governor is to be held responsible for starving his people? They should be grateful for the bags of rice,expired or not. LMAO!
Remove the log from your eyes,so u can have the ability to remove the lint in another man's eyes.
APC should not build their manifesto from PDP,they only end up making the party more famous. They should concentrate on telling us what they have to offer,come 2015.
All i hear is their tales of woes and PDP's imposition.
For an opposition party,they have a lot of work to do.
HealthRe: N4 Million SOS Appeal For A Child Diagnosed With Brain Tumor by GentleMimi:
captcochrane: for all i care about, you're totally right jare

moreso, majority of them are holding on to public funds/tax payer's money, or manipulating government/people to better their business

all the same, the money doesn't belong to them exclusively, it's the right of the poor to collect from the rich

poor girl, makes me remember a boy/girl undergoing dialysis, can't be more than 7, was asking d mum, when are where are we getting kidney?


Plus, i'll always rememba u're really gentle, i've seen ur true nature once b4, and i like u
Lol. Really? Interesting.
Dn't be too sure. *winks*
Thanks,by the way.

redcliff: Thats the problem with you nigerians. Always quick to lay blames on someone else...if you are supporting, support and stop calling other people who you dont know how they make their money or what they use it for..
Seems u've got serious problems with ur comprehension skills.
Who is calling out people? What u read in my post is simple ''reflective pose''. I even typed ''some of us'',myself inclusive. It is just a of reflection on what our priorities and priciples boil down to.
When i spend money unnecessarily and read about people who need help,i carry out a ''personal check'' to know if i have in anyway been of help to people around me.
The ''I'' mentality in Nigeria is our undoing.
I might not know how politicians make their money,but i know that public funds and taxes of i and many other Nigerians are being squandered on daily basis. But i'm sure u do not see it as a big deal,right? It is not your money afterall.
PoliticsRe: Reps Probe Failed $470m CCTV Projects by GentleMimi: 7:52am On Jul 10, 2014
...indeed,there was a country.

Is it rocket science that the money has been shared to keep some people silent and turn their eyes away from the matter? No.

That money is too huge to ignore. If it was used for the purpose for which it was made available,many crimes in Nigeria would have been dealt with.

Some people do not want to get caught on camera doing shady deals...they will make sure this probe does not see the light of the day. Na today?
SportsRe: On FIFA Ban And Government Interference by GentleMimi: 7:35am On Jul 10, 2014
Well said! Thank you!
On the thread abt the ban yesterday,i read so many silly comments from fellow Nigerians who do not know their left from their right.
We think that being black makes our knowledge second class,while that of the whites are superior. Talk of inferiority complex. Many applauded the move by the FIFA body.
I'm not too versatile in football news and affairs,but one thing i know is that once the Government of Nigeria decides to remove interest or attention from NFF,football in Naija is as good as dead.
Was it not the same eagles who said they will boycott training if a certain ''fee'' was not paid? And money had to get sent to them ASAP? Where do they hope to get such funds from? The air?
RomanceRe: Which Would You Ladies Prefer: A Rich Cheat Or A Broke Faithful Man? by GentleMimi: 11:47pm On Jul 09, 2014
MrRenaissance: I attacked the messenger, which is you. We treat retàrds, with "whips" if advices can't work. I didn't attack the message cos it's baseless rants from the orfice of a nonsensical pseudo-intelligent wannabe!! Nigga, everything is not an avenue to spit your boring philosophical lame, migrane-inducing rants. We're talking of insurbordination of the highest order and you are mouthing off tripes you think everybody is interested to read.

Just because you are Matthew doesn't mean you should conjure Matthew-like epistle that makes no single sense!!

When dictator changed people's moniker without telling them first, you didn't speak out against that toutish act. How many times have Facebook or Twitter edited your name without you being notified? You are adumbassified clown if you can't see the insultive acts meted to members who weeped about the oga's highhandedness. You didn't write an epistle about it. You stuck your head far up your asss and kept mute.

Now a lot of members aired their grievances on that thread and the oga banned only two lovers and removed their profile pics, thereby invading their privacy, yet you dyslexic spastic dimwitt with an IQ of pubic louse, didn't speak out!!

Now the aggrieved party came to speak against the slavery they're being subjected to, only for your lame asss to come up your looser-like rants about the owner frustrating them even more. You're the perfect example of an ídiot.

You can't stoop to any lower, than you already are! You're far lower than a gum on the ground. You're a fraud!! Weren't you preaching about bullying before the hackers attacked? But in dyslexic state, you have forgotten about it and have supported bullying with your lame tripe. you nonentity!! To hell with your sanctimonious bullshitt you pathetic, moronic, bag of filth. GTFOH, your hypocrisy stinks to high heavens!!

HealthRe: N4 Million SOS Appeal For A Child Diagnosed With Brain Tumor by GentleMimi: 11:29pm On Jul 09, 2014
krall: its only you that know what your talking. I hope say u never wet urself
Dripping wet......











Mumuloid. Tah! Your yeye dey smell. U sef dey believe? Okpekete.
HealthRe: N4 Million SOS Appeal For A Child Diagnosed With Brain Tumor by GentleMimi: 11:24pm On Jul 09, 2014
krall: am running away from trouble, you are dragging me back. I will remove my cloth an run.
And i will watch your azz movement...also the movement of a particular organ. lipsrsealed with camera on standby.
HealthRe: N4 Million SOS Appeal For A Child Diagnosed With Brain Tumor by GentleMimi: 11:21pm On Jul 09, 2014
krall: ok, bye.
grin
Mumu,come back here. Can i have some of that weed u smoked?
HealthRe: N4 Million SOS Appeal For A Child Diagnosed With Brain Tumor by GentleMimi: 11:20pm On Jul 09, 2014
publicenemy: So why are you accusing people of spending their money on girls instead of pleading for them to help..or you dont know that could turn people off...


you dont think before you type.
And you who thinks before he types,what benefit have u served to humanity?
Must people always be pleaded to before they render help? Can't you make use of ur senses? Or have we all lost touch of compassion?
I do not wait for pleas before i help. If i can afford,i give.
Many out there can afford,but reluctanct to give unless they have something to recieve in return.
These same politicians will give happily if there was camera and media coverage. Am i wrong?
HealthRe: N4 Million SOS Appeal For A Child Diagnosed With Brain Tumor by GentleMimi: 11:15pm On Jul 09, 2014
krall: somebody ban this bitter, cussing accusing lass!!



How I wish I was still a mod.
You were never a mod. Wake up from you weed-induced coma.
Idiota.
HealthRe: N4 Million SOS Appeal For A Child Diagnosed With Brain Tumor by GentleMimi: 11:08pm On Jul 09, 2014
publicenemy: ITs not by force...nobody stoped her father from making money enuff to fend for s family,people worked for ther money they will spend it as they deem it..if someone wants to help he/she will help,so stop typing such rubbish....lets pray her parents get the money.
You are a slow niggur. Who says its by force? And who told you her father is to blame for not making up to N4million. How many parents can confidently cough out such amount without flinching? Must all hands be equal? Must everyone be rich? Do we all have equal opportunities or grace?
I guess u're still being spoon-fed by your parents and u've got no idea what is means to struggle and hussle.
Nonsense.
HealthRe: N4 Million SOS Appeal For A Child Diagnosed With Brain Tumor by GentleMimi: 10:48pm On Jul 09, 2014
......yet some of us spend twice that amount on accessories,shopping,cars.....
On a good day,even a local government can foot the bill. Our politicians wld rather spend the money on silly girls,than give to a sick child.
I pray the money gets available quickly and the operation successful. Jah bless!
RomanceRe: Which Would You Ladies Prefer: A Rich Cheat Or A Broke Faithful Man? by GentleMimi: 10:31pm On Jul 09, 2014
hansobuks: I was waiting for this balls line grin

what's with you and balls tongue

grin grin grin
Muhehehehe. Balls define a man. You break it,u've broken the man. tongue
softsparkyy: Huh how will you cut off his balls when he got no balls?
Chisos! This babe ehn!!!

RomanceRe: Which Would You Ladies Prefer: A Rich Cheat Or A Broke Faithful Man? by GentleMimi: 10:09pm On Jul 09, 2014
manny4life: Exactly!

Like I stated
Wait a freaking minute! They do not get paid? Yet they spend hours online? For what? Recognition,prestige? Online ''validation''? Wetin? Peeps get time,ahswear!

Chillisauce: Make muki retire abeg, she too do. After she banned me for one yr trying to separate a fight. cheesy
Mynd is better, Mynd441, where are you? Come and answer register pls.
LMAO! One year ban? E be like say she dey enjoy the fight and u come carry your wahala enter.But trust me,she is far better than Mynd44. Sometimes i feel like pouring hot oil and acid combo on Mynd's head,then wrecking his bones...and finally cutting off his balls! angry.
RomanceRe: Which Would You Ladies Prefer: A Rich Cheat Or A Broke Faithful Man? by GentleMimi: 9:57pm On Jul 09, 2014
Chillisauce: My dear, e reach to ask. This hacker cause plenty things oh. We don't know who is mod again. Na wah. Troy Jay, you seem to know a lot. I think you are a mod here using another moniker .
Right after the data loss ish,i had a discussion wif some NL friends. I asked if we still had mods on this forum. It was obvious some mods had stepped down. Certain threads allowed the free reign of callous comments which wld hv attracted a ban on a good day.
Jaybee has been in ''ghost mode''. First time of seeing his moniker since the return. Myndd is silent. Now i heard Mukina had issues wif him.
Mehn,story plenty fa!
RomanceRe: Which Would You Ladies Prefer: A Rich Cheat Or A Broke Faithful Man? by GentleMimi: 9:48pm On Jul 09, 2014
Carammel!!! Sweerie,where haff u bin? Na wa oo. I bin tink sey u don disappear alongside lost data?

Mynd44 ust dey look from corner. Guy,u still be mod? Abi dem chase u too?
RomanceRe: Which Would You Ladies Prefer: A Rich Cheat Or A Broke Faithful Man? by GentleMimi: 9:33pm On Jul 09, 2014
hansobuks: look at you grin
tongue

TroyJay1: treasure your sanity biko
My friend,secure ya woman before giving me advice jare.
Lukatew! I want Seun by all means. angry
Lemme ooo! E remain small,she for don disappear under your very own watch! Chai! O gara la i mee go ''vooom'' na'anya.
RomanceRe: Which Would You Ladies Prefer: A Rich Cheat Or A Broke Faithful Man? by GentleMimi: 9:26pm On Jul 09, 2014
Chillisauce: Seun, bring back nkem, take Mimi. She is gentle and has bushy eyebrows.
grin LMAO!
Yes,but we must share the money from his NL business.
I don't want ferrari,i don't want designer...but i want foreign currency. tongue

hansobuks: Eh? which mimi? gentlemimi?
you'll just read seun's obituary announcement tomorrow morning grin
Ooooooo! Mtcheww! No dey put sandsand for my garri.
I must get Seun by fire by force!
#SeuntakeMimi-leaveogugua#
RomanceRe: Which Would You Ladies Prefer: A Rich Cheat Or A Broke Faithful Man? by GentleMimi: 9:08pm On Jul 09, 2014
Choi! See as una wan kee Matthew Briggs cos he spoke his mind? Chai! Nairalanders,when will u peepuu desist from ''crowd mentality??
Ahswear,if i post a comment to abuse Seun,i'll get many likes. If i say ''it is his business and site,feck off people'',i'll get some jungle justice. Who gives a feck?? I'm enjoying the entertainment.
But it is refreshing to read a different comment sha. Kudos,Matthew.
Seun,mbok talk naaaa! I have bushy eyebrows oooo. Lets talk business....
RomanceRe: Which Would You Ladies Prefer: A Rich Cheat Or A Broke Faithful Man? by GentleMimi: 8:54pm On Jul 09, 2014
hansobuks: Anyi mere ya nnukwu ebere during the tsunami and the changing of username whatever.

this time, he doesn't deserve it
Lol! Iwe eweela nwanne m oooooo!

Nwanne,biko iwe gi a dila oku.

@ softsparkyy,i love u more than Seun loves Ogugua's eyebrows. Yes,babeeeeee! kiss

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