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Amayabor1:
Another one bites the dust.

Ordinarily, if not for money, some of these girls will not look at these boys twice.

As a hardworking guy who has never been associated with fraud, never marry a lady who has dated a Yahoo boy.

So, the woman is at fault, not the man? You mean the same woman who had a child for this bastard?! I really don't get how some of you reason o. It is frightening. Be like say my sister go target abroad men or other African men cos if na so una dey reason eh....

pocohantas:
The man that killed is not after money.
It is always the woman. I wonder when you guys would advise yourselves for once.

The girl in the story clearly broke up with guy, but no, you didn't read. You must blame women.

Everytime, yenyenyen money. Someone that came to pick her with motorcycle (OKADA) is rich? Y'all keep projecting your inadequancies on women. This is a broke man. Any man can be violent, rich or poor!

Apart from Killaboi, none of these lads caught are rich. I no too get money, but I am richer than all, including the recent bastard in Port-harcourt. Honestly, the way the majority of our men defend these acts is appalling and terrible. No wonder they keep having issues with law enforcement authorities in civilised societies. This girl even had a child with the broke boy!!!!!

Sure, any man can be violent, but broke men are the most likeliest of men to be very violent.

fullclub:
i haven't paid i only paid 6.7million naira as deposit fee then used rest to start processing visa and flight, etc

like i said if ur parents could fund your fees 100%, fund ur accommodation, living expenses even in Buhari tenure they are wealthy and u should thank them very well.

Thank you for the compliments. I am curious though, no scholarships or scholarship stipend from the school or tuition waiver?

fullclub:
which entry jobs.. be specific. even sweeping, washing of plates in kitchen, washing toilet.. they ask of UK experience, probably its what the government tells them.

I know you are exaggerating, but I find that both laughable and pitiful. UK experience to wash toilet?!

those that came in last year . said they got jobs after few trials due to extreme shortages due to Britain exit from EU but now job are scarce thats why they are now selecting based on experience cos it cost them much to retain u.

There are Indians, Pakistani, Malaysians, chinese, Bangladesh name all those Asia countries more than the entirety of blacks...
in school u count this people 100 before u see a black man

Just a random observation, one always sees black people in UK adverts or exhibitions, yet the black population is largely infinitesimal compared to those in the bold. Black people no too dey that country as peddled by what I see on the media.

signature2012:
This guy is sharing his true life story so others won't fall victim.Many of you are still blaming him.

What's the % of Nigerians that can afford to pay full Tuition before they travel for studies?

Where I currently reside, not in UK, come and see lots of International students seeking for job daily.

Sincerely, if Nigeria was just a little good, why will they come here to study?
Someone is blaming the OP why he did not invest the 13m in Nigeria. Tell me one single business that's worth investing in that Country


Dear Op, dont give up!Dont come back!In few years time, you will come back to this thread and just laugh when things have finally turn around.

To be fair, there are multiple businesses worth investing in, just that investors should not go into processing or production without a strong financial war chest.

fullclub:
you have wealthy parents.. u have no issues... upper class.

talking about those.. lower class that even provide for their parents and also working day n night to remove poverty from their families.

My parents, upper middle class? Abeg o!

My parents just re-strategised when Buhari got elected in 2015. My dad stated it clearly then: "Buhari has always been incompetent. He would render the economy useless. We better get prepared".

You did not refute the claim that you did not completely pay a semester's tuition fees. If true, then you no try. That should have been sorted.

Taal17:
I still maintain that many pay upfront.
I already added that schools accept installments in fact they don't expect you to pay all your school fees at once You will come with one payment for school at least.

Completely or part payment? If completely, what is the percentage compared to the total number of students?

The real struggle for majority is living expenses and raising cash for the next installment.
OP arrived on student visa and didn't pay ANYTHING for school at all. He's only been here 1month plus na and he says school is on his neck. E no pay nothing for school be dat na

Would a student even do that in Nigeria ? Enter school no pay notin yet

Although, I did not see where he mentioned such, but if that is the case, then he is at fault. Not even a semester of tuition paid?! OP don fvck up!

tensazangetsu20:
Set up wetin. Businesses are crashing everyday. Emmaodet just even closed one of his factories in the agricultural sector. You think it's easy to do business in Nigeria.

The matter tire person tbh. When he mentioned that two Indians fled after their businesses flopped, I was shocked. Indians fit run leave Nigeria? The cost of running and maintaining generators to power one's businesses can be heartbreaking. I have not even mentioned the aspect of employees' honesty and government bottlenecks.

fullclub:
there has nothing that has been working in Nigeria. the political class has don harm than good.
no light.... here since I came no blink of light.. First time in my life.
water running 24/7
security.. no thieves.
all road paved.. 'good road network.
transportation superb etc

but immigrant getting job is not easy

UK people are very honest... when i say honest... i meant it.

if Government does provide this things no one will leave

Honestly, regardless of one's wealth in Nigeria, experiencing that stuff was surreal for me. Living in a place where electricity does not blink and things work as planned. I can understand how you felt. I felt somehow as if these people were from outer space. How could they build such a functioning society where everything works?

fullclub:
i won't suffer greatly. i have houses in different cities already in Nigeria. still running business bringing 1m. bur converting this money into pounds pays only rent

doing extremely well.
bought those properties by the grace of God. but disposing any more properties now? i can't.

A friend wanted to start same journey last week. but i told him honest opinion to back down.... give him detailed analysis all i have gone through.
so coming here is to warn Nigerians not to embark again... its no longer promising as before

Don't sell your properties. For no reason should you do so. I am fortunate my parents sponsored me, and nothing was sold. Rather more landed properties were bought even while I processing everything. My parents vowed never to sell anything and if it comes to that, I rather stay back. So I strongly advise, don't sell. Na by sheer hard work you buy them, no be steal you steal.

BTW, no scholarships or any sort of tuition stipend?

Taal17:
No need to argue
There are plenty who pay their school fees upfront. Schools take installments too. You on the other didn't pay anything at ALL that's the issue.
More people are struggling with paying living expenses and second installment of school fees.
You sef no say you no try rara

Spend your energy on finding how to eat, bills increase as it gets colder

The question is: what is the percentage of Nigerians who pay complete fees upfront? That is what we should consider. If out of 10 Nigerians heading to the UK via study visa, only 3 paid complete fees upfront due to the high costs involved, then it means many will find it difficult to complete their fees while being students. Let's see things from his perspective. If OP is not attending an elite university and he mentions sums like 35 million, it means LSE, Imperial fit nack 60 million and Oxbridge go reach 100 million. How many Nigerians attend those schools sef?

fullclub:
i have been making contact. [b]most agency even asking for more money like 200 pounds[/b]etc.

Recruitment agencies request money from applicants before referring them to jobs?

fullclub:
i have job that pay me 800 pounds.. from Nigeria. i have my dependant.
my thoughts was that i can pay my fees from that and use my 20 hours pay rent then anything my dependant bring will be surplus.

yes school collects fees like that.. for a start... maybe if things stay okay in next year u pay in bulk... just to calm them down

i understand that Nigerians dont like any negative stories about abroad.
that was what i and my flatmate who sold his cars and house was saying this evening.
that returning to Nigeria now.. that Nigerians will say he is lazy that he rather die here.

i am putting this here for those who thought that they can navigate their way if they come here and they can see job in weeks. its a lie... 3 months don't be surprised nothing. i mean even the care job where they pack shit from old people. the places don full

God abeg!!!!

OP, I applaud your honesty tho. To be honest, N35 million to N40 million is quite a lot to raise without selling properties and assets. E no better I use am raise goats inside Ikot Ekpene?

Good luck to everyone involved.

ednut1:
His mother should be arrested too. There is a voicenote of her blasting the wife for reporting saying is her son the first to do this. Useless family

I am proud of the wife! The mother is a bastard just like cjstarz

CJStarz:
I was tempted to respond to you , insult for insult, stupidity for stupidity, brashness for brashness,but I chose to decline.
Dancing naked in the public because a dancing naked mad man invited me to do so is pettiness. CJ is not that petty
Have a very good day, Gerald

Coming from a bastard who supports a man who forced his wife's niece to give him BJ and recorded the acts, you are very useless!

Bastard!

LAW2577:
i don't support rape, this is suppose to be a family matter but it is like his wife is tired of him and heart broken and cannot forgive him or they don't have children?

Whether they have children or not, is that why he had to FORCE HIS WIFE'S NIECE TO GIVE HIM BJ?! There is nowhere in the civilised world where such is acceptable! None whatsoever. With the responses I have read from useless bastards such as you and others, I am EXTREMELY ELATED the UK and the entire Western world deal with you people.

Throw the black monkeys into the jail and the keys into the Atlantic Ocean. Develop their societies, they cannot. Na only fvck dem sabi. OK, fvck adult women? Mbanu! Na to dey fvck their house maids and wives' nieces!!


Jail the bastards!!!!!!! Kill the bush monkeys whose only achievement is dangling their smelly preek chanting alfa meil, alfa meil. alfa meil!

HaneefahRN:
God bless the wife for not covering up the man's atrocities against the niece. Some will cover up the he-goat to protect their yeye marriages. The reason some do these things is cos they know their wives as expected by 'our hypocritical society 'will cover them and it will be turned to 'family secret'. Some women even stay married to men sleeping with their daughters and they are aware.

Cheat if you wan cheat, don't destroy a minor's life placed in your care with your randiness.
We will see his fellow randy men defending him and insulting the wife for not ignoring evil.

Honestly, I am appalled by their excuses. There was no justification for the man's actions. None whatsoever. As a senior doctor with a British passport, nothing stopped him from flying baddies to Ghana, Seychelles or Namibia to fvck. Nothing stopped him from engaging in orgies with 25 year olds and paying them off. But going to force HIS WIFE NIECE to give him BJ and RECORDING the acts is total madness!!! Honestly, he is lucky I am not a Lagosian elite, I would appeal the case and push for the death penalty.

He and his supporters are bastards!!!

DarkCaesar:
You self destruct when you don’t marry a woman who loves you more than you love her it doesn’t submit to your authority……..worst cases than this had been resolved amicably between in-laws talk less of one between your wife and
you

Another bastard! So resolving a case where a 50 year old forces his WIFE NIECE to give him BJ is self destruct?!! So submitting to your authority is when you are given the liberty to sleep with a 15 year old girl who is your wife's niece?!!!

FOOL!

CJStarz:
This doesn't warrant a life imprisonment.
His could his wife be so vindictive and inlaws so unforgiving?

They just want to do away with the man.

Not in support of what he did to the girl in question but sentencing him to life imprisonment is way out of it.
Such a national asset.

This same girl will still allow some boys bleep her and go Scot free.
The wife will go ahead and sleep with another man or otter men.

You people are darn so irresponsible. So, the doctor is not fault, but his wife and wife's relatives for doing BJ with his niece?!!!!!! You people are useless! Effortlessly useless and stoopid! If the girl wants to sleep with other boys, most likely within her age range, it is out of CONSENT. Not when she is forced to sleep with her uncle who is over 50!!!!!! For crying out loud, why should an uncle sleep with his wife's niece?!!!!! Huh! Nonsense national asset! Was your national liability forced to do BJ with a 15 year old?! Why did he not enter Lekki or Unilag to hire an 18 year old to suck his wrinkled deek?!

Bastard!!!! Spits!!

skj1377:
All his 9 years in medical school wasted!. Women bringing down men steady. That was how a friend of mine spent nine months in a prison in Ghana while his case was still yet to be heard in court just because he slept with a 16yrs old lady. It was shameful for his wife in Nigeria as he could no longer run his family financially in Nigeria. Luckily for him he was granted bail and escaped to Nigeria. Men should exercise restraint. Deal with mature ladies only.

For crying out loud, how did the women bring him and your friend down?!!!! Was he forced to sleep with the 16 year old?! Did anyone force these men to sleep with underage girls?! What sort of abdication of responsibilities be this one? How can you blame women when it was an adult man WHO WILLINGLY SLEPT with underage girls?

No wonder you lots are in jails in the abroad. Tomorrow, this bastard doctor will say people should not relocate to the UK, not knowing he was sex offender. Useless people! You people are so irresponsible!

Crafteck1:
I hope he really did it and this is not a set up.

He is accused of cuming into the girl's mouth. Can a man be set-up to release sperm into a girl's mouth?! C'mon!!

Let's be accountable for once!

When Abe Shinzo had ulcerative colitis, he stepped down as prime minister to treat it. After recovery, he returned to politics. Years later, it relapsed, and he finally stepped down from active politics. When Lee Kuan Yew's PAP lost a record number of elective seats in 2011, he resigned from active politics. But in Africa, people dey siddon put. Tomorrow, these modafvckers will compare themselves to outsiders?!

Toilet elites!

YoobaNesan:
@Nipf.mod, pan.sophist, Gerr.ard59, nairalan.da1

Nigeria would not divide, because for the country to divide, there has to be a war. No country in modern-day history has disintegrated without fighting a bloody war (Singapore was a different case as she was expelled against her wish). Nigerians are not ready to fight a war. Inasmuch as the country is ethnically fractured, Nigerians have become more interwoven among themselves than before. And if the country is going to disintegrate, there would be more countries created out of it than the USSR.

However, one thing I am ready to bet on is that Nigeria's future will be more Islamic. The country is going to be a majority Muslim nation. That could necessitate the division, but looking at Lebanon, it did not divide. South Sudan is a different case. https://www.nairaland.com/7621766/tinubus-nigeria-nigeria-2050

People might not believe it, but just as I predicted Peter Obi's failure and Europe's bromance with Islamic terrorists, I will here to remind everyone when we start having Ekaette Mohammed, Ezinne Umar and Pepple Musa.

googi:
Gerrard59:

It is not every time some people are worthy of reply. Your main point is that I have some angst against people who call Nigeria unpredictable names because you are one of them.

Oga, people would always migrate. So, your agony is misplaced. Indians and Chinese emigrate more than Nigerians. Before COVID, Chinese constituted the largest number of foreign students in Canada, UK, Australia, US, South Korea and Japan. In Germany, they constituted the largest contingent of non-EU citizens. Is China poor? Go to Panama, Brazil, and Namibia (10% of the entire population), Chinese are everywhere.

Migration is as old as mankind.

emmaodet:
I doubt that bro.
To the best of my knowledge, solar can only power single phase machines or engines and not industrial 3-phase machines.
You only need 1 line out of the 3 lines in a pole to power a house but you need the complete 3 lines full 220v to power and run a 3-phase industrial machine.

Most Nigerians entering small and medium scale biz are you average Nigerians with 2 to 5m trying to start something. Not someone with 50 to 100m cash on ground to hit the ground running

Thank you for your analysis. It correlates with what I read from another entrepreneurial Nairalander how he and his friends had to waive off starting a factory because of the costs involved and the long time it would take to break even. About entrepreneurship, it is long term game sha . ploughing money for the long term. So, yeah, the Chinese will succeed because of cheap capital from Chinese banks. I hope to try that with Japanese banks when the comes. Capital is too cheap here.

I believe the Kano and Gombe scenario because they are close to the raw material, cheap labour and as you said, they work in clusters. I just believe there are ways around this stuff. No wonder many of my Igbo brothers establish these things before marriage, because starting a business and marriage at the same time no be child's play. Because I think it is marriage that has kept you down in the south instead of moving to the north. An alternative source of finance is diasporans investing their money into trusted friend's businesses. That way, you get cheap dollars. However, due to the devaluation of the naira, recouping their money will take a long time except one goes into export.

The matter get as e be.

googi:
If the lady in the video is reading this, please consider your complaint normal and human. It showed you come from a civilized community and found yourself within antisocial humans than Africans.

Why are Indians gaining ground in U.K and Canada? They love and cherish their country of origin. They develope their Youths and lift many out of poverty.

India comes behind Nigeria in the list of countries with the most poor people. Also, Indians and even Chinese emigrate WAY MORE than Nigerians.

When they were selling their children to eat, those in Nigeria as teachers etc. were sending money home. Asia went from the face of abject poverty to sending astronauts to moon.

Nigerians in the abroad do send money home just like Indians. Indians sent over $100BN, while we sent over $20BN. India is no different from Nigeria, except that India is more culturally homogenous than Nigeria. That is the saving grace.

While Nigeria went from a country flowing with milk and wara with Cocoa money to abject poverty with deluge of Oil money.

Good you are asking the right questions. However, I don't see how the girl in question is at fault.

Asians are respected outside for what they achieve at their country of origin.

This is true. However, you should be specific with the class of Asians. East Asians are more respected than South Asians.

Nigerians call their country all kinds of unpredictable names.

Because the country is ethnically divided and Nigerians are only Nigerians in name, not cultural or religious affinity. Citizens who bash their country steadily tend to be from ethnically/racially heterogeneous ones. The more homogenous a country is, the less the bash.

Ask any foreigner, including Trump: they heard or would tell you Nigeria is the best place to make money.

Then why does Nigeria has the highest number of poor people in the world? Shouldn't the aspect of being the best place to make money reflect in the citizenry? BTW, how much have you made in Nigeria?

Check out the villages of those who call Nigeria unpredictable names, e worwor and that is why they run out. They are recruiting more glorified slaves abroad.

On the one hand, you praise Nigeria. On the other hand, you lampoon the villages of those who call Nigeria unprintable names. Additionally, if those who call the country unprintable names are fleeing, shouldn't you be elated? Come out clear: do you have any problem with a section or set of Nigerians? If yes, who might they be?

googi:
God bless you sir. Somehow I missed this your comment.

If there is anything to learn from this lady, it is that most Africans come from highly civilized communities. Cannibals have redefine "civilized" to mean "survival of the fittest". So they roam around the world looking for conquests or fomenting trouble within societies to divide and conquer them.

Today, they no longer need to do that. We used our life savings and fortune to buy tickets on Boeing 707 to volunteer for services.

We claim we are sending our children abroad for "good education". warped education that will turn your children against you, your civilized culture and countries.

The major reason most Africans are emigrating to Western nations is because of economics. If African economies were OK like Malaysia or South Korea, MOST would not bother. Two, some people have been scarred for life. An average Northern Christian will live safely in Norway than in Gombe or Benue. Humans are not as dogmatic as you seem to be.

pansophist:
It is always Canada.

Western countries generally are depressing for a hotblooded African, but Canada is like the godfather of all. Canada was the only country I have visited, and changed my flight, just to leave it earlier.

To live there for me will be suicidal. It's soulless, boring, extremely cold, very expensive, and too secluded. And it seems like all the mad people, from rabid homos, trans mofos, and pathological idiots are celebrated.

They are advertising a permanent residence to third-worlders because folks from the first world will not move there. As a Nigerian, I get it, go to Canada. But as a European? it's a massive downgrade.

Shouldn't that be Germany and the Netherlands?

BTW, how is Europe, especially Northern Europe, adapting to the new wave of Islamic terrorism?

emmaodet:
You can't blame the citizens much.
There is little a citizen can do if the government is bad.
Good citizen is directly proportional to good government.
There is little citizens can do when there are not stable 24hrs electricity to run a factory or company that produces jobs and taxes for government.
There is little a farmer can produce when his security is not guaranteed in the farm and bad roads to bring harvested crops to cities and no post harvest storage on ground for crops that can't be sold in days time.
I closed my vegetable oil factory last year due to power issues.
Many have closed and many will still close

I haven't looked at the numbers, but would solar installation by Daystar Power do the magic? Power is a major issue, but how are the Indians and Chinese still in business? That stuff bewilders me.

Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

As a young man I would like to say that if you are to really make head way there are some things you need to desist from especially as a young growing man out there, who is trying to survive and one of these things is chasing or going after everything in skirt or has the tag 'woman'.
The reason why most men never tend to make it in this life or ends up in a cycle of struggle most especially as a young man is the life of philandering or womanizing, keeping a retinue of sex partners and spending money and energy just to satisfy a momental urge.
You can't make a headway in life as a young man, when what clouds your thoughts every second is sex, women and how to have a chain of girlfriends calling yourself the boss.
It is not just a waste of resources but a waste of life.
Such a life will only bring you to zero, truth is hard and bitter but must be told, a man whom is after thinking after women and cannot redirect that energy to how to make better his life cannot make progress in life, his life will be so clouded and confused.
Philandering or womanizing is not the way to go, you as a young man out there, it isn't enjoyment you're into but something that can drain

While it is good to let young men know that there is more to life than women, it is important to know that the biggest PATRONS of sex workers/escorts/hook up babes are MARRIED MEN/OLDER MEN. The percentage of well-to-do men who don't have extra-marital affairs or concubines no reach 1% of the total well-to-do men. Married men, not young bachelors, are the biggest sex addicts. This belief that a rich man does not engage in philandering is false. History shows that ALMOST every rich man has a side chick, including your darling pastors. My parents made their wealth by owning hotels, and I came across men who fvck a lot. Here is a fact: 95% were married men, and the majority drove exotic cars, had many landed properties, children and businesses. Some were in high positions in the society. Are you richer than Otedola who imported these twins: https://sunnewsonline.com/how-matharoo-sisters-got-billionaires-ruffled/; https://www.nytimes.com/2018/11/10/style/the-canadian-kardashians.html Are you wealthier than Dangote whose yansh got shown to the public?!

So, please spare us the crap!

CandidAdmin:
But wait!
I don't have to work in an hospital na. Ain't there pharmaceutical company someone can work in?

Just thinking

A lot, but what is the incentive to employ a foreigner who does not speak Japanese when there are numerous foreigners inside the country who studied at Japanese universities and speak conversational Japanese? If you want to work in the pharmaceutical industry, I strongly advise you to apply to universities to do a graduate program. You get in line for the standard recruitment process and learn Japanese during this period. While outside, your surest route is to transfer from a branch office to the Tokyo/Osaka/Kyoto branch of a global pharma company OR be highly skilled such that companies go all the way to applying for a work visa on your behalf even if you don't speak the language.

Karleb:
So what happens to the ugly and flat ones who are in to the trade?

Aside that, for the beautiful ones, the supply still out weighs the demand. Not all financially capable men patronize prostitutes.

Coin different marketing terms for women with such body structures. Advise them to treat their patrons with respect, which will make them return. Link them to clubs so they act as strippers or bar girls. The one I saw on YabaLeftOnline earned quite a lot for the role she played compared to an average girl on Codedruns. She wasn't even beautiful.

While the bold is true, by being where these financially capable men are present, there are opportunities for them to earn well. A hooker from Calabar who moves to Lagos to act as a wine-carrying girl will out-earn whatever she earned in Calabar. I knew girls who moved to Lagos to "hustle" and later return to their bases. I know one who changes location from FESTAC to Lekki periodically. That is a strategy, man.

Strategic options for girls with flat yansh, small breasts and ugly face: offer the following:

- Anal rimming
- Anal sex
- Cum in the mouth
- Cum on the face
- Cum on body
- Swallowing cum

Charge thrice the usual rate. Many hookers offer COB, anal sex and COF and a growing number now offer anal rimming. There are men who are willing to pay thrice the standard rate for those services. Target that market. You think every girl in Dubai is beautiful? Why do you think scat (defecate in the mouth) is common among hookers there? Economics calls it market differentiation. Example:

https://t.co/rL6a40plzi pic.twitter.com/2gq17vgcQj

— YOM🗣️ (@ThaBoyYom) October 22, 2023

In America for instance, a lot of only fans girls don't actually make meaningful money, especially beyond the first month.

A lot of these women hawk their channels on Twitter and other socials. You go dey see "I am the hottest 18yr old on onlyfans".

A lot of companies don't generate revenues like others, which is why they hire consultants to aid them with strategic advice. It is the reason McKinsey, Bain & Co., and Boston Consulting Group exist.

Bring that to Nigeria, the poverty capital of the world and you'd understand why people are doing 2k hook-up.

I'd reiterate that I'm no saint but in prostitution, the reality is often disappointing.

The reality is that few people will be in the upper class of society, and lots of people in the middle class. An average Nigerian girl can go places if she positions herself in the sex industry game if she is willing.

Sex is a business.