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The same menace is in Barbados and most islands in the Caribbean. There, people have had their legs amputated due to chronic diabetes. Coca-cola and KFC don nearly finish them, until politicians had to intervene by introducing steep taxes on their products and offerings as a means to dissuade consumers. Fortunately, it is working gradually. People should mind what they eat and drink. Regular exercise odikwa necessary. Stress no be exercise o.

As for South Africans, with the steatopygia that is prevalent in its women, it means they are on their way to becoming baby-whales.

1Sharon:
Phrankleen lives in Nigeria!

Fantastic! Finally, he gets to practice what he has been preaching for donkey months. Even though he holds unto his British passport, it is a wonderful first step in the right direction.

1Sharon:
You want me to stay on topic but you want to be deceptive about your identity?

Why do caribbeans especially Haitians and Jamaicans want to escape the Caribbean?

Every sane Haitian should strive to flee the country na. Is that question really necessary?

eteebanky1:
Is Islam making it any better??

Dy use your brain once in a while

To be fair, Muslim parents protested enmass against the teaching their children transgender mumbo-jumbo in public schools. In a city they dominate electoral offices, they voted against it.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/jun/17/hamtramck-michigan-muslim-council-lgbtq-pride-flags-banned

odenkirk:
when you dont have issues to deal with you turn to madness.here we r battling hunger,poor roads no electricity no good health care facilities who will think about stupid lgbtq

Singapore, Japan and South Korea are equally prosperous places, but this nonsense will never happen in those countries. Malaysia is doing pretty well economically and in infrastructure, yet such nonsense can never happen. The same applies to Taiwan, Hong Kong and big bros China.

JohnBullMySon:
Ok let me tell you how this things work in reality. Hardly is there any school in the US is UK that sits to teach these things to young children. There's simply no school that teaches young children sex acts.

These are books that are mostly targeted at late teens but are kept in school libraries where kindergarten may be able to access technically.

Conservatives will find these books in the libraries and begin to spin silly narratives. Their number one weapon is fear mongering, telling us that things are getting destroyed while in reality nothing ever gets destroyed. The guy that told us that he's the only one who can save America is the same person that almost destroyed the Independence of American institutions.

That is not true. If so, why were Muslim parents in the US protesting against transgender acts being taught to their children? Why did the same Muslim parents voted against such in a district they dominate?

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/jun/17/hamtramck-michigan-muslim-council-lgbtq-pride-flags-banned

The facts are clearly laid, no point trying to double-speak.

ednut1:
frankleen now does babalawo /ifa stuff hahaha

I really hope he is cashing out, though. If not, na waste of time and the mumu subscribers. One wonders why has he not returned ever since? You see people who continuously say one thing and never do it. Ndi do as I say, not as I do. They never get to practice what they preach.

JeffreyJunior:
Story is about foreigner, a Dutch in particular but writeup smells Nigerian, the one that lives likely in Ogbomosho, not even Lagos or Abuja.

It's just like the case of "voice of Jacob but hand of Esau".

I'm fed up with fake stories here.

I am forced to agree. Reminds me of dem monikers - Cap28 and 50Calibre. Those niggas will stay in one room somewhere in London, pontificating about returning to Africa. To date, none has returned. Pharkleen does the same nonsense on YouTube. The OP's account is also new. Meanwhile, she has known Nairaland for donkey years. I am always wary of folks who want to return yet discourage others from leaving after making money, becoming naturalised citizens, etc.

FAKE NEWS!

ednut1:
The Ghana you talked about. Many are running back to USA. If you have money you can try it that is can afford places where rich people in Nigeria stay and the schools. If you are poor or just average in your current country you will suffer o

African Americans are so used to the American lifestyle, so I am not surprised they fled. Anyone who grew up in sub-Saharan Africa for the first 25 years of his/her life will have fewer issues compared to African Americans. Like this now, wetin go hard me to stay in Ghana?

lawani:
Most if not all women that have ever shown interest in me did so because of factors radically removed from money. It may be because of an intense conversation that we had or because they see that I normally carry myself carefully. I have also had two occasions where elderly men tried to compel me to marry their daughters. I had no car and was merely a struggling business man with a business facing challenges. It is totally wrong to say true love does not exist. It is not true especially for ladies that did not come from inside poverty.

Those experiences of yours, in Canada or Nigeria? If any, why did it not work out?

Nbv1:
You are very correct, it is difficult to find true love here, Nigerian girls are even worse, that's why they all remain single till they hit menopause. They copied the same western culture once they get in here. To ask for their number becomes problem “ the girls are struggling yet they are only looking for guys that Are already stable of which the Canadian capitalist system of government Makes it difficult for many to succeed in short time. The girls from the west are worst. they package a lot and live fake life here just to trap guys who are even struggling in the first place. Their was a French girl I recently went on a date with, just because I got to the city where she resides using the subway and Uber, she came to pick me up using a Mercedes benz she was financing, after the date the b...tch told me she can't be with a man that is struggling and taking Uber and using subway lol. Since that day I just blocked her. The same miserable girl went on IG TO LAMENT HOW HUSBAND is difficult to find in Canada. I have a full time job, I am saving up for real assets and cutting expenses, avoiding insurance on liabilities taking up my money. The girls Aim is to take the little a man is struggling to save up.

The number one mistake you made is believing there is true love. That stuff does not exist, especially if the person did grow with you from, say, secondary school. I don't know why many men believe there is true love. Secondly, I am quite shocked many Nigerian ladies are hitting menopause. I thought Ednut said Nigerians in Canada are marrying themselves instead of going to Nigeria to get partners Third, e be like say na sex for you dey look for. To make it worse, you wanted osho-free.

P.S. Nothing like free sex. You pay at a point.

ednut1:
you still be student abi? Even 9ja babes wey be student will run from a male student. Na stable and established guys most of them dey find. Manage the ones you see for now hahahahah black white green . You can try hinge and bumble.

Isn't that platform too hard or unrealistic for a typical Nigerian male let alone the one on a student's visa since women control the swiping there?

I am not surprised by his preference for Nigerian ladies. Na those wey never visit embassy go dey chant Team Foreign women. When they reach there, an Amaka or Bolu dem go finally dey hunt for.

Slynation:
Is this playing?? well, everyone knows their strength and weaknesses, someone who's not good in calculation can't make first class in science courses, but someone who's good in calculation can easily make first class in art courses ...

Good, you stated that because there was a BGS from Benue State University who dropped out from the Physics department in his third year to enrol into Psychology, and the rest is history. Or a child of a Nobel laureate who studied Physics and later became a renowned professor of economics.

With that, do you now agree that it is easier to make a first class in any science course than art? Since those from science can attain the same feat in humanities, but not the other way around.

This pastor, just like his other pastorprenuers, whose churches have branches in only economically viable states and Abuja, has never condemned the continuous, consistent and relentlessly butchering of Christians in Northern Nigeria. In fact, no megachurch General Overseer has whispered, let alone murmured, as to why Nigeria has the highest number of slain Christians globally than even an atheist nation such as China. Meanwhile, Nigeria has some of the richest pastors in the world, and actually in Africa.

It is why I am not moved or fazed by what a Nigerian pastor of a church based in the south has to say. There is nothing they know about the Bible that I don't know. The day anyone who knows me off Nairaland sees me in a church in Southern Nigeria, know that I am there to hunt for toto to fvck. Nothing else. I will be there to hunt for beautiful, naive, and sometimes confused ladies to have sexual romps with. I will have them give me different sex styles ranging from cowgirl to missionary to reverse cowgirl to spooning. As icing on the cake, I will request for exhilarating anal rimming, then continue to a sensational BJ which will end with me cu.ming on their delightful faces then finish off with cu.mming into their mouths. After which, they swallow my hot cu.m. I rather watch paint dry off the wall than listen to whatever a so-called mOG of a church in the south has got to spew, whereas none has condemned the killing of Christians in the north.

Modafvckers!

Farid24224:
So because a small girl tells you she likes you... (like ooo)

That means she wanna hump with you?! C'mon brudda

You are responding to a brick wall. There is nothing in that paedophile brain of his. That is the reason they get nabbed in the abroad and start blaming the devil.

Thankfully, with this achievement and that of Ayodele Dada from UNILAG, ignorant and foolish Nigerian yoots who lampoon private universities for churning out too many first class graduates will clip their fingers and shut their mouths. So should/when ABUAD or Babcock does the same tomorrow, let one come to say tRy iT iN a fEdErAl/sTaTe uNiVeRsItY

Carlyboi:
That’s quite impressive especially in the faculty law. LASU’s law Faculty has been one of the best in Nigeria for awhile now they’ve churned out brilliant legal minds.
It should be the school or her faculty that’s awarding her the 500k,I believe the governor and other prominent and wealthy individuals affiliated and associated with the school and the state at large would offer her scholarships and cash gifts too financial institutions and private organizations,multinationals might offer her sponsorships.

Some of the banks that conduct their business in the school do award cash gifts to the best graduating students of some departments

Congratulations to her it’s such an impressive feat. Keep flying the school’s flag high and be a worthy ambassador I strongly believe great things await you.

You are right about the bold. If I may ask, what is the secret considering UNILAG is close by and can absorb the talented professors LASU possesses?

judedwriter:
Congratulations to her. She's an intellectual genius.

It remains masters and PHD.

There is so much more to women than posing nude on social media.

Unless she is going into academia, those degrees are pointless. Even if she aspires to be in academia, experience in the industry aka law firms will add more value and exposure than just adding two more degrees and becoming a lecturer. Also, she gets to earn more money in the process working for Nigeria's Magic Circle's equivalent. Aluko and Oyebode will be on her back now.

Slynation:
FEG 404 says hi...!!! You are comparing a la cram la pour course with science courses...just dey play!! In a science course where you are asked to answer four questions, but only number 1 might take all the time to solve...

Una dey amaze me shaaaah!!

So why does almost every university around the world, including Nigeria and down to the southwest and Lagos have more first class graduates from science programs than art/social science/humanities courses?

Making a first class in ANY ENGINEERING course is easier than, say, History or Law or Sociology.

Dybala11:
It depends on your perspective o, come to the department of chemistry at my Alma Mater and try to have/maintain 5.0 CGPA till graduation. In fact the best/highest CGPA in the department of pure and applied chemistry in my Alma Mater is 4.90 and it was recent sef. And the girl wey get am na 🔥🔥🔥🔥

He did not say it is impossible in sciences. He stated it is harder in humanities programs, so anyone who achieves it should be rated higher than the STEM individual. It is easier to make a first class in Chemistry than Law, anytime, any day and anywhere.

DeLaRue:
Getting 5.0 GPA in any art course over a 4 or 5 year course is extraordinary.

Art subjects are usually easier to study than science subjects.

However, because art subjects are not exact and there are often no single universally accepted answers in written exams, a 5.0 GPA in a pure art course is more difficult to achieve than in most science courses.

First time I am reading someone echoing what I have been writing for donkey years.

Nice to see, honestly.

Congrats to the lass. I will be interested in her profile by 2030. After all, Ayodele Dada, another 5.0 graduate from the sister university - UNILAG - is a Knight Hennessey Scholar at Stanford University.

pansophist:
I responded to your last mention of me twice, but apparently, it's like village people have reasoned my matter. Them dey ban me for 24 hours for foreign affairs section and my comment hidden.

For example this morning, I responded to you again with just "okay", and it was an automatic ban. I mean, okay Obviously is now word that NL doesn't want lol.

E be like say some wicked people wey hate the truth I dish out there want to silent me. But I no care. All of them are mad.

It could be the anti-spam bot that does so especially if you stay too long while typing a comment. On the other hand, the mods are not active there to rescind the ban and return the post as Just.wise does in the Travel section provided it is insult free.

Raalsalghul:
The financial aspects of hypergamy is relative and not a one size fits all.

Reason being why a certain SSCE educated Kudirat living in a one bedroom face me I face you with her parents in Ajegunle will mate with an OND educated Kunle living in a self-contain in Orile.

Or why a Blessing who has lived in a one room self contain in Oshodi with an OND education will mate with a BSc educated John who is a able to afford a two-bedroom flat in Agege.

In both cases, both guys are not multi-millionaires but there are women willing to mate with them hence there is that statement "find your level"

The bold should be screamed to almost every young Nigerian man, especially those on social media. These lads want to mate the likes of Lydiaaofficial on a 50K per month income. Fear no dey catch them?

At the same time, young Nigerian ladies should be mindful of the content they consume from such a lady and her cohorts as very very few Nigerian men can afford that kind of lifestyle.

It is the reason this alfa meil, red paracetamol aka red pill and Ndi feminism ideologies no dey move me. Nigerians are too poor to be indulging in these issues. The Nigerian economy is too poor to support these trivialities. Singaporean youths no dey interested and even Malaysian youths, but every time Nigerian youths dey open mouth chanting alfa meil and feminism one thing, one thing. The Nigerian economy cannot sustain cinema patronage, so why are her young people discussing about 16K or 12K date?! If God wants to disgrace us, let our matter enter Asia's fast-growing and developed economies' social media space, and we will chop insults. The reason Westerners don't put mouth is because they will be accused of racism. After all, Ghanaians and Zambians mocked Nigerians online because of 12K naira.

As regards looks, the truth you'll have to later accept is that no matter how ugly Nigerian men are, there women still find them attractive if not why do we have single mothers everywhere with deadbeat broke dads.

Surely, this men must have satisfied the looks hypergamy of these women to be able to mate with them. It's only when compared to their abroad counterparts that Nigerian men become ugly. And don't also forget that Nigerian women on the other hand, men of the other races don't find them that attractive so who do you want them to mate with if not their fellow Nigerian men.

All these hypergamy and looks discussion are not as straightforward as we make it out to be sometimes. There are several other factors that come into play.

Fair deal. las las, Nigerians will marry themselves after wailing online about alfa meil, Agbafianism and Ulomaism.

I will be here to remind them.

Raalsalghul:
Facts!

An intelligent write-up.

So, what should young Nigerian men do, most of whom are not handsome or financially stable?

CuriousStudent:
Apples and oranges. You know who I am referring to when making reference to baby mamas/single mothers. Our entire discussion was never based on women with legitimate children.

My bad then.

Okay I take the blame for my explanation, I didn't mean providing all fatherly duties. Being present in mother/child and involved in whatever way is what differentiates a baby mama from single mother. That explains why the former would find it harder to settle down than the later because any potential spouse would be wary of the fact that the child father is still in the picture.

OK, understood.

And surprisingly these women are more hypergamous as they need money for theirchild(ren). That explains why I laugh when our Alfa meils posts their fictitious tales of encounters with single mothers. If women without children are rejecting you for being broke how can I woman with a child to feed navigate to you?

That is true. Initially, she might need a male figure for her children especially if they are boys. However, in the long run, if the man is not contributing financially, she will jump ship. The koko is finance.

To each his own,but in my books this is the wrongest of all reasons to marry. Take advantage of the fact that society is lenient to single father's,and keep your children with your parents while visiting frequently and sending upkeep money.

LOL!

It is actually scientifically backed that children raised in a two-parent household out-perform their counterparts from single-parent households. This is a global phenomenon. It is why East Asians outperform most ethnicities in the US because the household is two-parent for a considerable in the kids' lives. People really downplay the importance of having two parents play their roles in children's lives, and it is hilarious to read/see. The same scenario plays out in almost every single country. I don't know the effects of raising children by single fathers vs single mothers, but if the opportunity is there to have two parents (man and woman) raise children, the benefits far outweigh that of single parenting regardless f the gender involved.

ednut1:
A newspaper could not search Linkedin

You expect a lot from Daily Trust. One can easily connect the dots why his profile was diminished.

HRMK:
but you refused to claim #dawson then!keep on distributing your natural lubricant to the naugty ones!mind you there is already #portable that has dusted your record in the game of #babymama!take note!!

Here you are stylishly condemning Davido's act, which I did. BUT recommended he undergoes vasectomy while you the Methuselah in General did not proffer any solution. So I ask again, which is better, have many children from different women or undergo vasectomy and have four children while fvcking around?

As the Methuselah in Chief of Nairaland, which is better?

HRMK:
hahaha.....you amuse me!how old are you before i proceed with you?i dont just waste my time with youths that feel they know all!

So, Methuselah, would you rather have five children from four women because you like to have sex with different women OR you have five children with one woman while fvcking around as a result of vasectomy?

You can write my name or moniker because I want to read your response since you are the oldest Nairalander to have quoted me. Write the name like this: "Gerrard59" since as the oldest Nairalander, you did not know how to make a mention.

CuriousStudent:
The thing is once you men hear baby mama you are armed to teeth.

Okay I guess you are mistaking single mother for baby mama (as you have used them interchangeable).
Single mom=raising a kid without the presence or support of father( the man is no where to be found in both mother and child life). In naija context it's mostly teenage pregnancy with the man absconding.

Aren't single mothers also a result of divorce? What about situations where the man died pre-maturely? As it is, many single mothers are in Plateau and Benue as a result of Fulani herdsmen atrocities.

Baby mama=having kid with a man and he is presence in their life( communication,financial support, visitation right).

The former (single moms) find it easier to get married than the later( baby mama).

In whatever case, their chances are still slimmer than childless women.

The presence in my opinion is largely negligible. The quality of the presence is close to zero. If divorced male partners are finding it hard to contribute to child-being, I don't see how baby papas will do. The issue is that you are looking at it from a celebrity POV. "Oh TuFace has money, so he is doing his part". Fine, but most baby papas are not TuFace or has the kind of money as he does.

Yes the former (single moms) do get married, but mostly to matured men or widowers or as second wives.
I never made mention of them marrying socialite but I know they rarely marry a young man struggling or starting his life, it is mostly matured financially stable men( not necessarily rich).

Expectedly, because in my opinion, it makes no sense for a single man who is trying to become responsible to marry a single mother when there are countless of young, unmarried and not pregnant or child-free women/ladies around.

I don't see baby mamas of celebrities undergoing any more hardship than the typical naija women. Go through many relationship blogs and see women complaining of one issue or the other.

Well, to an extent, you are right. But no relationship is problem free or issues free. There are always problems or hardship. Nigeria is a hardship country, e touch everybody.

The fact Sophie momodu came out to complain does not mean she is enduring more than the average naija woman (aside from trolling or stigma). To the best of my knowledge she was having custody issue with Davido at the time she made the complain. Except the ones that foolishly hoped or are still hoping for their baby daddies to come marry them. My previous post was about women that CONSCIOUSLY and DELIBERATELY become baby mamas of a celebrity. They have their whole life planned out for themselves.

Fair deal. They made their choice, which I respect.

Take it from me,aside from shaming and societal values mOst women don't care about marriage as you presume and the typical "punishment " or "consequences" redpillers envisage for women -inability to secure a man is losing its grip.

I do agree. Compared to say ten or fifteen years ago, many women are taking the bull by the horns regarding marriage and relationship. This is good as we have less people who were uninterested in marriage getting married.

All we women need is that fancy wedding, the honor of wedding ceremony and our picture on bella naija weddings blog in other to pepper our female friends. That is all.

Wel, some women would rather prefer to get married because they believe raising children within a two-parent household is better than off than staying childless for life or having a child(ren) with a man they are not married not over the bold in your post.

I am such a person, as the major reason I will want to marry is to have children within a two-parent household. Davido's or TuFace's, their mentor's, arrangement does not sit well with me.

To the last paragraph claiming that women don't marry for "prospects" women are still marrying for prospects,else you will not see wedding adverts on Saturday. 95% of men in naija have less than 500k in their account it means that most women are settling with the hopes that their man will make it in life

Good luck to everyone involved.

SangoOlukosoOba:


[b]You fail to attack the root cause and keep blaming what’s not. Davido was not forced to have sex with these ladies. It was a mutual consent. Why not blame the root cause instead of attacking the women.

If Davido was your son, will you blame the ladies fvcking him, or your son that is fvcking them?

You make it look like all these women in his life raped Davido!

On the issue of whether the man will consider the children he had outside marriage, I am looking at it from a legal perspective. Nothing concerns me with the tradition of the man. Except you have contrary evidence where legality gave way to tradition.

I gave an instance where I am fully responsible for having children with different women I am not married, yet complain of extortion from those women. I corroborated your earlier post where you mentioned wealthier male celebrities who don't have children outside a marriage setting. I am curious, why should the ladies not partake in the blame? They had the option of abortion or refusing to sleep with Davido. Tonia exercised hers when she left Wizkid. What stopped others from doing the same? Must they bore a child for a male celebrity who has a community preek? Why should I not hold them responsible?

When Davido mentioned that he married Chioma, I posted here that if Chi was my sister, I will stop communicating with her simply because of that act. If Davido was my brother or son, I will do the same. I don't like irresponsible people, especially after I warned them of the potential damages their actions will cause.

Gerrard59:
Including relatives and siblings. I am not richer than Davido or his family, but if my sister was Chioma, I wouldn't attend the wedding if she went on with it. Some might call it pride or ego, but I term it dignity and integrity. Mind you, this is includes his other baby-mamas o.

Annie Macaulay go become Emeritus Professor by fire, by force

I have been consistent. I mentioned the option of vasectomy for a randy man who rather than have children scattered here and there should opt for to fulfil his community preek activities. A lady can adopt a similar contraceptive method to stop pregnancy. Options abound, those who refuse to choose and exercise any should be allowed to face the consequences and accept the blame in its entirety.

UptownVibes:
Op doesnt know anything.. This goes to show that most nairaland ops write tales on assuption .. If you had said it comes with serious reperccusion or that the wealth doesnt last,i will say you are on point. But saying it doesnt exist,shows you do not know anything. Op pray make them no use you plus

I showed you evidence of why the demand for dead body parts exists. Kindly show me the evidence of how someone got rich by using the blood or body parts of a dead person through chanting mumbo-jumbo. Using cadavers is admissible in almost every part of the world. How come becoming rich through screaming nonsense via ritual killings only happens in Nigeria - the world's poverty capital?

Are you saying Koreans would not love to be rich if they knew it was by drinking the blood of a dead person? You think they like working long hours just to become middle class when to drink blood dey available?

Na so una believe say killing twins will stop calamity in the family.

CuriousStudent:
The incentives are high for them. Chopping like 500k monthly for child support, yearly rent and the rest ( top ranking celebrities can't tarnish their image by being deadbeats).

It makes sense if the girl comes from a poor or below average family. When analysed, one sees that none of the women involved in this arrangement come from below average families, except maybe Annie Macaulay. Hers is quite different because she has been with TuFace since its inception. So, has Chioma never seen or counted 500K since dem born am? How much is the tuition fee of Babcock again?

To many of them it is better than legally marrying a civil servant earning about 200k. Any woman that opts to be a baby mama ( not single mothers) most times are not interested in getting married. It is well calculated.

Fair deal if she is not interested in marrying. However, they should not come online like Sophia Mumudu to wail about how raising children as a single mother is tough, which she is not because David never married her. They should live with the choices they make.

In their 30s they settle for a widower/ divorcee/ single father or become second wife to a socialite. The only hindrance to the baby mama of a celebrity marrying afterwards it's the publicity. Infact mere dating a celebrity without having his kid(s) puts you at risk of being rejected by other men.

Is it really that easy? Pardon my ignorance, but which has successfully married a socialite or big man or even a politician as a second or third wife? Especially if the fathers (celebrities on their own accord) of their children are still alive.

At the bold, I agree.

I don't see the difference between a second wife and baby mama except the title of "Mrs"

A second wife gives more protection to the wife and her children. In case of divorce or death of the man, the married woman will be considered first before concubines or baby mamas, which is logical and legal. Marriage actually protects women's interests. Mere being the mother of his child(ren) without marrying has no legal basis.

As marriage is losing value women are proudly embracing unions like "partnership","second-wifeism" "permanent concubine" "baby mama".

Fair deal, but they should not complain about how they cannot get a stable man in their lives or how it is not easy raising children or the kids having no fatherly figure in their lives. It is like me complaining that my baby-mamas are extorting me simply because they have my children. Meanwhile, I could have used condom, paid for an abortion, undergone a vasectomy or zipped my trousers. If people play stoopid games, they should expect stoopid prizes. People should learn to be responsible for their actions and accept the consequences that follow.

Ini Edo's model seems to be the best, and I applauded her for doing it with her chest.

And honestly instead of naively marrying a man with "prospects" in their early 20s, and coming online to rant after years of marriage of that prospect not yet manifesting ,the aforementioned unions are better.

Again, good deal. But the above still applies in such an arrangement. As for marrying for prospects, maybe my parents' generation. No young, university (polytechnic) educated and EXPOSED lady marries for prospects these days.