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simplepee:
Useless shameless man . Reason women should not bother going all out for most of these men. They are never satisfied and very ungrateful.

You don't need that, op doesn't need it. Point out his mistakes and advice him if you have any. His marriage is young, he's still learning and understanding things.

TrueChristians:
You married your wife without the direction of God you married in flesh , My brother seek the face of Jesus Christ ask for his direction am 100%sure the rightful person you will marry is still single .. look deeper and be spiritually Alert , sorry to say that your marriage will always start and end with quarrels and bitter heart she May never agree with you on any issues , Honestly you married the WRONG LADY

Honestly speaking, nothing is wrong with his wife. Just a financial problem and teething problems that are always associated with young and new couples, we all passed through that phase. At least, my wife and I did.
Then, Op should know how make firm beneficial decisions for the family and stand by it

Kapilta:
Honestly after reading this your gibberish, i think your wife married the wrong man actually and not what you insinuate.

Buy 150k land so you can join in building another set of slums in 2021 when we are already tired of the ones that abound everywhere. Poverty mentality kill you there.

And the lady is even supporting you one way or the other while pushing you to become your best version but poverty mentality has taken over your body and soul already.

Useless lots, when they find angels trying to bring out the best out of them in life they start to complain because they are so used to status quo. Nonsense. Poverty mentality kee you dia once more.

Good perspective but wrong tone because you are too harsh on the Op.

Romanoff:
I am telling you. If he put the energy he's using to carry his brother's problem into his marriage, he and his wife will be able to weather the storm approaching their marriage.

People no even wan put in work for their marriage the same way they don't want to put in work in a relationship.

As long as infidelity is not the cause of marital challenges, it can be worked on if the two parties are willing.

I've seen a marriage even scale through after infidelity.

Divorce is just the easiest and laziest way out for most .

Yeah, until one partner decides to off the other partner.

PervertProphet:
Woodenhead. I wanted to reply you but I read through what you wrote like a 100times and found not one iota of sensible stuff to respond to.

Can you write something sensible I can react to?

Why would it be sensible to you when you are extremely low on comprehending ability.

Xscape1993:
You can never become US president. Trump has done far far Worse for the Americans than any president in the history of Us.

No wonder he has the shiity worst record in the history of the USA. They voted him out for reasons. He even sacrificed like 5 lives for his exit from the power.

HantaVirus:
Americans would regret ever voting out Donald Trump ❗

Lol. They actually regretted voting him in four years ago. They simply corrected their mistake. But of course, I know that you are pained

danono:
It will be easier to forget satan than to forget Buhari in this country called Nigeria.

For me and my family, Buhari's administration is the best. I don't know about you and your family, whether you are better or worse than before Buhari came on board

Lol. And what about you Mr Fayose? How two planes were used to ferry 4 billion naira from Abuja to Akure airports for your governorship election! You think we are going to forget that in a hurry. But of course, many Nigerians have short memory

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PervertProphet:
You bet sure that some real Muslims will be taking advantage of this to unleash some of the sunnah of Muhammad-killings, terrorism, groom gang, dawah, etcetera on these "kuffirs" Americans.

It won't be just the "good" Muslims that will be crossing into the USA too. Some of Al-Bahgaddi's boys and devout Muslims will be crossing in to to avenge the death of their top leaders by Trump. They will come in lie quiet for some years even marry some of the "kuffirs" American women and after sometime they will unleash the true sunnah of Muhammad-killings&bloodsheddng.

Don't think the Iranian Muslim leaders will be sleeping. They will be sending in some of their boys to live "normal" lives. If possible, these white children of satan- liberals might use their service in taking out Trump. Trump has to up his Security service more than ever now.

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Trash. One would think that all those Trump's restrictions on Muslims entering USA didn't start just 4 years ago but 400 years ago with the way you're imagining things here. I wonder why they were not happening before the clown started his madness four years ago. Common sense is lacking in your post

superior1:
Undoing Trump immigration policy sounds great but stupid

I have never seen anyone more confused than you. I meant that what exactly is "sounds great but stupid"?

achierosion:
Let him invite all the terrorist the world has ever known to America.
Boko Haram inclusive

One IPOBian is in severe pain here.

Abovebest:
Americans are in for a long ride of what no one knows who it will Favour
I will just relax and see how this thriller will end

You see yourself, prophet of doom. I'm sure that you would be very happy if something unpleasant should happen to them just to prove something. They elected Trump four years ago and later discovered it was a mistake. Deal with it and move on.

AfonjaMuslim:
The same idiot that supported Buhari

Personally, I believed that your popsy is more idiotic than him. Buhari is a million times better than that mistake

Eluala:
Papa will indeed rest in peace. He died a legend, doing same thing for 4 score years. He died doing what he loves most and wishes to be remembered for. At 80 what else is there for him to live for?

Adieu Baba! Papa was indeed a rolling stone. Keep firing in the yonder if them kpekus be presented. Nothing do you. African Legend.

Hmmm, this got me. Like an expired item! Thanks for saying that o.

Moneywirer:
Believe me almost everyone in this country at this moment is dealing with one thing or the other which is directly or indirectly as a result of this present government.
The Judge was totally wrong though!!!!

I guess everyone wasn't dealing with one thing or the other which was directly or indirectly as a result of those past governments? Thanks for making me laugh this morning

“Whereof, my complaint is predicated on the fact that on 14th January, 2021 when I was before the Sharia Court, Magajin Gari, Kaduna, the judge whose name is Nuhu Falalu before whom I appeared, insulted me as an irresponsible person because I have my hair style grown up which he described me as a rascal for leaving the kind of my hair style and also called me useless Christian .

This guy is good, he's one of us. He knew what Nigerians are: religions enthusiasts and fanatics. He needs to whip up religious sentiment in order to gain more sympathies. If he is asked to call witness(es) now, the narration will change ASAP.
Not that judge was right but calling you "useless Christian" is far fetched

Hongkog:
But kogi has only 5 cases since March, getting to a year now, so which governor is deceiving poeple? The one that said malaria should be treated as Covid or this one?

He acknowledged 5 cases, simple. We don't need to be gullible. The governor who said that we should approach or handle malaria as covid-19 was simply telling us to be cautious instead of being careless. His state records highest number of cases in the country, you can't expect him to live in denial like Yahaya Bello

loosecanon50:
Truth be told, Yahaya Bello's approach to this Covid19 scamdemic is the only reason why I developed tiny respect for him. Every other thing na zero

I still don't get what makes covid-19 a scamdemic. Is it because it hasn't killed anyone in your family or what?

SIRRITE:
Oga irresponsibility does not make a father lost his biology child to another man.

Being a biological father doesn't really makes you a daddy, you could be a sperm donor in the eye of the law. If court says you are just a sperm donor, that's what you will be to the child. Responsibility takes a greater part in determining who the daddy is.

JuIiusmalema:
I can see the 14 deaths are from your family.
Senseless fellow

Well, every society has educated illiterates, the irredeemables and you're just happened to be one of them. Do you know one beautiful thing about covid-19 and nairalanders? That's if covid-19 kills you today or tomorrow, we may never know here because we are all anonymous here. But if it kills your mother or father, kindly come back and wail, we will be here to condole with you. Fool

SpecialAdviser:
FG is damn stupid.

Honestly I don't like to swear but surely it shall never be well for m.o.rons who have been defending this useless administration.

If it's well for you before Buhari came in, you wouldn't be here wailing today. Don't get your ass off the ground and go out there to get yourself busy.

Who taught Buhari that the best way to lead the people is by giving out government money? Peanuts for that matter. What shall it profit a man to collect N5000 and spend it within one day with the level of inflation in the market?

You need to research and learn more about social welfare intervention. Concerning 5k, it's not meant for you, it's for those who truly need it.

You destroy your economy and dash out 5k, who u help? How many lives changed with the useless trader money? At the end of the day you are just creating avenue for looting.

Can't this man come up with a constructive economic policy? So that people can fish well rather than receiving fish. Will 5k take Nigerians out of poverty?

Truly we need a business minded genus to run this country. Buhari is a mistake generations will live to regret. Tueee

Well, I don't blame you. You were used to PDP under Obj and Jonathan sharing this kind of money among themselves. Social welfare packages is alien to you like you can mention any developed country where things like this don't exist.
What I realised was that many of you who are fond of wailing were not even doing well for yourselves before Buhari came in. But if I'm wrong, tell us what you doing for living before Buhari came in and how Buhari's economic policy destroyed your business. Let's start from there. Because I know for a fact that Buhari's economic policy is centered around local production and reduction in import dependency.

favour32:
Nai good for Nigerians wey go dey suffer dey register for NIN currently.
Una neva start.
Register no!
Few people dey register daily in the past years.
Nimc offices be like graveyard in the past years.
Nigerians I don care attitude.E nor concern me attitude.
Dem go give money if I register attitude.
This country needs reorientation because the brains of most Nigerians are programmed to be indifferent.

Thank you man. Since this NIN and SIM cards linkage thing started, I have seen numerous nairalanders blaming the government for not giving the citizens enough time, not providing enough registration centers or facilities. Forgetting that these people who are now trying to register are the people who believed that they didn't need national id card. They are everywhere, many of them don't have voter's card too. And that was the same attitude that didn't allow them to register for national id card. They have this belief that they are helping the government by obtaining any form of government issued id card

Iyiataata92:
This is what you get when a government gives ultimatum to millions of it's citizens to be registered by an ill-equipped agency.

I don't see that as a reason for anyone to commit crime other than the fact that some people are pure criminals.
BTW: registration for national id card had been going on since 2013, all these people you see trooping to the registration centers now are the people who believed that they didn't need it. Quote me anywhere. But I get it, we enjoy blaming government for everything in Nigeria, citizens are never responsible for anything

mike8804:
that's why SARS dont mess up in the north.. na instant lynching but down south people will be forming sophistication in a jungle

You are yapping trash. Do your findings very well, you will discover that the number of unarmed civilians that have been killed by soldiers in Borno state alone surpassed all of southern states combined together. What the mob did was simple "enough is enough".

Audio Lekki massacre again! Na wa o

SIRRITE:
Oga my friend has claim his child like this through the government in owerri. The lady of the father is rathing up and and down that my friend has not paid his daughter birthprice that he doesn't the child will bear his name,my friend left them for four years, when small money enter my friend hand, he arrested the entire family with state c.i.d then, and immediately file the case to paternity court, in court there is nothing like in my culture court deal with fact and evidence, after DNA test the guy won the case, and court tell him to foot the bills of the chirdbirth bills.

That was because the child had no real man to call a dad, the family should even be happy in this case. The court and law is not blind to irresponsibility like the way you're presenting these issues.

SIRRITE:
U will come and tell me that in paternity court, after DNA u will telk court that u paid the birth rite of the woman so therefore u can claim another man child

Who will even give you the sample for DNA test? You impregnated someone and ran away, came back after many years to claim your imaginary child. You are more likely to end up in prison and no court will declare that the child is yours

Queenlovely:
so many fools with foolish opinions everywhere,

when everyone is too opinionated, it causes progress to stall, it's either my way or the highway.


you went to her wedding, took a photo and start open gossip about somebody, sometimes I just hate social media.

is she a baby? she is an adult and knows what's good for her,

The man is not even as old as Ned, the Regina husband. The lady in question even looks older than Regina. And the man is even more fit than all those pot belly gangs out there.
I don't understand where the perv was coming from.

oluwatosin070:
My opinion about the topic is I support sex after marriage..

I don't want to be religious but I believe that sex is not everything in marriage.

Then, why making big deal out of it?

You can have sex with your partner and still not get married to each other.

Moreover, is sex a criteria for a good marriage?

BTW..
this is the 3rd year without having sex but I'll admit it isn't easy but with God and discipline, I'm still standing strong..

Like I said, MY OPINION

One of the good criteria. Many couples have divorced over sex because one turned out to be "incompetent" after the marriage. Women are mostly the victims here.

Doradorwa:
My opinion about sex before marriage is that if you can help it then don't have sex till you get married... There are some things that are involve in premarital sex that are way bigger than us... You have unplanned pregnancy, sexual diseases, abortions that sometimes cause emotional breakdown for the woman...
If your partner is understanding and really want to be with you then the lust will die... Communication and understanding is what matter ... Cos sooner or later when reality of life kicks in sex stop being a priority...

Communication and understanding to the rescue of premarital urge? Lol.

Some people be scamdemic right now even with 14 deaths

Omihanifa:
Hmm make GOD just dey protect person for this evil world so because of 2 goats that is less than 50k, they took 6 human lives

You actually believed that crap? Lol