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sexybbstar:
Look at his armpits. Gosh!

So disturbing. Dirty armpits

I feel like vomiting........... this is so horrible to my eyes.

Mthewwwwwwwwwwwww, who cares?

I'm sorry to do this, but when I read the place your mother cried out cos she was bony it cracked me the fuvked up

Lillian is unforgiving, that's a bad sign. Her level of understanding and level of grasping a difficult situation is critically low. That's another bad sign.

Two most important powerhouse in a marriage 1) forgiveness 2) understanding, are terribly missing.

O.p, you don't need me to spell it out for you. Everything has been smooth until recently, now you just got hit in the jaw by something unexpected, far from the happy-happy emotions that has been your relationship. If I were you, I would put on my thinking cap and make best use of it.

Guy you tall long o

Happy married life, your kids gonna be tall I can see. Your wife is beautiful. Don't mind bedbelle people that are still in their parents house running from responsibilities.

Na phone wey dem manage get na make dem dey talk anyhow.

If you can't be happy for people, when it's your turn nobody will be happy for you. That's Karma right there.

I'm happy for you bro,, though she's pregnant you took responsibility. Unlike some that will abort cos they ain't ready. Safe delivery to your wife.

babapressy:
@Ginaz. Lol, why are you afraid for us? They can even snatch her through the radio. But we have grown pass that realm, my number and her number has always been on social media because of what we do, God can sustain what he instituted, so relax. Call us 20yrs later u will shall still be togeda. What u fear and believe will always happen to u, its an error in life to be negative, what u fear or think more about is what you attract. if u ar married plz i advice u trust your wife and trust God. Its not about the love shacking, of cox its shacking us, but the secrete/sustainability of marriage is with GOD. Am sorry that am preaching here but Perfect love cast out fear (1Jhn 4v18). All thasame thanks sis for ur concern, we love you somuch and God bless uuuuu

Oh cut the crap!
Nothing negative here. It was too much. Do you know people here? How can you give up her number on a forum this broad to people you don't know from Adams! To tell her about your love, oh really?

Cut your super story for yourself, giving out her number doesn't make any sense what so ever. That's all I care to tell you before you open Bible on my head.

Your mom shouldn't have revealed it, she just made your dad looked bad. I guessed your dad owned it to his wife, your mother to disclosed what you told him. It doesn't make sense to keep vital information from your spouse, I mean, this is his wife.

Your mother should have pretended not to know about the vital information. Now she has broken her home unknowingly.

You won't trust your dad with vital information. and the worst thing to happen to a parent is when their children start keeping personal information and being secretive from them.

Your mom was the one at fault. Please you don't have to be angry at your dad. Forgive him cos he was just being a husband to his wife. They are supposed to share vital informations together especially when it comes to their children

babapressy:
@captainjeffry lol u ar very funny, i lov her like dat, am a pastor and she has been very supportive to me in ministry. Thanks evryone, can someone help me call her n tell her i love her so so much. 08064004728. Tell her ur a Nairalander

Huh?

It's like you don't know what you are doing. Why put your wife's phone number on an online forum? Do you know who is who here? If you love her so much and want people to know, you can send a message to a radio broadcast so they send the message.

I don't get this, it's like love is sharking you, by the time someone steal your wife from you, you will have sense. Remove your wife's number immediately.

You don't have immediate family members to tell her you love her? it's nairaland Filled with people of all sorts that will tell her?

People you don't know.

Abyima:
Use bitter leaf juice and rub it on your face. It will clear like wild fire.

I wanted to give her this advice as well. I had little rashes that won't go away no matter what I do. At a time I left it like that, they were at the both sides of my face, as a result of my phone pressed against my ears. I have sensitive skin.

Bitter leaf cleared them all under 1week. As I am talking to you, my face is so smooth and brighter.

I no longer spend money on products. The simplest things in life are actually the most active. I use coconut oil/palm kernel oil to moisture my skin and black soap to wash. My skin has never been this smooth and supple.

frustratedrat:
na person wey wear shoe nai no where e take dey pain am. Shame is no longer in my dictionary. Society/ My father made me this way

And so? Your father made you that way does it mean you don't have a life? I've not seen my dad for years now ,saw him last when I wanted to sit for my Neco exams and No, he doesn't care to call me or bothered if I am alive, nor did he contribute in my life in anyway . I found a way to live my life regardless.

People will never know your pain no matter how much you try so stop complaining and try to make progress in you life in whatever way you can. things will go, including the pains you are feeling right now. Your complains are just too much. Jeez.

frustratedrat:
MY MATES

Vivian of vivangist (in her early twenties) is already living the dream (with a popular blog). A friend of mine is doing balance and take with the keke he has. Money is working for him as Rich Dad Poor Dad puts it. My former classmate is a banker at sterling bank. here i am, with a deficit bank account. Unable to even buy lozenge

Get a life! Everyone has a problem, yours is little compared to some. Stop bitchiiing about! There's a way to tell a story so it moves pity out of the audience but yours is moving irritability.

Individually their music sucks! That's all I care to say.

I think she's got a pretty skin on her face. Beauty can mean so many things. Are eyes lovely by the way.

Rokia2:
Jude is the type of big brother no one should wish for.

He need to cleans his heart. He seems to be the type that hold on to trivial things against his siblings. And big brothers/sisters should take the place of a parents. Be more humble more generous, clean heart unconditional love and more forgiving towards their younger siblings.

Because they are the one that usually keep the family together when the parents are no more.

You don't know the full story so don't judge. You don't know nothing. Celebrities are the most misjudged people on earth. The fact you hear their stories doesn't mean you know them from Adam.

Stop the blames.

Pidgin2:
How come it's when a woman is about to become president that all these rebellions are taking place?

Indeed, black world is man's world, no difference between us and lesser primates

Meanwhile, the West is in support of this because access to land by White minority will resume

You don't know what you are saying. maybe cos in the whole of the black race you are the only foolish primate here.

This is so lovely, I was given an invitation card to attend the wedding, including plane ticket already on ground but I declined. Pls don't mention me I am busy I can't reply.

Go to the hospital.

They won't listen. When I was in school an edo girl was telling me how she would travel to meet her friend in Italy after graduation. She was saving money for the trip....she talked about how good her friend is living. That her friend would soon be her own madam, she has few months to pay her madam and run business on her own. I was naive then, but now I see the picture clearly.

Kim k, must every cloth you put on be tight on your body? We have seen your body shape already enough. Try something different for once. Reason I like Beyonce, she rocks different dresses, it must not be body hug all the time.

TheArchangel:
She is shy to open her legs which may have prolonged the second stage of labour leading to the death of the baby.
I won't slap you during labour....I will never....it is your life and your baby. After proper couselling and education if you continue with the attitude. ..I will get your relatives to sign the CS consent form... no time abeg. Some women can frustrate the life out of you but as a professional some of us still keep cool while some lose it.

Why do they act shy? Because they feel ashamed of displaying their privates?

The toes long o

FUCKyouALL:
About the rude boy psquare song, I just downloaded the song, all I can say is, the other P.square, Mr P is winning this solo war. Cool it down is way too awesome; This is shit. MR P 1 vs Rude Boy 0

I beg to disagree, that cool it down is not too sweet. He was just singing about a girl not leave him. It was just an over hyped song.

fyneguy:
Hello! would you be comfy with your bf discussing his sexcapades with his female bestie?

Respect your bf - stop discussing amorous topics with your ''bestie''

Nobody is talking about sex here, abeg free me jor. Sex na sex, nothing big deal. Even pastors do have sex discussions. Dem teach am for school, teach am for seminars, wenti you never hear about am? Stop being hypocritical!

Jeez. Abeg nobody should mention me about this topic again. I'm regretting I contributed to this thread. I forgot not everyone would understand your point and they would judge you based on their dirty mind.

Bye bye abeg.

ifex370:
4 years of friendship.. Why have you not gone to his house when he's all alone na...



Kwantinue

He doesn't accept female visors in his house, and I do not go to a man's house. You get? If you can't believe there are people with principles then deal with yourself.

sagitariusbaby:
Yvonne is a disgrace. How could a woman so beautiful and elegant reduce herself to a baby mama? A baby mama to a married man for that matter. Abeg women matter tire me

Everyone make mistakes, let's forgive her.

RockyEyo:
Be deceiving yasef, u hear.... what you just wrote here is what exist between lovers,
1. you enjoy his jokes
2. you find him attractive ( we both know sex would spoil our relationship so we haven't crossed that line ) read between the line
3. Its only a matter of time before you have sex ( He visits me at home where eyes are everywhere and we get to talk intimately about things so deep. )
4. You enjoy talking sex with him ( It amuses me when he tells me about girls he like to lash in his dreams)

well with this few points of mine I hope I've been able to confuse u that you are dating the rong G" (There are complicated things you would want to sort out but can't tell your bf yet, you need someone to push you through, to make you feel free and feel relaxed. )

1) What is sex that is so much a big deal? Were you not thought sex education in secondary school? The fact you said I enjoy talking sex with him is funny? We could talk about past relationship and before you knew it sex discussions have started and all those things he would say always make me laugh.

2) You said it's a matter of time before we have sex. Don't you think we would have had sex if we wanted? We cherished our friendship to realise sex is not to be welcomed. ...cos we both are not pretenders not to noticed something like that could happen. it's a boy -girl situation for God's sake! But our self respects prevailed for self control to set in. As an adult, you should make your own decisions and have self respect and self value.

3) he's attractive and so? Is that a yardstick to sleep with him?

4) we talk about deep things like future plans, education, life goals, visions and so on. It is entertaining to talk with someone so intelligent. What's the fuss? You mean to tell me having a deep conversation is a crime?

5) things I can't tell my bf like "hey I saw some cute guy as I was walking by." you see that guy, he is asking me out" hey that married man is crushing on me".....you can't tell your bf that blunt truth without constructing your words so it doesn't comes out of proportion and misquoted with suspicious, Can you? But with someone like a friend you know you can say whatever, be free with words cos it doesn't hurt nobody.

7) even if I'm fooling myself, well, I think only about this moment. If I have feelings, I haven't seen any but God knows it's pure friendship.

I live in the moment, for now we are friend if we happen to date like you said no big deal.

keep your analysis to yourself. A girl and a guy can truly be friends. The world has lost its values anyway, everything should be about sex so it's weird if it doesn't

monex:
when you marry. Get a new best friend. Your husband

Of course! The key word my husband...not for a boyfriend that is still thinking if he wants the relationship to continue or not. I had a life before I met him, had friends too.

Mrnairalandd:
Stupid mentality

If your man wants him out, respect that and build your own future.

Bragging here ll only leave you in your father house as a sprinter until menopause set in.

If you are with a wonderful dude who doesn’t joke with his woman, he might not be comfy with male best friend. If your so called friend really has your interest in his heart, he ll be the one to advise you to hold on to your man while he finds his way.

Any dude that advise you against it is not your best friend in the first place.

Let me even shock you, from personal experience, i used to have a best friend right from year 6. We were born and raised in the same neighbourhood. Along the line, my family relocated to a new city and we lost contact cos there were no phones then. Few years after, we met again and our friendship began... Fast forward to 2009, all my girlfriends were having big issue with the fact that i was having her as a best friend. To cut the long story short, the moment any of my ex complained about her, i ll dump the babe and straight to another babe. I dumped all my ex that were complaining about my relationship with her then just to prove to her that our friendship was made from heaven. Finally, few months later, she started her own relationship with one dude like that and the dude wasn’t comfy with my presence in her life, she called me one day on the phone and end our friendship right there. Today, they are still happily married with 3 kids and i am happy for her. The lesson of this story is that if you compromise your future husband for him, he might dump your ass when he meets his own future wife.

Until you fall in love

Of course, I will set limit if my husband is concerned. But come to think of it, it's how you create a foundation that gives room for concern. If you make moves that are suspicious, it would be a problem. But if your moves are in public eyes. Where everybody see, and know nothing out of the blue is going on then there won't be a cause of concern to warrant problems.

I get your point, my husband should come first and it will. Thanks for your input, I appreciate. I'm an only child, so this my bestie just feels like a big brother to me.

dumo1:
Story for Amadioha. When you and this your best friend's wedding invitation comes out, sha don't forget to invite us to cme and chop better rice.

Come and marry us na mtchewwwww. To say your mind sometimes eh it's a problem. People will misquote you out of proportion.

Rozaytee:
one day love may set in

I don't think so, his energy is too high for me. I'm an introvert, he's a wild one. We are opposite of each other. Our friendship is based on mutual respect and sincere concern for one another. Like brother-sister kinda love.

I love him and telling someone you love them doesn't only entails you want them for a romantic affair.

I love my close friends and family. Life is too short not tell someone you love them.