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"Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't."

Margaret Thatcher.

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Guy B is her surest bet, sentiment aside.

Guy A is a load of grief if she gets married to him. From his antecedents, it's obvious that he is promiscuous, violent, and hardly spends time with her so she cannot bet on what the outcome will be if she gets married.

Besides, he has promised every other ladies he is shagging marriage, so it's obvious, he is someone she cannot trust.

Now if all the info, she has on Guy A is anything to depend on, Guy A won't work.

Guy B is straight forward and honest. He stated his martial status before hand. But she needs to gather more intel on Guy B.

Where is the mother of his son. What's the story? Is she dead or alive.

If dead, what's the circumstance?

If alive, what is the rationale leaving her only son with the dad? Some thing is not adding up here. What's so wrong that she can't stay in the relationship with him.

Get these facts.

On the surface....Guy B is the better of the two options.

Left to me, I would advise her to look elsewhere.

By the way, how did she manage to waste 6years of her life with a confirmed player?

It's her privacy though.

But since you are here, it's important for your well-being to cut her off.

Liverpool coming out tops

https://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/animated/anim_44.gif

Seriously, this is a freaking breath of fresh air.

Yes, this was definitely made up.

That's guaranteed but it's originality cannot be denied.

Kudos.......

Guy, if you don't trust a person then don't engage that person or get into it too

It's simple.

If you feel she ain't giving you her all (I know this is what this is all about), give her a breather.


Phase out.


Get a plan B

kluv2:
Is it not the same Nigeria they are making the money to send their children abroad?

You are entitled to your opinion.

In other words, Naija is a failed entity

samwillyco1:
The main problem is that podga is been played out of position, he is an attacking midfilder for God sake and not a central midfielder, he needs to played in the position. In Juve and France he plays attacking midfild role

Yeah.......you are right!

Pobga is a different person when playing for France but yet another person when in club duties.


OLE has beaten Spurs and gotten it's manager sacked.

He has also gotten his most likely replacement Conte off the shelf.

OLE has done himself a favour taking out his competition.

He is off the hook for now. But needless to say, Man utd lost a chance to get themselves a proven serial winner.

Mingle and Tingle a single lady

A lady giving a gift or doing me out of the blue in itself is a red flag

You are cornered.

The option here is to pay the child support.

Here is the thing: you still gat your life intact. Hustling for the custody of the child would not augur well for you.

The child is always best with the biological mom.

You can get married and chart a different course.

Pay the price. Even negotiate with the mother. Try as much as possible to future in your child's life.

Bid your time and work out an elaborate time to fix her blackmail.

So I was reading something about a rich old man. There is something he said that stuck with me.

He said being rich has absolute nothing with having lots of money.

That you may have lots of money from your own sweat, inheritance or from lottery.

That what matters is what you do with the money.

Financially savvy men keep their wealth safe from spouse.

Some go as far as signing a prenup.

Sadly the two richest men in the history of this world Jeff and Bill didn't adhere to this and lost untold sums of money.

It's sad that men when in love, don't reason rationally.

Well the man who gave his wife all he had should deal with his apparent clueless.

What alot of men fail to realise is that when you strip them off their status....money you name it......most of their wives and girlfriends wouldn't want to have any thing to do with them.

That should impress on your minds that you earn the love and respect from your women.

Women looks for the best possible bidder. Then they align. They don't give their love or respect freely.

You should also learn to keep the love and respect intact.

Truvelisback:
I know a cousin of mine and his wife that used to do so. I, my cousin and his wife used to be friendly, but anytime i go to their place then to charge my phone or torch light, his facial expression is won't be bright, but i will just pretend as if i didn't notice, i will charge my stuff and leave. There was a time their lista gen became faulty, my cousin and his wife would knock on our door to charge their phones. Sometimes late at night hour to charge their stuff, i will charge their stuff for them without showing any form of displeasure. From my observations, i think these guys feel their stuff is more valuable than that of others.

Well, generally, I study people while staring at them, looking into their eyes and also without looking or staring at them.

The thing is, when I have known the kind of person you are, I determine how I would relate with you.

People generally, regardless of whether they are your family or friends are all caught up in their own world.

So it's up to you to decide how you want to relate with them in as much as you don't get hurt in the process.