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bignero:
God is in a Christians spirit.. So you'd hear him through, intuition, inner voice, still small voice etc
... You wont hear an audible voice, ada thats your husband..

God doesn't choose... The Bible says "what things so ever ye desire".... Its you're responsibility to choose.. God can guide you..

When God guides you and you meet or see the person.. Something in you will pick interest in the person.. Like prompt you.. Like hey look what you're looking for.. Thats God major way.. He may also speak directly within you.. But not always, the sure way is an inner prompt.. But don't think you can ignore God all your life and all of a sudden start hearing today.. He speaks not all hear

bignero:
God is in a Christians spirit.. So you'd hear him through, intuition, inner voice, still small voice etc
... You wont hear an audible voice, ada thats your husband..

God doesn't choose... The Bible says "what things so ever ye desire".... Its you're responsibility to choose.. God can guide you..

When God guides you and you meet or see the person.. Something in you will pick interest in the person.. Like prompt you.. Like hey look what you're looking for.. Thats God major way.. He may also speak directly within you.. But not always, the sure way is an inner prompt.. But don't think you can ignore God all your life and all of a sudden start hearing today.. He speaks not all hear

Afiastikal:
Good day all

I noticed that most churches especially the not so new ones insist intending couples seek the face or mind of God towards their union.

This is to ensure the supposed union has heavenly approval.

So the big question is this, Do they really hear from God, like words to the ears or is it the usual God given instinct that every one possess that they eventually rely on

I know for instance that that if someone meets a good wife or husband material, there is this peace of mind that comes with being with the person or the thought of getting married to the person.. It is worth to note that this feeling, instinct or intuition is also present in a normal human being

So,please do you guys really hear from God before getting married

Bar1941:
It will take close to two decades before the madness planted in the minds of some Americans by Trump can be healed...

I'm 99.9% sure the asśhole is one of his supporters.

jaelz:
So I was hosting an uncle of mine and we were discussing about why he wasn't wearing his ring, to my utmost surprise he said he wears his ring any day his wife wears hers. I was shocked though but my mind drifted back to me so many of my friends and relations who also do not wear their rings again even despite being married.

Back in the days I know you only take off your ring when you want to flirt abi play away matches, but these days it's almost as if they take off their wedding rings immediately after those church weddings.

So my question is why?

TheSupleemLeada:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/03/31/feminism-why-women-get-beaten-marriage-%E2%80%94pete-edochie

Ctorch:
Is God really against taking Alcohol or Just against excess of It.

Galatians 5:19–21: "The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: ... drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God ." Ephesians 5:18: "Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to Immoral behavior.

The bible was particular about it drunkeness and not against alcohol.

Further

1. The Bible allows Christians to drink alcohol for medical reasons.
Paul told Timothy, "Stop drinking only water and use a little wine because of your stomach and your frequent illness." (1 Timothy 5:23 )

The Bible forbids drinking if it hinders the gospel.
Paul explained in 1 Corinthians 9 that even though he was allowed to eat and drink anything he wanted, he was very careful not to do things that would hinder the gospel of Christ. He said, "Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself a slave to everyone, to win as many a possible.

Proverbs 31:4-5

4 It is not for kings, Lemuel— it is not for kings to drink wine, not for rulers to crave beer, 5 lest they drink and forget what has been decreed, and deprive all the oppressed of their rights.

What do you think God was reallly emphasizing on?

Zetty177x:
I'm not a judge or God. No comments. I wish u d best gal

Agbegbaorogboye:
So you want a ref, coach, linesman to be appointed in epl just because they are black to satisfy your racist innuendos.
Same quota system that killed Nigeria you want to export to Britain

etokhana:
https://sports.yahoo.com/amphtml/palaces-zaha-becomes-first-premier-153458528.html?__twitter_impression=true

Gojo:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/03/meghan-accuses-british-royals-of-racism-says-they-pushed-her-to-brink-of-suicide/

plaindealer:
What you believe or don't believe is irrelevant, the government like governments all over the world procured and made the vaccine available free of charge to save your life, it is up to you to take or reject the vaccine,

So, 4 million doses of vaccine arrived in Nigeria and the government quickly switched the vaccine to malaria injection, also instead of giving the president covid vaccine, they hid the imported vaccine or destroyed it and instead gave the president a malaria injection.

You see how crazy and deranged you people sound with your insane anti-government conspiracy theories.?

No, the government is not clueless, you are.

Wahala90:
Please throw more light. We need to know . I beg. Make dem no use our life do kalokalo oooo! Tell us more.

naptu2:
Because they want it to be on TV and to be well covered by the media. They want the masses to see medical doctors, political, religious and traditional leaders taking the vaccine, so that they'll know that it is safe.


Some people will be encouraged to take the vaccine if they see the president taking it, others will be encouraged if they see an emir taking it, while others will be encouraged if they see a bishop or GO taking it.

WoundedLamb:
An African friend always argue that kids are better of raised in Africa. He said he'd send his two boys to Nigeria so they'd know what life is all about. I asked him "what life is all about", he said hardship, blackouts, etc. He said kids raised in the Americas aren't respectful and organized cause they didn't suffer. And that brings me to the topic of this thread. Is the Nigerian style of raising kids really the ideal model? I just want to share my opinion on the things my friend mentioned as reasons to send his boys to Africa: respectful and organized and the need to "suffer small" (his words).

Respectful: In the Nigerian society, elders don't usually explain to kids why they shouldn't do some things; they just authoritatively ask them not to do it and the kids better not ask why. Kids grow up respecting thier elders out of fear (and not admiration or love). The implication of this is that they do a lot things without their patents' knowledge, and they get used to this "hidden lifestyle" that makes it almost impossible for parents to truly know thier children. This in turn denies the parents the opportunity to identify and correct some unwanted behaviours as the kids always tell them just what they want to hear. And then it's only a matter of time before some of these kids outgrow the fear and reveal their true personalities (good luck with your mystery parcel at this point). Whereas in the Americas, kids are engaged and not commanded. You can easily tell the direction your child is headed.

Organized: He said kids raised in Africa are more organized and not crazy like their American counterparts who do all sorts of things like tattoos, plastic surgery, etc. Yes, Americans have a lot of deviants, but that's why new ideas/findings pop up everyday. I believe Africans force thier youngsters to fit into a predefined pattern of life and thereby reducing the chances of creativity. In Africa, you are supposed to go to school, get a job, get married and make children (and there are ages for all these). Then your children will do the same and the cycle continues. This "organised" pattern is the African dream; it is more important than any other dream or even the world itself, and any deviation is frowned upon. Africans think it's a crazy for a man to dedicate his life to studying mosquitoes even if that's his dream (yet Africans are the most affected by these killer insects), Africans think it's crazy for a woman to say she ain't getting married but would rather use her money to adopt and raise orphaned kids. A friend I was teaching software development had to quit cause "he didn't have time anymore". According to him, he had gotten to the age of marriage. And you wonder why nothing spectacular comes out of this continent? Alternative lifestyles might be scary but that's the wheel of progress.

"Suffer small": This one makes me laugh and I usually use it to tease my friend. Kids don't need to suffer small. Kids need the skills that would make them survive in their environment. If carrying water, fighting for a bus, using candles and going to the farm equip the child for the African life, great (just don't overdo it). But that's not necessarily a model. It's something they do out of necessity. A kid who is born in North America does not need to go to Africa to "suffer small". I don't even own a bucket as an adult and I'll probably never buy one. A kid born here needs DIY skills amongst others.

I don't have a problem with some people wanting their kids to go to Africa to learn thier culture but I don't subscribe to the idea that kids raised in Africa are[b] better off[/b]. What do you think?

uuzba:
The virus spread in China because one idiot tried to eat raw meat.
Even though our market is dirty, we always roast and cook our meat seriously before eating and that is what kills all the virus.

MrAAA2:
His 'useless westernised mentality' is greater than your 'localised mentality', stop wasting your intelligence. Look beyond your nose.
How did Bird flu get to Nigeria? Do you know animals especially wild birds travel through continents? It's a random risk! Wetin for concern man concern tape worm infection if nor be association?
Viruses and bacteria are very dynamic organisms and they will do everything to make sure they survive.
Health Science and/or Biology should be made compulsory till SS3 e go help everybody.

MrPresident1:
how many cases in america today?

superCleanworks:
but seriously,
what is corona in a country where criminals can come and carry every body in your village into the bush and your story will not even appear on any newspaper. that's the end of the matter just like that.

in a country where farmlands and boarding schools have become very dangerous places for farmers & students

in a country where citizens live and suffer from hunger & rape in IDP CAMPS in their own country. Do you know how many children that have been born in these camps and that's the only life they know. Yet they were born in the most blessed country in the world and someone is making money from this evil.



what is corona?

Armaggedon:
Is a grandmother suppose to be an insult?

planetx:
You people are being lied to, this is not a vaccine but a gene therapy that will modify your DNA through the new Mnra technology letting your body perpetually produce antibodies bypassing your natural immune system, basically they are turning human beings to GMO just like a GMO crop.

Abdulmumin412:
Then what is the consequences on the people of Kogi state? They have all died? If not let all other states stop testing too.

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

luvmijeje:
We are all in soup!

This virus cannot been hidden. If you like do test, if you like don't do test. When people start dying like chicken una go get sense.

Fools!

VaselineCrew:
The same Black Lives Matter that rioted all summer last year?

The same guys that burnt down city after city?

The same guys that destroyed businesses to the tune of billions of dollars?


THE SAME GUYS THAT CAUSED THE DEATH OF OVER 30 people last summer?



I just hate hypocrisy!

One riot on one day by so called republicans and they term it insurrection, but burn down cities, kill children and destroy businesses and they give you a Nobel prize

TempleHouse:
People should look at South Africa and learn some lessons @43,191 deaths.

Yet, some people mocks you at Bus Stop if you're on face mask.

There's no cure for theCovid 19- Variant type and it's just a mystery Nigeria had a total of 1550 deaths till date while UK recorded 1725 yesterday -just one day.

It' will be catastrophic if it happens in Nigeria.

humilitypays:
You are wrong brother. The thing is, covid-19 seems to be an advanced malaria and typhoid fever combined with a target to quench infected person's breathing.


It lowers your white blood cell count to almost minimum (below 4000) making you susceptible or exposed to any infection that can then lead to instant death or serious illness. And if the person have any underlying illness, covid-19 will capitalise on it to mud the person.

An effective anti malaria and typhoid fever medications will help reduce the symptoms if taken early enough, and then coupled with some home remedies that improve breathing, clear airways and boost immune system will help the patient recover quick.


Poor Nigerians are getting infected and recovering without knowing. Because they take lots herbal concussion and suffer malaria a lot, their body have built strong immune system against covid-19 related illness.



I was infected and I recovered. I am not rich nor poor

Iamzik:
You don't have to call me silly to regurgitate your Democrat talking points. I'm not sure you understand the legal meaning of incitement??

You said there's a precedent of removing a president whose tenure has expired. I said show me but you typed a bunch of CNN anthem up there! No substance

Pelosi, haris and Biden should be impeached by your standard. They openly called for antifa and blm to loot, burn and destroy properties for 3 months and there are videos....

We will all watch the trial and democrats will be humiliated again

It will be a big shame to pelosi, schuma and the entire democrat party because they would have tried twice to "remove" Trump from office and fail. This is pure hatred just like the previous russia/ukrain collusion delusion

All the best!

Mjpem23:
Christians are major problem of this world.