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Seniorwriter:
SMH
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@SENIORWRITER

What is your Facebook name please, let me find you!

I remember a long time ago after University, and as i finished my nysc, I got a teaching job from a small budding primary school, that the school owner was just doing her NCE at a college of Education, oh God this woman was always intimidated by me, I don't know why she is always on my case, always watching me and following my everystep, she never wanted me to rest simply because I was higher than her education wise. I never bordered that she saw me as a competition in her school, I couldn't take it anymore, because it affected my emotional well being and psychology, made me have unnecessary heart attack,if she had her chance to reduce my salary,she will do it, I was not always myself, I couldn't be very productive in what I do, I couldn't just be free to teach from my heart because I felt as if I was not doing my best, someone somewhere was not happy with me. Until I saw the way her children looked at me with disgust, like I have committed a big offense, and I saw the way they treated me, like I am nothing, is it the gossip behind my back, like I was not up to anything, simply because they own there house and school building together, as if they were Demi gods, I just had to leave the job and find another one which I got, and there I was appreciated, with a higher salary, although both were offering little salaries.
These school owners don't like to treat people right, they see themselves as small gods, avoid anyone of them that want to belittle you at any given point, may you feel worthless. Such act can negatively affect a person psychology.

Take him to a different hospital and still confirm the case and continue to ask him questions, don't just cut his legs like that oooh, to avoid stories that touch, because people have had their legs cut when it was not supposed to be so, ask him questions with treats to his life. He must speak soonest, or use a different person, more like a counselor to speak with him in private, may be he is scared of telling your family his ordeal. I believe he will open up, with a different approach.

So much for the signs of the end

If what you are saying is all true, because it's not good to judge from one side, I would have loved to talk to your wife honestly on somethings.

Look for a good herbal drug and take, go to the herbal people, they have solution for it. I know someone in your case, despite all English drugs no solution, and test, but herbal cured it fast. What you are facing is food poisoning!

You better run ooh for your life, see you see evil doings.
It's not about you or your ex, it's about your bright future that is about to be destroyed or diverted wrongly. I wish you could see what the enemies have planned out for you using that girl.


Besides you never stated why the girl is stranded in the first place, or why she is in your house in the first place and hope if a bigger responsibility comes your way from the action of accommodating who is not your wife, you are ready to take it, head -on....?

Who are the men castigating this lady are the same men sleeping with prostitutes everywhere, who is to be blamed for prostitution, it's the men of course

CanadianNaija:
You have succeeded in making the cheating man the victim and his wife the villain. I wish this kind of advise on you.

You and your kind make me sick.

Dear foolish fool above; The way you reason regarding my comment make me sick as well, who are you to judge who is who in this case...? you lack so much knowledge and understanding on your own, let alone others, someone like you, don't have solutions to peoples problems, yet you go against those with solutions to challenges, two close people have found theselves in a faulty situation, from the post, and you say they should not sick solutions further, I still wish you the same thing that has befallen their marriage in your life, and in the life of your sisters, and brothers in their marriages as well, because you lack sense of good judgement. What is your solution.....? Only to find fault in an already faulty situation. Shame!!!
People like you can't reedem this country at all, but to spoil it.


If the couple decide to separate or divorce because of the situation at hand it's their choice, if they choice to stay together and sort it out still their choice. But I will not be the one that will tell her or him what to do or choice to make, all I know is unity till they decide whatever they want;
Besides the OP brought the case for people to advise, and not for people like you to counter other people's advise.


Shame on you and your lack of judgment!!

2ndtimeuncle:
Good morning fellow nairalanders, I hope your day is going well though mine didn't start so well. I am a nairalander but I have to open this account for this. I have an issue bothering me, I will try to keep my story as brief as possible.

I am a guy from a humble background. My parents had only two children, myself and my younger sister who is now married with two kids. She had her last baby boy some time early this month. Her marriage with this guy ( my brother inlaw) has been one I considered relatively peaceful. That is from my own perspective knowing that there's no marriage without one or two misunderstanding here or there at some point.

Well, she found out that her husband got another girl pregnant who gave birth to a baby girl. My sister found out after she gave birth to her first son. Her husband was the one that confessed to her that he has another child outside their marriage. They settled the issue and moved on he promised he would end the relationship he had with the baby mama.

Last year, during the Covid19 period, my sister found out that he was still seeing his baby mama after she saw their chats. She confronted him and he denied having anything to do with the baby mama except for sending money for his daughter's upkeep once in a while. It was a big issue which was brought to the attention the two families. They found a way to settle after a lot pleading and talking to the two of them.

To cut the long story short, she sent me screenshots that proves that he is still seeing the baby mama. In one of the screenshot he wants to see her in their normal place and the girl agreed but doesn't want them have sex on this particular occasion. My sister has bad temperament and it is not easy to calm her down when triggered. She's threatening to quit the marriage and I fear she may do something wrong this time around . She is yet to confront her husband because I managed to convince her to keep it on hold till she calms down.

Note : My Dad is late and my younger sister is a house wife hence solely dependent on her husband. Please ignore my grammatical errors. I am putting this out here because I have ran out of ideas.

See brother man, I know it's not easy for her as she feels so much betrayal, but try and to tell her to calm down, especially because of her health so this doesn't give future health issues, anger can be sickening, she should not allow another woman take her home. Now that is what the devil in collaboration with that strange woman wants, they both want to destroy the home. Instead she should join forces with her husband and fight that Lady, so long as her husband is not beating her or doing other bodily harm to her or her safety, she should try and cooperate with her husband, she should also work on her temper, if she really wants to get things done right in her marriage, because I wonder what pushed her husband into the arms of another woman, she should also investigate that and work on it. She should empower herself and Prayerfully follow her marriage, the devil is always after good marriages, somethings are not ordinary in his life you have to look at them from the spiritual perspective I tell you.


I wish her the best.

Emperor5:
go back to class room, you are f**king dumb

Ok foolish one, read your previous reply and tell me who needs to go back to the class room, you are still making the same old grammatical error, no wonder you hate Jonathan for heading a school.

Shame!

Emperor5:
What aspect did he won and still winning, it's only buhari failure that makes him seems that he perform well.

Oga, right your reply well in good English. And face today's reality of this present Govt of buhari. I don't know Jonathan or buhari, what I know is that Jonathan school achievements as a chancellor is worth celebrating. So look beyond sentiments.

Emperor5:
Indeed, African have losted it all. What is special about Jonathan that are celebrated across African. This is a same man that run Nigeria like banana republic during his tunue as president, upon his self acclaimed academia, our educational system was in sorry condition under his watch, health sector is zero, financial mismanagement is in high level, infrastructure are zero, celebrating GEL is an evidence that we have lost hope for good leader in this part of the world.

Foolish fool, stop talking about the past, face your present president. Jonathan has won and is still winning, stop the hate, if you think he doesn't deserve it, let's see what your own father has achieved so far.

See your country how it is now and talk about way forward and not someone who is far away in another country fulfilling his Destiny as an accademician that he is. So because he was president he will not do other things or be celebrated right....? Rubbish you!


I wait and see if any one would do the same with your current presidentafter his tenure.

Blind batimus

A LIVING DOG IS BETTER THAN A DEAD LION, SO SAYS PROVERBS!

I feel your thoughts, it's so normal for people to become allergic to some certain food, like I noticed orange is not to good for me as it makes my bladder become irritated, making me to visit the restroom urinating with so much pains and pressure, since I stopped it, I have had relief, so I get my vitamin c from cucumbers, other fruits instead and green leaves... Etc...I am lactose intolerant as it makes me visit the toilet to shit more than once a day. So I get to know that i have to eat according to my blood group, so I suggest you eat according to your blood group, that is food meant for your blood group and avoid the wahala that comes with eating wrong.

Avoid the garri that poisons you as you said, instead you could try corn flower in place of garri, you can try cuscus, it's like a starch porraige when made with hot water, it's sold in the super market in satchat form, or measured form I think, you could make it in garri form and eat with your soup, you could also try plantain flower, that is dried unripped plaintain grounded in powder form and made like amala, either black or white and eat with your soup, you can also try wheat or oat as someone suggested for you, you can try yam flower, that is sold in the market, dried yam and grounded into powder form, you eat like ponded yam. But majorly you need to eat more of fruits and vegetables to help you boast your body system.


Blessed!!!

Explorers:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9896007/Taliban-commander-gives-press-conference-INSIDE-Kabuls-Presidential-Palace.html

The world is indeed coming to an end ooh, may God save us all.

LilMissFavvy:
If she balanced it up, why are we not seeing it here? Majority of them do not like to balance it up. I am used to their half messages.

Ok, don't get used to the half massage, they just cut of the part were she spoke about men should love their wives, that is why I said you should watch the complete massage and not listen to what media says all to get people talking. I advise you watch it in full via you tube.

LilMissFavvy:
The last time I was curious enough to read about the causes of marriages collapsing, infidelity was the number reason, not submission, so this people can continue to spew whatever they wish, the only thing that bothers me is that they never preach LOVE/SUBMISSION hand in hand, as Bible recorded it. Yes, I believe in man loving his wife and wife submitting as Bible mentioned, but what these preachers preach is not complete, I see them as preachers who just want to garner the attention of men with reasons best known to them, my opinion anyway.

Yes some preachers don't balance it up, when they preach the "submission" part of the Bible;

But Pastor Mildred Okonkwo did balance it all up;

Watch the video from start to the end, the real video as well and the half video, she balanced it with men to should love their wives as Christ loved the church, it's not a one sided afair. Enter you tube and see it.

Weigh your options carefully, check were your long term gains are and use your head to make your choice to your advantage. The place you are is it better, on the long run what have you gained so far, what will you gain so far staying back. On the other hand were you are going to is it better for you, what do you stand to gain many more year to come.....? Check all favourable options and work with it. You are in a better position to decide your Advantage.

May God Almighty deliver all of you in Jesus mighty name. Repent!!!

How were you able to make 5000 everyday as a student, please tell me....?

Doradorwa:
Obviously I'm so angry and I just have to type this to feel better.

2 hours ago I decided to buy 1 lacasera and 1 donut to eat before seeing my project supervisor. Total sum of my purchase was #200. I bought what I wanted and a fellow coursemate saw me and she was like hailing me to buy her something. I was like "Babe no worry, I go do you well soon, abeg just chilax everywhere go good.
I was saying all this because that was the last money with me. Then to my surprise the man selling the stuffs was like " shey padi da na ( Don't be stingy to your friend nah). Me that I know my pocket I continued to scope the girl but this man just continue to interrupt me so I had no choice than to buy the girl a pie and that was #150. So plus my own purchase everything got summed up to #350 and I gave the man #500. My last card ooo... The next thing the man was like "Ra drink fun ore e nah, ma shey ore ti ko pe " ( Buy drink for you friend nah, don't be stingy with your help).

I was just looking at the man like shey this one dey whine me ni. The stupid girl was still like she will manage bottle water. And I continued to tell them that the remaining change is for bike back to the hostel but the yeye man was just adding salt to my wound. Las las the man pushed the drink into the girl hands and was like " Aunty, owo yin ti pe" ( Aunty your money done complete). Haaaa... God will judge that man ooo....

I ended up buying #200 thing while the girl bought #300 thing. I'm done with my project supervisor but I have to trek back to my hostel. I swear I'm so angry. Why are some sale-people like that.

Have you ever had an encounter like this?

You are not strong willed at all, I don't know how some one will use my head just like that, when it's not jazz, see don't displease yourself to please others sometimes, because it's not worth it especially if it's at your own loss, you knew you had no much money, and you will treak if you over spend, then why spend that much, especially as a student, even that girl you spent on, may even be richer than you pocket wise as at that time, because some students are stingy and may want to feast on others while they save thiers. After you went on to buy meat pie for her why not ask for your change seriously and walk out of the store. The sales man is only after your money, that is why he said all those things to get your money and he succeeded all for profit, that strategy doesn't work for me oh, if I have I give, if I don't I will not. Don't do pass your self to please others.

NobleSeed:
maybe king Solomon gave him brand ambassador

Hahahahaah, may ooh

Toks2008:
Guy or babe leave hypocrisy.

Most guys are freaking polygamous just that only decent few choose to marry more rather than the hypocritical one wife several side chics.

Leave story biko, polygamy is not for everybody.

Many ladies are even polyandrous cos they sleep with more than one man regularly.

Ya true talk

post=104711940:
CONGRATULATIONS Happy Man.


Sho!
E be like say USA embassy don show u shege o.
It is well



Iyen na nice.
One day our country Naija go be like Obodo Yankee.
One day in the future.

We Rise.

Stay here and be decieving your self. Be riseing oh, continue to rise. It's that consolation that they put in you all head that make you all think, Nigeria will be better. The future is today and now, since I was born and now am old, it's the same old people, and same old class of men, with the same mindset, and you say things will get better, I once had that your thoughts about Nigeria, until I saw many reasons not to any
more. See the higher powers that be in Nigeria don't want the progress of Nigeria, even when what is good is done, why because they benefit from the evil and misfortune of Nigeria. Know this and know peace. We still rise further

The world has creeped into the church a long time ago. End time pastor

NobleSeed:
the bolded got me talking
But why would a young man be at the verge of fulfilling a negative prophecy

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I wonder to my brother, see a lot of young people don't know that polygamy is a terrible marriage, they think it's like before, polygamy is a terrible type of marriage in all forms; And for this generation to venture into it, makes it more dangerous. Instead of a young man to work and build an Empire with one woman in marriage, and build godly seeds for the next generation, he prefers to swim inside 2 vagina for only God knows why. May God deliver him speedily.

NobleSeed:
End time marriage

That is just the truth ooh, it's in the Bible. Although some part of Delta State, allow for such marriages, but as it's still happening amongst younger people in this generation, is what makes it funny,with the things happening in the world of marriage,a young man open eyes to carry two women as wives ....hah .in this present times, May God deliver us all.

See fine hand writing ooh, such a beautiful mindset.

I suspect that, Long before now, she had always wanted to leave her husband, no way, so she had to come up with a "rape case" to get way from her husband and marriage, due to the love of "PENIS" obviously, as it was not working, as she expected or planed, may be she expected the man to end the marriage, no way, rather he went to the police station, she decided to be bold about her moves and move in with the said rapist, it's a lie no one raped her, she works in a hotel, she should know better, and sees men of different kinds, so she fell for it. Shame!!!

It's mostly in Port Harcourt you will see such evil, and church, see name "world bank" how is it possible that such a name is from God, and if the bride price was not payed if at all, why were they wedded in a church 12yrs ago, and if yes the bridge price was not paid, why can't the evil Pastor encourage the woman's husband to pay the bride price fast after wasting so much years, rather than snatching her from her husband.


Evil that men do indeed, with signs of end time.

Silentgroper:
ogbeni, shey u b simp abi u b woman b4 i knw hw to reply u.

The truth is better, leave reply for now and reason well.