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ALKARULEZZ:
A friend of mine is studying Economics (Bleep level) and Industrial Mathematics (yyy level).. The two course advisers are aware..

I didn't say you can't do it but I told you its illegal, believe me or not, that guy is lucky that he has 'sugy' guys as course adviser but if school find out he will loose the two

Konpresor012:
I was going through my Facebook timeline and ran into this video of President Muhammadu Buhari addressing Nigerians living in the United Kingdom after the supporting syria Conference in London, according to President Muhammadu Buhari, he claimed that during the former government NNPC had 40 bank accounts, Nigerian Army had over 70 accounts and CBN directors short-changing Nigeria through forex



Highlights
* NNPC had 40 bank accounts!
* Nigerian Army had over 70 accounts!
* 2.2 trillion recovered just because of TSA.
* CBN directors short-changing Nigeria through forex...

Link to the video: https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=447754555431500&id=392729780933978
Nairalanders what's your take on this?

sweet story

agatha360:
Pls am currently reading anatomy 200 level ,
I applied for jamb this year to study nursing
in the same University. I don't know if I can
do the 2 programs together and if it's legal.
Pls I need some clarification

it's illegal but people do run it, the issue is being in the same faculty you may have issues, if you want to run the both don't allow that woman in bms to find out

ALKARULEZZ:
It's legal

it's very illegal and you will loose both admission

omoharry:
[img]Happy birthday.

tnx alot

bluice2:
HBD, but do not drink today, so you cld save like 3 blocks of cement

chief tnx for the wish..... Na 10 bags of cement I done drink so oo

scofieldsimba:
A bottle of beer sells for N180 at a local joint (N500 upwards in clubs and hotels). If U drink an average of five bottles a day @ N180 that makes it 35 bottles a week. In a year dat makes it 1820 bottles amounting to N327,600
Just imagine folks drinking for 30yrs.. that'll amount to N9.8million.

Men have drank bungalows, duplexes & estates!!!
Save a future. Share this message on your wall.
MANY MEN HAVE DRANK THEIR FUTURE.

you have a point but today is my birthday please show some love........ Some likes please

ritababe:
That man in number ten position is from lassa in Bornu state, is it anyway related to lassa fever?
.
JUst asking.

yes, lassa fever was named a gifted that town in bornu

Today is my birthday please shoe some love

Today is my birthday show some love

Today is my birthday some likes please

DOCTORPRESH:
You on whatsApp sir?

yea I will send u a message

DOCTORPRESH:
Boss, I appreciate your opinion and advice .. I'll try adhere to it and Godwilling I'll make it into my choicest department..

But sometimes things don't turn out the way we want them, so I was just asking to know how good or bad my present course of study is..

I understand your position and have been in your shoes b4 but one thing you need is strong will, let's talk privately if we can

DOCTORPRESH:
Boss Alkarulez, I understand you're not in sciences but I would still ask you this, perhaps you might have something to say from your fountain of knowledge or better still do a lil research for your boy...
What do you know about the department of Biochemistry Technology (SLT)... As in anything would do.. How cool is the department? Job prospects.. just anything.. I know very lil about it..

SLT was a program b4 that had various department under it but the last administration scrapped the program but didn't scrab the courses, Biochemical technology is like a unit in SLT just like the biochemistry part of it. I have followed your post for some time now, I will advice you take the course and also take jamb again for your medicine, you need faith not to settle for less... ... . This is my opinion shall, if you have any other questions u can raise

Armaggedon:
if you read my comment without bias you would have seen where i wrote 'sharp ethnic differences' . Delta state are all christians. So with the Niger Delta u ignoranly quoted. They have a long history of interrelationship.no disagreement in Delta will lead to massive killings and riot. Do deltans burn properties of fellow deltans when muhammed is cartooned?

Do they kill fellow deltans when a religious statement is made in europe? It is not so with say Igbo and Hausa who clearly have different cultures ,history, traditions and religions, who were moving in different directions of civilization b4 they were merged. How can u have a large number of radical islam followers and large number of deep christian adherents in the same country? All speaking different languages?

You can pretend not to understand what i mean but like i said, only truth can save nigeria.

The last of such countries was sudan which seperated in 2011

I never said I don't see these points you raised, but truth be told even in the east clan clash and killings are involved, the only big fact you raised was the issue of Muhammad cartoon, but killing and crisis has always been

Henrypraise:
It's not Africans n electoral violence, was it not same Africans dat voted peacefully in d last general elections? It's d body language of d president dat will decide if an election will be peaceful, violent, fair or rigged.

OBJ said: d elections were a do or die affair n we saw it happened

GEJ said: his ambition does not worth d blood of any nigerian n it was so

PMB said: dogs n baboons will be soaked in blood n Dats wat we ar seeing.

For d sake of peace n better body language, PMB shud come up wit a better speech n hold any body/ candidate stirring election violence by d jugular. So far PMB is not doin well election wise.

why are you like this??
Did I hear you say last election was peaceful? ? What happened in rivers state?? Didn't this same Buhari conduct kogi election?? Say the s/s is cursed abeg we kill ourselves over power and blame apc that is foolery

todayboy:
We know already that this government is just witch hunting and nothing more they are confused only deceiving their apc zombies with lies and jollity rice

If Buhari is fighting corruption why release him under 8 hours and still keep Metuh in detention he just want to use efcc to destroy opposition, he has succeeded the attracting nwobodo to his party

We are watching the tyrants president

he agreed, wrote a statement and returned his 100 million so what should they still hold him for?? Did metuh return his and he is still in detention??

Armaggedon:
you say 'root cause' ? What is the root cause other than the unfortunate sharp divisions along ethno-religious lines?

Do you ever think igbo, yoruba and Hausa youths will ever rise for a common purpose?

Against who? Doesn't the enemy have an Ethnic group?

Nzeogwu tried the uprising and it immediately became an 'Igbo coup' an led to a civil war.

It was not, is not, and will never be possible.

My dear there is no headway. Nigeria's situation is pathetic.

No nation develops when it spends a large chunk of its earnings trying to force its people to be united when in other clime pple themselves drive development

One thing about truth is that it keeps bringing up its stubborn head. Only the truth can save us.

for the real facts you are not being honest, ethnicity is not about yoruba or igbo. I take delta state as a case study do you know how the urhobos' treat other ethnicity just because they are majority?? Even if you make Niger delta a country now the problem will only compound

Armaggedon:
you can never have radical change in Nigeria because we do not have one national ideology. If we had a national ideology, we would have had a goal. Since we have non of them, how do expect the whole nation to agree on the direction of the 'radical change'. We must go our way if we must survive.

I am from delta state and do you know ethnicity has also done a great havoc here?? Like you said what we need is a national ideology, I feel we youths need a little uprising let's call a conference for ourselves and chat a path for ourselves, separation will only be needed if and only if there is no no head way, for me even if we separate it will not give us solution unless we tackle the root cause of our problems

Armaggedon:
Nnamdi kanu is correct...give this country 1000 yrs things can only get worse and worse until it slides into anomie. The only solution is the obvious- going our seperate ways. Nigeria has a fundamental problem which is it's sharp ethnic divisions. Ethnicity fuels corruption. Ethnicity is a major evil on which other factors that negate development is built.

Politicians in their hundreds who should be in jail rather enjoy privileges and cruise into higher poliical posts playing ethnic cards.

Germany unemployment rate is currently is at all time low- an evidence of growth and development

Nigeria's unemployment is getting higher and higher, same with insecurty, hunger, crisis and corruption. All point to one thing- the country has failed. You are free to crucufy me but if you still support one Nigeria after going through what the op lamented as a medical graduate, then u're doomed.

Everything including qualification for a position is viewed with ethnic lens as against merit and individual capability. How do you expect the country to develop?

I beg to disagree with some of your points, even if we divide, some states in the south still have more than one ethnicity and same problem will brewe, all we need is a radical change and a national re orientation program,

Kenkesh:
THE AGONY OF UNEMPLOYED MEDICAL GRADUATES IN NIGERIA©

It is no longer news to the world and especially to Nigerians, the rate and vigour with which corruption in its different forms has invaded every facet of Nigeria's institutions. It seems to have become part of the genetic composition of most Nigerians if not all.

An aspect that inevitably affect youth develepmont and empowerment is worth discussing taking the medical sector which plays a critical role in nation building and economic development:

1) Collection of mandatory levy from applicants --- this usually happens before the submission of applications for job interview, jobs that the applicant is not sure he/she will get.

While the present government is planning to alleviate poverty by paying the unemployed youth some token for their upkeep, these employers - so called government workers and heads of institutions - set up their own wicked strategies to impoverish these unemployed teeming number of medical and health graduates by collecting huge sums from them before allowing them to sit for job interviews.This is so common most especially among the teaching hospitals in the western and south-eastern part of the country.

Just last year(2015), UCTH and UPTH collected N5000 from newly graduated doctors for their interview. The same year UNILORIN Teaching Hospital collected the same amount for the same reason of job interview, LASUTH charged the same amount. Many other hospitals did the same. Currently, Ekiti State Teaching Hospital is collecting N5000 (being the price of the application form) from these newly graduated medical doctors. Bear in mind that these fresh doctors have to do their one year mandatory internship programme. They have temporary licences and must do this within a limited time. They are entirely on their own and must compete with one another and with doctors trained abroad for the few placements available in the qualified hospitals.

These graduates will not only pay the mandatory fee, but will also risk their lives transporting themselves to the various venues of these interviews, lodge in hotels and cater for themselves etc. Where will they get funds and supports from knowing fully well that they are yet to start work, implying that the burden stil falls back to their parents and guardians who must have spent enormously in seeing them through medical school. Why do these MDs and CMDs, want to further impoverish the already poor young graduates before giving them their rightful placements? Is it what the Federal Government asked them to do? These question demand urgent answers!

2) The epidemic of I.M (ima mmadu OR to know somebody) in Nigerian employment system:

Merit is no longer recognised in the Nigerian employment system. After paying a heavy application fee, working hard to pass an the interview, you still are not sure of getting the job unless you know somebody or somebody who know somebody within the institution who can secure the job for you. For example, how can the best graduating students of reputable colleges of medicine go for interview at institutions different from their alma mater & not even one of the best ten graduating students get placements. You have to know some body before you can get a job. Those that don't know any body are automatically hopeless.

How can you explain the fact that someone re-sitting his final exams (ie he has not yet graduated, has no license and can not apply for internship) nevertheless participates in the job interview organized by his alma mater and gets a placement ahead of those that have graduated.

The situation is really discouraging hard work among youths, since hard work is no longer recognised. NAUTH has been delaying the list of succesful candidates, presumably because of the same reasons.

3) Buying of placements:
Here, the employer will collect application fees, conduct interviews, cast all the result of the interview into the waste paper basket and then commence the phase of auctioning the placements. Huge sums are unofficially/covertly collected from the employees before employing them. In UNTH and ESUTH, many have had to pay at least N150,000 and above before they could get housemanship . Is this part of the Youth Empowerment Programme?

4) Ghost workers in Nigerian employment system:

This particularly refers to a situation where an institution accredited and financially equipped to employ for instance 200 workers, decides to employ about 150. It then takes appropriate measures to secure the salary of the other 50 for the boss' pocket.

Ghost workers exist almost everywhere in Nigerian institutions. Take the case of UNTH that is budgeted to employ/train 180 house officers, but only employs about 120-125, with about less than half of them being their own graduants while the rest are abroad-trained doctors who heavily lobbied themselves into the system.
This creates artificial scarcity of jobs, making it difficult and impossible for all the graduates to promptly do their mandatory one year internships. Just as happens during artificial fuel scarcity, these wicked MDs and CMDs enrich themselves grossly from these situations.

Another phenomenon probably unique to medical internships is the possibility of doing the internship more than once. The salary is attractive and there is lack of nationally centralized control over the internship programme. With the appropriate corrupt means at the individual's disposal, he/she can get a fresh placement in a different hospital and can do multiple internships. This obviously denies fresh graduates their rightful placements.

It is clear that our senior colleagues, our leaders, our fathers and our elders in privileged positions are the very ones frustrating the youths of this country.

What is happening in the medical sector is pitiable! The role of our CMDs is scandalous! The practice of young interns who block their unemployed colleagues from getting slots by doing internship over and over again to make more money is totally wicked and punishable by Medical and Dental Council of Nigeria(MDCN). The silence of MDCN on the ongoing mess is the height of negligence of duty to protect the profession from ridicule! Finally, the inability of young medical graduates to articulate their experiences and speak out to the authorities is an act of timidity. Evil thrives when good men fail to speak up! I just weep for our corrupt generation.

Let this serve as a clarion call to all individuals and agencies capable and responsible for looking into matters such as these to come to our rescue.

Thanks. God bless Nigeria

I think it is high time internship posting is reschedule to be done like the nysc, can we talk privately

BrokenTV:
If this news is true, it means her failure has started.

she is a big failure, she should have decamped when she was still in the Senate, she must have very bad advisers

I still wonder the reason behind this

Drama as Senator UcheEkwunife officially dumps PDP .. .

Sen. Uche Ekwunife, the erstwhile senator representing Anambra Central Senatorial District, announced on Friday that she had defected to the All Progressives Congress (APC).

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) recalls that Ekwunife, who was inaugurated as senator in June, 2015, had her election nullified by Appeal Court in Enugu on Dec. 6, 2015, on grounds of irregularities.

The court ordered the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) to conduct a fresh election in the zone within 90 days.

Ekwunife, who has begun preparation for the repeat poll confirmed her defection from the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) to newsmen in Awka.

” It’s better now for me to join the APC.

“Let the heat be there; I am already on campaigns for my return to the senate, to complete my contract with the people of Anambra Central District,” she said.

Ekwunife said that her goodies for her people under the APC would soon be made public.

http://thenationonlineng.net/ekwunife-defects-to-apc/

jozeph1:
owk now wats with the Eeyha Made a mistake pickin et as my first choice?

I believe you should be able to get a change of institution

Anticabal:
If the DSS can extract a public verbal apology from him this minute, they will call TVC, NTA, Saharareporters, nation, Punch to bring their cameras.
Dey there make woman shimi dey wear you. Everybody no be yoruba fear fear person. Kanu no be yoruba.

Dss can't do that, how can the state grant a press conference to an enemy of the state?? That is belittling Nigeria. Doing that will only make him look important

luckygirl02:
Goodness gracious. Lwkmd. Then I do rather have just an engagement party and enter my husband house than all these embarrassments. Big weddings are sometimes waste of resources that could be channelled into something else. But if u have more than the money then why not?

Please can we be friends

samocholi:
Greetings to u all,please I need a candid advise because am fed up and confused at same time.It all started in 2011 when I met my wife through my collegue in the bank. I used to work in operations and hardly have time to truly search for a wife that is what I thought back then.so I had this collegue of mind who appears responsible and is also a church worker in a responsible church,not all these money making churchs.so I confided in him , so one day he came to me that he has this lady where he normally goes to worship atimes that he will take me to meet her ,that she is God fearing ,a church worker and her father is a pastor in one of the northern states,which he did and introduced us and gradually we started dating,


I even took her to see my parent.to their amazement she woke up around 4am and swept and cleaned the house before we could even wake up for morning prayers.when my Dad saw this he was really please and was like this truly is wife material.but my Mum was like don’t conclude oh as per girls of nowadays that we should keep praying.at first I wanted us to do our traditional marriage in April 2012 and after that white wedding but she started indirectly pressuring me that we should do trad in August and white in November,2011.i thot about it,and with my naïve mind said to myself that since she seems nice and am ready to marry.


I agreed and we got married in 2011.we did both court and church marriage.immediatly we came back from honey moon my life has been one hell of a life or another.it began when my former collegue in the bank sent her sister to bring her cv to me incase we are recruiting so that I can submit for her.so the lady called later to thank me for the assistance and my wife was with me in the sitting room.it was around 7-8pm.after the call my wife started quarreling,that who is that lady calling me that am cheating on her,she went inside the room and brought out our wedding cert.that she will tear it and that we should go our separate ways.i became shocked ,I then told her that she can take the lady’s number or I can call the lady in her presence.that I don’t even know the lady. I did not even have the lady number in my phone,the lady collected my number to follow up and that is all.



I left her with my phones and entered the room.this was happening barely a month and a half after our wedding.as the days go by she started bringing different quarrels and problem.after like a year two month into the marriage,one faithful Friday night after I came back from work and I was fast asleep she woke me up around 11pm that we should talk.and I told her that if we can leave it till morning knowing fully well that the next day was satuday unless if the matter is btw life and death then I can wait.she said it is not btw life and death and was insisting that we talk before I knew it she brought out a knife and wanted to stab me so I manage to collect the knife and threw it into the wordrobe.


By then the sleep in my eyes cleared immediately and I was like what is the matter what is wrong or what wrong have I done to her,my people up till tofday she has not given me an answer.so she stood there speechless so I assume all is well then as I was going tom bed she took one of her high heel and struck me behind my head I fell down and went blank.after a while I woke up and saw her looking at me.so I got up and entered my car with blood all over me to her uncle’s house and showed them and told them what happened.before I continue we live in Abj,so the uncle called her parent and her mum came to Abj the next day.before then I had written and taken my divorce letter to the pastor that am not doing again.


After that the pastor and her people intervened and talked to her. I went to that my colleague that introduced her to me that what does he know about her that I may not know so he said she told him in confidence that she was in cult in the university and that her boyfriend then was the capon.she also told him that the boy friend was shot in school then and died in her arms.when I confronted her she down played everything and wanted to pick a quarrel,so that one died down.


Before I continue,am a banker ,and my wife has a boutique that she sells men wears in Abj. She hardly laughs but b4 we got married she was always laughing.i havs severally asked her what the matter is but she will say it is nothing. Before now I did not know that my wife is a runs girl,after our baby’s birth in Dec 2012 my wife went and did family planning without my consent,it was in the evening when the stuf started disturbing her that I got to know. In August last year that is 2014,I was watching news when she came back by 9:30pm,she started making it a habit of coming late in 2014 and that has caused serious quarrel btw us. So when she came in she droped her phone on the center table and went inside to take her shower.as I was watching the television I now said let me go through her gallery because she likes taking pictures.after that I now checked her messages.i was shocked what I saw.

She sent a text to a married man,saying that she cursed him with the sperm he pured inside her and the man said it was mutual that she is the one came to his house to collect money for the shoes and shirts he bought,he also said he will curse her with his children’s life that she is not the only one that has a child and insisted that it was mutual.at that point my hands started shaking and before I know I she jumped out of the bathroom with soap on her body to take her phone.immediatly she came to the sitting room and saw me with her phone she frozed for like 15seconds not knowing what to say after that I asked her who is the man and she said that I was one of her friends from owerri that used her phone to chat the man.

when I checked the chat history it was not just one day chat it spans four days becos the chat was very lengthy. So I was pissed off, I reported the issue to the pastor where we got married and he down play it that she cannot do such a thing..
My wife has quarreled with all my neighbours in my compound of 8 flat,she has also quarreled with our security guards at the gate to the extent that they have refused to wash her car.On 25 of dec 2014 after returning from the church my wife spreed her cloth under the sun and my neighbour’s puppy came and played with the cloth and tore part of it.the next day she went to tell then but she did not grt a good response so she went behind and boiled hot water and pured on the puppy. My neighbor’s wife went and call police for her the next day being Sunday.but their aim is to keep her in cell till Monday to teach her a lesson.unknown to them my uncle is a top police officer so I called him and we were able to bail her putting Monday date.since then small thing my wife will start saying things that she is suspecting me , that am having am affair.i now told her how,she now said a man that does not drink alcohol and does not smoke will surely womanise.i then asure her that I have done nothing of such.and truly since I married her four years ago I have never looked at any woman aside her.

To cut a long stry short,February this year as usual during valentine I to her to a shop and asked her to pick whatever she wants.then she picked cloths and shoes worth 70k and I paid. After that February ending I usually give her 50k for upkeep so tha day I had keep the 50k but there was a plumbing problem that I had to take 5k out of it to solve so I gave her 45k promising to bring the balance home or I credit her,and that faithful morning we were having a meeting in which a top official is coming from head office and my head of operations was nor around so I was sitting in for her.

so I asked my wife to help me take our daughter to sch that day as I have to rush to the office b4 time. After giving my wife the 45k she threw it on the floor that it is not enough and started insulting me that what kind of useless job is that ,unknown to me she had gone and locked the entrance door and taken the key,as I was about to go out I discovered that the door was lock,so I called her aunte to talk to her,as she was on the phone with the aunt I went through the back door. As I was about to drive out I saw my wife rushing to close the gate with only pant and singlet,I mean pant and singlet not bump hort or rapper.i was surprise,but before she could close the gate I had already passed she now took a big stone and stared running after the car.
she threw the stone at my suv ,it sounded like a bomb very loud.at first I did not know what happened untill I saw her running towards the car so I stoped,she now came held my side mirrow and started breaking it so I had to drive off. I was devasted and could not make it to work,so I called someone in the office that I won’st be able to make it to the office that am having some issues at home.


She went back to the house and called my Dad that if I come back she will kill me.so my Dad called me and I explained to him immediately what happened. so he said I should not go back home that day, I went and slept in a hotel In town .so the next day her mum came and I went home.Now it is not that am afraid of her but because I respect women and will not want to beat ofr fight her,I am far biger and taller than her if I decide to cough she will vanish so is not that am afraid of her am only respecting the marriage institution. When I got home the second day to resume work the third day I discovered that she had tore all my cloths,my shirt both office and casuals,all my suit including my wedding suit,.so I had nothing to wear the next day.so I missed work wednesdy,Thursday and Friday,during all these happening I have been in touch with my office and told them am having some family issues and could not make it to work.



I resumed the next Monday to work and everything seem to be going well, then on Tuesday I got a sack letter from human resources of the bank.unkonwn to me. the new manager that was posted to my branch got a querry for myself and the head of operations not being around for the initial meeting. so he was angry and he wrote to the bank’s human resources and when they checked that I was not logged on for the three days I was sacked,all because of my wife.most times she sends abusive texts messages to me while in the office.For instance if am attending to customers and she is calling and I did not pick on time she will now send a nasty text that I delibertly don”t want to pick her calls.i have even told her to come and see how we work in my office.so since march am yet to get any serious thing to do.
I January I had 2.5m I paid our rent 1m and part pay for a land 1m and the remaining 500k lasted us from march till june.as usual with banks I was not paid anything.so when my savings finished in june the major financial burden fell on her,with little coming from me now.Since then my wife has made my life a living hell with all sorts of insult. For example in November,there was nothing in the house so she went to southern fries and bought rice and chicken for herself,then bought a watery oha soup with out meat that I should make garri and eat with it.it was when I wanted to microwave it that I discovered that it was watery and has no meat.i did not say anything.


Most times I stay back at home unless I have an appointment or an interview just not to spend unnecessary .so I was checking one of the cupboard in our room and I saw somethings she got from a native doctor,they include a bottle of concosion with the label witches and wizards destroying oil,the second one was two of her bathing soap with burnt candle on it when I looked at the soap closely I saw small cross buried inside,the third thing I saw was the complimentary card of the native doctor.All these things I just mentioned are real and I have their pictures that I snapped.i picked them and went to her uncle’S place to show him and he was mad,he immediately called her parent to come to Abj immediately and I called my parent to come becos I told them I don’t want the marriage again. Both parties came and the meeting lasted from 5pm to 12 mid nite and continued again the next day.

she could not defend her sellf and I said am not doing again and everyone started beging that I should give her one more chance.and it seems the issues was resolved.i started my investigation and discovered that unknown to me my wife is a runs girl even b4 I married her and after marriage she continued .that is why she went and did family planning without my knowledge so that she can be sleeping with me with out condom.and this days she dresses sugestivly.i have reported to the pastor ,her parent about her dressing but she has not changed.presently she is fighting with a lady in her former church the lady is a leader in the church.she said the lady has been attacking her in the dream and anytime they lady sees her the lady calls her prostitute.She told me that the lady is sleeping with her pastor.My wife has bad mouth and insult at every provocation,she hadly laughs always moody but when some kind of men call her she will be laughing as if tomorrow no dey.

Today being Christmas as we were preparing to go to church,she was noW feeding our daughter who just turned 3 last week.becos the baby was being slow to eat she started shouting that if the baby does not eat quikly that she will injure her.when I heard that I came and told her that such statement to a baby is not good,I have cautioned her severally not to be telling the baby that she will injure her.because there was a day I was playing with our baby and the baby was telling me that she will injure me.so becos of that I cautioned her.that was all,instead of her to take corrections she started insulting me.that am useless,that the whole burden is on her that she regrets marrying me.that she will surprise me one of these days.


My dear brothers and sisters in the house especially the married ones I frankly need ur candid advise as I am tired of her ,her bad and unrepentant character and her evil ways but am only looking at the term Christian marriage in terms of divorce as I ultimately want to make heaven just as every one.

Thank u for taking ur time to go through my ordeal.

I read through what you wrote, brother you must leave that woman immediately, there are so many things that you don't know, this is why I canvas for long courtship before marriage, take your daughter and leave that woman immediately

VampireeM:
hmmm! This one is strong! Jesus! This is why one must ask the holy spirit for divine direction before venturing into marriage with anybody. Its also good to make enquiries too esp from old acquintainces of your to be partner to ascertain what type of person they are. This is also for those Men who feel churches are the best place to search for a wife.


OP sincerely Divorcing this woman alone wont solve your problems @ Cause it seems the woman is diabolic and the type that can commit any atrocity without second thoughts. Its time for you to leave the house for her and also seriously seek the face of God in prayers! He is your only hope now... Damn! Some women are evil!

my sincere advice, marriage is to be enjoyed not endured, God has kept your life all this while don't blame God if anything worst happen, divorce is not as bad as people make it appear, it is better to be alive and divorced than married and dead. If you can just pick up your daughter and leave the house, go ask God for mercy and start a new life don't think about what ever anyone says to you, there is nothing to continue in that marriage

kettykings:
You are the person sounding hypocritical and making a big fool of your self

which of the following did the government obey, why must the same nigerian factor come into the judiciary

http://saharareporters.com/2015/12/17/biafra-court-orders-unconditional-release-nnamdi-kanu

http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/biafra-court-grants-nnamdi-kanu-unconditional-bail/228233/

you speak like a fool, so if court grants someone bail from stealing assuming does that give the person immunity that he can not be paraded for other crimes?? Tell me one court that granted him bail based on the new charge of treason, there are things you don't understand about intelligence it is a stepwise thing