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Christianity EtcRe: Why Do We Need To Speak/pray In Tongues? by gracechellar(f): 9:29am On May 25, 2020
sageer1706:
Did Jesus and his disciple speak in tongues (just asking for a friend)
The Holy spirit came after He ascended. He couldnt have spoken in tongues
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do We Need To Speak/pray In Tongues? by gracechellar(f): 9:28am On May 25, 2020
Buliwyf:
Lol. Speaking in tongues is farcical and only worthy of mockery. Especially the ones that Christians practice these days. It's nothing more than gibberish and some patois that you guys use to psych up yourselves and feel you have a communication with some higher power. News flash, you don't!!!

It is telling that none of the tongues spoken these days can be recognised as any form of language by people. The only anecdotal evidence for speaking in tongues makes it known that they actually spoke the languages of the foreign people around them and could be understood. But you guys these days utter rubbish which doesn't even help anyone, not even yourselves.

Every language has the same pattern. You can do a statistical sampling of the words to get their usage frequency and all human languages have the same pattern. Some words are used more frequently than others. Especially articles. Heck, even dolphins' communication patterns almost matches that of humans and that's why it's been theorised that they have language. But you charlatans speaking in tongues, same thing can't be said for you. Your word usage is all over the place and usually you are just repeating the same nonsense over and over. No one can understand you. Not even yourselves.

Lastly, what's the use of your speaking in tongues? You have been speaking in tongues yet your life is not better than the average person that doesn't speak in tongues. You have no special knowledge, no special insights nor special abilities. You are as ordinary as the rest of us and the only thing that seems exceptional about you is your unmatched ability to delude yourself. You remind of those Christ Embassy girls in school that will meet you on the road and ask you to start speaking in tongues immediately. Then in the evening they are off to some guy's house to have the sex of their lives.
I once spoke like you.. May the Holy Spirit gove you understanding.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do We Need To Speak/pray In Tongues? by gracechellar(f): 9:27am On May 25, 2020
Missyajoke:
I hope we're blessed with this short message of mine as we understand how Speaking/Praying in tongues helps in building our spiritual life.

Why do we need to speak/ pray in tongues.

The full baptism of the Holy Spirit is always evidenced by speaking in tongues. In Act 2 " 1-4
"And when the day of Pentecost was fully come, they were all with one accord in one place. And suddenly there came a sound from heaven as of a rushing mighty wind and it gilled all the house where they were sitting.

And there appeared unto them cloven tongues like as of fire and it sat upon each of them, and they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance." What does " As the Spiri gave them utterance means" it means where he lives in the innermost part of your being- in your spir- from there rivers of living waters will flow.

Out of your spirit you'll begin to hear the voice of the Spirit giving you utterances. You'll hear it on the inside. But you have to open your mouth and speak it out. When you receive the baptism of the Holy spirit there is no need for dramatic emotion or jerking or falling down.

Some people, when they begin to speak on tongues they do not have fluency, or a large spiritual vocabulary. They are like little children when they're first learning his to speak, talking in broken words as they're learning. The constant infilling of the Spirit keeps you full of the mighty power of the Holy Spirit. Its a continual experience.

By speaking In tongues regularly, you fine - tune your spirit's awareness of the Holy Spirits indwelling presence.

Reasons for praying/ Speaking in Tongues

1. It edifies you or builds you up spiritually. Look at what Paul wrote to the Corinthians. He that speaketh in an unknown tongue edifies himself (1 Cor. 14:4)
2. Speaking in Tongues reminds us of the Holy Spirits residence wcorrectly ( John 14:16-17)
3. Praying in tongues helps us pray correctly (Rom.8:26-27)
4. Praying in tongues stimulates our faith. (Jude 20)
5. Praying in tongues helps to keep us from foul talk.
6. Praying in tongues bring spiritual refreshing.(John 7:38-39)
7. Speaking in tongues helps to build a sensitivity to the Holy Spirit.(Rom. 8:14-16)
8. Speaking I'm tongues gives us power to be witnesses.(Acts 1: cool
Thank you for this. Very refreshing and enlightening
HealthRe: I'm Ready To Sue One Of The Biggest Private Hospital In Lagos by gracechellar(f): 2:36pm On May 24, 2020
weblord1900:
I hate Nigerian hospitals and pharmacies. They are all about the money.
Chemist shop are the worst,they nearly killed me because I don't have money to visit a standard hospital.
Sue them
Please give example of a standard hospital?
SportsRe: Daniel Amokachi: I Slept At T.B Joshua’s Church For Weeks, Got No Miracle by gracechellar(f): 8:40pm On Apr 26, 2020
realvikash:
Lol, some would say it borders on the mindset one has when hoping for a miracle, some on faith, some on works.
It is what it is though
Sleep without faith is dead sir!!!
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo Condoles With The Family Of Abba Kyari by gracechellar(f): 8:57pm On Apr 22, 2020
SharonLoveth:
Is it not correct
No idea
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo Condoles With The Family Of Abba Kyari by gracechellar(f): 8:36pm On Apr 19, 2020
SharonLoveth:
Innah illiahi wabililahi marijuana
Marijuana?
FamilyRe: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by gracechellar(f): 10:52pm On Mar 06, 2020
Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.
leave! Run for your life n be free
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pls Who Knows About This Company by gracechellar(f): 3:02pm On Mar 05, 2020
SunbeamClothier:
It is our pleasure to inform you that our company would like to invite you for an assessment for the position of a ENTREPRENEURIAL DEVELOPMENT OFFICER

ROLES & RESPONSIBILITIES:
- WORKING WITH THE HR TEAM
- WORKING TO DEVELOP CAREERS AND BUSINESS.
- WORKING WITH GROUP HEADS IN TRAINING AND DEVELOPING INSTITUTIONS
- HAVING AN ENTREPRENUERIAL MINDSET.

YOU WILL BE HAVING AN INTERVIEW SESSION WITH THE HR OFFICER AND IF SELECTED YOU WILL HAVE THE PRIVILEGE TO WORK WITH OUR TEAM.

DATE: Monday 3rd March, 2020
TIME: Starts 9am
ADDRESS: Plot 150b Oba-Ogunji Road, adjacent to NNPC filling station, ogba. Ikeja.

Kindly respond to this mail and confirm your availability. Also come with a printed copy of this invite to gain access and an updated CV with a valid means of identification.
Lagos based applicants only.

Looking forward to meeting you

I just got this invite pls who knows this company are they realhuh
Got same
TravelRe: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by gracechellar(f): 10:26pm On Feb 03, 2020
DAramis:
shocked shocked shocked
Nigerian universities have a long way to go.

My application for the transcript to be sent to WES is over 5 weeks and it has not even be processed, talk more of sending it out. The more I talked to the person through someone, the more the man feel offended and acts as if it should be delayed further.

I left everything to them. Whenever they are ready, they should send it out.
Patience is key... This is why we are trying to leave.
TravelRe: Rural And Northern Immigration Pilot by gracechellar(f): 10:25pm On Feb 03, 2020
DAramis:
signing out officially from the thread. I wish other members goodluck in their quest.
Hops nothing..
TravelRe: Rural And Northern Immigration Pilot by gracechellar(f): 10:24pm On Feb 03, 2020
Shespeaks:
Is it true that community recommendation under the RNIP is done on a point based system even after getting a job offer?
Yes. Some communities like Brandon, Altona and Sault ste Marie
TravelRe: Rural And Northern Immigration Pilot by gracechellar(f): 10:24pm On Feb 03, 2020
Bostin:
What if they get invitation and also get the visa , is that not enough even if they won't get the job ...appreciate little things
They didn't apply for RNIP. Nothing to appreciate. RNIP won't ask for the things they are asking for... OK o.. I appreciate. Goodluck.
TravelRe: Rural And Northern Immigration Pilot by gracechellar(f): 8:36pm On Jan 20, 2020
khayleb:
Wow, this is a giant stride to be honest, I'm glad you touring thia route, please kindly update us as things unfolds.

I'm just about to put in for ielts, Wes evaluation process ongoing...
Almost everyone got the mail. Going for the career fair doesn't guarantee job. These people can only accept a minimum of less than 25 people for a province so think twice. However, I'm not saying you can't try your luck
Nairaland GeneralRe: Ten Things You Need To Do Before You Turn 30. by gracechellar(f): 1:45pm On Jan 08, 2020
sisipelebe:
Ten things you should definitely do before you turn thirty:

1.Get Your Heart Broken. It is not the most pleasant experience in life. Unfortunately, it is inevitable. However, it is the invaluable lesson everyone should go through. Get your heart broken to learn the hard way how cruel and tough the life can be.

2.Realize That Life Has Already Begun. The sooner you do this the sooner you will be able to start doing the things that matter. Every decision matters and every choice counts. There is no interlude Nor is there a trial version. Therefore, strive to live a meaningful life now.

3. Write An Article. Develop a strong point of view regarding the particular issue and do your best to express your thoughts in the best way possible. Get your voice featured on the popular outlet and praise yourself for this small accomplishment.

4.Master A Valuable Skill. Your ability to apply your knowledge and produce some great results is what lets you stand out and makes others pay you for your services. Opt for mastery and strive to become the best at what you do.

5. Slay Your Fears. Stop living your fears as soon as possible. Do not enter the fourth decade of your life being afraid of trivial things. Learn to live beyond your comfort zone and slay your fears to live the life to the fullest.

6.Establish A Few Useful Connections. You cannot know everyone and know how to do everything. The good thing is that you do not need to. Meanwhile, you can meet some great people that can give a valuable advice or come in your hour of need.

7.Live Abroad For At Least A Year. Living abroad is not always fun and easy. This experience is often full of struggle and difficulties. Learn how to adapt to and survive in unfamiliar environments. Find out how to meet new friends and get used to a different culture.

8. Establish A Good Habit Attitude. Then you won`t need to break a bad one. Habits might seem innocuous daily actions that do not make any impact on your life. In fact, they define how productive and successful you are. Adopt the habits that are the perfect fit for a person you`d like to be.

9.Define Your Goals. Make sure you are not going to float along after you are 30. Make sure you get closer to the things you want to accomplish with every step you take. Make sure you know what you want and channel your energy towards attaining your goals.

10.Get Into Challenging Environment. If you are not willing to start stagnating too soon, surround yourself with the people that are smarter, stronger and faster than you. They will motivate you to catch up and become better than you ever thought possible.
I've done all. I'm below 30
CelebritiesRe: Omashola Kola Oburoh And His Son, Milan Play Together (Photos) by gracechellar(f): 9:13pm On Jan 07, 2020
IAmStrange:
Is it not clear now to the wise the perversiveness and iniquities that this present civilization condones?

is it not clear how the people of these times have miserably drifted away from the path of righteousness and virtuousness?

is it not clear now that in this civilization, the bad are celebrated and the good are criticized? the morally perverted are respected and the virtuous are looked down upon?

Marriage is now avoided and not given due attention and illegitimate children are becoming the order of the day?

this present civilization has many elements of 'calamities' in it.

There's no way we will not be bringing it down. We must bring down this civilization and create a new one.

And that's why we need Imes, the end of these days of unrighteousness and the beginning of better and promising days.

Imes, we await your coming grin
Nice poem.
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by gracechellar(f): 4:49pm On Dec 29, 2019
40manlappy:
Ok. You should get an answer on that thread. All the best!
Done thanks
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by gracechellar(f): 4:48pm On Dec 29, 2019
SoftWorking:
Yes for Saskatchewan Nominee Program your job must be in line with your credentials. You cant Have certificate in microbiology and be a Secretary.
OH no. This is not cool at all
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by gracechellar(f): 8:48pm On Dec 27, 2019
40manlappy:
Not sure I understand your question. If your enquiry is regarding Saskatchewan PNP, may I suggest that you ask on the following thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/4180147/all-canadian-provincial-nominee-programs
I was asking how the pnp works. My work experience isn't in my field of study.
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by gracechellar(f): 1:57pm On Dec 27, 2019
40manlappy:
I can introduce you to a PM professional. Send a DM....
HI pls I have a question. How does Saskatchewan work, must I be working in the same field I studied
PropertiesRe: RCCG Trinity Tower, Lagos In Pictures by gracechellar(f): 4:19am On Dec 24, 2019
referandum:
But he wasnt wealthy either.
Go and check your Bible well. He wasn't poor. If he were, he wouldn't have had a treasurer so get your facts right my dear. Don't turn the Bible upside down.
FamilyRe: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by gracechellar(f): 7:10pm On Dec 23, 2019
tck2000:
I like it when girls are on buns!
We all like it. But not at the expense of the sanity of the child.
FamilyRe: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by gracechellar(f): 7:09pm On Dec 23, 2019
fairygeh:
So it is a 5 year old child that should be exposed to what labour looks like,huh Are you listening to yourself at allhuhwhat happened to teenage yearshuh
You dey answer am.
FamilyRe: Moms! Quit Putting Little Girls Through Torture In The Name Of Braiding Hair. by gracechellar(f): 7:09pm On Dec 23, 2019
computergeek:
Why do we have to teach little girls to go through unbearable pain for so-called beauty even when they are only a few months old?


I get so upset each time I see a little girl crying for hours unending at the salon while they pull, poke and prod her hair. The moms would actually be the ones holding the girls down while the hairdressers harden their hearts to the children's tears. I always wonder, what exactly are you trying to achieve by putting your child through so much pain just to have her sporting a few awkward-looking weaves? Since she's not old enough to decide that this is what she wants, she shouldn't be stressed and hurt just to look pretty. Are they looking for suitors? Do they have to start so early to stress to impress?


With her natural hair, well-oiled, combed and packed nicely into buns or tails, she'll still be the beautiful princess you gave birth to. I really hate children being put through any sort of skin pain. When my son was a baby, he was fussy about getting his hair cut, so much that we used to wait till he was deeply asleep before clipping his hair. Sometimes we'd only manage to go halfway, but we'll leave it like that until he sleeps again.


How do fathers permit this? When we were growing up, my dad would personally insist on the hairdresser coming to our place to braid so he could sternly warn her to go easy on our heads. When he saw that we still cried regardless, he had them cut off all our hair grin. We hated it then, but at least the gut-wrenching crying stopped.

Some little girls would be sick for days from the tight, skin-breaking braids their mothers would allow someone to put on their heads.

I remember a day I was getting a manicure at the salon, a little girl whose mom had dropped her off was getting hair done at the corner. She cried so much that after a while, there were no tears left to shed. Her irresponsible mother came back after a while and said, "Obego nke izizi?" As in, "Has she cried the first round?"

Just imagine.

Mothers please, this festive period, if your daughter hasn't been tortured yet, kindly look for something that won't cause her any pain and have them style her hair with it (shown in the second photo). She's beautiful however she looks. You're not in a competition with anybody to have the finest child. That's how they'll grow up to believe that they can never be beautiful without weaves and braids.
This annoys me to the marrow. The selfish and wicked nature of some mothers.
Christianity EtcRe: Jimmy Odukoya Disguises As Homeless Man To See People's Response by gracechellar(f): 7:03pm On Dec 23, 2019
Pr0cter:
Those people you are helping in the shopping mall don't really need it. They could afford what they want to buy that's why they are in a shopping mall if not, they would have gone to Iya Basira, the one that sells provision in Kiosk down their street to buy.




Those who actually needs help are those living under the bridge, those that live in the ghetto, those labourers who do dirty jobs. Those who beg on the road side needs this gesture not this one's in the shopping mall.
They have learnt their elssons. Whether or not they need it. The lesson is that sharing irrespective of what you feel.
TravelRe: Rural And Northern Immigration Pilot by gracechellar(f): 7:00pm On Dec 23, 2019
Bostin:
https://www.northstarats.com/SEED/Login accepting application in manitoba
Those are not the types of jobs we are looking for
TravelRe: Rural And Northern Immigration Pilot by gracechellar(f): 6:59pm On Dec 23, 2019
Bostin:
https://welcometossm.com/careers/ application is open , best of luck
Welcome.
TravelRe: Rural And Northern Immigration Pilot by gracechellar(f): 6:59pm On Dec 23, 2019
Shespeaks:
Hi everyone, thanks to the creator of this group. I'm happy to be here as we achieve same goal. Please my question is: If one successfully migrates to a particular province via this route, how long are you expected to live in that province without migrating to another?
If you have plans of moving elsewhere then go through ee. This is for people who really wanna remain in the province so this would probably not work for you or whoever is planning to leave after some time.
PropertiesRe: RCCG Trinity Tower, Lagos In Pictures by gracechellar(f): 6:58pm On Dec 23, 2019
referandum:
Did Jesus not say to carry your cross and follow him continuanally? Did Jesus not drive away those who got wealthy off the temple?
OK. Yes sir. That Jesus said what he said doesn't mean he was living in poverty or suffering. Don't misquote the Bible. Jesus wasn't poor....
PropertiesRe: RCCG Trinity Tower, Lagos In Pictures by gracechellar(f): 6:57pm On Dec 23, 2019
referandum:
Did Jesus not say to carry your cross and follow him continuanally? Did Jesus not drive away those who got wealthy off the temple?
OK. Yes sir.

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