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I think by now we should be able to have an update, even if it's from his brother.

@caracta, Gboliwe, chaircover and others who have helped this man thus far in every way, be it financially, spiritually, physically prayerfully and every other ways, i say a very big thank you to you all, i pray that God will meet you all at the very point of your needs and at the appropriate time.

@DJDOLA, I pray for God's healing hand upon every open and hidden parts of your body. Amen.
Please and please, God has sent the help you need most to you via the good people of this forum and it's now left for you to act fast as regards where you want to be receiving your treatment, please do as fast as possible to avoid more damage to your body system. If i'm to say, i'll still recommend that LUTH, and if necessary, a referral would be made from there, which will even make it easier for you at wherever you would be reffered to instead of going somewhere alone and the whole procedure will have to be started from the very beginning.
Act fast now before people start losing interest in your case, especially if it seems you're indecisive.
I'm sure sending my widow's mite probably tomorrow but i'll be much happier to do more if and when you start receiving treatment in a reputable hospital.

It is well with you!
It is well with you mummy!
It is well with Nairalanders!
It is well with all of us.

@juzzybaby,the same with Anglican churches.

The problem is you accepting it from the beginning......how many times are we going to repeat that we shouldn't as wives pretend to satisfy anyone, lets always be ourselves, sooner or later, they will know us for whom we are and treat us accordingly........NEVER YOU START WHAT YOU CANNOT FINISH.

Well, i will suggest you complain to your hubby and be ready to face the drama that will ensue afterwards, its better that way than to keep dying inside.

To all others that are also bereaved, may God continue to comfort you. It's not easy i know, it's over a year that my brother lost his wife, the kids have been with me since then, but my brother still weep almost everyday, not easy to be consoled at all, even though the kids barely knows what is happening. Honestly, it's not easy, may God continue to comfort them.
I don't want to question God, but i really don't know why this death issue is not only about old people, it's heart wrenching to see one's loved ones, still young with good and lovely dreams just vanish into the hand of death just like that. May God please forgive me for this, i'm just human afterall, thinking aloud.

@subomioluwa, i shed tears, real tears having read your post, all i can say is that may God continue to comfort you.
How are your sons, believe they're fine, because IJN, tribulation shall not arise the second time.

Interesting.........

izu777:
Source: http://.com.ng/index.php/component/k2/item/858-i-walked-14km-everyday-to-go-to-school-labaran-maku

you walked 14 kilometers to school everyday............with shoes or without shoes

vickyO:
Why post a link?? The write up is quite brief.

because it's the blog they are publicising.

Do what you think is okay for you, please. If you're okay telling them, do, if you're not, don't. It all depends on your relationship/rapour with them, personally, all my in'laws are part of me and i'm part of them, so, there's no biggie in telling them.

zboyd:
We all have expectations of our partners. When these expectations are not met, we can feel used, unappreciated, neglected and cheated.

Feeling unappreciated and undervalued causes us to feel resentful toward our partners and can seriously undermine our relationships or marriages. People have an inner sense of what is fair and when we start feeling things are unfair, immediate action (communication) must be taken, before things gets worse. Resentment, or that sense of unfairness, creates emotional distance and emotional distance can kill relationships and marriages.

For Men...

In what ways do you feel unappreciated by your GF/Wife in your relationship or marriage?

If you've told her how you feel, did she change her attitude toward you or not?


For Women...

In what ways do you feel unappreciated by your BF/Husband in your relationship or marriage?

If you've told him how you feel, did he change his attitude toward you or not?

do you want to be a mediator

@op, how many thread do you open in a day?





@post,everybody has his or her own reason for marrying who he/she decides to marry, be it for economics or for love or for any other reason, what is certain is that.......marriage is usually what we make it to be and we shall reap according to our motives.

The person who dresses indecently should be blamed.

Nobody should be blamed for how someone chose to live his or her own life.

Febup:
Today wives are the ones that wants their husbands to submit to their Stubbornness.

so, it's only wives that are stubborn.......na wa o....women don suffer!

I didn't read that your epistle but i know that, in that particular passage, precisely verse 25, there's also an important message for husbands too, it says...."husbands, love your wives as your own body just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it".
Husband,
If you love your wife, you won't treat her like a glorified housemaid, for example, you both come back from work around the same time, you lie down on the sofa watching TV while she's both cooking and taking care of the kids, yet you complaining why your food is served late, yet in the night, you still expect her to do some bedmatic acrobatic exercise for you.
If you love your wife, you won't cheat on her, with excuse such as "she's no longer as sexy as she was when you met her", even after popping out 2, 3 or even 4 kids for you,
If you love your wife, you won't turn her to a punching bag, claiming she's too stubborn, she need to be taught a hard lesson.
If you love your wife, you won't abuse her emotionally and psychologically.
If you love your wife, you won't treat her like a trash, you would rather treat her the way you will treat yourself.
If you love your wife, you would appreciate her and treat her the way you want her to treat you, and also treating her the way you will treat yourself, knowing fully well that she's your better half.

Until husbands start to love their wives accordingly, they should forget about their wives' submissiveness, afterall, action and reaction are equal and opposite.

While single, your closest and trusted sibling.
When married, your spouse.

rolled:
What's the Use of this thread
It seems like the new one now
Someone dies and next thng you are on NL writing a poem
Na wa

it is part of grieving if you must know. It is better than bottling up and dying from inside. The words of encouragement are usually soothing and are also souce of relieve and strenght.
These are some of the benefits, since you don't know, i have decided to educate you a little.

pamcode:
i smell lies bt anyway rip to the dead if it true

can tragedy of this magnitude be a lie, what for, if i may ask, or you think losing a grown-up twin sister can be fun


@op, please accept my sincere condolence, it's hard i know, but may God give you the grace to bear this irreparable loss, and may her soul rest in perfect peace.

Looking at this poster from afar and for the first time, one may think it's that man in the poster that is dead, as in, look at how bold the obituary and the picture of the pastor is. Also, for those who can't read, they will just conclude that the poster is announcing the demise of the person in it......
Talk of creativity gone wrong.

@op, what exactly is making you to feel suicidal? Let's start from there, a problem shared is half-solved.

Even the bible condemns arrogancy, it says......."pride goes before destruction"


Not justifying what the king did though, but then, goes a long way to confirm that pride is one of the short route to destruction and humility exalts.
May God help us all.

Happy birthday omo olojo ibi........looking "choppable".
Wishing you every beautiful and wonderful things you wish yourself.

And to Nashville, your birthday mate, i wish you happy birthday too.

Long life and prosperity!

It's exactly a year that i opened this thread.

@celebrants, as God had added a year to your years, i pray that there shall also be addittions to your great testimonies in Jesus name.

Happy birthday, long life and prosperity!
Hip! Hip!! Hip!!!

H U R R A Y!!!

Farouksenior:
Bottom Line : add the fEar of God. [most dudes nd babes claim Godfearing durin courtship but after marriage...kabooom!!!!]

you're right.
Thanks.

ferdimako:
How is this a heartache when everyone is cheating? So pple believe they will change their cheating and multiple-partner ways after they are married? Some pple marry knowing full well who their spouses are but got blinded by wealth, social status or aging issues.

sorry, not everyone is cheating, and also, not everyone got blinded with all you stated above except love and understanding. You should have used some or many.
Thanks!

hayzed2:
Iwo ko lo ma so fun mi bin se ma jaiye, keep ya advise to ya self

Pathetic!
Unfortunately, when the consequential effect of your "jayejaye" manifests, you aint going to be the only person to suffer for it, the whole household is in doom, if you love yourself and your family, tread gently.
Nobody has ever "chop" this life finish o, it's life that will eventually "chop" everybody.

Hackin:
..... How many of u ladies dey take us in sickness and poverty?

I have seen many including myself.
If you're only attracted to wicked and selfish women, examine yourself and the way you deal with them when all is rosy and greasy!

samflexxy:
if everybody has the mind set as yours the world will be a better place thumbs up I guess you are a marriage counselor

thanks!
I'm not a marriage counsellor, but we all know what is right or wrong except we want to be deceptive or mischevious!

toshmann:
I'll feel cool



God punish the modafoka and her goathead lover
How dare she
Abomination!!
Alu! Alu! Alu!




Tell them. F00ls . Like the Nigerian woman in Maryland who's on suicide watch now. A grown woman, chief of her dept sleeping with a gardener and of course the man made a video of the action and it went viral. Married woman with six kids.
Chei!!!!
Tufiakwa.



May God save us o, from all these wh0res posing as potential wives.

DISTORTED MENTALITY!

what is good for the goose is also good for the gander. If you'll feel cool after cheating on your wife, then your wife too should feel cool after cheating on you!
Karma is a b1tch!

elipheleh:
@OP you must be very stupid.
dont you know that it is after marriage that mens stock rises? it is right for a man to Bleep plenty women at that time after marriage.

womens stock rise b4 marriage and they flirt around undisturbed.

thunder fire u and any woman wey say make no get plenty mistresses.
on another note any wife that cheats on me i will pursue her out and marry a younger pretty fresh chick the following day
In my marriage if I like I Can cheat or not. afterall I AM IN DEMAND

smh.........
I pity the woman that is or would be your wife!
And BTW, i'm not silly, it's my opinion and you can as well pass across your opinion without being insultive.
Thanks.

rolled:
Cheating on your wife actually makes you love her more

you mean you love your wife to cheat on you as a sign of her love to you? Goodluck then!

Coogar and BABE, i really enjoy reading your opinions, but kindly give answers to alutacontinua question.


As far as i'm concerned, i mean personally, there is no any just reason for anyone to cheat on his/her spouse. If one of them errs, the best thing is for them to talk about it and together find solution to it, if the one that errs refuses, then, let the other party go for divorce instead of sleeping around and causing heartaches as well as swimming in STIs.
Abeg, i can't support infidelity at all.