₦airaland Forum

Coackroaches are to be feared abeg, because it can cause infections.

He is right in his own sense. At least there are some villages that do not have up to 56 women and almost 300 children. The next thing for him now is to write letter to his state governor........hhhhmm

aisha2:
Happy new year sister

Thanks and i wish you the same my dear sister.

Lol........
Aisha2........long time, God bless your good gestures.

For Goodness sake, this man is an adult, if he prefers to continue living with the mad woman, he's old enough to be responsible for his actions.
If he prefers to let his kids continually live in constant fear because of his bad tempered wife, he is as well responsible for his actions.
If he prefers to be killed by his wife to show how patient, tolerant and "matured" he is to his crazy wife, abeg, it's his choice.
What happens to temporary separation to teach her lesson, but mba, they must obey their church pastor, its good and fine, i just feel for the kids whom both of them are jointly killing their trust and self esteem.
Well, as for me, i cant experience marital violence twice, God forbid, once is deadly enough, but again God forbid that "once" sef. If not for ones self, at least for the kids" sake.

egopersonified:
She had plastic surgery before she met him. The kids turned out ugly, that was why he sued her.

Ego, how are you and the kids? The Lord is your strength. It is well with you and you're always in my prayers

@op, such is life.
No one can have it all.
that's' how it was, is and will always be.
What you have posted is what is called reality check.
Let's just appreciate that which we have at every point in life/time.
May God help us all.

Good morning all my family members here, I thank everyone who asked after me and happy new year to us all. I pray that this year will be better than that of last year for us all.




Cc
chaircover
moca
edwife
ewuro
and many others.

OMG!
I'm short of words!
Please accept my condonlence ma.
Continue to stay strong, especially for the kids.

May his gentle soul continue to rest in peace.

To God, we really thank and glorify you for this miracle of healing you granted our brother, Hammed.



To TEHN members, you guys are awesome, you're part of the hope i still have in humanity, R231, thank you for the regular updates, you really tried, may God continue to be with you and others.

To all forumites, who contributes in one form or the other, may God continue to butter your bread, sugar your tea and may you all be met at the point of your needs.


To DJDOLA, your healing is permanent in Jesus name, pain, agony, tribulation shall not arise the second time in Jesus name.

@caracta, your labour of love is and can never be forgotten. You're a blessing to DJDOLA, and you shall be blessed for the rest of your life.

I'm also happy for my mum who was sick but now on her feet again, though, she's old, but i'm happy that she still has the opportunity to live more longer. To God be the glory.

Nigeria politics has become entertainment.

Royalcrusset:
Just one kwenshion. Who videoed the nanny?

have you heard of CCTV?

fitzmayowa:
@bolded well said...

Watch your back our e-warriors might come for you

I don't think anyone should attack me on this, because it's an obvious fact.

Hhhhhhhmmmmmmmm!
I haven't decided who to vote for between GEJ and GMB.
I'm afraid if GEJ is re-elected, terrorism might be more intense, thereby, making innocent souls to be losing their lives.
I'm also afraid if GMB is elected, he might islamise the country. Another fear i have about GMB is that, he seems to be bitter and revengeful, if he's elected, he might be using all the time he's suppose to use to perform and prove his opposition wrong to winch-hunt his oppositions and past political office holders.


I may not vote on the election day.

Coming from Elder Obasanjo
I smell hypocrisy!!!




Elder Obasanjo should learn to keep silent as an elder, especially when he himself knows that he didn't perform better than the one he's criticising. As an elder, he should know that when someone throw a stone in the market, it might likely hit his/her personal person. There's no way baba Obasanjo could be saying this, without him being referred to his own tenure as the country's civilian president for eight good years without any tangible and concrete perfomance to Nigeria and Nigerians.


Not saying i'm satisfied with GEJ's performance though.

Honestly, i really wish Lagos state is delievered from the hand of Tinubu but i have some fears.........

I doubt if Lagosians even want that to happen, because Lagosians believe so much on APC.
I don't believe Obanikoro is even up to that task yet, because he too is kinda corrupt too.
And finally, i'm yet to see any significant difference between APC and PDP in terms of corruption.

If nudity is in their culture, they can't see anything wrong with it. We're seeing it as barbaric, because it's not part of our culture, so i won't praise or condemn it, that's how they chose to do it and they have the right to do it the way they think it is best for them, so far they are happy with it, fine for them.

Late Dora Akuyili, former minister of information.
May her soul continue to rest in peace.

Phema:
I think you should divorce her ASAP!

You know, the worst thing that can happen to a married man is for his wife to not wake him up for dinner. It's heartbreaking to say the least and shows total lack of respect for the "head of the home".

i don fall for ground, abeg, no kill me with laugh, abeg...

edwife:

Don't be surprised my sister, na so we see am......

My baby of the house, on my profile, when he was almost 3 or 3years old , very smart and intelligent, smarter than his age. He has been taught how to spell the name of his school, the school's names start with "pearls" and anytime you ask him to spell any word, he'll spell P E A R L S = that word. For example.......
Me: Spell mango.
Him: P E A R L S =Mango.
Me: Spell Nigeria.
Him: P E A R L S = Nigeria.
The funniest part is that, he won't say P E A R L S =Pearls but that exact word you ask him to spell. Though he's changing now, but it's quite funny somehow.
Kids are adorable and smart.

So, because she didn't wake you up after preparing dinner, she's now a careless wife.



Honestly,if we all direct the power and strenght we use in criticising and blaming our partner into effectively communicating with each other, marriage would have been the sweetest thing for everyone.


I can categorically tell you that her not waking you up for dinner and her response when you attacked her the next morning is a direct consequential result of your previous action(s) or inaction(s). So you both better sit down and communicate very well before things fall apart totally and the centre would not be able to hold it.





And btw, your sleeping off means hunger never really waya you, if hunger really waya you, you sef no go fit sleep at all.

@SAMBARRY, is it compulsory for every lady to use brazilian hair, or foundation or gold or all those things?

What is wrong with using only white powder? What is wrong with cutting your nails neatly? What is wrong with not fixing expensive weaves? What is wrong with looking natural as a lady?

All those tips Aisha2 and chillisauce raised are those things that can really help the OP, especially, with the situation she is presently.
FYI, i've never used any powder apart from white powder, and i've never also used brazilian or italian weaves before, not because i can't afford them but i'll rather use the money for other more important things like the meeting the needy and for some charity works.

And i'm still beautiful and attractive o, you can pass me for your younger brother if you see me.........

I just saw this now.....
https://www.nairaland.com/1427496/legal-pistol-nigeria


Please, op, if you haven't gotten the legal pistol, please don't try to have one. Someone with this type of bad temper shouldn't have pistol abeg, if you do, you would have abuse it before the realisation of the gravity of what you've done is clear to you. Please, don't!
And please don't ever think of killing anyone because of difference in opinion, please. Infact, you both need counselling, but i think you need it more.

I will send you a pm.
It is well.

Mrsmansson:
In order not to reveal so much info I wouldn't upload the mail he sent
This was a very nice caring man few years ago oh
Marriage na wa sha

Okay whenever we ve a fight,he would always say the number of kids I want in this life must not come from you alone

So yesterday was another argument

He sent a mail saying;

"I have to tell you this today - the number of children I need as a man I will get and it not a must that you will be their mother; it is only an opportunity that a wise woman shall cease..."


This is not the 5th time he is saying this
I jokingly told him one day,that I need 2 kids,he said 4,the next thing he said is "you can give birth to your 2kids,I can get the rest kids from anywhere

The way I hate him now,I can even plan his death.have been plotting of a good strategic way to kill him,so no one would suspect me
How can someone who claimed he loves me,just turn out to say the most hurtful things to me
So I thought we were in love,I don't understand that opportunity part

did i read right
Am i sure i'm still on NL
You mean you'll rather kill your husband privately without suspicion than walking away if you're both grossly incompatible
Honestly, i really don't know what to say, but one thing i'm afraid of is that YOU ARE MORE DANGEROUS THAN THE SAID MAN.
How could you even think towards such direction? No matter what the man says, i don't think murder should come into it at all, or did he also threaten to kill or maim you? If it's exactly what you posted here as regards your disagreement over the number of kids you both want, and he threatened to cheat on you if you can't give birth to the number of of kids he want, then, walk away if you can't cope with such a man.
Agreed, what he said might be annoying and painful, but thinking of killing him is way way too


I'M AFRAID OF YOU!

With the unity, team, cooperation, love, sympathy and empathy shown on this thread, we can achieve everything we want................... The story of tower of babel comes to mind.



It shows that despite our religious and tribal affliations, we can still be united.

Idowuogbo:
Greatgod2012, sis mi abeg pick team biko! We need you...

oh! I.D, just got opportuned to post now, i hope to join team C, fundraising team i believe, but i need to make some enquiries first as regards a charity organisation i belong to that i will like to request to donate towards DJ's plight, i have been a financial member for more than a year now and i've never recommended any sick or needy to them, which is my right as a financial member, so, i think this is the one i want to present, so, i want to enquire about the procedures for me to go about it. I will get back to this thread once i'm through with that, and that doesn't in anyway distrupt my own donation too, all in a bid to get our DJ back on his feet.


@all, i really love the passion and oneness of this e-family and i'm happy and proud to be part of it.
You people are wonderful.
I pray that our labour of love shall not be in vain.

DJDOLA, i sincerely wish you speedy recovery, infact, you have to live to testify of this great Nigerians and great Nairalanders, me sef never knew that Nigerians are this wonderful. It shows that there's still hope in this country.


Love you all, God bless us all.

Caracta:
It's a code and you guys ain't cooperating.

We don't want the patient to panic because of the info we have that he doesn't have.

Fine then, Waliyllahi, pls go ahead...as soon as possible pls. Na God I take beg you.

getting scarier.............
Please, no give person high B.P o!

Caracta:
We have a big challenge and I need to address that. We don't know what to do. We don't want to compromise certain things. The bird is monitoring the trees. How do we tell the bird to look away?

now, this is getting scary!
Please, what exactly is happening?

hhhhhhmmmmm...



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l really don't know what to say again but I'm obviously upset with all this their arrangements.