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dayokanu: This witch did not kill him when he was a hopeless and defenceless infant or baby

This witch carried him on her back

This witch breastfed him clothed and fed him till he is grown

This witch sent him to school and paid all his school fees

He still lives with this witch and she still hasnt killed him

Maybe you need to visit an orphanage and see helpless orphans who need this kain witch to take care of them

You and that your brainless spiritualist and baba need to be stoned publicly

May God bless you real goooood jare!




I can never be a friend to anyone with this mindset. No! Never!
People are praising and appreciating their mothers and someone is here accusing his mum of witchcraft!

Izachk: he doesnt know what to do.. he has been told by spiritualist and by babas' them that his mom is a witch as well his maternal grandmom.. they are both active christian in, they seem to have eliminated the suspicion by their church activities.. praying and ori oke things ....
he lives with his mom in the family house but things are very poor for him.. advice him

Even with your title, it's very obvious that witches are pursuing you, not only your mum and maternal grandma o, but the whole Association of witches, both home and abroad.


You better find out where you're missing it and make necessary adjustment and stop all these "won so pe, won wi pe" kind of things.

I'm just afraid, because you too will want to have kids, my fear is that, can you escape your kids accusing you of same when they are also of age like you?


Food For Thought: Proverbs 20:20.
May God help you to find out yourself.

[quote author=adeola_drg]The so called witches love pple like u. Is it everybody witch that want to kill? U talk like u're not in this country. Some others just don't want their children to have children or be sucessful. *runs out of thread*[/quote]Really


I never believe I can find people like op and this person again in this civilized age.
So people still believe this type of BS.

@op, apology, but this is the bitter truth..............your obsession is what scared the guy away. Guys appreciate ladies who are themselves, ladies who are not obsessive, ladies who free them, ladies who doesn't send them, ladies who knows her true worth.



Do you want the guy? If yes, give him some freedom and move on with your life, if you two are destined to be husband and wife, nature has a way of bringing you two together again. If he doesn't come back, a better guy will come your way, but never try to be obsessive like this guy's case.


Anything anyone gets out of desperation do not usually have happy ending.

It is well.

Double post!

Did I read that the beby is just a month old and the husband has started complaining that he's not well taken care of?


Haba! Eyin baba wa, diedie o.

I just hope this pregnancy and delivery processes are in shifts, maybe then, the daddies will know whatssup!

One of the major reasons I'm so scared of dogs. I don't think I can ever be a dog owner!


RIP to the man and I'm sure the wife will never ever have anything to do with having dogs as pets again.

@WOGED2005, God bless you jare!

tr3y: There is this guy who once was struggling to keep body and soul together. A friend introduce him to the business of selling sperm which he gladly accepted. After doing this business for a while he got a job and decided to stop selling his sperm and settle down.

To cut the story short the issue now is he's happily married with children but an ugly situation just rear its head, He is just discover that he's the father of 15 different children to different mothers. The wife is aware and don't know what to do.

What will you do if you were in the ladies shoe

How did the guy know he had fathered about 15 kids
Does he know the kids
How did the wife know about this too

What I wanted to type is .................

May God meet you at the point of your needs.

2014 is your year of abundant testimonies. Amen.

It is better not to make a vow than making a vow and not fulfilling it. Im sure you know what it entails before making promises, and i pray that God will give you the grace and power to fulfill your vows as well as bless you with the woman that will make it easy for you to fulfill your promises. Amen.











I also pray to be a better wife to my husband and a better mother to my children. May God help me. Amen.

Yes, it is good, but I must confess, adherence is difficult for me, most times, I don't meet up.

But as for hubby, he's very good at it.

All in all, it is a very good idea, I wish I can start doing it again with all seriousness. Unfortunately, I don't make new year resolutions, if not, I would have made it my No1 resolution, but God will help me.

This is where some people, mostly xtians usually get it wrong, how can someone sow offering without the approval of his/her spouse, such offering is not even acceptable before our Holy God.
To make the matter worse, look at the way the pastor responded to husband's question, as if that was what God called him to do.
Well, I'm aint surprised, most pastors we have in this present age are businessmen, and most of the members are gullible set of people.
What seed was she even sowing, this is part of the things they use to cajole them, is it not this NL that we read how a pastor collect a car from a youth corper as a seed offering?
Sowing seed is good but should jointly be done by and with the approval of the couple. Giving is generally good, but not with stu pi dity.
My people perish for lack of knowledge, many people can not pray, study the word of God themselves, they want the pastors to be doing all of these for them, and since they can't study what is in the word of God, how can they understand, if they can't understand, how can they put it into use, how will their pastor not use their gullibility to his own opportunity?

I just hope what happened in that family will not break that family up, and if it does, the pastor has kuku promised that there is no big deal, there is a place for her in the church.
I just wish everyone will learn from this and start doing things right.
Giving is good, but if you're married, and you want to give, especially in the church or to your pastor, let it be with the permission and approval of each other, that is when I believe that your giving would be acceptable by our Holy God.
May God help us all.

How can we advise when we can't see the original post?




However, i saw somewhere in one of the comments that you are the second wife out of 3 wives, well, if that is the case, there's no much you can do, you were satisfied with the situation before venturing into it, it's either you continue enduring or you opt out, because unnecessary dramas can't solve any problem in such circumstances, why? He already has divided attention.
May God help you.

So, prophecy is all about evil

Ok oooo

NOT NECESSARY!

Whose surname are you bearing? Your surrogate dad's or your real dad's?

If it's your surrogate dad's name you're bearing, then, you're tending towards being ungrateful, because, if the man had been taking care of you and do not give you reason to doubt his paternity, coupled with the fact that, you bears his name, then, i don't know what else you are looking for.
If your real dad, according to your grandma could abandon/reject your pregnancy as well as your mum during such sensitive stage of hers, and someone is magnanimous enough to accept and take care of you since you are still in the womb, and even allwed you to bear his name, i wonder what else you're still looking for in the one that abandoned you and what you will make your "dad" here to feel about you.

"DO NOT OPEN AN OLD WOUND"
that's my own opinion, please.


My advice, erase your mind from having another dad somewhere, appreciate the one you have and continually pray for him.
May God help you.

I'm yet to see a book on when one should get married. Personally, it depends on the individual. When the individual concerned is set to get married, but some things like maturity, independence, responsibility must be in place before thinking of marriage. So, @op, if you already have all these and you've also had the person that is ready to walk down the aisle with you........goodluck!

chimex38: Sometimes as young Adults, especially returning 4rm schl or wherever 2 see ur parents. Most if not all, prefer hugging their mum, including me.

But when it comes to fathers' is it preferable to 'shake hands' or 'hug'? Well I see shaking hands as a sign that u've been accepted or acknowledged as an adult; as a man by ones father and therefore deserve a handshake 4rm him as he(father) shakes his peers.

But a fatherly hug shows u're his son......yes, which u're. But also goes deeper to show u're still a kid(my opinion) who has not come of age yet. Dis is b/c as a kid, one usually hugs ones dad and doesnt seen ok to me to still hug him as an adult especially 'young adults'. It still presents one as still a kid especially when this is done in public.
Nairalanders, whats ur say?

it depends on the tradition, for example, in Yorubaland, every father appreciate prostration as a genuine respect from their sons to them, it makes then feel happy and great, and to me, what's the big deal there.
Till now, i still knee totally down with my two knees for my mum, especially when she start raining blessings on me, i remain glued down until she's done.




@op, regardless the tradition and custom, never try to handshake your dad first, it's unafrican!
May God help us all.

Ewuro707:

I've seen it ALL .

you never see anything.........

Guitarlife: The odds seemed stacked high against us.

Yes I love her and am matured enough to relate with her but then, I feel I will just let her go.

I haven't wooed her yet just that we are close and I can't keep her waiting for 4 years.

Thank you!

fedoralahot: eyaaaaaa! experience is the best teacher! you are now the scape goat.

What happened in this story or a similar one can happen to ANYBODY, the size, shape, cause and time may be different, but it sure can happen to ANYBODY, directly or indirectly, so, it's not right to make jest of anyone here. I think she should even be applauded for sharing her experience/problem for others to learn from.

May God help us all.

Smily202: Anoda ....Nollywood movie on the way......


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This is not about nollywood story, it is very very possible. I know a family who went through almost this type of ish when looking for children, the only difference there is that it didn't lead to HIV, but I tell you, it's something that no one will pray for his enemy that it led to.
What we just need is to keep on asking God to give us grace to keep on looking unto Him alone when challenges strike.

May God help us all.

Another thing is that being desperate for
ANYTHING in this life will amount to nothing except FRUSTRATION, just like this story................a very touching story.

May God help us all.

This is a great lesson for us all to believe that God's time is the best.


May God in his infinite mercy have mercy on this family and give them more strength to keep on keeping on, and the society the ability to stop pressuring couples to have their children at all costs.
If the parents and the society stops to intervene in people's marriage, there will be more sanity in the quest of having one's biological children.
May God help us all.

Sealeddeal: All these APC's antics are just meant to give press a storyline on daily basis. There is actually no need commenting on it. 2015,it will take heaven(God and angels) for APC to defeat GEJ/PDP in presidential race.

you talked with authority, are you so sure of this?

[quote author=yellowpawpaw][/quote]NO!!!
All these are unnecessary before you can make your point acceptable.

Have a policeman as your friend at your own risk.

Ikengawo: After absorbing a group called 'New PDP' and then subsequently asking all of PDP's founding fathers to join....

You dey mind them?
Let them keep on deceiving themselves. Unfortunately, Nigerians are easily and effortlessly deceived!

Big B1: I see absolutely nothing good resulting from OBJ romancing with APC or all these other PDP members running from everywhere to stack themselves into APC bus.

What is going on here clearly has nothing to do with Jonathan or Nigeria failed state; it simply has everything to do with these people realizing that PDP party is no longer lucrative. It is now time for them to think deeply about their various pockets and how or where these pockets would continue to be filled with more stolen money.

I honestly feel that Nigeria is better off with new people with fresh ideas.

It is that simple.

Never knew I will find somebody who reasons like me politically. None of these politicians, whether defecting to APC or to PDP are really passionate about the citizens, they are only passionate about the fatness of their pockets, and that's why they are running helter skelter looking for the reigning parties which will give them a better chance of holding political posts.
Let them see some signals that PDP will win the next election now and see how they will all defect back to PDP.
Mtchew.....

homeboy205: JEG

This is about JUSTICE.

I just hope justice is done, because this woman has really been battered seriously, loosing an eight months old pregnancy as a result of kicking by employer which resulted to damage of the placenta!

JUSTICE MUST PREVAIL!