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Has Catherine found another love again




HML to them.

jamace: I love this country. No dull moment.

Money is everything and everything is money

no dull moment indeed!
I love my country.

Abeg, we need to relax our muscles, this is just too funny, Nigerians are just too funny!
Mod, please, help put this on FP, let people laugh and relax their muscles small.

I love my country!

Everything don turn to business!
Na wa o!
I no fit laugh!

kunletiwoo: Na wa ooo

Na real wa!
There is nothing Nigerians can not turn to source of money.
Nigerians!!! I hail thee.
Kowope!!!

The controversial letter of Obasanjo's letter to Jonathan and Iyabo Obasanjo's letter to her father has turned into some sort of business in Abuja.
It has been gathered that vendors in Abuja have started selling Obasanjo's letter to Jonathan and Iyabo's letter to Obasanjo.
Channels TV's political correspondent, Seun Okin disclosed this on twitter some minutes ago.
According to him, both letters have been put together as a book and vendors are hawking them on some of the streets in Abuja.
He concluded by asking "can those who put together and hawking Obj and Iyabo's open letters be sued for plagiarism or Piracy?


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See tweets below

http://m.naij.com/news/54741.html

But seriously, why would she lied about such irrelevant thing such as her hometown? Is there any secret thing she was hiding? I think this is what the guy should do. Let him ask her why she lied about her hometown in the first instance, ask her if there is any secret about her hometown which she didn't want to be traced to. What can make one lie about such an inconsequential thing is what I don't understand.


That being said, since she has told the truth now, and innocent babies are already involved in their relationship, I think the guy should forgive her and marry her, except she was already looking for an excuse to discard the promised marriage.

Even though, I find it difficult to believe the story, but let's assume it is real.
You didn't know you're the only son of your parent when you were in conjunction with your ex committing 6 abortions. Now, you know she can't have her own child in the future, and that's why you broke up with her, so that you will be able to have your own kids, mehn, you're just too funny! And now you're afraid she curse you and her curse might hunt you in the future. You don't need to be afraid about the curse, be afraid about the lives you wasted, be afraid about what will become of your kids when you eventually have them, be afraid about what will become of you in your old age, be afraid about your life generally.


If you like yourself, you better go and apologize to her and if probably take her back, so that both of you can jointly seek for forgiveness and mercy from God, perhaps, miracle can happen in your life and family.

Acidosis: A 17 year old pupil is still liable to recieve some 'strokes'. Undergraduate or not, it doesn't change a thing.
Atleast we've heard of such incidence @ Babcock, Covenant University & UNILORIN.

If his Lecturers can spank the h*ll outta him, why can't I?

my dear brother, let's stop all these violent way of solving matters. It doesn't have a long lasting solution, infact, most of the time, it adds to the menace.
A loving way of correcting an adolescent, and even everyone, will go a longer way positively than all those gra-gra we are used to.
It is well.

bukatyne: Nice story

nice one indeed!
And some people will be thinking that every marriage is abusive.

Acidosis: If WORDS do not seem to work, why not try ROD?



Its even better to spend the time on the pitch playing the football, than watch others play on screen.

ROD to a 17 years old guy, an undergraduate
What happens to the rod when he's back to school

It's two sided!
It's either he outgrows it when he's more matured and has other more demanding tasks before him within a little time. In other words, when it seems his studies is taking a lot from him and when he probably looking forward for a better life(job) after the completion of his programme.

OR

He becomes more addicted to the extent that he plans to practise in football field, in that case, you never see anything, he's just starting.

In either way, ignore him and pretend you aint aware of his obsession/addiction, till he is aware and he identifies his real self, so that you people are not seen as discouraging him in his chsen hobby.
When you want to give him any task, probably in the huse or outside the house, let there be a time limit, with that, he would learn about time management and how to prioritise.

It is well.
Our boys with football, ehn.

olubolove: Thank you all for your advice. i have lots of things in my head but the most important is how to give my son the very best.
everyday i try not to remember all i went through all myselve for the sake of love. it's hurting. am strong, bold and more matured now. the truth is: i cant love him again. cause i did that so much before. He walked away because he said he was not ready to have a family then and had an ex. whom he met. so it was difficult for him to chose between us. now he's back because he said he belong here.
All that is not my problem. i let him walk away cause i wanted the best for him and dont want him to feel tied down.
now i know i can never love him again. but considering marrying him for the sake of my son and i dont want to have my kids with different fathers but am not happy about the step i want to take.

if you think you can never love him again, and you are as well not happy with the decision of settling down with him for the sake of your son, please, don't go further in the relationship, going further means you are subjecting yourself to lifetime misery, which is and can never be beneficial for you and your son, healthwise and in every area.
As i said earlier, just sit down with him and discuss abut how both of you are going to take care of your son jointly, in such a way that it won't negatively affect your son's self esteem.

My dear sister, you aint the first to have child out of wedlock, some people have made such mistake before, and they were still able to find a reputable men who loved them unconditionally. Don't subject yourself to a fruitless and unhappy lifetime.
May God help you to take the right decision.

Royal Roy: You are very right sir.

However the moderators don't put topics on the front page, we can only recommend topics that we believe are educational and that people can learn from . Sometimes it gets picked and a times it gets skipped.

There is a super mod who is responsible for putting most of the recommended topics on the front page.


However, there are times she also comes here to pick topics at random by herself and places it on the front page without our recommendations.

I for one have complained many times about this because not all topics in the family section is suitable for front page where kids and ignorant people jump on it and make nonsense of the topic.

I will present this view of yours again to the Admin. I hope they do something about it soon.

Thanks

@mod, this thread is so educative and interesting, it has a lot of stuff to learn from, i therefore recommend it for FP. Thanks.


https://www.nairaland.com/1547351/no-one-seen-us-quarrel-tunde

Very sad indeed!

Parenthood aint kids' play. It requires wisdom, lot of it.

One more thing, if you think that you can NEVER love him again, no matter what he does to please you, then, i will advise that you let him know and move on with your life, never marry out of pity, withoun any iota of love or friendliness, just don't let what happened between you two affect the child psychologically. Map out how you both will take care of your child without breaking his self esteem.
Once again, may God give you the wisdom to do the right thing. Amen.

If you have really forgiven him, and he is indeed very remorseful when he came to apologise, i think you can give him another chance.
Actually, he had messed up with you before, depending on what he did to offend you before, romantic love is gradual, you can still grow to love him back, if he knows how to regain your love by his good deeds. Therefore, if you think he has some admirable qualities that makes him marriageable ot that attracted you to him in your previous relationship, you can give him another chance. However, if you have discovered something evil or cunny about his character, which you think he is used to and also something you know you can not cope with, then, i will advise you to leave him and give another man a chance. That you already have a kid should not and would not be a barrier, the man that will love you unconditionally, as well as your child will surface, at its appointed time.
May God help you.

olubolove: Hellow house.
i often come here to read, but hardly comment nor post anything, but i need to post this today cause i really need advice from matured mind.
Am 28yrs. i love to get married as age is not on my side and i desire to have a peaceful home. i've been meeting men who shows they love me and care about my baby, but have not had any se-x-tual relationshp with any since my break up two yrs ago.i had a child outside wedlock. my baby father walked away cause things were not working out with him then. he actually left me when i needed him most. he make fool of me and walked away. i strugled all alone with the help of my parents to care for myselve and my baby. my baby is 2yrs now
today am doing alright, my child is doing fine. Rescently my baby father started communicating and geting close. he apologied and i've forgiven him. he wants us to get married and build our dreams together with our baby, but the problem now is: i just cant feel any love for him in my hrt. no matter how i tried. I just dont want to have my kids from different fathers but if am going to accept his proposal it's going to be JUST for my baby's sake.
I remembered when we first met, i loved him so much that i wanted to be his wife, but now, i dont feel excited about that anymore.
the things bordering me now are:
1. is it wrong if i agree and marry him just because of my son? cause i dont feel love or anything exciting about the marriage. (beside must i love him to marry him?)
2. if i dont, can another man who love me and accept my baby today always be there for my baby should i die or something?
I just want matured mind to reason with me and say something pls.
i said i've forgiven him and am not holding anything back against him

why did he break up with you before?

Only God knows what must have transpired between him and the guys.

May his soul RIPP

Ewuro707: I just logged in this morning. Sorry my sister. I will check right away.

ok ma.
Never knew you are the one with this new ID.
Welcome back ma.
I, personally missed you.
But i believe you have your personal reason for your action.
Will mail you.

Btw, i love this your new ID....
E W U R O............Adun nii ngbeyin ewuro, adun ni yoo gbeyin gbogbo wa. Amin.

Ewuro707: Lol. Would you have gotten it cheaper? Thank goodness for the Black Friday sef that I got those iPad for that price, and it's one per customer sale, EMS crew gurney-ed almost 5 wounded customers out from the store. Crazy people.

So you didn't get anything for yourself?

i pmed you, you didnt reply my mail. Why?

What a lovely way to have good memory of a loved one. Wishing him and his daughter well in all their endeavours.

yellowpawpaw: Oh my!
YPP is in love!!!
Somebadi pls help!


So tantan and promising.
And I believe the down below is fully loaded too

you no well

abeg, park well for one side jooor!
No be old cargo like you we dey talk about!
The op is still young and looking for eleje tutu young lady.

@op, i sincerely wish you the very best jare. Just be yourself and be focused.
It is well.

The op is not an American.
He was only catching fun.

If you find it difficult to understand your wife, it's either you yourself don't understand yourself or you and that woman you call your wife are not meant to be husband and wife.




@op, grow up. You didn't call someone to join you when you're eating, but you called her to join you in the bathroom, to come and do what exactly? If that is what you term being difficult to understand, then, you really need to grow up.

First of all correct yourself. You have your own gf, and yet sleeping around like a dog, now you're asking if you should pay for the service rendered to you, don't you know that, she doesn't have any emotional feeling for you, the only way she can get gratified is to collect service charges. If you don't want to pay for her service, stop enjoying her service! Simple!
One more thing, you like her very much, but she can't be your gf? Girls/ladies, are you listening.

So, senator Yerima has mouth to be among those who ban same sex marriage, what about child marriage that he engages in, isn't that a crime too?


Same sex marriage is bad, as well as child marriage. What are the senate doing about it?

Yerima, shameless, pervert and wicked old hag. God is seeing you and your cohorts.

Nigeria politics!
Smh......

If they were actually cultists, only God knows what might have transpired between the two parties.
I pray the culprits are found and made to face the law.


May the soul of the departed soul rest in peace.

Nigeria politics!!!
Smh.

Na wa o!!!
So, Tinubu and Atiku can still be in the same party again

Tinubu and Baba OBJ, to be in the same party again How will both of them look at each other's face.
I remember how Tinubu used to useless Obj and other PDP members then, na wa o! This politics ish sha.
Indeed, no permanent friend or enemy but permanent interest in politics.
So, with this development now, Tinubu and OBJ have permanent and same interest as regards this country.
I laugh in swahili.
God knows, i swear, with this type of interest clash in our political system, i can never be a politician.