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soe: LOL...and someone was saying UNN is the finest University.....see grasses and untrimmed flowers....what a mess

don't mind them jare, i still don't know the criteria used for such conclusion.

Abeg, one person can not be putting the work of others and the time of students into ransom, let the FG or the NUC intervene and carry out the people's demand. Enough time has been wasted already. Hian!

NO 1....severally.



NO 4...........Funny enough, i still do it sometimes,....lol

@op, there is no much you can do, so that you won't be seen as causing division among siblings. If they are good siblings/people and they always helpful and supportive, morally and in every good way,leave him, it's working to his and your advantage too, but if on the other hand, it seems they are envious or rebellious, leave him as well, by the time they show him once and he has the primary experience, no one will caution him, he will caution himself.

Wisdom is the principal thing, and how do you get the wisdom, by experience.

May God help us all.

kulyie: @ op you are suffering from MISPLACED PRIORITY.your focus shouldnt be about getting a wife,i care less whether you are 32 or 60 and still a bachelor,your drive now should be getting a stable job,establishing your feet on the ground and getting the kind of job that enables you take care of a wife,kid,pay rent etc.i dont think you know how expensive being a married man is and maintaining a home.it is when you add VALUE TO YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO ADD VALUE TO OTHERS.EVEN IF YOU ARE A BACHELOR AT 50 AND DONT HAVE A STABLE INCOME I DONT EXPECT A MAN WHO HAS FOCUS TO BE SEARCHING FOR A WIFE WHEN HE IS SUPPOSED TO ME STRUGGLING TO MAKE LIFE BETTER FOR HIMSELF
even if you see a wife today now.how do you plan sustaining a home? Or you 2 plan to live a life of misery/squalor and in anycase i woner which lady will agree to marry a hustler in this day and age.

The truth about life is when you are a man,no matter how old or young,ugly or handsome you are,once you have money,there will be an influx of women rushing you that your problem will be choosing who to marry among them,but if you are a hustler and you want to marry


i wish you best of luck

so, my dear sister, you mean a hustler do not have right to marry, what happens to not despising humble beginning? Na wa o. With this comment and some others, i'm really afraid o.

I doubt if my hubby would marry when he did if he was to go with this type of advice and i also doubt if i will agree to marry him if i believed in this type of mindset.
Ok, o.It is well.

Haaaa nkan mbe o.
Mewa nsele ni'le aye.
So, someone can be this desperate and evil at the same time.
Only God knows the type of prayers your mum must have engaged in before the truth can be this unfold.

May God save us and our children from such a person o.

Cancer is not something to wish even one's enemy, if it true, i pray that she gets well soon.

Enough is enough!
This peole should stop fooling us.

Until i see Iyabo Obasanjo herself on my TV screen either attesting that she wrote the letter or denying writing the letter, im aint going to believe anything that has to do with this letter any longer.

Enough is enough!
This peole should stop fooling us.

Until i see Iyabo Obasanjo herself on my TV screen either attesting that she wrote the letter or denying writing the letter, im aint going to believe anything that has to do with this letter any longer.

This Iyabo-Obj letter is becoming more interesting.



However, I'm not surprised that Osoba supported that Iyabo could have written the so called letter, because he is of opposition party, and if i can remember very well, they (Obj and Osoba)are sworn enemies, therefore, he(Osoba) would rather support Iyabo as she seems to be more of opposition side against her father.

Nigeria politics, very dirty indeed.


Anyway, let the drama continues.

cheryluv: Hey pals! I jst broke up wit my boyfrnd, n though i knw it hurts him, am scared he might do smthing drastic...I dnt want him to go about terminating my image as a way of revenging me..plz wt do i do?

what exactly did you do when you two are together that is making you scared like this

My brother, remember, NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT.
And WHEN THERE IS LIFE, THERE IS HOPE.
One thing i want you to remember is that there will always be trying/difficult times, there is no any human that don't have his/her trying time, it may be different in shapes or degrees, but definitely no one without it, but our attitude during those time is what determines how long we stay in such time, our mindset and disposition to life also plays some roles in determining how long we stay in the difficult time. So, thank God that you are still alive, which means you still have opportunity to experience a turnover in your life. Dust yourself, your papers and look for another job, have a positive mindset and disposition to life, surround yourself with positive-oriented people and do not allow any pity party around you.
And as for the feeding of the children, i think Madam should be able to be filling the gap by now, pending when there is total and positive turn around which is very close by than you imagine, knowing fully well what is on ground now.
I pray that things turn around positively for you soonest than you imagine by His grace.

@op, do you have other good qualities that is admirable by women, if yes, you will surely meet your own wife who will not look at how fat your salary is before agreeing to marry you. What you just need is confidence, tolerance, being focused and honesty. If you see any single lady that you admire, walk up to her and approach her, if she is not interested, move on, so many fishes in the ocean, if after you approach a lady and she agrees, only for you to later see what you think you can't cope with in her, tell her quietly and calmly, with explaination, and move on till you discover the one with whom you can cope with, but this can only be easy if you don't have intimate with any of them. With time, you will get there. And one more thing, don't rest on your oars, strive more to acquire more, in other to have a better life together with your future family.
I am a product of humble beginning, but today, i thank God for His mercies on our family.
The God that have mercy on us and move us from where we were to where we are now shall also have mercy on you and your future family by His grace.
It is well.

@baby mama, my sister, you fall my hand o, should marriage be based on the fatness of the pocket? I think the guy should even be applauded for being honest with what he earns, what if he has sugarcoated his mouth and claim to have everything haveable in life, will you have agreed that he's marriageable then? Remember, we shouldn't despise humble beginnings.
"oni la ri, ko si eni to m'ola".
May God help us all

My heart goes to the innocent kids who are now left with no parent, no dad, no mum, but i declare to you kids, that regardless of the predicant that your parents are putting you through, you shall sail through, your destiny and purpose for your living shall be accomplished in Jesus name.

alutacontinua: "Do I want to be right or do I want to be happy?"

Babyosisi, God bless you for the above statement!

Just saved me some st*pid trouble and argument I was going to put myself in tonight again!

Op, i'm nt married but the above quote is a life-saver!

who is babyosisi here? Kindly jamisi.




@post, when i'm annoyed or angry, i don't talk, especially when the kids are around, what i do is that i go into the room and use either my phone to invite him over into the room, or i send a text message to invite him or BBM message, then, i say my mind, we trash everything out there calmly and thoroughly, then, we apologise to each other and everyone is happy.

None of them should resign, let both of them invite their parent over, afterall, they have enough money to flaunt around, their parents wil help in taking care of the kids properly.

Woged2005: That's why you should not read another person's texts. Now you saw what you cannot handle. If I had advised you that day not to read your father's text, you'd have said I should mind my business.

Please do not read ur wife's, husbands, girlfriend's, boyfriend's, father's, mother's, sister's, brother's, coworker's, best friend's etc texts, except you're working very hard to be unhappy. Spend ur time looking for what will keep u happy. "yanga dey sleep, trouble go wake am"

you're very right, many people don't know that this is one of the secrets of being continously happy.

"bi eti ko gbo yinkin, inu o ni baje"

joromi: Dear God,
Please, let me not have an husband like the OP's father.
Amen.

A VERY BIG AMEN.

@op, what i think you can do is to persuade your dad to disclose the secret to your mum, what has been done can not be undone again, let him disclose to her, and be there to comfort and appeal to your mum to take it easy. I think this shouldn't be difficult for both of you, since you're now confidants of each other. But until your dad accept/adhere to the appeal, never let the secret comes out from your mouth.

I have never killed gecko and i don't intend ever killing one. Why? They never disturb. But others, no, i cant live with them.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]What does 'Arowolo' mean? [/quote]the name of the man that killed his wife.

moscobabs: God and Die ...I beg

Lol....... Remember, you are not oshiomole.

@op, sincerely you made my day today, each time i see this thread, it makes me to laugh out loudly, thank God that i'm the only one in the office today.


But on a serious note now, those energy you're reserving till xmas time to beat hell out of your wife probably at the airport or any other place in Naija, why don't you reserve that energy to find out why she use to behave the way she does in that place, you can use that energy to find those she respects and shy towards to help you talk sense to her. I understand that you must have seen hell while with her in that foreign land, but i believe that two wrongs don't make a right, why don't you make attempt to settle your differences or the grudges amicably, instead of turning yourself to a shameless old hag in the presence of your folks and probably your inlaws. Xmas is fast approaching, and many people are looking for oppotunities/ways to reconcile with whoever they might have had grudges with, so that they don't enter the new year with bitterness, but instead you want to ignite a family fire, which most likely would be suffered by your innocent kids.
If after all and done, it seems you two can't cope with each other, it's better to honorably separate with each ther than opening a show of shame for yourself.
I pray that God will give you the wisdom to go about this in such a way that you won't regret your action. My prayers are with you.

@op, it is very simple. The hotness of the sun as well as the high temperature of the iron used is what is causing the brownness of your whites.

Wash your whites with good detergent without any bleach(i dont want to mention any brand name), dont squeeze it, then spread it in a cool place, like bathroom or any other place free from sun, and when ironing, turn it to the bearest minimum low temperature, with this, i assure you that you won't feel bad about your whites again.
It is well.
P. S. I have never used bleach for any of our whites before, i only use it in conjunction with harpic for our toilet.

I'm still laughing out loudly at this threadd. Infact, this is the most hillarious thread i've come across in recent time.......

moscobabs: Thank jare...maybe some idi0t dont read before comment

you really don't need this, do you?
The above statement of yours says a lot about you.

frostbyte: When I get to Nigeria for Xmas, depending on where she makes the first wrong statement, that will make her cup overflow. Hopefully at the airport. Cos her mouth is faster now. I am going to give this woman a beating of her life that I couldn't do in America. I have absorbed enough, she used to be nice and respectful till I brought her to the state as wife. I sure will get away with the brutality easy in Naija than this place. I will seize her greencard and return to the states quietly.

tell me something................









Disclaimer:::::::::::This is a joke, right?

Lol

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there can never be such coincidences. NEVER!!!

dridowu: Judyeze and Musiwa................blood is thicker dan water

The same person is behind both handles.