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Sincerely, i dont know why or what is confusing you.

The girl?
Her lies?
Her obvious greed?
Her open secret pretence?
Her parents?
Her sugar daddy?
OR
Your cousin?
Your cousin's advice?
OR
Your life?
Your kind of girl?
Your preference as regards your choice of marriagable girl?
Your own parent?
Or the obvious signs God is showing you?
What exactly is confusing you?
You better thank your God and run for your dear life.

Living with a person that can not be trusted is like living in a house with an open fire.

What else can i say?

You are so lucky and indeed God really loves you to have allowed you see her real person before your story becomes "once upon a time"
You probably judged a book by its cover, now your eyes are opened, FLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE, why? Your girl is an aristo, or what do they call it? She is greedy and a gold digger, and above all, untrustworthy.
You're worth more than her, except............


Lest i forget, CC mentioned a very vital point, adhere to it for your own good. Stop buying love with money or gifts, except if you dont have other good qualities that good girls can admire.

Goodluck to you in your next relationship, hopefully, you're now wiser.

For those complainig about the reoccurence of Oduah's stories, have we forgotten that the reigning news presently are.........
1. Oduah's story
2. ASUU versus FG saga.

Any news or article or book on them will sell faster faster.

She's showing the trait of a bad leader. A good leader should be able to accept responsibility for his/her actions and not to be defensive or give excuses or shift blames.

Typical human being!

This woman is only being defensive!

Miss Botswana, Ghana and Nigeria are my favourites.

In this country

Hope this helps

Smart daughter
Lucky father

But does that really matter, the judge left the case that was before him and focused on another unimportant issue. Na wa o.


#won fi ete sile, won npa lapalapa

But why don't we love ourselves sef?
The FG don't want to shift ground and the ASUU too will not consider the students that are forced to stay and waste away at home, and at the end of the day, its Nigeria that is the ultimate loser/sufferer, because its the future leaders' lives that we are talking about here.

Sincerely, both ASUU and FG should shift ground a little, abeg, the students are rusting away at home, their times are being wasted unnecessarily.

As far as I'm concerned, there is no Nigeria political party that is not corrupted, they are all the same, IMO, they are all there because of their selfish interest, none of this politicians is a saviour and can ever be a saviour.

Sincerely, I don't know why this country is so unlucky when it comes to leadership, because, both PDP and APC that are the major Nigeria political parties are jointly a curse to this country.
Both the opposition partyand the opposed party are massively corrupted and wouldn't mind to ruin this country with their greediness.

So, metu, I'm aint supporting you on this, you're all the same.

@op, if your marriage is predestined, it will surely come to pass. Stop worrying yourself, stop being too anxious, what you think is a problem now may be warmly welcomed by your folks, all you need to do is to ensure that you aint attached to him for wrong reasons, if it's right and approved by God, God Himself is the one that will tourch your parent's heart and leave you to do what will make you happy.

However, ensure you don't marry the may if your people are aggressively and totally against it, most times, our parent's voice are usually the voice of God, so, never marry a man they do not consent to, wait until they consent to it, prayerfully before you go ahead with marriage plans.

Pray fervently and be convinced that He is God's chosen for you, the waiting, you wil see that it worth it at the end of the day.May God help you.

ATMC: Its not ibo factor rather it is distance...its not easy to give ur daughter that far

Is Anambra and Edo that far?

@op, for real

190fan

I doubt the seriousness of the poster and his thread!

[quote author=soul_glo]Very soon prostitutes will start handing out coupons to men that are not working and have no access to funds.[/quote]Cheerful givers

@op, if what you wrote up there is real and actually true, then it means you need help ASAP, the first step is for you to free yourself from such emotional traumatic environment, for now, pack your things and leave him in the house, let him continue his lifestyle out of your sight, stop traumatising yourrself by beholding such things, it can run you mad.
Secondly, go for medical test on evry form of STDs and be certain that you're healthy, if you have been infected, start your treatment immediately, if not, happy for you.
Thirdly, decide what you want for yourself, you know yourself better and you know what you want for your life and as a partner/spouse, so, start from there, evaluate yourself, your needs, and your preferences in terms of mate.
A word is enough for the wise.
I pray for wisdom to go about it rrightly.

byvan: @Soul glo,i heard some now give for free to preferred customers

You mean giving free for real
And you think it's not HIV such a who re is giving freely

This thread reminds me of a time. I was madly rude to a woman who is very much older than me, even though, I didn't like the fact that I was rude to her, not even to anybody sef, but I didn't regret my action and neither did I apolologise for my rudeness to her.


What happened?

I met her in the market with the company of my brother when my wedding was some months away, she was my mum's church member and kinda closed to her but not very closed anyway, so, immediately I spotted her, I called my brother's attention to her, who advised that we greet her and inform her about the forthcoming wedding and also to ask where she lives so that we can go and invite her formally, immediately we greeted her and my bro just mentioned about the forthcoming wedding, she said, "with this belly that is not protruded already" and trying to touch my belly if I was pregnant, immediately, I pushed the hand away and shouted on her not to ever try to touch my belly again, and finally said she doesn't even attend a wedding ceremony when the wife is not already pregnant, can you imagine.

Needless to say, I support veave, how can you touch my belly? Pregnant or not, when you're not my husband, it's barbaric, it's disrespectful, it's annoying, thank God now it's illegal.


Op, sorry for the long epistle, your thread just reminded me of what happened over a decade ago.

How is your relationship with your MIL like Because, if all is well between you two, you won't see taking care of her as a problem, regardless of how many daughters she has.
Is there anything you want us to know therefore

But no matter what, remember that every DIL is a potential MIL.
May God help us all.

RIP to him and may God give his familly the fortitude to bear the loss.

The keyword here is WITH OR WITHOUT CONSENT of the man.

I'm guilty of this too

@op, accept my condolence.

You know what, sometimes, some things are allowed to happen to us to make us stronger and tougher, so that at the end of the day, we will look back and thank God for making us stronger in times of trouble.
Therefore, pull yourself together, grief, but do not allow your grieve to affect your sense of reasoning.
At a time like this, I usually advise that, if you feel like crying, please do, but don't question God, he's unquestionable, and even if you do, who will answer you? So, pull yourself together and think of how you can make the best use of the circumstances on ground.

I pray to God to give you the fortitude to bear the loss and wisdom to guide you aright. Amen.

But sincerely, when are we going to get to the real accountability level in this country, ordinary #45,000 that is not even enough for them to take care of their family, they refuse to pay them on time, and we all know that this people have families to cater for, na wa o. I really support them for fighting for their right, let them be paid their salary, then work continues.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Naija being what it is, no one would be held accountable for this.

Sad really.[/quote]Sad but true!
Its only God who is protecting all of us in this country, the level of risks we are constantly been exposed to is just too high, but all the same, I will not lose hope on this country, I know and I believe in a better tomorrow for Nigeria.

God bless Nigeria.

Very pathetic, may His soul rest in peace!

Happy birthday to your wiffy. Wishing her everything she wish herself.





P. S.......@op, your profile picture, na real ghen ghen. Anything is possible.

[quote author=tpia@]^ ignore my post madam, i wasnt addressing you.

you've typed your own honey and sugar response, i think the op should have read it.

thanks.

we all know you're an angel.

unless you're the op sha, alternate moniker, or you need husband.[/quote]thank you ma

This thread got me cracked up biiiiig time.

Well, to be sincere with you, that No 3 combo is my favourite combo, i love it very wella, especially in an owambe party where there is amala, i usually ask that everysoup/every draw soup available be mixed together for me to clear my amala, @op, try it and your life will never remain the same, lol


but that No 1, chai! i fear fear o, i no fit. But im sure some fit shop am. Goodluck to them.

@tpia.......

Easy o, my sister.
Thank you ma.