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Am i the only one who noticed that the so-called blonde hair is a wig

[quote author=kind.way]Baba Oyo.
Has it ever occur to you that OYO, FOLA and Fola's mum might be reading this pasots. I bet even if they are not reading it now somebody will show them this posts in the nearest future.

It might turn to be a good idea to keep the real names of the people involved off the screen.[/quote]i dont know of fola, but definately, oyo couldnt be baba oyo's son's real name, so, for that, he has made the whole thing anonymous enough, so, kudos to him and thank you for the observation.

Royal Roy: Excellent as always!! Your hubby must be a lucky man!!
I want to believe baba Oyo put the word "gullible" in quotes for lack of better word to use. Yes you are right he should modify the word into something better!
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thanks sir, im flattered

This is one of the numerous reasons why i dont and will never endorse internet dating.
Though, it might work for some, but the risk involved is higher.
The person you see face-to-face often misbehaves, not to talk of a faceless person.
May God help us all.

jidegirl12: As we wa sain , Mrs Greatgod do you by any chance have a son in law in stock for me? Lets start from the top , only one from you will be perfect... @cc league don pass my own, Debrief is too strict and my daughter na love me jeje love me tender.......

Emm emm * raises hand* @sisi I like your sense of humor too... Son in stock?

I prefer Delicate than gulib but it's okay words no dey stick.

@jide, time will tell.
And yeah!, delicate is better, and that is why i guess babaoyo didnt know how to put it.
Depending on parenting skills of individual, no gullible boys or girls, the only imprtant thing is how are these children brought up
May God help us all.

@sisikill, you cant say it better, i guess Baba oyo didnt know how to put it, if baba oyo thinks girls of the same age with hos son are gullible, and his son is dating a gullibe girl, then, it means his son is also gullible. Simple.
Likes attracts likes, so, baba oyo, modify your post accordingly.
God bless you.

I see nothing wrong in what Fola's mum did, infact, its the ideal thing to do by every reasonable parent and most especially, mothers.
Lets even forget dating here, if i can wait to see and know the mother of my 7 years old friends' parents of my son and also my almost 5 years old daughter friends parents, i thing its very appropriate for (i guess Fola should be around the same age with Baba Oyo's son)almost 17years old daughter. The idea here is based on the popular saying of "show me your friend and i will know who you are", and to me, its a welcome idea.
Now, back to dating, what is wrong with knowing who your child is hanging out with. Both of them(fola&oyo) need proper guidance and education from BOTH PARENTS, so, if i were Baba Oyo, i will also invite Fola, one, to evaluate her, and discover if shes the type of girl i will want my son to hang out with, two, to be able to educate them together, after she has been approved, three, to be able to monitor them, four, to give them this assurance that you are ours and you will continue to be if you are both well behaved and stand by the principles you are brought up with. These are what Fola's mum want to do with Baba Oyo's son, which to me, shes on a good track.
One thing i know is that, if these children know that their parents are aware and involved in their affair/relationship, there is likely to be more sanity, respect for each other and "normal fear" in the relationship than when it is secretly done/out of parents knowledge. The former will be full of "lets not dissapoint our parents" while the latter will be on lets do what we want to do jare, afterall, no one knows what is going on between us, which at the end of the day comes along with heartbreak with no one to hold responsible by the parents, if the unexpected happens.
Baba oyo, congratulations,once again, and dont forget to continue being "their" friends and confidants, guide them with love, correct them where necessary in love and accept them through love.
Good for you and Fola's mum for facing the reality and allowing these youngies, because, if you dont face the reality and accept them, they will do it behind you, which can be distastrious and full of regret.
May God help us all.

dayokanu: Born2fuck knows Bill gates address. Send your sister to him he would direct her to Bill Gates house

you be baddest guy

I think this thread should be in the jokes section. Here in this section, we have peple that are really concerned about marriage and family in general, not this kind of "kwension/need"
thank you and God bless.

And what did you do to help out, something like calling the police, before you left or you just recorded the event to use it to open a thread on NL?

@op, how far now? Hope all is now well? Keep us updated.

I guess the fear of your BIL banging into your room was one of the major factor for not fully consentrating to it.
May God help you o.

maurisoft: it got me thinking and i can't really understand why most ladies do change their phone number immediately after marriage.
Why do u think they change their phone no.

did your wiffy change hers

@op, no, its not right, if you do it, it means you dont have respect for your parents.
May God help you.

One thing that occurred to me is that, the man never really loved the woman, he might have probably had some women before who werent able to conceive, not to talk of bearing children for him, and when this poor woman told him shes pregnant, he quickly accepted, but inside of him, he knew ho only accepted to marry her in order to make her a baby factory machine.
Hhhhmmm, poor woman, i really dont know what to say, because of her dissability condition, but, i know that God will fight for her. I would have suggested she get in touch with the man's family, in order to call the man to order, not necessarily to come back to the woman, but only to be alive to his responsiblity as regards the children, since there is little this woman can do, but, who knows? , the relationship between her and the man's folks.
Well, God is watching.
Ibi ti a ba ba aye yii je de, a a fojuri.
May God help us all.

Personally, i will suggest you sit her down and have a meaningful and effective communication with her, she might not be promiscus,IMO, she might be an industrious and money loving woman(there are some people like that, who love money more than their family), so, enlighten and educate her on the importance of one's family to her, she might be telling lies to you as regards where shes going because of the fear that you wont allow her, and she knows that you love her, that, even, if she dare you, once she apologise, you will forgive her, and truth be told, she also love you, otherwise, she wont be begging (apologise)you after she disobey you, so, the two of you need to have a heart-to heart discussion on what you want in your marriage and what/how you want her to go about her business in such a way that, it will not have adverse effect on the family.
Also, good that you have decided to be closer to her, your distance to/with her might be one of her reasons of her audacity.
May God give you the wisdom to do this aright, and i prophesy a new and better beggining in your marriage IJN.
SHALOM.

That man is a very funny man, the wife is promiscus, yet, he set up a beer parlour with peppersoup joint for her. He had already shown her a broader and bigger way to go about it. IMO, he doesnt have to complain, the woman is doing what the man knew she would do. Besides, he never really loved the woman sef, because all his reason for not granting her the divorce she asked for is basically because he sees all the money spent for and on his wife as investment, which must bring forth interest/profit/gain.
Maybe, when the woman bear him 12 children, he may decide to grant her wish of divorce, abi, i think, 12children should be enough gain for his "investment".
Funny man.

Overflogged

[quote author=baby_123]This is the name i was trying to remember. I really like semilore or lore. Its a nice name. I didnt know Kemi was for males. Also Anuoluwakitan or Kitan. Its still a long name sha. *phew*[/quote]lol.....semilore is my best friend's first child name, very lovely name, i use to call him semmy.....lol


oluwakemi is a unisex name, infact, my immediate elder brother is known and addressed by that name, coincidentally, his wife too bears the same name....lol, so, for their wedding I.V, it was "kemi vs kemi for life".......lol, nice name and nice combination.

Adewale
adekunle
adegboyega
adeniyi
adeyemi
adeolu
ademola
adebola
adegbenga
adewuyi
adeola



opemipo
opeyemi
opelojasi
opeolopin
opefoluwa



luwaseun
oluwadarasimi
aduramigba
eriadura
iyanuoluwa
iteoluwakiisi
inioluwa
oluwasegunfunmi
oluwasemiloore
oluwatobiloba
oluwakemi(unisex name)
oluwaferanmi
oluwanifemi
afolabi,etc

bellong: From fairy tales, I know witches eat and suck blood while their Naija counterpart in movies donate their children to their covens. My question to you and your friend, "Why didn't the grandma donate her children to be eaten long ago? was she waiting for them all to become big and matured enough to be deliciously enjoyed?

I believe in divine revelation and workings of the spiritual realm but any revelation from God without a solution or way out is merely words from knowledge and not words of knowledge. If those your "men of God" did not receive solution to grandma's witchcraft, I will advise your friend to sue those seers in court for defamation of character.

This is why this nation will never move forward when we rely on people for what you can do yourself. Is there any part of the bible that says you can't go to God yourself for revelation of the unknown? What gives you the assurance that those people told you the same. We just have bunch of religious but ungodly people in the country, who only with their mouth love God but their heart and character are far from their profession.

Bible says, "If a man's ways pleases the Lord, He will make even his enemy to be at peace with him..." (Paraphrased). Please check yourself inwardly and your family and leave the poor woman out of it.

If you are convinced she is a witch, then confront her with a matchet/gun for confession (This is only applicable if you are gullible enough to believe a revelation without way out).

thank you, i love this piece.
May God bless you.

Lol, funny thread, thank God and welcome babyosisi and jennykadry for speaking out sense about this stu..pid boy.

Privacy......hhhhm lol, i remember the early months of our marriage.......oh! Too baddest, jenny, have you done dindong on the staircase, bathtub, dinning table, kitchen, etc, imagine, make somebody come dey spoil all that for me, lailai, e no go happen, this op seems to be very quiet, well, individual differences, but seriously, that boy(BIL) NEEDS MENTAL EXAMINATION, SERIOUSLY.

ileobatojo: If that's really what he's doing and she believes he is doing this deliberately to disrespect her because he is older than her, then what is she being calm for? She is welcome to unleash her anger as far as I'm concerned. A man is deliberately and knowingly barging in and out of my room as a woman and I need to be calm? Firm and calm confrontation is what she should do if she believes he is slow. I never said she shouldn't confront him if he is slow, I said she shouldn't get unnecessarily angry (and try to understand that it is because of his condition), but she must still confront him no matter the reason. Please read my first post.

no, i got you, im only adrressing those who said she has to tolerate him more or why is she complaining now,blah,blah, as for you, we are on the same level in this thread, you know, "suuru ko ni ki oro ma di ijongbon", hope you get me now, im aint referring to you, i was referring your post for others to see what is really happening in op's home.
Thanks.

ileobatojo: I suppose it's possible that he's also being deliberately wicked and disrespectful but this is an odd way to go about that.

this is exactly what is happening, probably, because hes older than the wife(OP) and that is why she (op) has to calmly and firmly confront him, yes, she has to, she has taken in enough BS from him,
how i wish some people are just like me, i like confrontatin so much and it has helped me in so many ways, i always demand for explaination/reasons for an action, lol.
"ailesoro ni ibere ori buruku"
may God help them o

Les: Those calling it slow, nawa 4una o, it's more of being insensitive and unenlightened about marriage than stupid, for c.o.L, D dude is bloody hardworking!

nothing wey person no go read for NL,even, if she had allowed the guy while dating, how can she know that a full grown up man like that, even older than the op will not know how to respect his brother's marriage or his brother's wife privacy. Haba!you people talk as if we too never lived with a single and married people before or as if no one lived with our partners before.
IMO, that lady never made a mistake for tolerating him during courtship, because how can she know that an adult like that wont know how to keep his space after discovering that his brother is married. I will say it again, its the BIL that is either slow or up to something (remember hes older than the op) or wicked. I will even not be surprised if after this, the op opens another thread that he(BIL) peeps to either listen or see them when they are making love, hes such a stu.pi d man that can do such.
I have advised the op, and the earlier she confront the silly man, the better for her.
#im out

Inasmuch as i will like you to mind your business, i will also like to advise you to critically observe what is obtainable in that your boyfriend's family and evaluate if the guy is marriageble to you, because, with the way you sound, you are most likely going to have problems with your MIL,if you eventually marry the guy.
May God help you.

Baba oyo, baba oyo, baba oyo, how many times did i call you


This is the time to be closer and friendlier with the guy.
May God help you, hm and all of us. Amen.

ileobatojo: ]




OP, is his brother mentally slow or odd in other ways/socially unaware? I'm not joking, I really suspect he is because it would be unusual for someone with normal cognition to do what he is doing. If he is slow, then I don't think it would be fair to get mad at him. You/your husband just need to have a discussion about boundaries with him.

its either hes slow as you have sugeested or hes up to something or sheer wickedness to frustrate either or both of them.
Well, either way, if its me, it will only happen the first time, and i mean it. I have zero tolerance for stu..pidi. ty