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Here is another link you can read and you will be convinced that all is well




https://www.nairaland.com/1272672/pregnant-craving

@ op, congratulations to you and your wife.......that is the joy of motherhood.
There is actually nothing you can do about it, its a phase, it shall soon pass, maybe, after the first trimester or thereabout, it all depend on her body metabolism.
As for the strange cravings, relax, its normal, its caused by pregnancy hormones, its a phase, all you need is to keep on to stay with her, i have for once asked my hubby to get me a log of wood, because i felt like carrying heavy object. So, relax, it wii soon be over, no problems, after the whole drama, you people will have some things to remember and laugh about. It is well.



Check this link to see how pregnancy turned our women to in form of strange cravings.

https://www.nairaland.com/1205705/how-embarrassing-it-get-during#14462534

mawuqueyan: Wow .... May your jewel be a source of blessing,joy and happiness †̥☺ you IJN.... You wl enter into †ђξ delivery room and not labour room IJN.... So shall it be IJN.....AMEN.

so, whats the difference between delivery room and labour room Abeg, e je ka kola kuro leko, eko o kola, she who enters a delivery room has gone there to labour for the arrival of her baby, which makes the two rooms the same room. No woman with baby that had not gone through labour, both mild and severe, all we need is to beg God for save and less drama delivery. Amen.

@op, there is no one who does not have his/her challenging times, inasmuch as there is day and night, male and female, sun and moon, up and down, light and darkness, there will always be good and bad season for every humam being, the brave and bold gets going.
Tough times dont last, tough people do, when the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
Everyone that is enviable today has had their challenging times,
so, dont die before your time, theres still enviable times ahead of you.
If our president had committed suicide when he was shoeless, he wont live to become Nigeria's president.
If Mandella has committed suicide when he was impriosoned, he wont become the most celebrated and respected African president.
If Obama had committed suicide when he was having his own share of worst times, he wont be in the white house now.
If your presupposed father or mother have committed suicide before both met or before giving birth to you, there wont be you.
If i have committed suicide when things werent rosy for me, there wont be greatgod2012 here commenting.
In a nutshell, if you commit suicide now, you rob yourself of the good times ahead of you.
May God give you the strength to move on and become a winner.

[quote author=baby_123]If you still insist and are healthy, donate your organs to those who need it and want to live, even if in the worst form of poverty. A positive and optimistic outlook on life may help.[/quote]chai!baby, 1million likes for this part......, at op, only if you understand this piece.
May God help you.

sholay2011: Life is too short to commit suicide; be patient, you will still die.

WORD!!!

This thread.........ehn, na kill, e go funny baje

I love that part........"your parents insult you at home and brags about you in public".......... This really happened to me(us) while growing up, if you do this, you hear......"dont you know you are a woman to be, na wa o, you never know how to do anything right", if you do that, its another shouting/insult. There was a day she(my mum) wasnt around and a visitor asked of her(she had already told me to come and call her where she was if that particular visitor came around),so, as i was going with the fear of what she will talk again, i overheard her praising us to her friend......she said and i quote....."i thank God for the type of children God gave me, they are so cool-headed, if they are like other people's children that i know, they would have ran away from house", blah,blah,blah........i was like....hhhhmmm, so, this woman can be proud of us, but who born me to let her know that i overheard such words, ha!, my mama, colonial master indeed.,,,,,,,,,,.
After we all got married, one day we just decided to visit her together, so we went there em-mass, and we recollected our childhood experiences with her, so i told her my experince of "that" day and we asked why she always insulted us at home, why she always have something to complained about when in actual fact, we were doing fine and okay...........she said.........so that you can all turn out well the way you have turned out well, chai! See Africa mentality, so, if parents dont abuse, dissapprove and insult their kids, they wont turn out well.........hhhhmmmmm
May God help us all.

Me i no get that kain man o.......why

1.he doesnt eat outside, except at a party, even there, if im not there with him or im not eating the food he wont eat.
2. He doesnt play with his belle at all, if he observe that im still annoyed, he wont even ask me to serve him or wait for me, in order to eat together, he will jejely go to the kitchen himself and serve himself. Its after eating that he will now come and try to reconcile or talk the matter through with me.
Abeg, life is too short, i love my man, the man who refuse to eat is just punishing himself, simple.
May God help us all.

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how you dey, bro, long time. Hope all is well........miss ya!

Lol.....this thread has the potential of being very funnily crazy.


I was told i used to call our first-born my husband, that each time anyone dares called me his wife, i would be arguing with them that i can never marry them, that our firstborn(my brother) is the only man that is marriageable in this world and that no one can snatch him away from me....lol.

Funny enough, we are still very close, as in, very very close, even his wife use to jokingly call me her iyale(senior wife)....lol.

@op, congratulations in advance. Dont mind wiffy, thats how most women are.........always fearing what friends will say or think. To hell with anyone can be saying or thinking, afterall shes legally married. An adage in my tribe says....."won o kinbere lowo iyawo ile pe ibo lo ti royun"(nobdy asks a wife where she got her pregnancy from). In asmuch as shes not relying or expecting anyone apart from you the hubby for antenatal or delivery charges, inasmuch as shes not asking for formular feeds money from anyone, i think, "abuse ti buse"(there is no cause for alarm.
Tell your wife to beg for forgiveness from God, because what some other people are spending lots of money to get is what God gave her on a platter of gold and shes complaining. I wonder why some of us are not grateful to God for his blessings. Dont worry, she will come around and see reasons for thanking God when she sees the wonderful thing that God has in package for her.

Meanwhile, as for your 14months old child of yours who is yet to walk, have you seen a peadriatic doctor about it for proper evaluation of the bones and joints, if you've done that and its confirmed that its all well, then it means, he/shes a lazy type and you people will have a way to encourage him/her to take the bold step.
I wish you well and your wiffy safe and joyful delivery in advance.

slap1: Sweetie, you are lucky to be alive to type this. That alone quashes the theme of your post. Have you ever thought that things may have been different (negatively) for you if some things you wished for came to pass? People buy cars, for instance, and then they die through accidents?
Most times, the desirable may not be the divine, and vice versa. In the Bible, I think it was Ahab (not sure) who asked God for extra years when he was to die. God did it, but Ahab lived to regret it. Had he died then, he would have been with God.
My dear, just believe that things happen that way because YOU ARE DIFFERENT AND NOT SEPARATE. GOODLUCK!

its HEZEKIAH,not Ahab. Thanks.




Now, op, i want you to realise that "as a man thinks, so is he". So, if you think you are naturally born unluck, and you believe it, thats how its gonna be, its not a curse, so you need to change your reasoning pattern and start thinking big about your life and whatever you think you are, shall come to pass.
THINK BIG by Ben Carson comes to mind for a good reading for you, it will help you to critically think about how to regain or harness that which you have been missing.
THINK BIG.........
T-TALENT.....Recognise your talents. Use them appropriately and choose a field that uses those talents, you will rise to the top of your field.
H-NONESTY......If you live by the rule of honesty and accept your problems, you can go far down the road of achievement.
I-INSIGHT.....If you observe and reflect and commit yourself to giving your best, you will come out on top.
N-NICE......If you are nice to others, others respond to you in the same way, and you can give your best for each other.
K-KNOWLEDGE......If you make every attempt to increase your knowledge in order to use for human good, it will make a difference in us and in your world.
B-BOOKS......If you commit yourself to reading, thus, increasing your knowledge, only God limits how far you can go in this world.
I-INDEPTH KNOWLEDGE........If you develop an indepth knowledge, it will enable you to give your best to others and help to make a better world.
G-GOD..........If you acknowledge your need for God, He will help you.
May God help you and all of us.

I use injectable contraceptive.
See this, from a similar thread........



@byvan, biolabee and others who want to know about injectable contraceptive.......lets gooooooooo
Its an injectable medicine that prevents pregnancy for up to 3 months. It helps toprevent pregnancy by preventing ovulation, which is the release of an egg from the ovary. If ovaries do not release an egg, it is very unlikely for pregnancy tooccur.
It is very effective, 99.7% effective, infact, as effective as tubal litigation(having tubes tied) and more effective at preventing pregnancy than some other methods like pills, or condom, but does not protect against STD.
Its effect is not permanent, it only works for 3 months, the shots must be repeatedevery 3 months, after a woman stops, hernormal ovarian function returns after a short time, but it can take up to 9-10 months to get pregnant after taking the last shot.
The side effects include..........
Some women have some changes in their menstrual periods while using it, which may be, irregular or unpredictable bleeding or spotting, an increase or decrease in menstrual bleeding or no bleeding at all. After one year of use, about 50% of women have no bleeding at all.
The absence of periods is not harmful and periods usually return to normal after it is stopped.
P. S. Im not a medical personnel, but this is the summary of the lesson the doctor gave me the day we went for "family planning" and i've been on it for close to a year now, and i can say its working well for me, because im d type that do get pregnant when i have unprotected s..ex, so, for me not to have gotten pregnant till now, means, its effective as claimed by my doctor.
May God help us all.

From this thread.......


https://www.nairaland.com/1167996/child-spacing/5#15215900

Check out this thread......
https://www.nairaland.com/1167996/child-spacing/5#15215900

Hhhhhmmmm, may God help us all oooo
The fact is that, every daughter-in-law is a potential mother-in-law. And its what we sow that we shall reap. AnyDIL who thinks her MIL is a witch, who did not witch her hubby before she marries him, is sowing a seed, which she will reap bountifully as at when due, i.e when she too becomes a MIL, her DIL will also call her a witch.
I love my own MIL and im even afraid to lose her now, may God continue to keep her for me, shes my confidant. And i pray that i reap whatever i do to my MIL in millions fold. Amen.

It depends on.......
1. The type of hubby one has.
2. The type of friend she is.
3. Her reason for coming over.
4. How long shes gonna stay.
5. Our type of apartment.

And if i reject such visit, its definately not because of trust issues, maybe other factors are or could be responsible for my refusal.
However, no one can prevent a man or woman from cheating, if the person really mean to cheart on his/her spouse, its a thing of the mind, if a person really want to cheat on his/her spouse with a friend, he/she will definately do, no matter how many times you wake up in the night to follow him to the loo or how one is smart enough to be following him/her to everywhere that is to be. Its a thing of the mind, not how careful one is.
May God help us all.

@lovemychild
i wish you joyful and safe delivery in your upcoming child delivery.

I tried to pm you, but i dont really get the pm thing and i need your a/c number to drop something into.


Never lose hope, whatever decision you take, it shall at the end be to your favour and your child's favour IJN.
My warmest regards to you and your lovely unborn baby.

byvan: I humbly beseech thee to vote for this beautiful young lady, sleekch1c on the upcoming miss Nl ,starting 3rd of June 2013.

Thanks for your anticipated cooperation . you can view her profile on https://www.nairaland.com/1288545/miss-nairaland-june-2013-contest/57#15954453.

how is she to you
Why are you so interested in her
Are you the one

Wisdytech: Sin against her and She will make
your life miserable, good measure,
pressed down and Running over
she will send your soul to hell.
Hmmm!

how i wish so many men realises that this is the genesis of their problems in life.
Anyone who could afford to bleed for 5 days every month without dying and can also carry human being around in their tummy for 9 months can as well possess special and unpronounced power to deal with whoever crosses her part. The earlier our men realise this, the better for them.
May God guide our men.

Talk to him about it, you know your brother quite well than anyone else, hence you should be able to know the appropriate time and method to approach in talking to him about it.
The earlier the better for you, before he turns you to his gay partner.
May God help you and grant you the wisdom to do it successfully.

coogar: i am quite evil, i won't tell him.....i would also probably egg him on to meet his waterloo.

chai! Coogar, may God help you o.
Thats unforgiveness now.

@op, forgive him, make him a friend, along the line, try and educate him on the risks or dangers involved in having unprotected intimacy with anyone.
Never reveal the status of that lady, that is a breach of professinal ethics/secrecy. You, as an employee/a person should be able to keep a secret secret.
Morever, the lady deserves to be loved as every other lady/human being, regardless of her status.
May God help us all.

Ogun state

And now we wonder why terrible and strange things are happening worldwide, our sins and wicked acts are just too many. May God forgive the parents and forgive us also. Im short of words, but im quite certain that some wickedness like this would have been successfully carried out. What a sorry thing.
Its only God that will have mercy on we mankinds.
Ironically, some people are really looking for gifts like this and are fully prepared to give it a fulfilled and worthy treatment and care, but aint getting it.
Well, God knows the best, but i pray that those who sincerely wish to have this kind of gift and are prepared to take care of them shall get them..... Amen.

LOL
Are they still children

In my own opinion, drinking alcohol should not be encouraged at all, not to talk of getting drunk.

May God help us all.

jeffizy: This empty thread will have 250 views before 1pm.

Some will even comment.

That's the beauty of nairaland.

jeff, this thread, i think should be in jokes section.

ileobatojo: I'm thinking the OP is describing his own marriage.

By the way , why must you spoil our fun on this thread with your seriousness and maturity?

im sorry ma.

I thought its a serious thread.

biolabee: OP.. do you follow them into the bedroom

thanks, behind closed doors, many things, strange things.
My younger ones/friends always pray to have a marriage like mine, but immediately they say so, i instantly caution them, i do tell them to ask for what they wanted, not using any other people's marriage as link, why?, not because my hubby is bad or because im too bad, but each individual is unique in his/her own way, what we sweep under the carpet in our marriage may lead to divorce in other marriages. All our disagreements are settled behind closed doors, and some others may not have such patience or such tolerance so, its not good to judge a marriage at surface, infact, if you are not a party in a marital relationship, you can never know ALL that is going on in such marriage.


May God help us all.

Aqva: A couple that has been married for almost 4yrs without having any single quarrel. They did.quarrel when they were dating but since marriage its been smooth sailing.
Considering how people talk about their marital issues on nairaland I'm forced to wonder if not quarreling is normal.

yes, its very normal.
That you people didnt hear them shouting on each other does not mean they dont have disagreement, but they have been using enough maturity to settle their disagreements. There is no way there wont be a point at a particular point in time where there wont be a disagreemen of opinion or idea or interest, but both or one of them is/are matured enough not to allow the disagreement lead to dispute or quarrel or crisis in their marriage.
May God continue to be with them.
#talking from experience.

wandeay: i think I'll start to do all these things now, my intelligence is decreasing gradually, come to think of it, i dont watch TV at all, but i do sleep late @ night, may God help me!

AMEN.

sholay2011: Em...nice answer ma. *Scratches head*...em...I need some money now ma...my atm card was swallowed and so i don't have any money on me. I know you're in position to help me and God must use you....pls help me!!!

And donn't worry ma, you won't have to open a thread about me on NL.

#just being naughty# May God help me.

hehehe, sholay, there is difference btwn borrow me money, i will refund it on so-so date and give me money, i dont have anything on me.
Although, both are forms of assistance one can be in need of, but when the helper is now taken as fool, what do you think
Now, get this right, i didnt open a thread because he was assisted, i did because i think we were played on. One thing im certain of, is that, if the man had asked to be given some money, we would definately had given him without expecting refund. Also, if he was just saying..."i dont forget o, pls, give me more time", we would have concluded that he is yet to be capable of paying, and i wouldnt have thought that we were taken as fools.
Well, that is bygone now, and im sure that one or two people would have learnt something from that thread.
May God help us all.

specialguest: Damn 8 years ago and she is still single, nawa o madam u sure say no be badluck charm u give her? Lolz but seriously it works for some i.e my very unstable and unserious friend who caught one in November and she is getting married next month.. I believe there's power in words so when people start saying you are next, it might just happen.

lol, the lady was just around 17-18 years old then.