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Im married to one, an only male and the last born of the family, well, personally, im so lucky, if you are fortunate to be married into my kind of hubby's family, you wont regret it, they will pamper you to the full, make you so special and loved, but if you find yourself in a dominative family, chai, na long thing you dey o, because they will be so nosy and dominative that your hubby wont be able to take decision until he consult them first.
All in all, commit every of your steps into God's hands and it shall be well with you.

@op, thanks a lot, this is an educative as well as a very sensitive topic that should not be joked with at all.
Recently, we took all our kids out for genotype and blood group test, and it came out that my first child is an AS by genotype(im also an AS) and since then we have been telling him that he cant hang out with an AS girl for serious relationship that may likely lead to marriage, even though the boy is just less than 8 years old, but the orientation and education has been running in his ears.
May God help us all.

jidegirl12: Nothing do you jare


You don't like it sis but karma's a biatch
She got EXACTLY what she deserves

osisi was right bout one thing tho... OP got mouth , dead roach for 3 months!!!! Haba!!!!

funrarawonlomamafurawonloogunje!!!

and who is the "she" that got what "she deserve


Awon wo ni won nfun ara won loogun je


Who is karma visiting Is it the op or babyosisi

My sister, pls, reply.
Thanks.

Sincerely, i dont like what this thread turned to and no thanks to babyosisi

babyosisi: You are talking nonsense and being insultive and saying no offence intended
Are u mad?
I have addressed the poster and her topic,do not come at me,I have not addressed you

im not suprised, neither am i dissapointed at your responses here, i already know you for that, you would have even dissapointed me if you didnt come back with these types of responses.
May God help you and heal your madness that you are accusing someone else for.

@babyosisi, please no offence intended, just want to be honest with you.......there is no any iota of maturity in what you just displayed here, your question was unnecessary and the op maturedly answered you and you took offence in that, do you yourself answer all ridiculous questions that are thrown at you

@op and siena, how would it have been if op's hubby and siena's relative have married each other, oh! Lol

I said it before and i will still say it......i reserve my comment until i see him back to the country.


I dont know why its omly liars that we have as leaders in this country. May God help us.

@op, so you believed that

If you could believe that, then, you can believe anything. The whole thing, na propangada!

A sign of joblessness.

Hopefully, the truth will come out!

Does putting on wedding ring ALWAYS prevent a potential cheat from cheating

Does putting on wedding ring ALWAYS prevent a potential abuser from abusing

Honesty, faithfulness, mutual respect, love and tolerance are all from the heart, not in wearing of ring always.



@op, to answer your question, i wear it when i remember to put it on, if i dont remember to put it on, no big deal, my marriage is important to me, not the ring.

dridowu: Though not married but i dnt believe in wearing it all d time because sincerity in marriage comes from the heart not from the ring.

God bless you.

If he doesnt complain and does not see it as a big deal for separating your room, you can move, but will that stop him from being dirty again. In my own opinion, i think that is his own weakness and we are to complement each other in marriage, why dont ou continue to let him see reasons for good hygiene. Although, i dont buy the idea that every those things he said are women's duties, i think hes only lazy and giving that as an excuse for himself.
Well, Its one of the marriage dramas and may God help and give you wisdom to handle this without it leading to something else.



Brb

All this marriage dramas sha!



Btw, are those the couple involved, because this is about the 5th time i will be seeing this picture backing up negative marriage dramas. This was exact picture used on "no sex when mum is around" thread.

babyosisi: Wait o
An MIL is driving her SIL insane by being a nuisance and your solution is for the tortured wife to draw herself closer to the the same mama and become her favorite
Ae you kidding me?
She wants mama to keep off and scale down on her involvement in their lives and allow her son to be a man and you want her to draw closer to mama?
The same mama driving her insane
Read that her first post again please
That is a cry for help
This woman has had enough of that mama
You should be telling her how to get the old woman to back off a little without going to Okija juju

so, you want me to tell her to go and beat the MIL up or betterstill to poison the MIL so that the MIL can permanently leave her hubby alone, .......... You should have told her that by yourself, afterall, i have said what i would have done, if im in her shoes, you should be able to tell her what you would have done if you are in her shoes.
May God help you.

Voices from the beer parlour indeed!!!

[quote author=big-t]Try that and what happened in 1974 will repeat itself Tukur!! [/quote]and what happened in 1974

How i wish many of our politicians have this type of initiative that this man have.
God bless you jare, Nnaji

@op, its natural!
Do you think its easy, carrying a baby inside yourself for 9 good months (and some are even more), bosom feeding the baby, taking care of the baby every now and then, and you are saying they shouldnt be clingy, if they are not clingy to their parents, especially the mum, then, something is wrong. Its natural, it cant be questioned nor explained enough.
May God help our kids.

I dont know why this man didnt even die when he stabbed himself, could it be that God wanted him to be punished or why I dont just understand, they thought he was already dead and they were to be packed to the mortuary, when they discovered that he was still breathing, and he survived, why And i think its what he thought about that he didnt want to happen to him is what is happening to him now.
He claims that, if he is imprisoned, that his 7 children will suffer, didnt he think about this when he made attempt to kill himself Hhhhhhhhmmmmm, i dont even know what to say, but i think there is a reason why God allowed him to survive.
Both of them, i mean the wife who was promiscus and the man who killed out of anger are wrong, (two wrongs can never make a right) but who am i to judge
It is well.
May God help us all.

@op, first, let me correct the impression that those who married last borns are into mum's boy problem, its not always so, im married to a last born and the only male child in the family, but not mum's boy. It depends on individuals.
Now, to your post, its not wrong if mother and son are into each other, its called "bonding" the only problem i see in your post is calling at odd hours, and you can change that, if you are loving and tolerant, how Just ensure that you turn yourself into her favourite DIL(you may say its not easy, but we are women, if you determinde to do it, you will)crack jokes with her, call her often, tell your hubby sometimes that he should borrow you his phone to call mama, tell him to let you go and visit mama, with time, you will get into her, and jokingly when both of you are in good mood together, just crack it as a joke, that ..."ah!, mama, once you call at those times you use to call, i dont get to sleep back" , by the time you tell her severally and jokingly, hopefully, she will get the message.
My sister, take it easy o, every DIL is a potential MIL and you never know what yyou too will do or become when you become a MIL, so take it easy and always have it in mind that what is happening to your MIL can also happen to you in future.
May God give you the wisdom to go about it all. Amen.

slimdiggi: Are we dying? Why the 'may God help us all'?

so, you mean you dont need the help of God

slimdiggi: Are we dying? Why the 'may God help us all'?

so, its only when you are dying that you need the help of God, okay, may God help you then as you are..........

Its not compulsory but its necessary, but it shouldnt be done in an expensive way that some people are making it to be. If one can afford it, alright, but for those who cant afford an expensive place can impoverise.
For example, when we did our own wedding, we didnt have enough money to lodge at the hotel or any other expensive place, but we did hide in our apartment for a whole week without going out, no entertaining of visitors whatsoever and we achieved our aims, we were closer, we enjoyed our intimacy very well without interruption from anyone, we talked about our differences, infact, during that 7 days, all we were doing were just eating, sleeping, having intimacy, talking, jesting, discussing etc, which are all the things we would have done if we had gone to an expensive hotel or other expensive places.
May God help us all.

Please, let all remain indoor, if possible, and those who cant should remain where they are until the waters dry up a bit, because of flood related problems, and for those who have children , please keep your children indoor, schools, please watch over the pupils and the students, so that there wont be drowning cases.
May God guide and protect us all.

So, are we going to have two sets of NGF.......
Jang's set and Ameachi's set.

SMH

These governors wont cease to amaze me, they have just shown the whole world how unorganized and shameless they are.
Imagine, an election consisting only 36 people cant and wasnt done freely and fairly, and we wonder why they are not performing in their respective states, isnt it obvious
SMH for them.

kaeto: The likes of lai mohammed, tinubu, buhari and their apc cohorts are taking political opposition to the extreme, the way they make reports sound too apalling, it also goes a long way to show how deadly they could really be if given an opportunity. Nigerians should be very careful of apc, since amidst them we have; religous extremists and bigots, rogues, hypocrites, islamic fundamentalists and supremacists, and it's such a shame that they thoughtlessly parade themselves as saviors to the masses while they successfully enslaved their entire region with tolls, taxes and gross slavery. Nigerians must really look out for these wolves, thanks.

what has this got to do with this report