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Not all of them are sexist,abeg, for example, my hubby never raised his voice up at me, he never order me around, if he wants me to do something, he first ask of my opinion on d matter, infact, im always grateful to God for his type of person.
Also, two of my brothers are not like that, i can swear that their wives too will be thanking God for their type of persons.
However, i think it boils down on d training given by d parents, when parents start to favour male kids more than d female kids, then d parent is building sexists and lazy authoritarians. Its now left to us parents to properly train our kids, regardless of their gender, so as not to become what we ourselves will not like about them when they become adult.
May God help us all.

Lol @debrief&ferhyntorlah, my first kid, a boy.....6+ can use thank you and sorry to change your decision, he says thank you over virtually everything, even his aunty in school told me severally about his saying of thank you over everything,e.g......
My boy: are you going to d market?
Me: yes.
My boy: thank u ma.
My boy: i want to deficate.
Me: ok, go to d toilet.
My boy: im thru, thank u ma.
My boy: dad, where are u going?
Dad: to see a friend
my boy: thanks sir for answering me, etc, sometimes, i even get irritated of his thank u's, but will not talk, so as not to discourage him. Its a good thing to be appreciative.

dayokanu: Interesting

pls, what is interesting about this thread?

dimcee: Hw wȋ̊ℓℓ U̶̲̥̅̊ gv υ̲̣̥​я̩̥̊​ kid noodles to schl,it wuld be to cold

with d food flask they use, forget about being cold.

Im happy to be a nairalander!

As for me, God spare our (me and hubby)lives, none of our children are going to boarding house.

Boarding house causes more harm to a child's life than good. I have so many examples around me, but not in d mood to type long post.
May God help us all.

I went to read your previous thread, i read that thread from A-Z and sincerely i sympathise with you for what yu are passing thru in your marriage and i can say.....you seems to be a good man, and im yet to understand why some good people fall into d hands of wicked pple, also, i dont know why a human being can be dis selfish and wicked, after all you claim to be doing for her.
However, i want to believe you are in d first phase of separation, if after a while, she behaves d same way, then, i will suggest you move on with your life, till she realise what shes doing and decided to change, life is too short to be continually living in misery. One thing that is obvious here is that she no longer love you. Put yourself together, enjoy your life, (i dont mean you start womanising o), appreciate yourself, make yourself comfortable, never write off d possibilility of coming back together again, change is permanent, she can change, do not be too hasty in looking for another woman, she may still come back to her senses, dont repeat your first mistake, be responsible to your kids, continue to be nice to d needy, but with wisdom.
May God guide you, help you and sustain you.

Its you and your life, goodluck to you!

We thank God for him, but what really happened?

I really sympathise with d wife and d kids.




May d dead rest in peace.

LastApostle: Shut the fucck up and address the woman folly.
Is it morally justified for a promiscuous woman to infest her unsuspecting boyfriend with terminal ailment like HIV/AIDS?
Why leave the substance for manipulative theory?

did you read my post at all?
I said, d best and honourable thing he should have done is to quit d relationship.
Gerrit?

CrazyMan: You must really love your kids.

yes and thanks sir, what is worth doing at all, is worth doing well, its not by force to be a mother, its a decision, and once i have decided to be a mother, i have to be a loving, lovable and responsible mother.
May God help us all.

Double post!

Most times its either jollof rice or noodles and occassionally bread and fried egg, but d day i pack bread and egg, tea must to be in d pack.

Im so happy for you that u didnt get entangled in a marriage with such a man. Cheer up, be proud of yourself and move on with your own life. Your own man who will be delighted in always making you happy will soon come your way, dont drive him away by being always sad or unhappy. Always carry yourself in such a way that each time your ex sees you, he will always regret treating you d way he did.
May God be with you, direct and guide you.
Cheers!

As for me, i pack food, inside foodflask, water, inside waterbottle, biscuits and caprisone juicedrink or sometimes bobo drink. Sometimes, when its cold, i add hot tea.
May God help us all.

Hhhhhmmmmmmm
nairalanders.....
I hail o.
Im sensing a member with 10 or more monikers.
WTF?

Pls, dont confuse d kid further, there is enough confusion in life already, this one is not so serious as to cause further confuse d innocent kid.

On a serious note, since its not evil, i dont see any reason in changing it. I have even noticed that many of those who write with their left hand write more eligibly better than some right hand writer. Also, i have noticed that many of them are "brilliantly intelligent".
I will even love one or more of my kids to be "lefty" but im unlucky to have one....better keep on encouraging d kid instead of causing confusion.

Amen......infact, i pray that my sons marry somebody who behaves like me.......and it shall be so in Jesus name.....amen.

This is not worth opening thread for.....u already know why.

You are already suspicious of him......d last time i checked, suspicion dont make relationsips work, there is nothing he can do that you will not suspect him, which is even bad for your health.......so for your health's sake, quit d relatinship, if you are meant to be together, fate will magnet each of you together again, but for now.......QUIT!

Quit d relationship!
B/f and g/f relationships are usually very interesting.........they seems to always go gaga with each other when in love, one party complaining its boring means he/she is no longer interested. Dont force anyone to love you or continue in relatinship with you, d end result is usually "HEARTBREAK".
Goodluck.

They tried to be unique in their own way.

Me i dont blame them o "okun inu la fi ngbe t'ode" (we use inner strenght to support outer strenght).........afterall, one gets more strenght to fight after eating..................as d saying.....hungry man is an angry man.

But i think this should be in romance section,except d boyfriend here signifies husband.

This your question is incomplete.......answer nat138 first b4 one could suggest answers.
Thanks.

This is mystery.......they are better called cultists!

As much as i will say its a good thing, most times....desperation leads some women into that......not that they really love to be a better wife but because they are of age and they have been told so many stories on how they can prayerfully get a husband, by d time such women become married, its either they become so dumb in their marriage, because of d fear of being thrown out by d man or they start to show their real colour, thinking that they have achieved what they aim to achieve.




Its not that i dont believe in prayers, but i have seen many women who started to go to church and become impromptu born again xtians, because they are desperately looking for husbands.
May God help us all.

GBENGA ADEBOYE and KOLA OLAWUYI.

Very insightful!
I want to add this..........all DILs should always remember that they are potential MILs.........and what you sow is what you reap.
May God help us all.

If your argument means physical abuse or fighting......then no!
But misunderstanding.........i have had series of that.
May God help us all.

My sister, your temperament is most likely melancholy.........if yes...that is one of their weaknesses.....its only thru d Holy Spirit that you can change, invite d Holy spirit to help you modify it and He will do it.

From another angle, it is a thing of d mind, if you choose to forgive, you will, just take human beings as human beings, and you wont have any problem with anyone, having remembered that there is no any perfect person in life.....that will help a great deal. No matter how good and lovely our mum, dad, spouse or friend may be, they can never be perfect, so, when anybody offences you, look at it from d imperfect nature of human beings.......and that helps to sooth and suppress your anger towards d offender....making it easier for you to forgive when anybody errs.
May God help you.



P.S check my signature. It speaks volume.....but only for those who is smart enough to get it...........once you are a human being......flesh and blood.......you will always have my forgiveness and i will learn from your mistake and try not to allow you offend me at another time........which requires WISDOM!