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What da hell is dis thread about?

What is shocking there?.......after 2 failed marriages, u pple still want him to remarry, abi?so that you will continue to count and recount his failed marriages d more. Abeg, d man knows what hes doing jare, leave him alone, he knows he cant ever have a successful marriage, hence, his decision, and his opinion has to be respected, afterall, to remarry is not by force.

Your mum is trying to force her religion on you all. May be, she has forgotten that you are old enough to take decision.
If you are already working, go and rent a room and be living there, till you are married, she is not likely to change, and if not, dance to her tune until you are married, when you are married, she will not be able to control you....... But, pls, dont be rude to her, dont dishonour her, lest you bring curse on yourself, just take your decision and inform her respectfully.
May God help you.

debrief08: I did vigil on this thread hoping the poster will come back.

can you imagine! i myself is wondering why she is not responding, even, if she has changed her mind, courtesty demands that she respond you pple. Well, thank God for you pple, may God continue to water your own gardens too.

figur: And yes it's shep for short,his wife is going to have another baby soon,and we are waiting patiently to hear the name he will choose this time.

may be "prophet or evangelist"

there is a family living in ur street, whose their two boys bear these names....real names o, not nickname.....d elder.......prophet while d younger is evangelist. Many(including me) do think they are nicknames, until i saw d names on their notebok, while i was there to see d family on an issue.......so funny!

I cant wait to see d end of this........d movie is going to be interesting.

Is dis Alao Akala d ex gov of oyo state, if so, when did he turn dog, wey dey bite.

How i wish we youths of today can emulate him, so determined and he got what he wanted.
This is to tell us that, if we are hardworking and determined, d sky will be d starting point, not d limit.
May God help us all.

@op, wetin we even need d lions for sef!

Olorun oba ngbo, i dont know what dis world is turning into, i dont think sodom and gomorrah got to this level before God destroy them.
All i can say is that may God have mercy on him, because he has brought serious curse on himself, its only God's mercy that can see him thru.

@ op, is d money yours, since its not yours and someone didnt tell you that he will drop it there for you, then, you have no business taking d money. If you are broke and in need of money, call home, and they will send money to u.
I dont encourage picking money on d ground, for any reason, regardless of d amount.

slimyem: Now,this is the height of it..
Was thinking my aunt's were.
Her children's name are "God is able" and "Possible"

God is able?
Possible?
Pls, tell me you are joking!

Why not? Aren't we suppose to be one? Btw, is he going to collect d money from me? I believe in openess in marriage.

Did Banjo paid d first 500k loan he got thru his brother's help.

If no, that is kongo's fear.
If yes, then, he should have learnt that is not necessarily the person you helped to get to d top that must help you when you are down. So, because he helped his brother to get a job now, does that means his brother should always help him back whenever he has problem, what if he couldnt actually afford it.
Btw, there is a mentioning there that he(banjo) uses his money for womanising and all sort of vain life enjoyment, i think he should have saved for d dry season like this and never thought of having someone to lean on when he seems to have problem.

However, kongo should try and help him again, considering what he(banjo)did for him, but should be wise about it.....something like explaining t him d responsibilities he also have on his shoulder as a man and also why he felt relunctant to do it before as regards his lifestyle and advise him to stop all his vain way of living, so that he can always have enough to save.
May God help us all.

With all sincerity, i love you this pple, Madam CC, madam Debrief and ify......my respect........you pple are exeptional.


@op, pls, come and answer this questions, so that you can get d solution you desire. I will also advise you let your baby be, if you can get a means of catering for him/her thru d assistance you may likely get, but be strait forward. Not cunny.
It is well.

Greediness on d part of d parent and shamelessness on d part of d old man.

Greedy parent!
WTF?
Are they even suppose to be called parents sef?
Infact, i dont know what to say as regards d old man, is that not child abuse? ......... Shamelessness!

figur: Well my uncle named his kids Shepherd,Testimony,and Dance.it was funny initially but right now everyone is used to it.

shepherd?
Dance?
Tell me its a lie!
What are our pple turning into, because of religion, even d oyinbs who brought this religion to us are not this biased!
Smh......

@op, first of all, that your ex is not and can never be a good wife material, for agreeing to sleep in another woman's matrimonial bed for 2 days, shes a devil in human form, she doesnt love you and do not have respect for humanity, shes going to be worse than your current wife, that is even if your wife is bad, if you are nt d one pushing her into what shes doing, i will advise you to first of all break d relationship btw u and ur ex, that will give you d opportunity to think strait.
Secondly, determine to make your marriage work out again, there is no perfect marriage anywhere, we all tolerate one another, remember what you saw in her in d beginning, concentrate more on her good side, tolerate her more, respect her more, be a husband to her, not a boss, knowing fully well that you are raised from different background.
Next, ignite communication, it is an essential ingredient in marriage,when she does something nice, appreciate her, when she does something uncalled for, correct her in love and with love, not by screaming and cursing.
Sooner than later, you will discover you married an angel instead of a demon you thought she was. Remember that a good turn deserve another, be good to her, u will realise that, conciously or unconciously, she will be good to you.
Above all, invite God into your marriage, remember that a three-fold cord is not easily broken,fear God, pray together, eat together, sleep together and you will see your dead marriage rising back to life.
May God help you.

At what age should a woman stop wearing thongs............... At d age she start feeling uncomfortable with it.

What i can bring out of d scenario are:
1. The woman is a cheater herself, she doesnt see cheating as cheating as long as she can be of benefit frm d deal, hence, advising d hubby to do same and not see it as infidelity, inasmuch as he derives benefit from d deal.
2. The woman is desperate, desperate in d sense that, she want her hubby to become a citizen at all cost, so that she can be a beneficiary.
3. The woman is greedy, such woman can kill anybody or go to any length to eliminate whoever stand in her way to achieve what she desire to achieve.



The secret of peace of mind is to realise that, we cannot get everything we want in this life........that will prevent us from being desperate.
May God help us all.

It is what you put your mind into that will happen to you. If you put yur mind into being with a person for ever, its possible, just by making constant effort to make yourself happy will do, even though, sometimes, it may be boring, but it can become lively again, if we put our mind into making ourselves happy, may God help us all.

bjcole: Greatgod, i hope u r not trying 2 end this, we ve just scratch d surface, there r plenty to still discuss. Debrief said proper nanny or educated nanny, which one is proper nanny? i dont knw, i thought i saw a pic of a guy putting his pp in d mouth of a girl of abt 6mths old, d girl sucked it dry, i dnt knw if some of u saw it, God help our new generation mothers. Now Op i also want 2 add this; how r u ladies(married) coping with sexual desires 4rm ur bosses? b'cos its also affect family too.

end wetin ke? We are just starting, this is a topic that is going to last for a long time, considering how these two important aspects of life clashes with each other.
Now, as regards nanny or maids, if you read d thread frm d very beginning, i did mention it there, how both dad and mum leaves d destiny of their kids into d hand and care of maids, to d extent that, d kids harldy recognise their true parents, thinking that d maids are their real parents. Hey! , may God help us , its scaring, to be thinking what may likely be happening btw them, unless, one is so lucky to have good ones, that is why, according to many posters on dis thread, it is a general concensus that one of d parents have to take it easy in order to fill d vacuum of family, which, most of d time, its d wife, and d hubby tends towards d career development, all in a bid to balance up.
May God help us all.
As regards sexual desires from d boss, that depends on d person involved maturity and decision. I, for one, can go to any lenght to deal with any boss that will try that with me. As for my family sha, its d first ever.

NOTHING, unless i eat contaminated food.

May d dead rest in peace.


This is a lesson for us, we deal with perpetual angry cops and we have to be careful how we relate with them. If we are stopped by them, lets always remember that they are perpetually angry and we should them to transfer their aggression to us by obeying them, lets be obedient citizens. May God help us all.

May God grant d wife-to-be and all his family members d fortitude to bear d loss.


As for d angry cops, i pray d law takes its rightful course.

Op, why is tonto dikeh not on your list?







What about Reuben Abati?

Again and again.........next to God's love is d mother's love.




She risked her own life, so that d baby can live.




Mohers..........wonderful creatures!

NOOOOOOOOO! Thank God they didnt try that with me, all i got was support, encuragement and advice.

There is no where you cannot meet your lover, nairaland forum inclusive, if he loves you truly and you also love him truly, then, go ahead with your relationship, there shouldnt be any cause for alarm over that........but, dont let love blind you to d extent of going too crazy, it will prevent you from being realistic as regards what you actually want in a man.
Wishing you best of luck.

simdam500: Again! Again!! Again!!! Y fire here and dere

harmattan.......fire easily spread during dis season, that is why it is advisable to be careful about any inflamable substances this period.

@op, u had already pened thid thread before, precisely, a year ago, do you want to comare dresponses then to d responses you get now.
#just curious#
https://www.nairaland.com/858064/does-marriage-change-men-better#10076786