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willarrie: Couples tend to look alike with time if they make love consistently in a position that enables them look into each other eyes while at it.....for couples who dont look alike probably enjoy the Doggy style....just my opinion sha.

rasky2k4: Changed so many but topmost is my speed limit!

kulyie: lol,well it would be a bit dificult changing who i am and what i like wearing,ill just have to change some aspects of my life,fine but not dressing and spending on hair.lol

byvan: @Greatgod2012

Being a mother is really not an easy tasK,its a life changing experience.Sometimes,you have to lose some aspects of your personality to accomodate motherhood.The yelling at the kids part of the journey seems to be the most trying for me.Most times,young children only obey when you yell.God will give us the strength.

byvan: Am a very socially active person but when the kids started rolling in,I had to cut down on that.I wasn't exactly fond of kids before I had them but now,I think they are the most adorable creatures on earth.Having to endure sleepless nights make me think that my time would have been better spent sleeping instead of socialising in my singlehood.

I don't watch romance flicks anymore,I won't like to convey a wrong notion of love to my kids.I love to dance to musical videos but don't anymore cos of the sensous dances performed in some of them.


I can't give up my love for long hairs and braids but I have to suck it up when they start strangulating me with it or worst still,vomit on it.Before kids,i don't buy clothes with front zippers or buttons,now I invest in them as they make it easier for a lactating mother.


Since having kids,I have been very sensitive to issues bordering on mothers loosing their kids,A child being sick,a woman being barren e.t.c.I normally don't play with kids but now,I don't mind being my kids donkey,goat,clown or dancer.Sometimes I lose track of time because I have spent weeks indoors.I don't like going out much anymore,I did rather stay home and do their laundary.

kulyie: yeah,thanks dear.lol.i have told her to stop bringing out her breast in public but i for one i'm always irritable when i sit near nursing mothers and even in church.when they start crying,releasing catarrh,throwing buiscuits all over the floor,it pisses me off but i try to suppress my irritation,however if they start messing the place up and want to start staining my dress or touching my hand bag,that is when i get agressive.infact when i wear white,pink or any sensitive cloth i dont sit near nursing mothers.when i went to a wedding party,a child of like 3 was drinking fanta and the fanta was spilling all over his clothes,i ignored it but wen the child wanted to spill fanta on me i dragged the child to his mother,and the mother was like couldn't you help me clean up his mouth and body,i told her that you know i came to the party to babysit your son,she was now said in yoruba,you ladies of this days you act like you wont be mothers someday and of course i didnt hesitate to reply her that if you know you cannot take care of the child i dont know why you brought him to seyis wedding and i walked away.the thing is that i dont like kids messing up around me.the mere fact that dirts irritate me is what wont even make me not get irritable with nursing mothers nursing babies carelessly around me

ihedioramma: HELLO@GREATgod12012, are you obeying all the teachings of jesus now?

chaircover: Everyone wants to be comfortable and no one wants to be buying rice on credit from the rice seller down the road, so there is nothing wrong in wanting to be comfortable.

The problem however is that some women dont want to start off with reasonable beginnings but they want to start right at the top of the scale, closing their eyes to all other vices that the man may have. They also forget that as you want him, so will a thousand other women want him too and so you are fighting infidelity battles amongst other things even before the ring goes on

Why not pick a hardworking man of integrity who has good prospects and build your way up the ladder together. He will even respect you more for that.

Freiburger: Taking lesser risk in whatever i do, coz someone is counting on me somewhere.

zayhal: I didn't use to pay much attention to children around me, was rather impatient with them but now, I pay attention to every child that comes my way. I listen to them and pay a lot of attention to their needs even if I may not be able to satisfy those needs.

I was very quiet. I could decide not to talk a whole day. But now, for where? I talk and shout all of the time.

kulyie: I am not yet a mother but i'll talk about my girlfriend.before she became a mother she would spend so lavishly on clothes,jwellries,shoes and hair accesories.she was always conscious of her looks and very fashionable.she had a beauty saloon and whenever nursin mothers come and their babies vomit or defecate,she would give them back their money that she cant do their hair again,they should find somewhere else to do it.she was always so touchy about kids messing up her clothes or urinating on her rug at home.when she gave birth i saw another different aisha.this girl will bring out her breast in the public and breastfeed her baby openly and i was like this isnt the aisha i know i said have you forgotten those days where you told your neighbour to come and carry her infant son for urinating on her bed and also gave her the bedsheet and told her not to bring her son to her house again,she said well she understands better now,she said she doesnt know how she will explain it but when i give birth,ill be more receptive with other peoples kids and even yours because you know the pain other mothers felt in birthing the child.

kulyie: I am not yet a mother but i'll talk about my girlfriend.before she became a mother she would spend so lavishly on clothes,jwellries,shoes and hair accesories.she was always conscious of her looks and very fashionable.she had a beauty saloon and whenever nursin mothers come and their babies vomit or defecate,she would give them back their money that she cant do their hair again,they should find somewhere else to do it.she was always so touchy about kids messing up her clothes or urinating on her rug at home.when she gave birth i saw another different aisha.this girl will bring out her breast in the public and breastfeed her baby openly and i was like this isnt the aisha i know i said have you forgotten those days where you told your neighbour to come and carry her infant son for urinating on her bed and also gave her the bedsheet and told her not to bring her son to her house again,she said well she understands better now,she said she doesnt know how she will explain it but when i give birth,ill be more receptive with other peoples kids and even yours because you know the pain other mothers felt in birthing the child.

engrtee: More responsible