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LeyeWrites:
Seretide is not 52k.

There's no need to imagine.

SERETIDE IS BETWEEN 48,000 AND 52,000.....GO TO THE PHARMACY AND ASK FOR IT...... IT'S NO JOKE, GO YOURSELF

Sincerely it has never been this bad....lots of drugs are on the high side now....very high

Thonyboy:
https://.ng/2023/11/13/were-working-towards-changing-the-narrative-of-nigeria-tinubu/

Oga go sit down, u nor get anything to offer...

I think it's high time paternity fraud be made a serious crime...

nairalee:
There's a difference between retaliation and sheer brutality to prove ones superiority and express hatred.

For those that support Israel just imagine Boko Haram attacks US and US in retaliation starts bombing schools (killing your only child) and hospitals (killing your parent) will u keep supporting them?

This is subjective and debatable, from what i have watched and read, Hamas keeps using these locations to lunch missile to israel, Israel sees these thing on their satellite and respond as well. Hamas should come out of hiding and fight, they should stop using humans as shield.......also remember some of these Palestinians rejoiced on 7th oct when Israel was hit....if u wer in Israel shoes, how would u respond?

If people in the north support Boko haram, then they should be ready to feel the brunt and heat when it comes.

nairalee:
One family woman always hurrying me to get married. I finally asked her ladt month. Madam going by your constant fights with your husband do u think I'll be enticed to get married?

What was her reply abeg?

Phargbemmy:
Pray to God not to be in circumstances where the only hope you will have is her and God. In such an instance, will you starve to death because you don't want your woman to feed you.

Well experiences most have seen make them come back to unrealistic submissions.

Just Pray yo don't find yourself in situations that will warrant such.

Yes o, and the whole world would know she is the one taking up the responsibility. A man can take care of a woman's every need and want for years without her working, nobody would hear it, but in 2 months a woman start catering for the family, she would forget the past years and let the world know......funny ppl

This generation seem to have a serious problem, alot don't know the meaning of marriage, see comments !
this is why the west has gone alot into contractual marriages, divorce everywhere. It has become a place of benefit instead of solace, support, love, care and understanding. All these mentioned eludes when the subject no longer offers the expected benefit. If your man or woman is down in any area, instead of working together n supporting each other as a team to solving the issue you would be looking for another option, if that other option fails, what do you do next?....your guess is as good as mine. Its terrible.

Although the current reality is that as a man try not to depend on your woman, but if you find yourself in that situation, try not to loose your respect, be firm.
Sometimes i try not to believe that woman are designed like this, i just feel it's a personal decision.
As a man, hustle legitimately, don't commit crime or kill yourself because of any ungrateful and foolish woman, its not worth it, always guide yourself and plan/prepare for the worse. Same goes to the woman.

Bigchristo:
You see the double standard of some people? Let’s say if the man was to be running up and down stressing himself to provide for the family and still come home the woman will then claimb on top him and knack herself Abi? First as a man nor allow woman feed you because dem be parrot, she must have probably been getting angry that the man is not doing enough and that’s why she denied him sex, one thing I can tell is that in my lowest I pay attention to how people around me treats me when I finally have the money I know how to treat them back, I don’t pray for any woman to feed me but if situations of life struck some men doesn’t even have choice but to accept all the insult throw at them but you know the shocking thing? When they finally made it they can as well do away with such woman, that’s when you will hear some women saying as I help am reach after he make am he dump me, common your character and how you treat the man matters he never wanted to experience such that’s why he run away, i grow up seeing our neighbors wife feeding her family till date they are still together because after she struggles for some years taking care of the family the man finally got a huge contract that changes his life I do been the woman was misbehaving he wouldn’t be with her today make una try Dey understand that life is full of upside down

Nor mind them, many grown up infants with lack of understanding.....life is unpredictable.

christejames:
That's why the world finds it hard to hand over leadership role to women...



Especially embittered feminists!

True, even fellow women reject it because they know themselves.

KarinaSlim:
My senior cousin caught her husband cheating on her. Till date the husband doesn't know she knows. This man loves this my cousin like crazy. It shows. They married 2 years ago.

She told me that she will be walking out of the marriage by the end of the year (31st of December). The man doesn't know yet.

He still lives life thinking they will leave together forever.
She calls me for advice.
Me wey never marry, na me dey advice married woman.
I am thinking of telling her to go-ahead with the divorce becos she is bitter and it's telling on her.

She is as beautiful as me and so she will marry again.

But that her husband no try.

I'm thinking of telling her to call a big family meeting during Christmas period. Call his old father and mother to the house and some siblings. Cook delicious food. When everybody finishes eating, she should then drop the big news on their faces with receipts of their son's affairs before she leaves. Let them see the son they raised.

What do u think?

Matured minds




Modified
Thank you so much for your inputs. I appreciate. Funny enough. I have gotten the answers I needed from ur comments
So we have decided on what to do.
She will go ahead with my ADVICE above. It is the best for now for her happiness and joy. Life is too short to live in an unhappy marriage becos of an adulterous spouse.
Thanks once again.

I'm out.

I laff u n ur cousin, u said her husband loves her, what does she want again....where she is aspiring or visualizing to go, do u think it would be better?.....if she catches her new husband cheating, wud she divorce again?......she should go n handle her marriage, talk to her n settle things.....its not rossy out there.....some bad homes became the best n good became the worse

Jcomtrader:
And Nigeria will never progress either. Take a look at your Asian mates from the 60s and 70s. Your busy celebrating peter obi a billionaire losing an election

Like the price of fuel and food will make him cry the way your kinsmen are crying

Don't mind them...yeye ppl

abdeefggh:
Very funny, they've gotten quit notice everywhere, South, West, North.
Even their matter tire Pakistani and Afghanistan people!

Yet they don't want them to leave Nigeria..... it's very ironical

Nwodosis:
President Tinubu will tame the dollar as he tamed the Atlantic ocean.

We are in it together

Sorry about that, sad to hear, but my question is, did u support APC in the last election? if yes, its simple, just take your APC card to govt house or secretariat for support....else if not, just begin to think of an alternative business and source of money......Pele

adesegun121:
The world has gone crazy.

See fashion

Stupidity

Stevenbright:
Backup plan is one of the reasons marriages fail early.

How? A backup plan is the same as double dating or triple dating as the case maybe. The main person in most cases does not know about the others. But it's possible for the others to know about the main person. This is because the girl prefers the main guy but he is either yet to pop the question or she is still not sure on somethings about him. He is probably a cheat, a woman beater etc but she loves him dearly but because she has another shoulder to cry on, she doesn't feel the pain that much.

As for the other guy(s), he is the type that will accept her anytime she agrees to fully become committed to the relationship and also ok with his role at the moment as the second fiddle as long as he gets his benefits (companionship and nacking).

If the girl finally got married to the main guy, the rest guy(s) cut her off completely. This is where the schock comes in. No more additional shoulder to cry on, no more outside desired companionship and all the things she doesn't like about her husband but didn't complain about because of the option of the other guys helping to distract her from being worried about those things are no more. So, she starts complaining, fighting back etc. This will be like a change of attitude from the perspective of her husband but really not so.

Eventually, if care is not taking the marriage might collapse early.

Nice analysis

FreeStuffsNG:
“During this transition, let us remain united as a nation, supporting one another and working collectively towards finding solutions.

“It’s a challenging journey but by embracing innovation, conserving energy, we can navigate through these difficulties and emerge stronger as a nation.

''Remember, change often comes with its share of hardships, but it is through resilience and cooperation that we can shape a better future for ourselves and generations to come,” Tinubu said.

Let's be patient while d politicians continue to buy expensive car, changes come with share of hardship on the masses while the politician continue enjoying our common wealth....una dey try...continue

EXOUSIAng:
You get it wrong.

I could curse a politician as a person, without the backing of a spirit entity and nothing will happen.
But the type of curse the Oba of Benin is talking about is not just word of mouth.
Note that he is not the one placing the curse, they is a group charged with that responsibility, not just anybody can place the curse.
That curse I can guarantee you will go with a sacrifice on an alter, making it a covenant. That curse now has the backing of a spirit entity, a spirit or deity is now backing the curse making sure the curse is activated....

I am not talking about emotional curses, curses we lay out of anger and frustration, like saying "Ogun kill you"
But you see go to a river Ogun bank meet with a priest provide what is needed to invoke Ogun and lay that curse, you will see the difference between "Ogun kee you" and "Ogun kill you" except the person in question is innocent. And in this case we both know the young man is not innocent

No joke with those things oh.
Go to your village and break some rules that may seem lame and you would be shocked at the result.... Those rules as simple or stupid as they may seem have spirit watching.

How do you think we Africans maintained order in our societies before the white man brought police?
Or you also think we had no order and we were jumping from tree to tree....

But sorry o, y e b say Oba nor dey place cause on thieves, cultists when dey terrorize and killers.....y?

Having seen most of the media coverage, i think Aljazeera has been pro hamas with their reports and interviews, CNN and BBC has been pro Israel, but has allowed some fair interviews in favour of hamas.....for now the only fair media on both side in my opinion has been FOX news....they hear from both sides so far....

Where can i get this sesame in large quantity?

Where can I get this Sesame in large quantity?

Roboto11:
Not boasting but I must have at least 20 boxers.

Socks must be about the same as I often do purchases together.

Note, I'm not in Naija.

U try o....Sock, 20....u really try sincerely

This thread is very interesting, some people are forming clean....some are forming 1 daily, first question, how many boxers do you have?

This also goes to SOCKS, this is another one that people hardly wash...chaiii...lol

masterflowx:
Na abroad den dey import electricity too? I thought Nigeria is generating electricity by themselves.

Once you hear news like this, just expect the news of increasie in electricity tariff in few days time.

Yes o, u know as dollar high, d importer dey fine am difficult to get dollar to import more electricity.......what a country, na we dey do ourselves

YourMajesty:
Lol, this is their case;

First frame, APC big politicians

Second frame APC Agbado Mandate Defenders.

Agbado Mandate Defender. (AMD)

Racoon:
https://www.arise.tv/disregard-bayelsa-rec-guber-election-results-will-be-transmitted-electronically-yakubu-insists/#google_vignette nlfpmod

Nigeria and Africa needs to grow up....look at western countries holding elections without rancour......security is always an issue in african election......who really do african this thing, abi na cause sef.

falopey:
Why is no one commending Israel and mentioning the fact that Gaza has been enjoying free electricity and water provided by Israel?

Don't mind them, bunch of hypocrites

Penguin2:
Watch as members of the estate will be instigated to come out and issue a statement that the chairman did not speak for them and they are very happy with the rice.

The next thing you will hear is that the man has been removed as chairman.

Then police will arrest him for embezzling estate funds in 2017😏.

The Ronu crooners will be here castigating the man for daring to speak against their lords and saviours.

Ndi ala!

U sabi dem finish, nonsense people

Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.

My brother, invest in yourself rather than unreasonable babes, Iphone that another model would soon be rolled out again....is she into any business that require the phone?.....if no, forget the mata, if she wants to leave let her leave, don't let anybody blackmail you emotionally.....and remember not to waste when you have in abundance, invest for the future......most investment in babes are wasted....they should only get the left over crumbs......use your head bro

ReubenE:
While Israel is notorious for their heavy hand on Palestinians, Hamas just destroyed the little sympathy they enjoyed from some state and non-state actors with this barbaric attack especially on civilians.
How can you go into the streets and start shooting anybody on sight, forcing people out from their homes and shoot them at point blank, and burning down civilian buildings with people inside.

While this attack may have succeeded in terms of its core objectives of destabilizing relations between Israeli and some gulf states, and showing the Israeli government that they are not invincible. Hamas equally has dug a new grave that so many of its people would be buried inside.

This show of force by the US no doubt is to send a message to Iran and other terrorists form Yemen

🥚 zatly