₦airaland Forum

Citytrend:
I got my new Atm Card within hours and my National ID card in 4 years.

My question is among these two cards which is more Complex and sensitive?

Do You Blame it on government incompetence or Technology?

ZINIBANKS:
Do you like ugly women
They know most guys won't get close to a ugly woman that why they use beautiful women

StaffofOrayan:
I would always thank the creator for making me come as a Yoruba man
a culture complete with it's own numerous homegrown religion and traditions
A black man dies the day he becomes a christian/muslim

Lostz:
those of us over 6.0 tall know the pain of dating short people

Ladycewhy:
so in your mind you think a senator will be arrested and sent to Jail for using generator when the bill is passed ? , This is Nigeria ,the law is only for the poor.

cRobo:
Very insane

Make electricity available and sales of generator set will die naturally

What do I know self

Well

I won't say a word

lepasharon:
Dated one...all they have to offer is their looks and dick

Sanchez01:
Shipping Human Remains to Nigeria

Services of Funeral Director and Staff=$1,295

Transfer from place of death (within 50 miles)=$400

Embalming=$895

Dressing/Cosmetology/Casketing=$175

20 gauge metal casket with gasket (assorted colors)=$1,398

2 death certificates for Consulate=$25

Overnight mail to and from Nigerian Consulate=$250

Consulate=$30

Service van to airport=$175

Shipping Container (required by airline)=$800

Airfare ESTIMATE ONLY=$5,000

TOTAL $10,443 (N3.8 million). And we're yet to talk about the burial proper in Nigeria since we are big on frivolities, as a nation, of course.

PS: N3.8M is almost the cheapest you'll get moving a remain to Nigeria from the US.

ednut1:
Monarchy should be scrapped. utterly pointless and useless

lepasharon:
You're living in a place you can't afford all at your sister's expense

Basilpearck:
I bless God for his save recovery, another wonderful and great reasons to praise the Lord..

Ibrahiimo:
SHE'S better than you 100%

GOVERNMENTBOY20:
She has indeed surprised her husband

Michellekabod2:
NL is getting interesting by the day.
Why didn't you end things with her and move on ?is not by force to marry her,but if you don't want to kindly leave her in peace instead of wasting her time



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Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.

Kenneygirl:
I had headache trying to read this

lepasharon:
She is caucasian

Munzy14:
This is simple and nice, I replica of how food is served when I visit family house to see grandma..

That glass cup is everything... , if filled with chilled palm wine.

kudos!

Oblitz:
Where's the video?

Pavore9:
It takes 2 to tangle. Many married men feel comfortable hanging around single ladies for sexual relationships.

cococandy:
Keep it up.

Very good for your heart and blood vessels

AgbenuAnna:
I love this kind of loosing weight oh
Biko I want to loose weight too but I can’t stop eating swallow abeg
Abeg show me the way

LadySwitz:
Hehehe she tried, pls. Guys are the best cooks, no doubt.