₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
The earlier people especially ladies look for suitors, the better for them.

ezo4fta:
Is dat so

bewla:
Two evil but one sweet sha

Chinyerelove:
Marrying a man who doesn't care if I'm happy or not

9japple:
Someone was asking some pages back why I have been silent...
I think what is happening to Openheavens explains it all,
Ppl insulting you making you respond to toxic things when you are not that kind of person in real life..so I just left the thread like that.
I cannot be exchanging words with ppl and since I cannot take insults I apply the "silence is golden" principle. So I have to stop my analysis here. I do not have to share it on nairaland before it works or fails. I do it for myself and selfishly enjoy it and selfishly suffer the losses too.

Shoutout to @ibime, emmanuelscott, jedisco, openheavens and the others.

Chikacha:
Kai It is finished. The one thing I thought and prayed I never see.

faithfull18:
@OP, it didn't work.

Adek15:
It's not the way you're thinking

Kazeem47:
for real.I thought its temporal changes,not permanently changing the imei?

neonly:
so u dont know scammers and thieves have upgraged imeh numbers can be change making yur phone lost forever
the day i saw them do it in computer village i just weak

aribisala0:
#
What party is Soludo

Odewaleadesoye:
The slap enter Abi e no enter?
We no believe you jawre.
Good relationship with people matters.

What were you saying here by opening your mouth very wide Ma?

MrBrownJay1:
desperation to be married at all cost makes a lot of people marry total strangers, and then when they finally realise who they married, its too late and they are stuck.

in Nigeria, marriage is synonymous with happiness, even if both spouse are miserable!

Greenarrow01:
I am actually thinking of going to epe
My work is remote and I need a cool, serene place with atleast 15 hours
I don't know if light is good there

StAmbrose1:
But some people on the island do enjoy it.
the serenity, and high quality of life with friendship are very more available on the island.

ImaIma1:
Lagos Island is not the Island we are talking about. I'm talking about lekki, ikate, Chevron, etc. My friends just moved from their one bedroom of 300k on the mainland to a 2 bedroom of 1.5m. And they said they were lucky to find it that cheap.

Rent is unnecessarily high. Yet, they don't have good water. If you don't have a car, moving around won't be easy. School fees is higher there. The price of fiod stuffs in the market there is another issue. Cost of living there is generally high.

That kind of lifestyle doesn't encourage saving, except you really have more than enough.

Agboconsult1:
Relocated from JOS to PH..hope to meet a female nairalander.

DoctorOlasDesk:
@ UyaiIncomparabl AND PrimadonnaO

We all need to regain perspectives. When our parents generations where at our age. The first factor they considered was affordability so funds could be channeled to building finances and their lives. When we choose very expensive places and start with that, we starve ourselves off disposable income which could have been channeled to building our lives at the expense of comfort and luxury.


Let me gist you what i did when i left the island


My business is in the cloud which means i can pack up and relocate anytime. I structured my business this way so my life doesn't stop whenever i need to move. So guess what, i relocated to Mowe. Guess what i enjoyed?

20 hours light

Road access perfect

2 Bedroom, wardrobe and all i didnt spend more than 300k total package per annum for a house thats worth almost 750k per annum on the island. Within that one year, i built up, climbed the ladder faster than i did on the island in 5 years. With finances built, i re-routed to berger and grew 5 times more than I was at Mowe cause i had saved more disposable cash. 3 years now, mmy blueprint shows the success rate i would never had achieved on the island in ten years within just 3 years. Now im returning. SO if you see the projectile curve i took, it was channeled to self development. Island is making lives stunted. People remaining on the same financial level for years

UyaiIncomparabl:
Just that Berger is too far. I really do love staying on the Island.

ImaIma1:
This comparison always comes up. One babe was staying on the mainland but always longed to live on the island.

She eventually moved to lekki. Now she wants to go back to the mainland and is looking for a place. She said the life there is fake. People are just packaging. A guy will wind up his car windows but has no AC .

Bad water, traffic, fake people, etc.