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 Travel › Re: Lagos Mainland Vs Island. by Hamachi(f): 5:55am On Mar 16, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Yes you will get it at Obawole, Iju and Ajuwon mostly with your own prepaid meter |
| Travel › Re: Lagos Mainland Vs Island. by Hamachi(f): 5:53am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Adek15:Use the money to buy 5 plot of land in Badagry |
| Travel › Re: Lagos Mainland Vs Island. by Hamachi(f): 5:51am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Bifwoli:I can get you one if you interested |
| Travel › Re: Lagos Mainland Vs Island. by Hamachi(f): 5:51am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Greenarrow01:You will get even 3bedro with your own prepaid meter |
| Travel › Re: Lagos Mainland Vs Island. by Hamachi(f): 5:50am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Greenarrow01:Epe is the best place for serene environment |
| Travel › Re: Lagos Mainland Vs Island. by Hamachi(f): 5:48am On Mar 16, 2022 |
Emily22:Yes |
| Crime › Re: Digital Fraud! He Left Nigeria To UK Early Last Year. by Hamachi(op): 3:32pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Phock2sweet:Rush to the nearest building site, you will be grateful 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: How Exactly Do You Guys Manage Marriage Pressure From Family Members? by Hamachi(op): 3:31pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
Boogyman557:Shut up |
| Romance › Re: Dear Young Man!!? by Hamachi(op): 3:31pm On Mar 15, 2022 |
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| Romance › Dear Young Man!!? by Hamachi(op): 11:45am On Mar 15, 2022 |
Thrice, life threw a curved ball at me. I was knocked into the pit and it took the raw resurrection power of God get me back on my feet. None of you "my husband must earn 400K a month" aunties shading me would have survived such tests. You would have divorced and ran away. I read about a billionaire who lost everything multiple times but he fought back very fiercely to get back up there. Can you stand the tests of life and come out on the other end as an overcomer or you are just a coaster? Do u have any battle scars to show or you are just a sissy? Your success means absolutely nothing to me if you cannot show me your battle scars that you sustained on the way there. I want to learn from those battle scars you sustained. I want to know what you told God in the days of your tears and pain. Your buggatti means nothing to me. Dear Young man, if you plan to go very far in life, don't bring a woman who cannot fight, into your life. If you are a fighter, you need another fighter beside you not a sissy woman who is afraid of the noise of battle. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: How Exactly Do You Guys Manage Marriage Pressure From Family Members? by Hamachi(op): 11:44am On Mar 15, 2022 |
Kaido:No |
| Crime › Re: Digital Fraud! He Left Nigeria To UK Early Last Year. by Hamachi(op): 11:42am On Mar 15, 2022 |
lanchy:True |
| Romance › Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Hamachi(f): 11:37am On Mar 14, 2022 |
toobusy:Teenage sex is on the rise, I read a publication on about it on daily times 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Travel › Re: Welcome To Akure (Pictures) by Hamachi(f): 10:39am On Mar 14, 2022 |
constance500:I swear 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: Welcome To Akure (Pictures) by Hamachi(f): 10:37am On Mar 14, 2022 |
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| Family › How To Survive As A Single Mom by Hamachi(op): 10:26am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Parenting can be quite an arduous adventure. It is hard enough with a committed partner, but when you are doing it alone, especially in Nigeria, the difficulty rises to a whole new level. It can be tricky, maintaining good mental health, thriving as an individual and nurturing your children in the best possible manner. There are quite a number of women in the country who are single parents through the death of a spouse, divorce, abandonment or choice. While some of these women often feel like they have got it really rough, or that they are doing just about everything wrong; there are others who are successfully and joyfully raising children by themselves. Wondering how they are scaling through? Jumia travel, Africa’s No.1 online hotel booking portal, shares a few suggestions to help smooth the journey of any single mother in Nigeria. HAVE A SOLID FINANCIAL BUDGET A majority of problems faced by single mothers in Nigeria is financially related and most times, it results from improper financial planning. As a single mother, it is essential that you draw up a financial budget per time and stick to it. Calculate how much you earn, what your main expenses are and figure out what is left over for saving and plan accordingly. This ensures that you live according to your means per time and you are do not always run into debt. PLAN AHEAD FOR EMERGENCIES Life is full of uncertainties and so it is important that as a single mother you have solid plans for emergencies. Aside from putting money aside for urgent situations, ensure you have you medicine cupboard filled with relevant medication for cases or allergy or infections. Look for emergency babysitting service in your area that can often provide help fairly quickly in situations where you are incapacitated and need care for your child. Also, create an “emergency list” of friends and family members you know you can call on for help in dire situations. ADJUST YOUR PRIORITIES A number of single mothers in Nigeria tend to fall into the superwoman trap, assuming they can pull off combining a 9-5 job with house cleaning, cooking meals, and tending to their children’s needs. As a single mother, it is important that they stay realistic about what you can and can’t accomplish in a day and set priorities. Lower your expectations and give yourself time for a break. You do not even have to do everything on your own, free up some personal time by hiring help from time to time. AVOID “COUPLE ENVY” This might seem trivial but is a major cause of depression for many single mothers in Nigeria. You are a single parent, things are extra difficult and you most times get lonely; it is normal to feel envious of friends who have kind, involved husbands, men who actually want to be with them and pitch in, but it is important to avoid getting caught up in the illusion that everything would be perfect if you just had a partner. Remind yourself that everyone has problems, even married people. Constant envy breeds resentment and bitterness, which eventually drains your energy and causes you enough stress to ensure your situation gets even extra difficult. BUILD A COMMUNITY Do not be too proud or shy to rely on people around you when you need help or support. Forge a strong community around you, people who can provide emotional support and a sense of belonging – the perfect antidote to the isolation brought on by solo parenting. Even if you are in a city like Abuja where social life is not over active, you can push yourself into social situations, join a church or a club, and attend events in your location. Do not be afraid to open yourself up to others. Just because you are a single mom, does not mean you or your child should not have other people to go to. Have a diverse social circle and keep a positive outlook on life. If you sit around and play victim to your circumstances things will just keep being difficult for you 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: How Do I Find Real And Serious Guy? by Hamachi(f): 10:18am On Mar 14, 2022 |
goodness8:What age range are you looking for? Qualities? Genotype Blood Group Location I know of someone but he would need to have the above I mentioned |
| Family › Re: My Marriage Of 10 Months Is Gradually Crashing by Hamachi(f): 10:12am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Nacoss25:I had like to hear from your wife because from findings you have not been providing for her, you abuse her and you are always arguing with her over little things 16 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance › Re: How Exactly Do You Guys Manage Marriage Pressure From Family Members? by Hamachi(op): 9:37am On Mar 14, 2022 |
 talk2hb1: 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: How Exactly Do You Guys Manage Marriage Pressure From Family Members? by Hamachi(op): 9:35am On Mar 14, 2022 |
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| Romance › Re: How Exactly Do You Guys Manage Marriage Pressure From Family Members? by Hamachi(op): 9:34am On Mar 14, 2022 |
abbeYhart:I am telling you, they will be like, what are you using money? You don't have any responsibilities, and when they borrow they never pay back |
| Romance › Re: How Exactly Do You Guys Manage Marriage Pressure From Family Members? by Hamachi(op): 8:13am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Cutehector:Why? |
| Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Hamachi(f): 7:29am On Mar 14, 2022 |
DaemoLee:join m y c r y p t o n g on telegram 1 Like |
| Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Hamachi(f): 7:28am On Mar 14, 2022 |
annass227:They will ban all 3 and you will be arrested |
| Crime › Re: Digital Fraud! He Left Nigeria To UK Early Last Year. by Hamachi(op): 7:23am On Mar 14, 2022 |
BritishNaija: |
| Romance › How Exactly Do You Guys Manage Marriage Pressure From Family Members? by Hamachi(op): 7:10am On Mar 14, 2022 |
How exactly do you guys manage marriage pressure from family members? I and a family members had a function together some weeks back and out of the blues my elder sis asked if men don't want to get married. I told her they want to, but they need to have a confirmed source of income....That how does she expect them to get married when some are still struggling to even feed. My in-laws (brother's wife, sister's husband) joined in the discussion. They said I'm coming of age and I need to get married and start having kids so i can train them when I'm still strong and agile, not when I'm much older and weak! They even opted to support financially when I'm ready! They said marriage brings good things....that i will surely get a job or business when I marry. They said a whole lot.........like telling me marriage is not when you have it all. My elder brother even said he had nothing when he married his wife. All talks from left to right was just ringing in my head and making me feel bad, like I purposely don't want to marry. I have no job nor business, not even a gf! The thoughts alone is just tearing me apart! The worse of it all is the pressure from my mom! So bachelors in the house, how do you suggest I handle this? Matured responses pls. |
| Family › Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Hamachi(op): 4:33pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
BigBashiru:This is generalization |
| Family › Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Hamachi(op): 4:32pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
HiideaConsole:Because she cannot be the only match |
| Family › Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Hamachi(op): 4:30pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
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| Crime › Re: Digital Fraud! He Left Nigeria To UK Early Last Year. by Hamachi(op): 4:23pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
BritishNaija: |
| Celebrities › Re: Her ‘private Region’ Is Like A Clubhouse – Korra Obidi’s Husband Justin (VIDEO) by Hamachi(f): 10:16am On Mar 13, 2022 |
toujurs:Do you have that girl number you met at the lounge? If yes, drop it |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Hamachi(op): 10:15am On Mar 13, 2022 |
toujurs:Most girls in Unilag are prostitutes. I recall my final year back in school, Jane always sleeping when we are going to class and going to read when we are sleeping her results are always clean 3 Likes |
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