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Iyaebe:
Domestic violence against men seems funny

How?

ImaIma1:
Too much igbo for different audience.

I remember like 2yrs back, a friend's babe had to travel to the village to take care of her dad who had recently gone blind. Her mum was alive but the father had sent the mum away and married a younger wife. The younger wife left the man and he had to fall back on his children.

The babe was advised to go back to Lagos and live her life and not waste it caring for the father in the village. The children had to come together to pay someone to care for him.

On the other hand, my mum and all of us were there for my dad for 7yrs of stroke before he passed. He was a typical family man. Took my mum out on company dinners, outings, etc. She sacrificed her time and health for 7yrs for him.

So I can relate. Consequences are waiting in front.

hmmmm

Generally, the first thing that comes to mind when we hear about domestic violence is that the act was committed on a woman or a child. People tend to forget that men can also be victims of domestic violence and this type of violence happens more often than we think.

I was chatting with a friend the other day and she mentioned her neighbor who has been abused several times by his wife. Yes… you read right, his wife. Now, it may seem odd that a man is chopping slaps from his wife and is not immediately giving her a double portion; however, it is only a real man that can walk away from such a scene without retaliating. Some women then take advantage of this, gather more liver and continue abusing their men...

Domestic violence against men is not as popular as violence on women and children and I think this is because most men who suffer this type of violence are often ashamed to mention it for fear of being seen as weaklings.

Domestic violence happens mostly within intimate relationships and it includes emotional, sexual, physical, psychological, spiritual abuse. Even the threat of abuse is an abuse on its own and these forms of violence are quite difficult to recognize. Some men are blessed with kicks, bites and punches from their women on a regular basis.

Just the other day, a man came home from church on a beautiful Sunday afternoon to see all of his clothes and worldly possessions in the garbage, all torn to pieces. Upon asking his wife, her seemingly justifiable reason was that he did not give her the N125,000 she requested for asoebi. Say what? Hian! And then she goes ahead to compare him to Rita’s husband who never hesitates to buy Rita anything she asks for.

When a woman continuously belittles her man, ridicules him or even compares him to his mates who seem to be doing better than him, it is a form of abuse and it eats at the man’s ego. And we all know how our men love their ego.

Some men are in abusive relationships but they don’t know it because the woman is so subtle about it and probably does not leave physical marks. If you find yourself in this type of relationship, it is important to know that you are not alone. Lots of men from all walks of life are going through same predicament. It is just unfortunate that the men are not very vocal about it and each person continues ‘suffering and smiling’.

The way some women are possessive over their men ehn … they won’t let their men hang out with friends or go watch a football match. A woman can go as far as seizing her man’s car keys or erecting herself by the doorway and daring the man to pass through her.

Other forms of abuse are where a woman manipulates her man into granting her wishes or goes about spreading negative rumours about him to his friends or even on social media. She might insinuate that her man beats her or does not provide for the family or that he is a ‘two-minute man’. She might also threaten to take the kids and disappear so that the man will not have any access to his kids. Women have also been known to drug their men or attack them in their sleep. If as a man, you are experiencing any of these, please get help fast.

Other forms of domestic violence against men are:
· Constant accusations of infidelity.

· Putting him down or insulting him.

· Seizing his medications as a form of threat.

. Forcing him to have sexual acts against his will.

· Trying to control what he wears, eats or how he spends his money.

· Verbally abusing him, be it in the presence of friends, colleagues or even within closed doors.

· Blaming the man for her violent actions or making him feel that he deserves such treatment.

This is not to give women ideas on how to abuse their men o. It is to create awareness that men also get abused and they also need to be protected. Men should be on the lookout to ensure that they are not in such a relationship otherwise it would shatter the man’s ego and leave him a shadow of himself.

It is sometimes difficult to understand why people stay in abusive relationships but anyone with a similar experience knows it is not very easy to leave. A man may choose to stay in an abusive relationship because of his religious beliefs, because of his kids or even because of the money he receives from his woman. It takes lots of guts to leave such a relationship.

Anyway, domestic violence against men is bad in its entirety but it is never advisable to retaliate. Rather it is best to leave the relationship before morale is destroyed. The man can also get legal aid or advice from a domestic violence program to preserve both health and sanity.

helinues:
Make Dem con burn candle on top my matter..

Abeg make I Usain Bolt jare

What?!

Are Guys Really Scared Of Dating Ladies That Attend White Garment Churches??

Samuel Bilewumi Oshoffa is someone I have a lot of respect for, the solar eclipse of 1947 took many people by surprise but only him was able draw inspiration from such rare occurrence thus establishing the white garments church.

Its quite a pity today that pastorpreneurs has taken over his legacies introducing all forms of diabolical materials and contents just to sheepishly lead people astray!!!

Inasmuch as I don't subscribe to the stereotype generalising all white garments females as fetish but the fact still remains that women are emotional beings and easily get brainwashed by what they hear and see hence the reason you see them adorning their body with all forms of diabolical artifacts and keeping all sorts of spiritual materials in their wardrobe under the guise of religion!!

Wouldn't it be more honourable for a man to stay single than getting engaged to Delilahs in white garments clothing?

Aaaaarghmed:
Billings ,she will still sleep with her course mate or lecturers.whats d point.can never date a student.

This is hasty generalization

annyplenty:
An online radio station from Kenya, this morning, gave a report that 152,000 Kenyan girls became pregnant during 3 months of COVID lockdown and that represents about 40% increase in the normal kenyan data. Also a sharp surge of Sexually transmitted diseases was recorded.

Truly, the idle hand is the devil's workshop.

After south Africa Kenya is the country with the highest escorts.

Both

Albertone:
You prefer referring me back to the post to answering "Yes" or "No"?
Cool

Chai

Rizin:
Baba telegram I hail ooo! Ndi crypto telegram.

Currently u are running ur crypto company on telegram, is it not enough to raise suspicion that it's not legit?

How can you compare buying dollar at about 400 naira official price to buying it now for about 580 naira black market.

Also once there is traces of crypto currency to ur bank act, ur act will be blocked.

Thank you for the advice

Why are guys so scared of dating students?

Girls let's hear them out

Rizin:
My dear it's not possible!
5k per month for 1yr is 60k.
For 20yr, it's 1.2m

By that 20yrs, the minimum currency will be 10k note. Hence 10k can only buy what 50 naira which is the minimum currency now can buy. I know you may be thinking of the WHAT ABOUT THE INTEREST but it can not equal the main capital.

Naira would have depreciated by 200%.
You then 1.2m will be equivalent to 6k now,,,,(any way you still have something).

If not for the ban of crypto, the best investment would have been to buy usdt from binance at 7% per annum. Even though the interest is low but inflation will not affect it much since the money will be in dollars.

Stop misleading the public, crypto is not banned. CBN banned financial institution ONLY. You can join m y c r y p t o n g on telegram

I have never been their but police has arrest my ez once because of being at the wrong place at the wrong time. We use 100k settle the matter so we didn't reach station.

But my junior brother has gone prison up to 3 times not police cell . He is just lucky that my dad always comes to his rescue and bail him out

The last one him enter prison again my dad left him their for like 6 month before him bail him. Since then lil brother wise up and no more fumbling

When him began to explain his prison experience to me mehn it wasnt funny

He spent 6 months in portharcourt prison and he admitted that the experience there changed his whole perspective about humanity. He said, "I saw the weak and docile become mean and cruel when invested with little power. I saw people on life sentence laughing and playing. Totally indifferent to their plight. I saw harden people melt. I saw armed robbers doing time, plotting robbery attacks! I ritualists, policemen, military men, politicians, cultist, all doing time for one offense or the other".

thatsleepboy1:
I no get car.

Join the channel to get someone that would help you.

There is a free class online

thatsleepboy1:
Hello everyone, pls i need a little help, i need someone who will teach me how to drive manual vehicle very well. Abeg, I need help.

I stay at Yaba Lagos.

Thank you.

We will always be seeing different absurd opinion of people on this issue.

Huspuppy has been arrested since over one year ago, FBI was investigating and they are are just through, so why is it taking years to get this guy in prison
Anyway, I just want him to go to USA to face his trial.

No surprise there. It's their modus operandi — go under the radar, wait for things to blow over, then resume like nothing happened.

But thousands of southern youths are languishing in prisons without any trial, for meaningless crimes... some are innocent all together.

When you listen to real life stories or watch interviews of people, whose lives have been ruined and someone like Femi Falana helps them, you begin to wonder. Shame on this federation....if it can be called that.

3 Lessons About Building Wealth From an Investing Legend
building wealth
5 min read
In 1891, a fourteen-year-old boy from Acton, Massachusetts decided he wanted to escape country life. His father ordered him to quit school and work on the farm. But he didn’t want that.

He was a frail boy, good with numbers and equipped with a bright mind. He’d learned to read by age three and a half, and he devoured every reading material he could get his hands on. He couldn’t stand the thought of spending the rest of his life doing manual labor. He wanted to use his mind to earn a living.

Growing up, he read about Paine Webber, a Boston-based stockbroker. He read the old newspapers strewn around their house and learned that the financial world thrived in Boston. So he wanted to go there.

Eventually, the boy asked his mother for help and they forged a plan for him to escape to Boston.

His mother knew her husband wouldn’t budge and allow the boy to stay in school. It was painful for her, but she helped her son escape.

When his mother helped him escape in July of 1891, all he had was five dollars and an address of his mother’s friend where he could stay.

But the boy was dead-set on getting a job before getting a place to stay. So his first stop was Paine Webber, where he secured a job as a “board boy,” writing stock prices on a blackboard by hand.

The boy’s name was Jesse Livermore, who would become the greatest stock trader of all time. In 1907, he famously made $1 million dollars in a single day, a feat that no one had accomplished before. He went on to make (and lose) several fortunes.

Discipline, patience, and knowledge
I’m currently profiling Jesse Livermore for my next book, The Stoic Path to Wealth. He was a highly dedicated and disciplined person, who put all his energy into trading stocks.

He started at age fourteen and worked six days a week for a decade before he started consistently generating money from stocks. In a biography about Livermore, “Boy Plunger,” the author Tom Rubython shares a quote from Livermore that demonstrates his mindset:

“I had learned that I had to work for my money. I was no longer betting blindly or concerned with mastering the technique of the game, but with earning my successes by hard study and clear thinking.”

This is a common theme that I’ve noticed in Livermore’s life. The man was incredibly lucky on some of his investments. But he also worked incredibly hard. Here are three lessons I’ve learned from Livermore.

1. Discipline is key
In life, there’s often a lot of room for making mistakes. When you make a typo in your writing, the reader still understands you. And you can easily fix a typo. When you play sports, you can make multiple mistakes in a game and still win.

But when you invest, making several mistakes in a row can wipe out all your money. Discipline will help you to stick to your investing strategy, which is more important than what your strategy actually is.

Remember: A disciplined investor with a mediocre strategy builds more wealth than an undisciplined investor with an extraordinary strategy.

When you put your money on the line, you always feel fear and greed at many different moments. An undisciplined investor might pull out all its money on the first sign of a stock market correction.

But if you’re disciplined and you’re investing for the long-term, you will stay put. And doing nothing is one of the most difficult things when your money is in the stock market.

2. Building wealth takes time, so be patient
In behavioral economics, there’s a concept called “present bias.” It refers to our tendency of giving more importance to payoffs that are closer to the present time than considering a trade-off between two future moments.

Waiting for a pay-off goes against our nature. On top of that, we’re generally really bad at placing value on rewards at different points in time.

What’s better? $100 in a year from now? Or $120 in thirteen months from now? Most people pick the latter. Waiting an extra month for more money isn’t a big deal when you already waited a year. But when we change the time-frames, things change.

What if you can choose between $100 now or $120 in a year? Most people will go for the $100 now.

But a successful investor usually takes the option that has a high probability of giving you a good return. It doesn’t matter what the dollar value is. What matters is that there’s a 20% return in that example.

When you train yourself to go for the highest rate of return, you learn you always have to wait for the best return. Hence, you automatically become patient.

3. Having basic knowledge about the financial world makes you more confident
While most people know Jesse Livermore as a proponent of technical analysis, he had an excellent knack for the fundamentals of business and economy. From an early age, he was a student of the financial world.

Livermore learned to read and write by age three and a half, and he read everything he could get his hands on. His mother brought him old newspapers, where the young Livermore first learned about stocks on the financial pages.

When you learn more about the economy, business, and finance, you feel more confident about investing. You will learn that the stock market is hundreds of years old and that investors are getting more professional every decade.

Our financial system is a true machine that most people only view from the outside. Take a look under the hood by reading books, articles, and newspapers to learn more. It will not only improve your returns, but it will make you confident enough in the economy to put your money on the line.

If building wealth was easy, everybody would be rich
The main lesson I learned is that building serious wealth requires serious decisions. This is something most people don’t stress enough.

As Livermore often remarked, you need discipline, patience, and knowledge.

Whether you’re a short-term speculator or a long-term investor, you need to do hard things to become wealthy. It starts with earning money and making your way through your life and career.

Livermore worked as a board boy for years and saved almost every penny he earned. After several years, he started buying and selling stocks. Before making money with stocks, he solely saved money and learned more about how the financial world worked.

Building wealth takes time. When you try to chase get-rich-quick opportunities, you often learn the hard way that money doesn’t come for free.

But when you adopt a long-term view and keep learning, keep investing, and keep making progress, you’ll likely end up with way more money than you ever thought possible.

Yes

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3 Lessons About Building Wealth From an Investing Legend
building wealth
5 min read
In 1891, a fourteen-year-old boy from Acton, Massachusetts decided he wanted to escape country life. His father ordered him to quit school and work on the farm. But he didn’t want that.

He was a frail boy, good with numbers and equipped with a bright mind. He’d learned to read by age three and a half, and he devoured every reading material he could get his hands on. He couldn’t stand the thought of spending the rest of his life doing manual labor. He wanted to use his mind to earn a living.

Growing up, he read about Paine Webber, a Boston-based stockbroker. He read the old newspapers strewn around their house and learned that the financial world thrived in Boston. So he wanted to go there.

Eventually, the boy asked his mother for help and they forged a plan for him to escape to Boston.

His mother knew her husband wouldn’t budge and allow the boy to stay in school. It was painful for her, but she helped her son escape.

When his mother helped him escape in July of 1891, all he had was five dollars and an address of his mother’s friend where he could stay.

But the boy was dead-set on getting a job before getting a place to stay. So his first stop was Paine Webber, where he secured a job as a “board boy,” writing stock prices on a blackboard by hand.

The boy’s name was Jesse Livermore, who would become the greatest stock trader of all time. In 1907, he famously made $1 million dollars in a single day, a feat that no one had accomplished before. He went on to make (and lose) several fortunes.

Discipline, patience, and knowledge
I’m currently profiling Jesse Livermore for my next book, The Stoic Path to Wealth. He was a highly dedicated and disciplined person, who put all his energy into trading stocks.

He started at age fourteen and worked six days a week for a decade before he started consistently generating money from stocks. In a biography about Livermore, “Boy Plunger,” the author Tom Rubython shares a quote from Livermore that demonstrates his mindset:

“I had learned that I had to work for my money. I was no longer betting blindly or concerned with mastering the technique of the game, but with earning my successes by hard study and clear thinking.”

This is a common theme that I’ve noticed in Livermore’s life. The man was incredibly lucky on some of his investments. But he also worked incredibly hard. Here are three lessons I’ve learned from Livermore.

1. Discipline is key
In life, there’s often a lot of room for making mistakes. When you make a typo in your writing, the reader still understands you. And you can easily fix a typo. When you play sports, you can make multiple mistakes in a game and still win.

But when you invest, making several mistakes in a row can wipe out all your money. Discipline will help you to stick to your investing strategy, which is more important than what your strategy actually is.

Remember: A disciplined investor with a mediocre strategy builds more wealth than an undisciplined investor with an extraordinary strategy.

When you put your money on the line, you always feel fear and greed at many different moments. An undisciplined investor might pull out all its money on the first sign of a stock market correction.

But if you’re disciplined and you’re investing for the long-term, you will stay put. And doing nothing is one of the most difficult things when your money is in the stock market.

2. Building wealth takes time, so be patient
In behavioral economics, there’s a concept called “present bias.” It refers to our tendency of giving more importance to payoffs that are closer to the present time than considering a trade-off between two future moments.

Waiting for a pay-off goes against our nature. On top of that, we’re generally really bad at placing value on rewards at different points in time.

What’s better? $100 in a year from now? Or $120 in thirteen months from now? Most people pick the latter. Waiting an extra month for more money isn’t a big deal when you already waited a year. But when we change the time-frames, things change.

What if you can choose between $100 now or $120 in a year? Most people will go for the $100 now.

But a successful investor usually takes the option that has a high probability of giving you a good return. It doesn’t matter what the dollar value is. What matters is that there’s a 20% return in that example.

When you train yourself to go for the highest rate of return, you learn you always have to wait for the best return. Hence, you automatically become patient.

3. Having basic knowledge about the financial world makes you more confident
While most people know Jesse Livermore as a proponent of technical analysis, he had an excellent knack for the fundamentals of business and economy. From an early age, he was a student of the financial world.

Livermore learned to read and write by age three and a half, and he read everything he could get his hands on. His mother brought him old newspapers, where the young Livermore first learned about stocks on the financial pages.

When you learn more about the economy, business, and finance, you feel more confident about investing. You will learn that the stock market is hundreds of years old and that investors are getting more professional every decade.

Our financial system is a true machine that most people only view from the outside. Take a look under the hood by reading books, articles, and newspapers to learn more. It will not only improve your returns, but it will make you confident enough in the economy to put your money on the line.

If building wealth was easy, everybody would be rich
The main lesson I learned is that building serious wealth requires serious decisions. This is something most people don’t stress enough.

As Livermore often remarked, you need discipline, patience, and knowledge.

Whether you’re a short-term speculator or a long-term investor, you need to do hard things to become wealthy. It starts with earning money and making your way through your life and career.

Livermore worked as a board boy for years and saved almost every penny he earned. After several years, he started buying and selling stocks. Before making money with stocks, he solely saved money and learned more about how the financial world worked.

Building wealth takes time. When you try to chase get-rich-quick opportunities, you often learn the hard way that money doesn’t come for free.

But when you adopt a long-term view and keep learning, keep investing, and keep making progress, you’ll likely end up with way more money than you ever thought possible.

The ladies that slept at home yesterday are side chics.

Iamyemmie:
And to think btc was still at 68k November
What the hell happened?
I hope we get back soon sha
All this fluctuation btw 41k and 45k tire me o

Oga this na crypto

Happy Valentines day