₦airaland Forum

Okhuadams:
The world ony sees and here of the female abuse but nobody cares to about the males many wife's beat their husbands while the men are too ashamed to speak out. I have seen women beat up their husband lock up the door and b shouting as if the man is the one beating them. My friend uncle was caught kneeling down with hands up carrying a stool while the wife was holding a cane that was the day the family threw the woman's load out of the house and relocsted the man and his two Children abroad when asked he said the wife has been beating him since they got married for (5yrs). Many men today are facing Domestic violence.

juman:
Women nag.
Their habit.
Ask buhari how much his wife nag, he would answer that his wife nagging is public knowledge.
We read here on nairaland how much tinubu's wife nag.

Favfables1:
Nice write up OP...
Thanks for sharing...

Men go through A LOTTTT...
And most of the time we don't say these things because everytime we try to come out and say these things, we get shamed and called all sort of names ...

You'll hear things like "as a man, you're not supposed to complain about things like this", things like "no dey talk like woman na" or "are you not a man.... real men don't complain" and all sort of crap ...

I'm glad however, that more and more men are voicing out their ordeals...

An advice to men reading this....
PLEASE!!! OPEN YOUR EYES WELL WHEN CHOOSING A WIFE!

Boo.bs and a.s.s won't give you peace of mind!
As important as beauty is, character and manners should be at the topmost top of your priority list when choosing a spouse....

And for those that are languishing under the cruel whip of verbal onslaught, PLEASE!!! LEAVE THAT MARRIAGE, what ever takes away your peace of mind and unsettles your mental health is not worth it!

rickpat:
too bad... humans are now acting like animals

rickpat:
a brand new sexually transmitted disease will soon emerge... SMH

Truvelisback:
No, remain there.

thesicilian:
What's open minded about calling an idea a bad one irrespective of the perspective of others who support such an idea?

T0T0fucker:
it started last 2wesks, steady crying...I can't sleep at all.. always wakes me at night.
surprisingly today it used to be one.

now it's two, crying all throughout the night like you mistake it for a human being

is there a sign or omen?

what can I do?

Kdon2:
Se na yul carry wife put inside his house abi na the wife carry yul put for her house. Abeg make una dey think we'll before una go dey yearn now. Abi na yearn for yearning sake ni! Haba fear God na!

muheeb01:
This life no favour man at all oo....

SmartyPants:
Did he tie her or force her?

Rubbish. He will pay no bride price and absolutely nothing will happen.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened

She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.

I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony

I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.

Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.

I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody.

thesicilian:
Let everyone speak for themselves

Jashub:
When people support polygamy I often laugh at their foolishness . Let's assume Yul's wife wanted to get a second husband , would he want such ? Certainly not ! But David here is saying otherwise because of his liberal lifestyle towards immoral behavior.

Tony818:
My wife told me I don't take care of a child

I have forgiven her though but those words still ring in my head almost everyday.

This is a family I have sleepless nights when there is no money

I try my possible best to provide the basic things we need in the house.

I just went flat when she said those words...
I had no zeal to go out and Hustle again.

Those words really got to me because in my case my Dad didn't take care of me.

And because of this I vowed to be a good and responsible to my new born son...
Who send me marry sef

Fuckaniza:
Oh! You joined the shiima's group on TG?

odimbannamdi:
How do I join?...

ibechris:
Are u living in Nigeria?

kodded:
patience and proper planning is the key to a profitable trade