₦airaland Forum

Amberon:
I may have been wrong for generalizing but its really no news that a larger percentage of Nigerian women will humbly accept a regular pay check rather than work hard to be independent. I'm not arguing blindly. I've lived with foreigners for years and I can tell you that, just by spending a few minutes with most white girls, you'd be able to spot a glaring difference. Marriage to most Nigerian females is the highest achievement for a woman in life.

And when women decide to be independent and even completely stay off men, so pple like u wnt say they see it as highest achievement, who will still come here and cry? These same hypocrites!
Women do this, they complain, go the other way, they'll still complain. The Nigerian mentality is just something else

Amberon:
Take your problem elsewhere, not my mentions. Travel outside your village first before you talk shit. The fact remains that the an average Nigerian girl sees marriage as her highest achievement in life and is ready to forgo her certificate to be a stay-at-home wife just as long as her husband dolls out regular pay check to her.

White women are the exact opposite. They dont see their partners as father christmas. An average Nigerian girl is always on the look out for a rich man and has zero goals and ambitions outside being a graduate.

How many female entrepreneurs or successful business women do we have in Nigeria relative to the men? 1:200??

I'm not saying that there aren't goal driven girls in Nigeria but its infinitesimally low when compared to the male counterpart.

I won't trade words with you, you can accept the truth or you can choose to live in oblivion.

Come out clean, u're a guy and a chauvinist at tht, are u so scared to accept ur sex? Women can chose to marry anyone they want to whether rich or poor. Is it goats tht are marrying the poor guys? Educated women marry struggling guys every wkend bt u guys will always come here and cry abt women always running after rich men.
If they do, it's their choice. As an educated woman u can chose to marry a pauper it's ur choice. The roles women play in the home including financially can't be over-emphasized unless the husband is extremely rich, so stop talking like women are dummies. Irresponsible men too will also come here to run mouth.

Abt white women being exact opposites, are u saying we dnt av white women who wld rather marry rich men or are stay at home wives? Even in the schs, the rich and handsome dudes av the most female flock, so I dnt quite understand ur point. It's a matter of personality

What truth? All wht u wrote was misogynistic balderdash.

doveda:
I think it must have been deliberate o

Lolz

Nubian113:
if he gon ask us, who we gonna ask His smelly girlfriends

Lolz. *highfive sis*. He is asking jamb question. I'm sure he cldn't say anything to those swt@ of his and he is coming here to make noise.

OP, make a questionnaire of those questions u asked and give them to ur gfs. Tht might give u answers u seek.

Amberon:
beautiful...
I'm a girl and I must say Nigerian girls have very low IQ.This is the same question I ask some friends of mine. Why don't Nigerians ladies feel the need to strive to be successful in life?

Are u a Nigerian? And I dnt blive u're a girl, cos u'll be agreeing u av low IQ. U might av bt don't generalize it. Some pple av low IQ wc is common to both male and female. I dnt av friends who dnt strive to be successful. Lots of Nigerian women are doing great for themselves everyday at every lvl so stop generalizing bullshit. There are lazy gud for nothing men out there, so why shld critics always face women cos of their choices? Yes, no doubt some women are feather-brained, bt the generalizing shld stop.

It's a choice is marry a rich man, likewise it's a choice to marry a struggling man. They av the right to their choices and tht has nothing to do wt their IQ or hw successful they are or will be.

ebonflex:
Because I find it hard to believe a female adult can be so ignorant of her hygiene.
You don't understand it because I don't think you've smelt the kind of smell I am talking about from someone you are about to have sex with.
And this isn't a spontaneous sex thing. It is a deliberate, planning-to-do-this-at-this-time-and-place thing. So it just baffles the mind really.

These aren't 12 year olds who I should be telling before she comes "I can't wait to see you, but please make sure your pussy doesn't stink and that you shower before coming". Why should anyone have to spell things out like that to an adult woman?

That's how one came like that straight from her house one evening without showering since 6AM, wanting me to do things with her as soon as she got here.
Must we TELL you to shower? What's so hard with doing a finger test on yourselves before coming to visit a man? Is feminine hygiene not taken seriously anymore by women of this generation?

Lolz. Don't ask me, ask ur smelly gfs.

doveda:
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Sexual frustration
Isn't it obvious that he is a dirty boy?

Op, make you check yourself

Lolz, like birds of a feather flock together

ebonflex:
But then my question is "How will they not know?!"
And do they not smell themselves?

I wouldn't dare go say I want to have sex with someone without making sure my balls don't stink like suckaway swamp...so is it strange to expect the same respect/courtesy?

I wld''t knw, maybe they didn't acknowledge it or ain't so observant, don't care, think d guy wnt care or probably dnt knw what to do abt it etc.

Wonder why u're blessed wt such ladies?

Sure, I dnt want to blive any lady wld knowingly do such. U also av d right to av gud expectations, bt ur criticism is too strong, what's wt d go and die and the likes?

ebonflex:
Why?.....How??....I can't even....with that stink?.... ...How would the dick even work?

Those ladies most likely av vaginal infections , hence d horrible smell.

dahaz:
hey you two, you are derailing the beauty of the thread.Better get a boxing ring and settle it.you can invite me to be the refree.

Don't mind the busybody jare, I was busy minding my own business commenting jejely on d topic b4 d troublemaker came.

I wasn't fighting o, so u can keep ur referee whistle.

Oya searching4love, go and play wt sand. Let pple who value women (mothers) comment.

searchiing4love:
yes ur papa just browse finish on credit

:-):-) eeyah, is ur dad dt broke? Hope ur Oga will nt seize ur salary again nw

searchiing4love:
female terrorist

Hw're u doin cafe attendant? Hope u av customers today?:/

sudais, husawry, and mishawi are my favs. Esp sudais, he reads wt such strong emotio
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Nubian113:
#A mother's love. Subhanallah..... chai!

A mother's love is like other. A similar scenario also played out in one filling station nt long ago. The mother had gone out and left d children b4 d fire outbreak, only d eldest was able to escape leaving d other 2, every1 had written off d other 2, and were busy trying to find means to curb d fire, the woman ran inside the inferno to try and save her children, she cld only save 1. Sadly, they both lost their lives from the burns sustained

May God bless those wonderful women in abundance

Trailblazer1:
Just be sincere with your comment

No p, I wld prefer two perforated instead of 1, bt I wld love to see it on TV tho, nt on my gate. When he recovers, he will av phobia for stealing

shizzy7:
Black dolls are common, they are produced in Nigeria by a Nigerian named Taofiq Okoya.....Black dolls are even outselling Barbie..

They are called queens of Africa and depict our traditional mode of dressing..

Alrice o. And very beautiful and creative too

Nubian113:
Ask the sister why she didn't model the dolls on her look? (Brown/black women with hijab) If and when she was sending a positive msg she would.... This is just fashion and a cloth I guess. Disappointed a lil

Sowie u're dissapointed, I guess she worked wt the most accessible barbie dolls. We all knw black barbie dolls ain't as common as d caucasians. Overall, it ain't bad

GurlFriend:
In January, the world was blessed with a curvy Barbie, a tall Barbie and a petite Barbie. Now, 24-year-old Nigerian Haneefah Adam is making the case for the hijab Barbie.

She came up with the idea for Hijarbie while she was studying for her master’s degree in England. Haneefah noticed a lack of diverse toys for little girls and wanted to introduce a modest dress doll to the market. .

After crafting the idea for a few months, she came home to Nigeria and started documenting her idea — creating all of the hijabs and dresses on her own. Her dolls nicknamed "Hijarbie" has taken Instagram by storm and even has its own separate IG account @hijabchickbarbie


"It got me thinking about how I'd actually like to see a doll dressed up like I would have — covered up," Adam, who is a fashion designer, told Style Mic. "I was mulling about the idea for about three months while I was still studying for my master's degree in the U.K. When I got back to Nigeria, I went to the mall, purchased a doll, dressed it up, documented it and here we are."


http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/02/nigerian-girl-takes-international.html#sthash.g2t5Ub1O.dpuf

Wow! Haneefah Adam, my sister keep rocking! Check out her fashion blog for muslimahs at muslimhanie. Didn't knw she is back

lolz, (falls from ewedu tree ) this thread is so hilarious. U're nt the lagos cafe attendant, we yaf heard. But u're a cybercafe attendant in Oyo, don't lie and put d devil to shame.

NB: Don't come and cry on my head o, I no send u o . Naijasomething, ur customer is expecting u o

Selena06:
It is horrifying at times to state the length guys in relationships go to make their girlfriends do some things because they are dating.


There are relationships (not married) where the guy expects the lady to visit him every weekend, wash his clothes, cook for him and store in the refrigerator, clean the house and entertain his friends that may visit during her stay.


Sure, it is good helping your guy out but whereby he makes them compulsory and queries you when you fail to do them is not so cool although as they would say, different strokes for different folks.


NLanders, what's your take on this, is it right?
Meanwhile, I am new here. Show me some love

Na wa o. Dictatorship. It's no big deal doing it for him, bt nt like he'll impose rules on u. Why shld u even go to his house every wkend, u no get house? Anyway na wetin eyes find, eyes will see. Continue ur wifely roles b4 marriage, more grease to ur elbows.

She did right to sue them. As long as she knows she can cope and is ready to pay her bills what's d sch's biz, so she shld waste away or be semi-literate cos she has hearing and speech problem? Nigeria obviously has no solid institutions for special pple so why deny her her right? I av a cousin wt hearing and speech problem, she uses hearing aid and is doing very well in Uni so I dnt knw wht the problem is

searchiing4love:
U are terribly ugly like ur supporter daretodiffer/doveda whose head is as big as a village calabash. Your wide nose makes u look like shrek and I understand the reason for your cordiality with the other biitch. You are both ugly and bitter never do wells


Btw; na una papa get MAD PERSONALITY DISORDER. Awon oloriibu meji

Lolz. Nw I love this. Ur insult shows ur line of reasoning. 3yr old brain in a 'grown' man. What more, I av big head, big eyes, cross eyes, lolz, I dnt mind being all these, but it doesn't stop u from being a joke, a pathetic loser.

Pele, olodo, u can call me ugly but I dnt share ur never do well personality wt u, it's all urs, thank u, plus bitter, and I dnt see u being happy anytime soon cos there is a truck load of hatred in u.

Is ur IQ tht low? U checked thru Google and u cldn't still get the meaning of MPD? I give up.

Knw I wnt be entertaining ur barks after nw, It's always dirty chatting wt rabies dog and I wld''t want to bring myself down to dt lvl.

One last advice, Nigerian girls are not the cause of ur ill-fortune, dust ur ass up and get a life. Thank me later. Av a nice day

doveda:
I know he wasn't searching 4 love

Sure. They are poles apart, in maturity and common sense, u might nt totally agree since u guys are always fighting tho. Don't ans him as much, pity him small, it can be painful earning 8K and nt being paid for mths, so I can see his plight. And no Nigerian girl wants a loser so he has to make do imaginary foreign gfs. It's pitiable really

searchiing4love:
It's seems u are both high on aluwala water. Who has a crush? You better stay on your lane before I Bash u till u faint. Rubbish

Lolz. This guy never disappoints. Pls bros no bash me o, we both knw that's d only thing u're gud at. It's been a while I saw u and doveda's hilarious e-fights, were u busy wt ur imaginary foreign gfs ni?

Yh, we actually think alike, also wondering hw pple cld think u and smart.choices cld be the same person. Unless he has MPD and I dnt wish him tht.

U can go back to ur lane nw. Av a nice day

Iambigsis:
I sent you a mail, please check it.

I'll appreciate a copy too, haneefahadewumi@yahoo.com.
Thanks

Iambigsis:
I sent you a mail, please check it.

I'll appreciate a copy too, haneefahadewumi@yahoo.com.
Thanks

tdemo:
I don't think dere is any cause for alarm , , cos Rat ate my toe also wen I wan in skul den I still remember that night on my hostel bed!!! I woke up to see part of my toe as been scrape with rat teeth!!!!! I wonder how I did not woke all through wen he was eatin it!!!!

Lolz, it blows air on it while eating so u'll most likely even enjoy it.

Thank God there was no lassa fever outbreak while we were in boarding house. Rats use to chop pple's toes and fingers like kilode. I had a roommate then who was their regulate customer (she was d fattest in d room), they chop her almost everyday, she ran to top bunk same thing, wore socks, they chop d socks wt it. It was always so hilarious. I wonder why they neva bit me tho, maybe they were pitying me cos I no get flesh for body b4

olapluto:
1. She initially stabbed him near the neck, missed and hit his shoulders. Few hours later, after treatment, she went for the neck again
2. The police have recovered the murder weapon.

Alryt, I didn't read tht part, was tht part in the write up? She is psychotic then. The man sef doesn't love his life, he still went back to sleep under the same roof wt a mad woman? RIP to the dead

doveda:
Google is your friend. You should really start using it. How about give me a case of how a man or an employee was fired or arrested for calling a woman 'beautiful'?

I know you very well. You are a misogynist. You have already disqualified yourself from this argument.

Pple can lie for Africa ehn, and they actually think everyone is a dummy. How will someone be fired or lose his job for giving a compliment. Hw does calling some1 beautiful relate to sexual harassment? I really dnt want to live tht was what brought abt this scenario even if what they did can't be justified.

The woman is just a sadistic animal and I pray she meets her match, where she'll be beaten up to a pulp. The wicked entities will nt display brute force wt BH, it's on unarmed civilians they can display. God help Nigeria

gcode123:
Self defence she stabbed him in the neck? Why do some people reason like this??

I dnt take lightly to having my intelligence insulted either subtly or nt. 'She' stabbed him in the neck? U must av been there wt them. She is innocent until proven otherwise. How do we knw she did it? Cos the husband's family members claim she did?

What went wrong? Cld it be self defence (and d person sure knws where to cut). I dnt knw, I just dnt think a woman in her right senses wld kill her husband. Either she is being framed or somethn. God knws, I pray d truth manifests

Weting concern me, I'm nt a fan of both nollywood and ghollywood. Nollywood is even better, as for gollywood,it's like watching porn, some of the movies sef will nt av head or tail, just sex scenes, tht was why I parked them aside, although they still make sense making movies too sometimes.

Both mostly partner together, so sometimes u might nt really be able to differentiate them cos they might feature Nigerian actors as well as Ghanians