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Marxxx:
I understand but the teenage and early 20 age group can amaze you with their level of flippancy. I know you will say same with over 25. But if you do the math you end up getting more % of miscreants from the below 25

Marxxx:
I have discussed and we have had several chat on the issue. I don't have that much time for myself let alone shopping. I was cool with the caterer that does the cooking. She cooks and packs it small packs and keeps them in the freezer. Sometimes the cooking can serve for the whole month when she visited she made me relieve the woman off her duties and the next meal I got was ....i have showed her how I order for stuffs online. I knew my sizes by staring at my clothes. I will always keep an open mind cos if I lose her I don't even know where and how to start. Which is my biggest fear. She worries much about her family though. But family will always have problems and if you decide to let it drag you well.......

daretodiffer:
He has enough reason to break up with her biko however he cannot break up with her unless he has tried his best

I believe Marxxx has not done his best. If he doesn't like jollof rice with crayfish, he should have taught her how to cook jollof rice without crayfish in fact they cook together with Google

Marxxx:
This might be a bit long and please it is not compulsory you comment.

I am thinking about ending my current relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together since I was 20. The problem is my girlfriend doesn't want to do things differently.

I have never lived in a big city until I got a job. I was raised in a remote village and was quite heavy with accent. I was a local guy, so local that I was among the few dudes who went to night class with a kerosene lamp. The first time I visited lagos was when I was invited for an aptitude test in V/I lagos.

My girlfriend was always with me back then. We were two crazy people. She will visit from a close town we will purchase bush meat and palmwine, drink to stupor, swim in the stream, talk loud and argue on the road, cause trouble and fight whoever meddles in our affair.

My girlfriend graduated a year before me from a polythetnic and she got a job as a secretary in a transport company and also served there. She did help me with her little earnings. I could remember her money for cyber cafe browsing and my final year project was a success.

I graduated with first class. She helped me work my service to the transport company and we were just managing our lives with our troubles. I sent my Cv's to several banks, oil and gas firms, construction etc and was called for assessment by one of the aforementioned.

I was assessed and was later invited for interview. I thrilled my interviews with my horrible accent. I got the job. I resumed after service.

Life has changed but my girlfriend is resisting the change. I enjoyed palm oil rice and crayfish back then not anymore. I still don't know why she uses crayfish in jollof rice. I bought over seven dictionaries sent it to her, but the books looked like they were never touched let alone opened. I gave her a laptop only for her to tell me later that her younger brother needs it. She still laughs and scream
It is not compulsory you comment if you feel the impulse ensure it is not irreconcilable with common sense.

Marxxx:
This might be a bit long and please it is not compulsory you comment.

I am thinking about ending my current relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together since I was 20. The problem is my girlfriend doesn't want to do things differently.

I have never lived in a big city until I got a job. I was raised in a remote village and was quite heavy with accent. I was a local guy, so local that I was among the few dudes who went to night class with a kerosene lamp. The first time I visited lagos was when I was invited for an aptitude test in V/I lagos.

My girlfriend was always with me back then. We were two crazy people. She will visit from a close town we will purchase bush meat and palmwine, drink to stupor, swim in the stream, talk loud and argue on the road, cause trouble and fight whoever meddles in our affair.

My girlfriend graduated a year before me from a polythetnic and she got a job as a secretary in a transport company and also served there. She did help me with her little earnings. I could remember her money for cyber cafe browsing and my final year project was a success.

I graduated with first class. She helped me work my service to the transport company and we were just managing our lives with our troubles. I sent my Cv's to several banks, oil and gas firms, construction etc and was called for assessment by one of the aforementioned.

I was assessed and was later invited for interview. I thrilled my interviews with my horrible accent. I got the job. I resumed after service.

Life has changed but my girlfriend is resisting the change. I enjoyed palm oil rice and crayfish back then not anymore. I still don't know why she uses crayfish in jollof rice. I bought over seven dictionaries sent it to her, but the books looked like they were never touched let alone opened. I gave her a laptop only for her to tell me later that her younger brother needs it. She still laughs and scream like we used to back in the village. And even taps my head in public...back then I enjoyed all these attributes. Not anymore. The few times she visited she was already picking up a quarrel with the lady in the next flat.

You give her money to buy good clothes she ends up buying cheap fabrics. Get good shoes she will buy mallam slippers. I am not from a rich home too but we all work hard so that we can be happy.

What got me mad was last year xmas I gave her my 13th month salary everything. I told her specifically get an "Expensive dress and shoe". The top guys are hosting we the mid-level guys. I reminded her severally ensure you get good stuff. That day I was filled with rage, I mean is this what you bought with six figures? This gown with the rickety shoe? I told her not to follow me but my heart couldn't bear seeing her cry. Yet she is still resisting change.

I shouldn't be typing all these but I don't have friends I don't trust people. She has been my only friend. I am a perfect introvert and a Choleric.
When I consulted the only acquaintance I had back in the university he told me to raise about 1.5m and settle her. He said he gave his ex 1.3m to settle her. I knew her back then on campus. He got married early this year. I am also thinking same right now. But the past memories of us is causing my hesitation. And I can't watch her cry.

I am in my late 20's and planned getting married last year I even told my mum but her attitude is causing my hesitation hence I postponed the proposal. Can't figure out anything l need a good advice.

It is not compulsory you comment if you feel the impulse ensure it is not irreconcilable with common sense.

folksync:
I just felt like telling you.

My mistake was placing emphasis on her albinism. What I actually wanted to draw out was how she introduced me to her friends without prior notice.

SmartChoices:
Just keep keeping on ......there's a great light ahead of you... Iwa lo nmu Omo je okigbe..... Obirin sowa nu oni ohun olori oko..... Iwalewa Omo eniyan.....

AbzDore:
I noticed alot of people say Somalians are racist. But i think Nigerians are more racist.
Who do you think is the most racist people in Africa

SmartChoices:
The intellectual capacity you possess and your psychotic nature can't allow you comprehend the essence of love..... Or even enjoy the bliss of love in and out of marriage..... Truthfully any man who is so unfortunate to encounter you will surely regret that day he was born.... Sincerely you are an epitome of all to be despised in a woman..... HaneefahRN unlike you has the strength of character and the upbringing to be desired by any man....a woman of worth and inestimable value.... Who you will surely be a servant to in the near future! Yes a servant..... She's in Nigeria you claim to be in Scotland... Better a woman of peace with character than the daughter of Belial which you have become.....

DailyPost:
More @ lalasticlala

AreaFada2:
So rapists will agree to use condoms provided by the victim?

I don't get it. Does it mean potential victims will carry the condom about?

Won't such infuriate sex attacker/rapist and put the victim in harm's way the more?

I prefer something that would knock the rapist unconscious.

doveda:
That is my other username

Smartchoices aka searchiing4love has a crush on me that is why he has been disturbing me

SmartChoices:
Google translation.....

SmartChoices:
Claptrap better tell doveda that I will not take tat from her.... Better she turns up with..... Bouncing or in the last trimester!

Kokoko la n ro ifa adiiti

oloyede252:
she should also sue her husband for kidnapping her for a whole two month with no access to her work and career...or you skip that part

oloyede252:
what is wrong with career woman..you must be a sahm ...its the woman choice to abort,its her body.you dnt knw maybe her husband is abusive.if he want a child.adoption is there..or is it by force to get pregnant

ELVISHOT:
A man has cried out for help after staying 11 painful years without having a child with his wife only to discover a hidden secret about the woman he called a wife.


Dear Readers,

I have been married for eleven years now. My wife is a teacher (customer service facilitator). She was into this profession before I met her and married her. But I am so confused that I can't really explain what is going on in my marriage. We have no kids yet, but she gets pregnant, before I will know what is going on, I will see her using sanitary pad, saying her period just came out.

What surprises me mostly is that, I have followed her to the hospital countlessly and the pregnancy report reads positive, what l don't understand is how it will come out just like ordinary mensturation. I have forcely dragged her to the hospital myself, but the doctor said she is ok.

I tried to monitor one pregnancy of hers. Sat at home, denied her of her work. It got to three months and that month was when my mother passed on, and I had to rush to the village, staying one week, she called me after 4 days saying she is bleeding, I told her let me call my uncle who is our family doctor, she told me that she can't wait, that she is in pain, that she will visit the hospital close to us, when I returned, she was on pad. My mistake was that I didn't go to the hospital to ask them whether my wife was their patient when I wasn't around. I got so worried that my brother decided to know what she was up to.

So my brother asked his friend to woo my wife, lets know whether he can be able to make her talk. The guy sought for her friendship request on Facebook and she accepted. They went on as friends for 4 months before she could start talking of her married life. I have the screen shot messages with me. Where she told the guy, that she has dreams to fulfill before having a child. That she has been aborting her pregnancy because she doesn't not want set backs in her career. That children are one big headache and set back in marriage. The guy asked her is her husband not complaining? She told him, that she has her ways with me.

That the husband is and illiterate business man, who managed to go to the university. From my childhood I have always wanted to do business, but my father being a medical doctor had a rule, that all his children must past through the university before starting a business. I made first class in Computer Science. It's painful but am not annoyed, but I am terribly shocked to be living with such a woman under my roof. I have not confronted her on this, but I am still in shock. She is 42 years and I am 47years.

Shared by - Cynthia Uju Raphael, a relationship expert and manager.

Source: http://ndubuisiude..com/2016/02/i-been-married-for-11-years-without.html

cutetopsey:


Some men are just too heartless

Pouring acid on her doesn't bring her back to you.....so why the stress?


BTW, check my signature on how to get rid excess body fats....

TheArchangel:
Good morning my great colleague, exactly my points you stated there. Unfortunately, I am not part of any of the associations except if naija nurses forum.com and nursing world Nigeria counts.

Nubian113:
I didn't call you ova to chat about that troll. Valerie is the Queen derailer, she can derail a conversation too


In other news: I was reading your comments on one thread. And I wanted to say, I love you for the sake of Allah sis you inspire

Nubian113:
Valerie is crushing I mean interested in him I'm just helping

MrCork:
...so can I mate wit you?

MrCork:
...so can I mate wit you?

Nubian113:
U galS

Nubian113:
Mrcork come here show me your big black lips. He is blacky as black¥ can get because light skin men are gay.

Nubian113:

Asalaaamu alaykum wa rahmatulaahi wa barakaatu

rheether:
i unfortunately lost my virginty with
my bf 2 years back. we had
sex more than 20 times. till then i havent
done anything like that. can any1 just suggest
what should i do. i am marrying in a very
religious family next year and if he finds out that am not virgin am dead.

Nubian113:
Haneefahrn