₦airaland Forum

Aprilinjune:
I got married 2012, few days into our wedding we had a lil arguements that resulted into slaps,which he later apologised for and i fogave him.Two months after our wedding i got pregnant which i miscarried, been having problems to concieve since then.
On the month of may 2014 i concieved again, and when i was about six months plus i asked my husband to accompany me to biy baby stuff,which he refused on the basis of it been stressful. Meanwhile i also work too and will only have saturday to do any shopping.
I called my mum and she agreed to go with me and everything was fine after getting everything from the market and on our way to d car park we were told they kill someone and people were running so we started running too,thank God .
When i got home and asked my hubby to help me with the load he refuse, later told me he didnt hear. I managed and we brought out the load. And later dat evening i asked my husband y he was cold to me and he said i came back late which is 7 pm on a rainning day to ajah.

We were still talking when my husband goy angry when i told him he respect my mum been around, he walked away and was watching tv, and i stood and blocked his view so that he can concentrate, he told me to move away which i refuse and he ended up tearing my cloth leaving me naked in front of his bro, i hit his shoulders immediately cos i was shocked and i received 4 slaps, three days later i lost my almost 7 months baby to bp. Again i didnt disclose this to anyone.
My husband looks like an angel and sometimes i cant even phantom how he changes like that.
Fast forward to this year am 5 months pregnant and my husbands siblings came for a short visits without even telling me, and my husband fully knows i cant cook cos have been restricted because of a minor surgery but he just cant man up for me. And i had to open up to my mother, i said some stuffs about how my husbands family treats me and my husband screen grab the msg, and has been insulting my mum and calling her a witch to my face. He threatens to call her and tell her never to come to his house. He said he will make me see hell this coming months, i resign from my job because of this pregnancy and no cash flow, he has also restricted me from withdrawing any money.
My parents are financially very very kk and i dont know if i should go to dem as am yet to start antenantal.
Sorry for the long post. Pls i need matured minds on this, its my life pls. Pardon my english

klax:
Your analysis is very wrong ritualism is on both side ok but islam represent terrorism and it's simply a terrorist .

Pls I beg you just don't say anything the truth is Ishmael who is the forefather of Islam is a curse to Abraham, a curse to the entire humanity infact a curse to heaven. take it or leave it.

Pls pls pls Bro or sis. stay out of fake defense ok the religion is not made for humanity. It had really dent the status of those who practised it peacefully and rubbish them in the face of human kind.

I won't stop disrespecting the religion called islam until unless the Muslim stands up and say guys enough is enough of this killing but with all these their fake defense it's a big joke.

klax:
Your analysis is very wrong ritualism is on both side ok but islam represent terrorism and it's simply a terrorist .

Pls I beg you just don't say anything the truth is Ishmael who is the forefather of Islam is a curse to Abraham, a curse to the entire humanity infact a curse to heaven. take it or leave it.

Pls pls pls Bro or sis. stay out of fake defense ok the religion is not made for humanity. It had really dent the status of those who practised it peacefully and rubbish them in the face of human kind.

I won't stop disrespecting the religion called islam until unless the Muslim stands up and say guys enough is enough of this killing but with all these their fake defense it's a big joke.

TheArchangel:
What's my business Processing my visa to join them too.
Except the working condition and pay for our nurses are adjusted favourably, more nurses will be jumping ship and my humble self won't be left behind.

pjamas:
it was a terrible moment when i heard countless noise of dynamite from the back of our house here in ikirun, i initialy didnt take it serious untill i looked through the window to see people running for their lives. Immediately i picked up my phone to call the emergency and thank God for the fast response. It was like watching a movie after the arrival of the police as battle began and seem like it was the end for the people of ikirun, sky bank and first bank were the target as the security operative inside the armoured tank went to have his lunch, the armed robbers came in asap. But thank God for using the police and the vigilantes to Save Us today. It would have gotten worst than this with their bombs. it was a terrible day!

lexxyrule:
12 hours sleep is much

vybzkartel:
She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

Jadekitana:
The king is a very proud Ediot!!! Why can't he kneel for daddy Adeboye? Because he's a king abi? Let this his pride not lead him to destruction. I heard obasanjo prostrated for him, what arrant nonsense! Even his childhood friends sit on the floor to talk to him! That's total bullcrap, i'm so pissed.

EngrAbiola:
https://www.punchng.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Arakangudu.jpg

Yoruba actor, Sikiru Adeshina aka Arakangudu who yesterday. Feb 8, died suddenly from a heart attack has been laid to rest. His remains were moved to his home town in Osogbo, capital of Osun State, where he was this morning buried according to Islamic rites
See photo below
The baritone-voiced actor made his turn back into make-believe industry not long ago. The versatile actor bounced back with his role in a recent movie titled Ayaba Oosa written and produced by Yetunde Abubakry and directed by Okiki Afolayan.

http://www.musbizubeat.com/2016/02/photos-from-arakangudu-burial-in-his-home-town-today/

Foxflames:
Nigerias like other humans are the way they are due to scarcity of resources. Any time there is a train strike in London, people will jump the barriers, chaos sets in. There is also chaos during black friday sales. Majority Nigeria are poor or just able.to eat to survive. You are probably among the criminals bubari talked about. Listen a Nigeria without islam is ideal. You can not hide away from the fact that islam is not compatible with the 21st century. The ideology in islam is keeping northern Nigerian very poor. How can you explain the big difference in literacy level between north and south?

LORDSAMURAI:
Pls is it wrong to take holy communion today in church and have sex with a lady in the choir in the church bathroom? are there repercussions? since we are both adult and the deed was done after church service, should i be worried?

scribble:



I went to church so this doesn't apply.


Very soon God will transfer the wealth of the unbelievers on this particular thread to me.

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doveda:
Why don't you see a dentist?

iluvkpetus:
This has been giving me psychological trauma since my sec school days as i find it so difficult to engage in a normal conversation with a girl, I onced asked my mum the reason why my teeth is brown and she told me it was as a result of the highly concentrated herbs and an antibiotics which contains tetracycline i used when i was very ill at infantry. Now there is this girl i am in love with,whenever we see I always find it so difficult to smile talkless of grinning cox that would expose my brown 32.I really love her but this my teeth is killing me.

Yarnvibes:
For me I think I go for 5 Majid

doveda:
Especially not in a society where a man can get away with almost everything......where a woman ambitions can jeopardise her marital life

Personally, I am not saying women should seek money but who the hell are you to tell them what they should or should not consider?

The audacity of this op sef!!!

akyus:
When the crime rate is high, everybody becomes a suspect. The poster just alleged that the guy was "trying to" and fellow Nigerians who didn't even bother to get the details or ask how have already passed their judgement. I pray we don't get ourselves into circumstances where our acts will be interpreted wrongly, and there won't any opportunity for us to explain.

Burger01:
Blood of Jesus!

Amberon:
Okay, sorry.

doveda:
Are you also forgetting the fact that men are getting married in their late twenties and early thirties and that is when they actually become financially capable. However most of them end up getting married to younger women. If a woman should wait that long, tongues will start wagging and the possibility that her bf will jilt her is also high.

So can you blame her if she settles for a man who is financially capable instead of a man at her financial level? Who no like better thing

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potbelly:
her english though...
I think schools should be more vigilant. They should allow only the parents, certified relations or guardians to have access to the kids in school

Amberon:
You think white women don't combine both? Lol

Amberon:
really? This is why Nigeria isn't evolving. I'm a girl, one with a difference. If you're in doubt, then that's your cup of sandwich.

I was very clear, i didnt generalise. Like i said, the over whelming majority of young girls and women in Nigeria are not purpose driven, neither are they "big dreamers". They tend to "lose it" after having a kid and just stop striving to be relevant to the society.

It can't get truer than this.

doveda:
Aren't the same white women that don't think twice about divorce because of the financial benefits?

They can cry us a river

Bunch of losers